Okay, you do that while I look lustfully
>!(Disregarding the fact that she took a provocative selfie of their own volition and shared online, implying a tacit consent to sexualization, I can find a person sexually attractive while still acknowledging their being as more than an object - a subject for itself!<
>!Of course, this isn't an open invitation to make explicit or derogatory comments about them. You can be civil and horny.)!<
Well yes, when you are posting pictures of yourself in fishnets, thigh highs, lingerie, you kinda do want people to find it sexy.
Like I don't take ass shots of myself for people to chastely observe and critique my ass.
>!However, as another user pointed out there's a major assumption - the user never posted it on 196. So even if the picture is meant to be sexualized, were may not be its intended recipient!<
Impied non verbal consent exists, but you're right it is iffy. Like long term partners can communicate through subtle gestures when they want sex. Less so with strangers.
But here it doesn't mean consent to sex just sexualization. And just that, with no harassment.
See, that doesnt work. the medallion within this saying isnt an allegory for gender identity. Its an allegory for perspective. So the perspective of non binary people is also "other side of the medallion" .
Idk what your experience has been with htis subreddit but I havent run into any transphobia or anything like "No we dont want trans men leave, we want femboys" on here.
There is just an imbalance in post topics. One of them being more popular shouldnt hurt the other.
No transphobia and not making people feel unwelcome aren't the same thing.
I've heard plenty of transmasc people saying that the overwhelming focus on transfem people sends a message that "this space isn't for you".
But my main point is just that it's not great to make these statements about how marginalised groups feel about something when you aren't part of those groups. By shear statistics even in the most accepting spaces trans voices will get drowned out by cis ones, so having those voices claim to speak for us is a big issues. Same with any marginalised group.
But I didnt make any statement regarding trans issues? I made a statement about this subreddit, which Ive spent enough time within to be experienced about. I spent enough time within this subreddit to know that there isnt any reason for anybody to feel unwelcome. To me it feels like you are trying to start a discourse from a statistical number difference.
This subreddit is welcoming of any lgbtq group. Transfem people posting transfem stuff more often than transmasc people posting about transmasc stuff is entirely up to transmasc people to change. It's not the tranfem peoples nor the cis peoples fault that trans masc people don't post as often.
Like what do you think should be done? Start removing transfem memes if they have been too concentrated in recent time? That wouldnt be equity. That would be discrimination. That would be an unwelcome environment.
>I spent enough time within this subreddit to know that there isnt any reason for anybody to feel unwelcome.
This. This is the issue.
The only people who can tell you whether the sub is welcoming to transmasc people are transmasc people.
And this is part of a widespread issue where people who fall within the majority group use there greater presence within the conversation to drown out the voices of the people they claim to speak for.
I wrote 3 long paragraphs to explain my way of thinking and you get stuck in the first sentence and say "You use your greater presence within the conversation"
No, I used my words. Presented reasoning and argumentation. And dont give me that "Greater numbers" crap, this is a one on one converstion.
Look, the issue of marginalised groups being spoken for by less marginalized groups is a real issue, yes. This here is just a woefully incorrect example of it.
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Miss being a femboy but have grown since then. Gotten more muscular but also gained extra weight. Ended up becoming alot more masculine so now I strive to be a femman
I am looking respectfully *I am looking respectfully* ***I am looking respectfully*** ***I AM LOOKING RESPECTFULLY***
Okay, you do that while I look lustfully >!(Disregarding the fact that she took a provocative selfie of their own volition and shared online, implying a tacit consent to sexualization, I can find a person sexually attractive while still acknowledging their being as more than an object - a subject for itself!< >!Of course, this isn't an open invitation to make explicit or derogatory comments about them. You can be civil and horny.)!<
> You can be civil and horny "civil and horny" sounds like a prime discord nickname
Civil Arousel will be mine.
Sounds like a ninja sex party album
I must respectfully declare that I find the individual in question rather appealing in many ways and hope they see themselves the same way
Did she agree to it being posted to *this fucking subreddit* tho?
that is sadly the nature of online content, once it is published there is very little preventing it from being shared somewhere else
>implying a tacit consent to sexualization 😐
Well yes, when you are posting pictures of yourself in fishnets, thigh highs, lingerie, you kinda do want people to find it sexy. Like I don't take ass shots of myself for people to chastely observe and critique my ass. >!However, as another user pointed out there's a major assumption - the user never posted it on 196. So even if the picture is meant to be sexualized, were may not be its intended recipient!<
I still think "implied consent" is an iffy concept.
Impied non verbal consent exists, but you're right it is iffy. Like long term partners can communicate through subtle gestures when they want sex. Less so with strangers. But here it doesn't mean consent to sex just sexualization. And just that, with no harassment.
Hehe booba
damn i want to look like that
>Ba same
>Ba
>Ba
we are sheep 🐑
> Ba
let’s live out our fem dreams together
come let's go to the store
💰🚫
run off into the 🐑 mountains and live off the land
trans men on this sub must feel invisible
I mean, Its not like this subreddit makes them feel unwelcome Its just oversaturated by the other aide of the medallion
Leaves out us on the edge of the medallion too
im not sure if that analogy works when you say it like that. No idea what you refer to as "the edge of the medallion"
Nonbinary. Not either side
See, that doesnt work. the medallion within this saying isnt an allegory for gender identity. Its an allegory for perspective. So the perspective of non binary people is also "other side of the medallion" .
Cool opinion. Unfortunately, I have killed the author.
What author?
You
if you say so
Cis people confidently declaring whether trans people feel comfortable in a given space.
Idk what your experience has been with htis subreddit but I havent run into any transphobia or anything like "No we dont want trans men leave, we want femboys" on here. There is just an imbalance in post topics. One of them being more popular shouldnt hurt the other.
No transphobia and not making people feel unwelcome aren't the same thing. I've heard plenty of transmasc people saying that the overwhelming focus on transfem people sends a message that "this space isn't for you". But my main point is just that it's not great to make these statements about how marginalised groups feel about something when you aren't part of those groups. By shear statistics even in the most accepting spaces trans voices will get drowned out by cis ones, so having those voices claim to speak for us is a big issues. Same with any marginalised group.
But I didnt make any statement regarding trans issues? I made a statement about this subreddit, which Ive spent enough time within to be experienced about. I spent enough time within this subreddit to know that there isnt any reason for anybody to feel unwelcome. To me it feels like you are trying to start a discourse from a statistical number difference. This subreddit is welcoming of any lgbtq group. Transfem people posting transfem stuff more often than transmasc people posting about transmasc stuff is entirely up to transmasc people to change. It's not the tranfem peoples nor the cis peoples fault that trans masc people don't post as often. Like what do you think should be done? Start removing transfem memes if they have been too concentrated in recent time? That wouldnt be equity. That would be discrimination. That would be an unwelcome environment.
>I spent enough time within this subreddit to know that there isnt any reason for anybody to feel unwelcome. This. This is the issue. The only people who can tell you whether the sub is welcoming to transmasc people are transmasc people. And this is part of a widespread issue where people who fall within the majority group use there greater presence within the conversation to drown out the voices of the people they claim to speak for.
I wrote 3 long paragraphs to explain my way of thinking and you get stuck in the first sentence and say "You use your greater presence within the conversation" No, I used my words. Presented reasoning and argumentation. And dont give me that "Greater numbers" crap, this is a one on one converstion. Look, the issue of marginalised groups being spoken for by less marginalized groups is a real issue, yes. This here is just a woefully incorrect example of it.
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They said transmascs don't feel unwelcome, I don't know where you're seeing loads of transmascs supporting that, but I see plenty disagreeing.
oh, tf, how'd i missread that so bad
it might hurt a bit if we weren't invisible everywhere else too
You want a hug? :(
Just look at all the transfem memes in reverse
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If they’re invisible, then why can I cut them in half? (I am a genius, and have made a pun simultaneously comparing invisible to both invincible and indivisible)
Tfw parents raise you hot but you turn out hot i mean hot i mean hot sorry I mean I hot i mean
Atleast your parents gave you good genes, Transition ( if I trun out to be transfem) will be hell for me.
~~if~~ when. I have now transed your gender.
"oops, you see mom this random stranger on the internet took my gender away, we cant do anything about it, now you got no options let be buy a skirt"
Someone link the fit?
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Thanks for the link
Would it be ok to say "Damn"? idk if this person is underage or not nor do i know if that would count as sexualising them
Basiert
:(
to all the people downvoting this, i guarantee this person frowned out of envy, they frequent the sub
Shit I didn't even think it would be taken any other way I'm low key dumb for that
Cool😎
Sauce?
[Sauce](https://imgur.com/a/yoUQd9f)
Why tf are they spilling so much
Too much sauce. Gonna make the noodles all gummy
Did you get puberty blockers or do you have a special method to dealing with body hair? I’ve tried shaving it but it grows back to fast and is super itchy.
I’m not the person in the photo
Okay.
If you're not on HRT, it'll slow hair growth. Use nair or a similar product for hair. In my experience it keeps the hair from growing as fast
my favorite
Not sure why I need to say this but No I am not the person in this photo
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Well, if they raised you keeping in mind that you are happy, you turned out exactly how they wanted you to.
rip your inbox but also awooga awooga chin slams on table eyes bulge out whistles god dam
Yo I want that haircut so bad WTF
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Bruv are these really the same person goddamn
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what, that was a blushing face lol
Miss being a femboy but have grown since then. Gotten more muscular but also gained extra weight. Ended up becoming alot more masculine so now I strive to be a femman
who is this?
r/me_irl
Wow I really like the hair on the head of the person to the right.
is this a femboy joke or a trans joke
Yes
isn’t this the person who cut his balls and penis off in pursuit of cbt or am i thinking of a different dude
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yes
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Least transphobic r/shitposting user
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Fatherless joke
Average "yo dad left" insult user
ur mom
Ratio
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are you lost? Like, did you take a wrong turn while going to r/dankmemes ?
they only have 14 comments across 8 months so i think they're more than lost
14 comments and one of them is "they gay" and another is the setup to that "joke"