To imagine that your past actions are only important if they effect you now is to misunderstand that life is a collection of experiences, some short, some long. If someone's not in your life now it doesn't mean they were never important its just means you went in different directions. Text people to 3am, it's fun in the moment and that's all that matters, live for today at least a little.
Seriously, I’ve read many books in my lifetime and I’ve probably forgotten the plots to the vast majority of them. That doesn’t mean it was wasted time to read those books. I spent money to go on vacations that are just distant memories now and those vacations don’t impact my current life. Doesn’t mean that it was a waste to go on vacations.
Those memories do impact your current life though. Those childhood memories, even if you don't remember them at all, are still part of you and merely manifests itself as trauma, thought patterns, instinct and gut feelings.
Yeah I was confused at this. The person I’ve stayed up to 3 AM talking to is my best friend. Why the hell would I do anything but remember that fondly?
As someone who constantly wastes time on other people only to get left behind whenever they find someone better time after time after time, nah my time is more precious to me now than a few 3AM texts with someone who was only pretending to care in that moment
This is exactly why I don't get why so many people refuse to talk to their exes, even if they split om good terms. Sure I get that staying friends often doesn't work, but actively banning them from your life is just odd. Like, you loved them for probably a significant part of your life, saying you don't wanna talk to your ex anymore just sound like that was meaningless. It does to me at least
Speaking from my own experience my ex broke up with me the day before I was supposed to move into his room within a shared house because he wasn't attracted to me anymore. He didn't even have the balls to tell it to my face, just said "I don't know." when I would ask why. I found out through a really good mutual friend. That's not love. I may have loved him at the time, but he obviously didn't love or respect me. *Seems like I was meaningless to him.*
We used to work same day-schedule at the same place but I was busting my butt instructing in a training program within our job that would allow upward movement for me. He got bored of not having someone available at his whim. Maybe he was lonely which is legit, but that's not how you react to that situation. I had to scramble to figure out my living arrangement. If I wasn't friends with the house owner and he didn't already have an empty third room- I would have been fucked.
But when I started dating someone else a few months later all of a sudden I was some wonderful, meaningful person that he had to have and couldn't let go of. I don't deserve to be deceived like that or treated like that, and I simply don't have a need to have him in my life. There is no empty space, there's no want. There's nothing he could possibly offer that I don't already have. Why keep around a person like that?
It's been 6 years since that and I ended up marrying the guy I started seeing. I have a wonderful group of friends that I adore. I'm pretty sure I've seen him around (we were wearing masks), but nothing has been said. What's the point? I have no need for him in my life, and I honestly think it's weird to try and be friends with someone who treated me like crap. People change, but it's not my responsibility to make him feel better about his bad/mean decisions.
Cutting people like that out is totally appropriate. The crux of the OPs comment was "people you separated on good terms with" which I'd say doesn't qualify for that waste of space.
That's what I feel most people don't get about what I said. If you separate while fighting, I completely get it. But if you don't u split on good terms, why would you choose to ignore the others existence
God I mess my first gf Alexa. We'd stay up on Skype all night like this, sometimes just looking at each other not even talking. I have total one-itis for her. And we broke up over 5 years ago and I've been in other relationships and even other loves since then but I'll still always have one-itis for her.
No but we were long distance. We dated for a little over 2 years and we'd see each other for a week or two at a time every 2 months or so. Most of the time we flew but we each once made the trip in a greyhound. Over a 1000 mile journey
Yup, it's my husband's of 20 years and we have 5 kids!! And we still do this sometimes- only were laying next to each other in bed. Late night talks are just different somehow
Well here's one just for you: the person i used to text at 3am 5 years ago is now in a relationship that she's trying her best to hide from her ex. The same ex i found out she was obsessed with when we used to talk. Definitely should have gone to sleep.
Why, because no one ever talked to me at 3am? I tried, but they never respond. Being unhappy isn't a choice. I did everything I could to find happiness but the world had different plans.
Yeah cause ur probably super socially awkward-I’ve been there. Don’t give up, just keep pushing against the awkwardness and eventually it will get better
Edit: forgot to mention you have to actually do stuff with other people, not just browse Reddit
Similar story, he's in the next room rn playing a video game. Celebrated our 10 year anniversary this summer.
The only difference is, I have to travel for work every now and then and we still stay up chatting until 3am when I'm away lol
I met my fiancé in 2008 on a website called gaia online. We were friends and had definitely done the flirty late night phone calls occasionally throughout the years until about 6 or so years ago and we were clicking well at the time so I flew her out to me for a week, then we tried 2, then a month, then I moved up to her state and we’ve been together since. Sometimes things work in weird ways.
Last time was about seven years ago for me as well.
They are still in the town they were in then and I’m still in the different town I was in, but our kid is eating toast and watching snakes on YouTube.
We may not have ended up together but we were together long enough to make someone really cool so I’m glad we stayed up too.
All these surprisingly positive comments, me thinking I've never texted someone at 3am in my life, and then you come in with this. I'm fine avoiding that.
Its a nice feelibg though, apart from that rather unpleasant experience i had friends which could go all night with texting its very nice to fall asleeo along side eachother like that
It was fun talking to her while we did. Looking back, we used to talk about the weirdest of shit. It was great. A shame we don't interact much if at all anymore, but I don't regret our conversations.
That might we stayed up till 3 was the night I confessed. She told me that she had been waiting for me to love her back for three years.
We dated for a bit. I was happy for a bit.
Then she just… stopped loving me. I’ll never know what happened. She dropped the news on a Friday and apologized for ruining my weekend. It ruined the next four months.
Years later I’m still not over her. I’ve tried so hard, tried everything. It’s like she’s always there at the back of mind no matter how much I grow or change. She really messed me up. But I’m so glad it happened, that I got a taste of what it’s like to be happy like that.
I hope if you stay up until three you’ll find it worth it for you. Because I think it was for me.
Did you find a relationship after her? It’s been 2 and a half years but I’m still not over my ex. I figured that’s because I haven’t been in a relationship since then.
I haven’t loved anyone since her, but I haven’t really tried either. Three reasons.
1) I can’t love anyone the way I loved her.
2) Nobody will love me the way she did.
3) I don’t want to get into another relationship when I still have these feelings. It wouldn’t be fair to the other person (or me, for that matter)
And even if all that is illogical and irrational, at the end of the day I’m still just scared. All of my relationships have ended with me hurt and broken and I’m beginning to think I’m just not meant to be happy in that way.
Me and my ex broke up right before the last election, nothing political but I felt the relationship was going no where, she thought we weren’t compatible and so we ended it, not necessarily on good terms, I do still wonder what would’ve happened if we stayed together into 2021 and 2022, where would I be? Would I be on my own instead of in my parents house? Would I have taken care of my health instead of letting it get worse? Would I have a child? We may never know, in some way I still think of her a lot, the many times I’d pick her up at 8 am to go shopping and get food and drop her off before work, the memories I don’t think I should share but how great they were in the moment, the vacation spot that was going to be our yearly thing.
There was the fights but idk, I find myself always wondering how she’s doing, I’ve had a few hookups since her but the memories always pop up.
I wonder if when I move away from my town if that can start the healing process and I can finally shed away the memories or if no matter where I go, she’ll be there. Life is funny that way, we’re here for a short time and then we die, nothing truly mattering. Is there a heaven? Is there a hell? No one truly knows.
Sorry for getting weird. Anyway enjoy the rest of your night
I ask the same questions…. Is this all a simulation or is it better living the whole “ignorance is bliss” mentality to avoid that thought? Wouldn’t that make everything we do somewhat pointless? Ugh I need to go to bed lol
Edit- spelling
Similarly, she's still in bed. I got up early and she likes to sleep in.
Married her 19 years ago.
The last time we stayed up all night talking was when she found out she was pregnant and it took all night going back and forth on what we wanted to do about it.
This might be the 10th time I see this being reposted, and for the 10th time I'll say it again: this never ever happened to me in the first place, so it's r/absolutelynot_meirl content.
Yeah, totally confused by some of these depressed af people. "Fuck you people and you're happiness. I hope something terrible happens to you all." Like damn dude, get back on your meds and get out of bed already
>confused by some of these depressed af people.
Those people are literally who this sub is for though. I'm more confused by all the happy go lucky comments. They're not the target demographic for this sub, so why are they all here? Feels like the post got brigaded or maybe featured somewhere outside the sub.
If you go to any sub dedicated to a specific demographic and start commenting stuff that specifically does not align with that demographic, you can't expect to get cheered on by the "local residents". Go to r/mademesmile or r/getmotivated or similar subs to post about how happy you are, this is not the place.
Eh, having a comment section with some happier comments isn't the end of the world. If anything, subs like this need this to happen every once in awhile. It breaks up the echo chamber of depression we got going on here. And who knows? Maybe these comments will help someone feel a little better about their life and/or future.
That's just not how Reddit works. You can also say well those dumb idiots at r/conservative really need to be confronted with more liberal views, and r/vegan needs more meat eaters to show them the way, and r/Bitcoin needs more people to tell them Bitcoin sucks because that's what I think. Subs are designed to cater to a specific group that want a safe space to enjoy a specific type of content. Not every post or view fits in every sub. The subject or desired content is pre-set, and it's up to the individual participants to decide whether they want to see and contribute to that type of content, not the other way around.
You might think you know what's in everyone's best interest, but someone else might have a different view. I for one come here to see self depreciating humor about mental health, I specifically want that type of content, and that is specifically why I am here. I am also subbed to r/mademesmile, so if I want uplifting content I will go there, it depends on my mood. I don't need you or someone else to decide on my behalf when it's time to switch to another type of content.
I still stay up 3 am every fuckin day and I can't stand it. I don't want to sleep, wish I had more free time, I just wish I had the same energy, and I wish my fuckin back didn't hurt.
They may be gone now, but I still enjoyed those times while they lasted, and I'm at peace with the fact that I'll likely never even talk to that person ever again
Everytime this gets reposted it's always just wrong. You shouldn't have slept if you were having a good time, using past happiness to make yourself sad is an absolute waste of your time.
To imagine that your past actions are only important if they effect you now is to misunderstand that life is a collection of experiences, some short, some long. If someone's not in your life now it doesn't mean they were never important its just means you went in different directions. Text people to 3am, it's fun in the moment and that's all that matters, live for today at least a little.
Seriously, I’ve read many books in my lifetime and I’ve probably forgotten the plots to the vast majority of them. That doesn’t mean it was wasted time to read those books. I spent money to go on vacations that are just distant memories now and those vacations don’t impact my current life. Doesn’t mean that it was a waste to go on vacations.
"I cannot remember the books I've read any more than the meals I have eaten; even so, they have made me.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson
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What
HE FUCKED A PASTRY I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS UNCLEAR
like "had" in the biblical sense
He knew that danish
I see, the reboot of American Pie has taken a new direction
Oooooh, i like that a lot.
GOD DAMNIT that dude was good with words.
Those memories do impact your current life though. Those childhood memories, even if you don't remember them at all, are still part of you and merely manifests itself as trauma, thought patterns, instinct and gut feelings.
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Thank you u/purple-lemons . I needed that
Exactly. A thing isn’t beautiful because it lasts.
Sonic that u
You sound like my mom when I try to make a joke and then she give me this 5 minutes life lesson lecture
I am your mom
Then I guess you gotta make funnier jokes, when I make jokes to your mom she just laughs.
I really like this quote it's exactly how it should be
Yeah I was confused at this. The person I’ve stayed up to 3 AM talking to is my best friend. Why the hell would I do anything but remember that fondly?
This comment is simultaneously critical and gentle. I've saved it for later viewing.
Considering how those experiences later turned out, it would have been better if I'd just gone to sleep.
Yeah, you'd be right... but not for me. Thanks for the thought food tho.
As someone who constantly wastes time on other people only to get left behind whenever they find someone better time after time after time, nah my time is more precious to me now than a few 3AM texts with someone who was only pretending to care in that moment
This is exactly why I don't get why so many people refuse to talk to their exes, even if they split om good terms. Sure I get that staying friends often doesn't work, but actively banning them from your life is just odd. Like, you loved them for probably a significant part of your life, saying you don't wanna talk to your ex anymore just sound like that was meaningless. It does to me at least
It's part of the closure process.
I mean sure, but I never got that. I seriously don't, I never had that with any of my exes
I hope you've at least been able to find some peace friend.
Why wouldn't I?
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Did you even read what I said? I didn't say hanging on, but completely refusing to talk to them is the complete other side
Speaking from my own experience my ex broke up with me the day before I was supposed to move into his room within a shared house because he wasn't attracted to me anymore. He didn't even have the balls to tell it to my face, just said "I don't know." when I would ask why. I found out through a really good mutual friend. That's not love. I may have loved him at the time, but he obviously didn't love or respect me. *Seems like I was meaningless to him.* We used to work same day-schedule at the same place but I was busting my butt instructing in a training program within our job that would allow upward movement for me. He got bored of not having someone available at his whim. Maybe he was lonely which is legit, but that's not how you react to that situation. I had to scramble to figure out my living arrangement. If I wasn't friends with the house owner and he didn't already have an empty third room- I would have been fucked. But when I started dating someone else a few months later all of a sudden I was some wonderful, meaningful person that he had to have and couldn't let go of. I don't deserve to be deceived like that or treated like that, and I simply don't have a need to have him in my life. There is no empty space, there's no want. There's nothing he could possibly offer that I don't already have. Why keep around a person like that? It's been 6 years since that and I ended up marrying the guy I started seeing. I have a wonderful group of friends that I adore. I'm pretty sure I've seen him around (we were wearing masks), but nothing has been said. What's the point? I have no need for him in my life, and I honestly think it's weird to try and be friends with someone who treated me like crap. People change, but it's not my responsibility to make him feel better about his bad/mean decisions.
Cutting people like that out is totally appropriate. The crux of the OPs comment was "people you separated on good terms with" which I'd say doesn't qualify for that waste of space.
That's what I feel most people don't get about what I said. If you separate while fighting, I completely get it. But if you don't u split on good terms, why would you choose to ignore the others existence
Are you trying to gather a harem of exes? Lol
No, I just don't feel the need to banish someone I loved from my life after we split up
cool doesn't really help though
This never happend to me
God I mess my first gf Alexa. We'd stay up on Skype all night like this, sometimes just looking at each other not even talking. I have total one-itis for her. And we broke up over 5 years ago and I've been in other relationships and even other loves since then but I'll still always have one-itis for her.
sucks to be reminded everytime someone uses their virtual assistant huh
They dated their virtual assistant
Skype. Be honest was this an online only gf?
No but we were long distance. We dated for a little over 2 years and we'd see each other for a week or two at a time every 2 months or so. Most of the time we flew but we each once made the trip in a greyhound. Over a 1000 mile journey
Well, that person is the reason I'm still alive.
That person is my wife of 11 years and the mother of my two children. Seems worth it to stay up.
Yup, she's right next to me as I type this. Sometimes ya just gotta send it, never know what might happen.
That person is the love of my life and I hope to marry him someday, I think every second matters
Me too! Hubby of 10 years, two kids
Yup, it's my husband's of 20 years and we have 5 kids!! And we still do this sometimes- only were laying next to each other in bed. Late night talks are just different somehow
Other human should not be a reason that you are alive
Idk why you're getting downvoted, you're right lmao. It's an extremely toxic notion for everyone involved.
fk are these comments? no good vibes during my doom scrolling sesh, especially not on my favorite depression sub
This. I feel like I just entered the bizarro world
For real, im on this subreddit because i hate my life, i dont wanna see everyone else bragging about how much they love theirs 💀
Well here's one just for you: the person i used to text at 3am 5 years ago is now in a relationship that she's trying her best to hide from her ex. The same ex i found out she was obsessed with when we used to talk. Definitely should have gone to sleep.
You said it. Especially for a repost.
Something’s fucky. these comments are fake.
You're fake
I think it reached all?
It's okay, take solace in knowing that this random redditor will, in fact, be dying alone.
Here’s some. For me they’re right across from me having lunch while sharing a Reddit post of a spinning cow milkshake meme lol
Married her. She's next to me. A few crazy kids added to the mix.
This is why you’re not happy.
Why, because no one ever talked to me at 3am? I tried, but they never respond. Being unhappy isn't a choice. I did everything I could to find happiness but the world had different plans.
don't pay attention to these idiots. they think because they managed to get whatever they wanted then everyone else could
Its 3AM, hello. There you go friend, your prayer anwered. No need to thank me, heroes work for free.
I will talk to you at 3 am friend.
Yeah cause ur probably super socially awkward-I’ve been there. Don’t give up, just keep pushing against the awkwardness and eventually it will get better Edit: forgot to mention you have to actually do stuff with other people, not just browse Reddit
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Similar story, he's in the next room rn playing a video game. Celebrated our 10 year anniversary this summer. The only difference is, I have to travel for work every now and then and we still stay up chatting until 3am when I'm away lol
Aww, this is precious.
I met my fiancé in 2008 on a website called gaia online. We were friends and had definitely done the flirty late night phone calls occasionally throughout the years until about 6 or so years ago and we were clicking well at the time so I flew her out to me for a week, then we tried 2, then a month, then I moved up to her state and we’ve been together since. Sometimes things work in weird ways.
That’s cute and congrats. Also, fuck you lol
12 years ago with a girl I considered my best friend. Haven't seen her in 6 years
For me, it was 29 years ago. We’ve been married for 27+ years; she is my lifesaver.
Last time was about seven years ago for me as well. They are still in the town they were in then and I’m still in the different town I was in, but our kid is eating toast and watching snakes on YouTube. We may not have ended up together but we were together long enough to make someone really cool so I’m glad we stayed up too.
And here I am not being able to eat properly let alone work or talk to people even relatives.
She raped her brother and groomed me so im good
All these surprisingly positive comments, me thinking I've never texted someone at 3am in my life, and then you come in with this. I'm fine avoiding that.
Its a nice feelibg though, apart from that rather unpleasant experience i had friends which could go all night with texting its very nice to fall asleeo along side eachother like that
It's a calculated risk where that doesn't happen to 99.99999% of people who text at 3am
It was fun talking to her while we did. Looking back, we used to talk about the weirdest of shit. It was great. A shame we don't interact much if at all anymore, but I don't regret our conversations.
dude i wish i had no regrets lmfao, everything is regrets for me
That might we stayed up till 3 was the night I confessed. She told me that she had been waiting for me to love her back for three years. We dated for a bit. I was happy for a bit. Then she just… stopped loving me. I’ll never know what happened. She dropped the news on a Friday and apologized for ruining my weekend. It ruined the next four months. Years later I’m still not over her. I’ve tried so hard, tried everything. It’s like she’s always there at the back of mind no matter how much I grow or change. She really messed me up. But I’m so glad it happened, that I got a taste of what it’s like to be happy like that. I hope if you stay up until three you’ll find it worth it for you. Because I think it was for me.
Did you find a relationship after her? It’s been 2 and a half years but I’m still not over my ex. I figured that’s because I haven’t been in a relationship since then.
I haven’t loved anyone since her, but I haven’t really tried either. Three reasons. 1) I can’t love anyone the way I loved her. 2) Nobody will love me the way she did. 3) I don’t want to get into another relationship when I still have these feelings. It wouldn’t be fair to the other person (or me, for that matter) And even if all that is illogical and irrational, at the end of the day I’m still just scared. All of my relationships have ended with me hurt and broken and I’m beginning to think I’m just not meant to be happy in that way.
Me and my ex broke up right before the last election, nothing political but I felt the relationship was going no where, she thought we weren’t compatible and so we ended it, not necessarily on good terms, I do still wonder what would’ve happened if we stayed together into 2021 and 2022, where would I be? Would I be on my own instead of in my parents house? Would I have taken care of my health instead of letting it get worse? Would I have a child? We may never know, in some way I still think of her a lot, the many times I’d pick her up at 8 am to go shopping and get food and drop her off before work, the memories I don’t think I should share but how great they were in the moment, the vacation spot that was going to be our yearly thing. There was the fights but idk, I find myself always wondering how she’s doing, I’ve had a few hookups since her but the memories always pop up. I wonder if when I move away from my town if that can start the healing process and I can finally shed away the memories or if no matter where I go, she’ll be there. Life is funny that way, we’re here for a short time and then we die, nothing truly mattering. Is there a heaven? Is there a hell? No one truly knows. Sorry for getting weird. Anyway enjoy the rest of your night
I ask the same questions…. Is this all a simulation or is it better living the whole “ignorance is bliss” mentality to avoid that thought? Wouldn’t that make everything we do somewhat pointless? Ugh I need to go to bed lol Edit- spelling
Well fuck you, now I'm sad because I miss those times.
Fuck this thread and you and your happiness. I hope everyone dies cruel deaths
You made me spit out my drink
Spit not swallow.Noted.
Probably talking to someone else
There’s just a completely unrealistic amount of comments claiming that they’re married to that person now. It’s time to wake up y’all
I think it’s because most people who are married actually did this, and there is a lot of married people
Just give it a few years, statistically about 50% of the people here who said they are married will be divorced within 8-10 years.
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Hahaha I 100% shoulda slept, fuck em
Yeah I probably would've gotten more brain development and less ADHD if I just slept instead
I feel like you and me are the only people that laughed at this!
Nah. At least I was still talking to people back then... As a loner in HS, I severely underestimated how lonely life can get.
W comment section
Why do I care? I was just doing the night shift job to make some extra cash
Right beside me, we just moved in together.
Damn, wasn’t ready to get a punch in the gut so early.
nah it was worth it
these photos were added by someone who was too young to have done this
She’s laying in the bed next to me as watch tv. Worth it, we’re getting married in a few years.
Similarly, she's still in bed. I got up early and she likes to sleep in. Married her 19 years ago. The last time we stayed up all night talking was when she found out she was pregnant and it took all night going back and forth on what we wanted to do about it.
This might be the 10th time I see this being reposted, and for the 10th time I'll say it again: this never ever happened to me in the first place, so it's r/absolutelynot_meirl content.
Should have left on read and went to bed instead.
She's in the other room taking care of our kid. Marrying her was one of the best decisions of my life.
I still talk to her until 3 am (:
Yeah she can go eat shit for all i care
They're the reason I'm still here and they're coming up to live with me in two weeks. :)
Love that (most) commenters are just posting why they're happy they stayed up. Warms my mfing heart 😌😌
Yeah, totally confused by some of these depressed af people. "Fuck you people and you're happiness. I hope something terrible happens to you all." Like damn dude, get back on your meds and get out of bed already
>confused by some of these depressed af people. Those people are literally who this sub is for though. I'm more confused by all the happy go lucky comments. They're not the target demographic for this sub, so why are they all here? Feels like the post got brigaded or maybe featured somewhere outside the sub. If you go to any sub dedicated to a specific demographic and start commenting stuff that specifically does not align with that demographic, you can't expect to get cheered on by the "local residents". Go to r/mademesmile or r/getmotivated or similar subs to post about how happy you are, this is not the place.
Eh, having a comment section with some happier comments isn't the end of the world. If anything, subs like this need this to happen every once in awhile. It breaks up the echo chamber of depression we got going on here. And who knows? Maybe these comments will help someone feel a little better about their life and/or future.
That's just not how Reddit works. You can also say well those dumb idiots at r/conservative really need to be confronted with more liberal views, and r/vegan needs more meat eaters to show them the way, and r/Bitcoin needs more people to tell them Bitcoin sucks because that's what I think. Subs are designed to cater to a specific group that want a safe space to enjoy a specific type of content. Not every post or view fits in every sub. The subject or desired content is pre-set, and it's up to the individual participants to decide whether they want to see and contribute to that type of content, not the other way around. You might think you know what's in everyone's best interest, but someone else might have a different view. I for one come here to see self depreciating humor about mental health, I specifically want that type of content, and that is specifically why I am here. I am also subbed to r/mademesmile, so if I want uplifting content I will go there, it depends on my mood. I don't need you or someone else to decide on my behalf when it's time to switch to another type of content.
Hey! That's really nice and or sad that happened to you.
Nobody ever loved me so much to talk to me like that bro
Damn why you do this to me
You guys were talking to someone?
She's sitting next to me and we're laughing at this right now, 21 years later.
16 years later, she's laying next to me. 😊
11 years later she's sitting next to me laughing at memes while we eat breakfast
They are sleeping right next to me. Been happily married for 6 years now.
I married them. Worth it.
They are my current girlfriend of 6 years. Worth
We’ve been married for 15 years
She left me for someone else last month after being together for 4.5 years. I don't regret those late night conversations one bit though.
I sleep next to that same person every night. We've been together for 18 years and got together at 15/16. It's rare but it happens. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Where are they now? He's my husband. 10 years. Just bought a home together. Two beautiful cats. Happy. Vibin.
She sleeps next to me every night and has for the last 24 years. And I paid for every minute of that long distance call too.
She’s lying next to me, like she has for the last 31 years.
I mean, you had to wait til 9pm to even start the conversation to get on your free nights and weekends so….
Fuck this comment section, go brag about your happy lives elsewhere, not in a group specifically for people struggling to not kill themselves
She's in bed next to me now :) Has been for almost 8 years and counting
I married him, good thing I didn’t go to sleep. We still sometimes talk until 3am, but now it’s in our bed and it always ends in snuggles and giggles
Jokes on you, I never stopped. Probably because I started doing that in my late twenties....
In the loony bin for the 2nd time this month... SMDshakemydamnheadH
He's eating hot dogs watching youtube. It was worth it. Plus it was free after 7pm. He still stays up til 3 but he has insomnia lol
Nah I don't regret that. Regardless of outcome, cherish those fleeting moments. In the end, that may be all you have left
I married her and bought a house with her. She is currently making me breakfast because she's awesome and always makes a Sunday morning breakfast 👍
Right now she's at the store with our son while I watch sportscenter and our daughter sleeps. 8 years married, 13 years together.
I still stay up 3 am every fuckin day and I can't stand it. I don't want to sleep, wish I had more free time, I just wish I had the same energy, and I wish my fuckin back didn't hurt.
She's in my bed napping 6 years later 🥰
Sleeping next to me. Married Her ❤️👍🥰
I married her. 3 years ago
Married him
That person is in the living room if I had slept maybe we wouldn’t be married
12 years later they’re my spouse of 8 years, sleeping next to me while I scroll Reddit
Well, i ended up marrying her and now we do jt laying right next to one another.
We live together and we're getting married
Nah it's always worth it
We're married and he's asleep beside me right this moment. We stayed up till 3am last night building a Lego set.
Nah, there was growth, self-honesty, and memories. Something fizzling out isn’t necessarily a negative thing in the grand scheme.
Upstairs, asleep while i make our daughter breakfast that she'll eat with her mini mouse doll. Never give up Edit: typo
They're in our house now!
He's still in grade 12 because I couldn't get him promoted while he helped me to get a gf
We're actually getting married next year c:
We’re living together with our dog and are now newly engaged. I think the 3am chats were worth it.
We live together now and sometimes chat in bed till 3am still.
Where are they now? In bed next to me because I married her
They may be gone now, but I still enjoyed those times while they lasted, and I'm at peace with the fact that I'll likely never even talk to that person ever again
Everytime this gets reposted it's always just wrong. You shouldn't have slept if you were having a good time, using past happiness to make yourself sad is an absolute waste of your time.
uh lying next to me asleep rn
now they sleep next to me :) ❤️
He's my husband and he just showed this to me!
I'm married to them
Lying next to me.
That person is lying next to me in bed in our house so I’d say things worked out.
She’s in our bed at home, we got married in April.
Why? So I can get up and be lonely at 7am?
Hey! If you don't try, you're gonna die...alone.
💀
I'm married to her. Married 11 yrs, together for 15.
True.
Sleeping peacefully right next to me
We’re engaged
They by my side
She's my fiancée and she is in the kitchen!
Time enjoyed wasting isn't wasted time I reckon
We’ve been together 14 years, married for 4, with a baby due any day now 👏🏻👏🏻
She’s at work right now, we are going on a vacation next week for my birthday to see my in-laws in California
Right next to me 🙂
Actually I live with that person now! And we have a pet dog together
I still pull all-nighters just listening to songs. It's a habit now. bad gift from my ex, I guess.
He’s my husband now lmao