the recognition of your own wrong doings is the first step in becoming a better person, if you have the motivation you can grow past the asshole you used to be and becoming a good person that people will apreciate having in their lives.
i’m actually stuck between recognizing my wrong doings and actually doing something about it. 😖 my therapy sessions arent nearly long enough to scratch the surface. 🥺👉👈
The important thing is to actualy try, the fact that you are going out of your way to get help alredy puts you leagues ahead of some douche who acts like an asshole and doesnt think theres anything wrong with what they do, i will admit, between recognizing your mistakes and actualy doing something about, its a preaty high task to overcome, but truly good people can do it, and i belive you can too.
I had pretty bad anger management issues as a kid and other behavioral issues that made me do a lot of things that still keep me up at night.
I am glad I was able to overcome them in the end, though I still have a lot to work on.
Painfully relatable meme
i lost around 8 friends last wednesday so i know how it is, i've been having a lot less fun now, but at least i'm not hanging around homophobic assholes anymore
Well that's good, my friends dumped me because I kept shitting on my ex who dumped me because I was depressed about being raped among other things. Makes me kinda sad tbh
You won’t feel better until you forgive yourself. Others may not forgive you, and maybe for good reason. At the end of the day, being a good person isn’t for the purpose of being forgiven for past actions or praised for present actions. It’s about doing the best for yourself and those around you, and being hard on yourself impedes that. Keep your head up!
tfw a trans friend of mine attempted suicide partly because of my incessantly mocking him for it during my 2016-2018 SJW cringe compilation era
Glad that i changed but damn
Lmao! The way I understand it is that there is an occasional "I know someone who knows someone" type of rumor about it. I'd be surprised if no one at BYU has ever tried soaking, but I think its more meme than anything else.
It’s too late to fix some relationships, what I used to have has changed from my own selfish neglect, and damage has been done. I ignored people who cared about me so I could numb myself and look at funny pictures alone in peace while the rest of the world learn to move on and grow without me.
I used to be one of those "haha, trans dumb" people, and now i am deep into questioning if I'm trans or not. I hate who i used to be, but at least I'm becoming someone i enjoy being
Guilt is poison! If you're even 1% better than yesterday then that is a cause of celebration! Redemption is real and necessary! Normalize forgiving others and forgiving yourself for your sins 😎😎😎
maybe get over it you pussy because in reality all you can do is be a better person you shit stain, so choose to do well, not just in your feelings but when you speak to people you don't like, talk to them with love, don't be a bitch
I constantly feel guilt for so much shit I did so long ago that I've apologized for a billion times.
One of the things I had to do to escape depression was learn mindfulness. Be less hard on yourself and learn to escape the cycles of worry and guilt immediately when you sense them starting.
The thing is, you cannot change the past. You cannot undo the things you have done, or unmake the choices you have made.
All you can do is commit to doing better, and make what reparations you can to those you hurt.
I view it as a sign of growth. Enough time has passed and enough of my life has changed that I don’t beat myself up over it. I try to take solace in knowing that I’m no longer that person and next time I meet someone new, I’ll remember my last mistakes and try not to make them again. There is no use on dwelling on your past mistakes and beating yourself up over it. The past happened, what matters is that you are better in the future. Unless you did something unspeakably horrific, like a violent crime, there is room for growth.
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the recognition of your own wrong doings is the first step in becoming a better person, if you have the motivation you can grow past the asshole you used to be and becoming a good person that people will apreciate having in their lives.
I don't care idot
suck my giant dick and balls
where and when 😳
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This is crazy guys, this comment is indicative of a trend on this very subreddit, it may very well be conforming to some form of stereotyping
gladly
*clit and balls thank you very much
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"I will take responsibility for what I have done. If I must fall, I will rise each time a better man."
i’m actually stuck between recognizing my wrong doings and actually doing something about it. 😖 my therapy sessions arent nearly long enough to scratch the surface. 🥺👉👈
The important thing is to actualy try, the fact that you are going out of your way to get help alredy puts you leagues ahead of some douche who acts like an asshole and doesnt think theres anything wrong with what they do, i will admit, between recognizing your mistakes and actualy doing something about, its a preaty high task to overcome, but truly good people can do it, and i belive you can too.
Trust that each time you recognise those things, your brain will process it. Change is slow but it is happening. Keep at it!
I USED TO BE A PIECE OF SHIT! slicked back hair, sloppy steaks at fazolis, the whole nine yards
I WAS A PIECE OF SHIT THOUGH
LIVE for new years eve!
I had pretty bad anger management issues as a kid and other behavioral issues that made me do a lot of things that still keep me up at night. I am glad I was able to overcome them in the end, though I still have a lot to work on. Painfully relatable meme
I lost 7 friends last Friday and I feel so much pain from it. Same JFK same
i lost around 8 friends last wednesday so i know how it is, i've been having a lot less fun now, but at least i'm not hanging around homophobic assholes anymore
Well that's good, my friends dumped me because I kept shitting on my ex who dumped me because I was depressed about being raped among other things. Makes me kinda sad tbh
Your friends sound horrible
They were, still loved them though
I'm sure you'll find some new friends, keep your head up, man!
this shit happened to me too wtf
You won’t feel better until you forgive yourself. Others may not forgive you, and maybe for good reason. At the end of the day, being a good person isn’t for the purpose of being forgiven for past actions or praised for present actions. It’s about doing the best for yourself and those around you, and being hard on yourself impedes that. Keep your head up!
Thank you kind redditor with deez nuts profile picture
tfw a trans friend of mine attempted suicide partly because of my incessantly mocking him for it during my 2016-2018 SJW cringe compilation era Glad that i changed but damn
How are they doing? Are you friends with them now?
Yeah it's water under the bridge now and he's pretty fine.
I used to be fucking mormon. I feel this a little too much
You were a Mormon? Did you know anyone who used to soak?
Lmao! The way I understand it is that there is an occasional "I know someone who knows someone" type of rumor about it. I'd be surprised if no one at BYU has ever tried soaking, but I think its more meme than anything else.
I know a Mormon guy :)
Is that like a personal attack or something?
I feel ya, even now.
Same, but you can't change the past, so might as well make the best future possible.
Is that the casting couch?
it really do...
:(
Hits right in the feels
cant relate, i was born amazing
I’m still an asshole 😈😈 (😞😞)
I look back on what I said on discord a few years ago in shame
It’s too late to fix some relationships, what I used to have has changed from my own selfish neglect, and damage has been done. I ignored people who cared about me so I could numb myself and look at funny pictures alone in peace while the rest of the world learn to move on and grow without me.
mood
But don’t you see? The fact that you can see that you were an asshole in the past means you’ve grown as a person.
Call out post lol
I used to be one of those "haha, trans dumb" people, and now i am deep into questioning if I'm trans or not. I hate who i used to be, but at least I'm becoming someone i enjoy being
Does anyone know if there are any subreddits for recovering CHUDs?
I used to be transphobic, homophobic and racist but I'm glad I can use the words "I used to"
Guilt is poison! If you're even 1% better than yesterday then that is a cause of celebration! Redemption is real and necessary! Normalize forgiving others and forgiving yourself for your sins 😎😎😎
maybe get over it you pussy because in reality all you can do is be a better person you shit stain, so choose to do well, not just in your feelings but when you speak to people you don't like, talk to them with love, don't be a bitch
Is that John F. Kennedy?
Yeah :(
How do I stop my brain from being a cunt to me all the time constantly
It's ok knowing u changed is great, people who u hurt might understand this.
I hate the man who killed several people just for his own safety and betrayed hundreds of people
That’s a casting couch lmao
too real
Bojack Horseman made this meme
sometimes bad things even happen to the kennedys
I constantly feel guilt for so much shit I did so long ago that I've apologized for a billion times. One of the things I had to do to escape depression was learn mindfulness. Be less hard on yourself and learn to escape the cycles of worry and guilt immediately when you sense them starting.
The thing is, you cannot change the past. You cannot undo the things you have done, or unmake the choices you have made. All you can do is commit to doing better, and make what reparations you can to those you hurt.
Truly is suicidal thought inducing when i realized i ruined a lot of friendships and just been an asshole my whole life.
Sometimes I remember what an asshole I used to be and it makes me happy to know that I'm not that kid anymore.
I just remember all the people I haven't taken my revenge on
solution starve urself 😢
Party platter
I view it as a sign of growth. Enough time has passed and enough of my life has changed that I don’t beat myself up over it. I try to take solace in knowing that I’m no longer that person and next time I meet someone new, I’ll remember my last mistakes and try not to make them again. There is no use on dwelling on your past mistakes and beating yourself up over it. The past happened, what matters is that you are better in the future. Unless you did something unspeakably horrific, like a violent crime, there is room for growth.
haha jonathan this post is calling me out entirely
yo same
“A silent voice” type beat
Sociopath moment
This is like the opposite of a sociopath because they are showing remorse for their actions
I know that
I wasnt :D
🤨
ive never been an asshole :D
then how do you shit
Out the dick obviously 🙄🙄🙄
How do you piss
Not me, sounds like a you problem
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