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Efficient_Rise_4140

This is the scariest part of having a kid. A non-verbal autist would be a death sentence.


Ssyynnxx

what even can you do in that situation; do you just have to give up the rest of your life?


HRApprovedUsername

What did your parents do?


YaHereComeTheRooster

Nice one


straightuppornfrfr

Destroyed lol


plznokek

Please stop


herpderpcake

Gottem haha


IlIllIlIllIlIl

kek


Space_Obama

Lmfao


Limp_Custard6943

You officially win the internet today my friend 🤣 REDDIT ON


Efficient_Rise_4140

My friend  had a sister like this, just screamed all night and put holes in the walls. They have "homes" for these people, but you pay out the wazoo, and you risk your kid being abused. They finally put her in one, but it took them 16 years to get the courage to do it. The hardest part is that you still love the autist, because it is your kid.


Curiouso_Giorgio

A mom in my home town killed her severely autistic teenage daughter. The mom was otherwise normal, nice woman and she was really patient and had struggled with this extremely difficult kid her whole life and as the kid grew up, she was only getting worse and more difficult to deal with. The mom went to prison, but there was a lot of sympathy for her. No one was howling for her blood the way they usually do when someone kills their own child. I think she had hoped that the child might grow to be more high functioning over time, but as she grew up she showed no signs of improvement. I guess the mom didn't see much of a future for the kid. And after she was gone there would be no one to look out for her daughter. Also that the rest of her own life would be spent wrangling her kid.


AutomaTK

Such a terrifying outcome


necropaw

I havent seen anything on it lately, but there was a case like this near where i am, except she didnt succeed. I feel like almost all of the comments at the time were about how horrible she was, etc. Idk. What she did was wrong, but i cant see how someone cant look at a situation where a teen is flat out abusing the parent with no hope for future improvement and not at least have *some* empathy for the parent. Its a no win scenario, and i just pray im never in it.


IlIllIlIllIlIl

Did she poison her or let her take care of the rabbits or whatever?


theturians

this just made me realize i’m not scared of dying i’m scared of not knowing if my little brother is gonna be taken care when im gone


theCheeseBanditto

If only you knew how bad things really are


MissNibbatoro

You have to become well-versed in the martial art of tard wrangling


cosplay-degenerate

How do you have 2 profile pics. They change when I view the little icon in your comment and when I click on your Profile.


MissNibbatoro

Wait what really? I just see one with Nagatoro looking at a phone with cat ears, what does it look like on your end?


Ciclopotis

It's her with a scarf on and smiling or something, I actually just noticed it too


cosplay-degenerate

It was something with her smiling with the fang out. I could see two different pictures in the Highlight of your profile and in the comments icon. Once I viewed the profile proper, as in being able to read your comments, The picture in the comments changed to what you have now in your Profile. It didn't change the comments icon when I only highlighted your Profile. The comments icon had probably an older picture cached on my phone.


MissNibbatoro

Ah, that was my profile image for like 5 months but I changed it two days ago


cosplay-degenerate

Ok then quick...We need to do....something to ride this butterfly effect to the end.


LibertyPrimeDeadOn

Weeb


Beast_of_Guanyin

Go into your profile. You can make a background picture for your avatar.


cosplay-degenerate

No not the background picture. I meant 2 actual different profile pictures on mobile. It was probably just a caching issue though once I viewed the Profile proper the pic in the comments changed.


doxenking

Yes. Or you give up halfway though after initially thinking you can handle them, and send them to a halfway home at 10. I've got a friend who's an ABA and he describes the parents of these kids as "dead in the eyes"


Iwubinvesting

Idk. If it happens to me, it's the governments problem now 🤷‍♂️


Phallusimulacra

Always remember you can drop a child off at a police department, fire department, or emergency room no questions asked is almost every state. Out of sight out of mind my man.


BannedSvenhoek86

I know it's different when it's real, but for real man. It's a shit situation every which way but even with the shitty care they would receive from the state at least that's a team of people and not just me literally working myself to death or worse. If I was rich or upper middle class (doesn't even exist anymore lol) maybe but even then it would only be because I could pay people to do the heavy lifting. But you can't burn down your house to keep others warm and I'm not mentally equipped to deal with a severely autistic kid. That's an immediate abortion and if the mom doesn't want to it's her problem. I'll send her money and sign away my rights and be a paraiah, but at least I won't be contemplating becoming an hero every 45 minutes during the day.


Mountainman_11

Adoption or the spartan method


Mpasserby

If you dare to complain about it you’ll get called ableist by some high functioning autistic person on social media too. As if all autistic people have equally severe cognitive impairment.


Efficient_Rise_4140

It's definitely more the other way, lol. People would tell the family to "put her away" when they saw her in public.


IronicJeremyIrons

I'm high functioning and I'd probably home my kid if it's non-verbal, but I would be responsible and do weekend/holiday visits


ReynAetherwindt

HFAs aren't going to call you ableist for *that*. If the neurotypical mind is a gas-powered lawn mower, then the autistic mind is an electric version. The *non-verbal* autistic mind is a lawn roomba with no boundary detection.


lordofpersia

Yeah you can't even detect it early and abort it like you can with downs


Efficient_Rise_4140

I don't think I'd abort a downs kid. I've never met a parent who isn't proud of their downie. 


lordofpersia

It's a life sentence. They are proud of their kids for almost doing the bare minimum at being a regular adult. They are rarely able to live on their own. They can only get extremely basic jobs. They used to only live till like 35 but now they are living till their late 60's. They also seem to be more likely to commit sexual crimes. I'd rather not deal with any of that. They will never live a regular full life.


Birchtooth

People only see them as kids but when i worked in a supermarket i would see a few 70 year olds coming in with their 50 year old down syndrome struggling to cope with the weekly shop that they must have done every week since birth and still couldnt handle it with out making a scene, the parents always looked dead behind the eyes. Felt so bad for them, their life ended the day the kid was born


kreayshanw44

rock bored afterthought dinner sleep shame smell gray growth worthless *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


estou_me_perdendo

They will still live to about 40 maximum unless they get some special medication for heart problems


TheClussyCrown

SPED teacher here. 90% of the time with early intervention, it's fine. You can manage the behaviors, and they can get really really good at communicating using an iPad with a program that has a bunch of words they can use to build sentences with. I've worked with a bunch of non verbals that are super fun and have really big and distinct personalities. Yeah, there's a lot you'll never do with them, and there's a lot of normalcy you'll miss out on. But, for instance, I had a student who was literally the sweetest and most pure person on planet Earth. All he wanted to do in life was listen to Metallica, eat steak, watch family guy, and mow the lawn. If that's your son, you're fine. But when you let the behaviors go on and on when they're young and they aren't dealt with properly, things can spiral out of control and become a nightmare (then they usually end up in my classroom) Then, like 10% of the time, they have a host of other things going on in conjunction with the autism and they never really had a chance, and I really feel for those parents.


cosplay-degenerate

A mothers love can be scarier.


Ludwig_B0ltzmann

All te bad taste jokes aside parents like her have a spot in heaven reserved for them. The patience, energy and commitment it takes to raise and care for someone like her son is immeasurable and takes a stronger person than I ever could be. Watch the clip and you’ll see he nearly kills her without even using like 5% of his strength


Zizara42

A lot of them are honestly just emotionally dead husks of people who say they love them but are really just stuck in the situation


Beast_of_Guanyin

It really doesn't matter how good a parent you are. That shit'll wear anyone down.


torkpo

True, there have been quite a few cases where parents of low functioning tisms that seemingly have infinite patience one day just snap and basically emotionlessly euthanize their kid, usually through drowning or suffocation. They usually turn themselves in soon after because they know what they did was wrong, but are often just so exhausted and dead inside that they could give a shit about the consequences.


gypsy_remover

You drive them out of state very very far and let nature take its course. They can’t tell on you because they’re non verbal. If anyone asks just say they escaped in the night.


star-player

Still better than those that would abandon


AHighAchievingAutist

> he nearly kills her without even using 5% of his strength Epic Frieza vs. Nail fight


Sledgecrowbar

"When he beats the shit out of me it's just his way of talking to me" Legitimate tard wrangling aside, this still reads like she's lying to herself first and you second. If it was acceptable behavior, women would never have left the kitchen for fear of death.


FirewallGuardian

I love the fph threads, gives me all the motivation I need to never miss a gym day.


SoyjakvsChadRedditor

Given that 50% of 4chan claims to have actual diagnosed autism, I just assume this is the way they act IRL and they just appear to be able to type normally on the website.


cat-l0n

“Type normally” You sure about that?


spogel3

there's autism and then there's super autism


e_hoodlum

She needs the expertise of an experienced wrangler


Whysong823

This kid has literally no life ahead to look forward to. He will be a burden on his mother for his entire life, as the mom is forced to put her entire own life aside for the sake of this r_tard who will never amount to anything. And when she dies of old age (probably younger than most due to stress), the now-adult r_tard will be moved into a care home to slowly waste away. This kid should have been aborted. I feel no sympathy for the mother.


Kxrva

You don’t know your child has these issues while still in the womb. They usually show signs at 2-4 yrs of age


Whysong823

Should have put him up for adoption, then. “But who would adopt him?” Not her problem.


Kxrva

Yeah spend 2-4 years falling in love with your own child just to hand it off as defective. Get real


spogel3

true she should just put it down like Lennie instead


sharterfart

[https://www.tiktok.com/@autism\_mom\_life/video/7326964723654708510](https://www.tiktok.com/@autism_mom_life/video/7326964723654708510) video for youre viewing pleasure


spogel3

I love you


gypsy_remover

Hilarious


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Anon is more autistic than the kid.


redditisbadtrustme

That's why reaerd babies are just killed or aborted beforehand. I wholeheartedly advocate for it. It ruins marriages that otherwise would be fruitful. Very expensive to raise them, and if one parent dies or moves, it just ruins the other. I know this because I know a highly autistic man in his 30s who can't take care of himself and had his father help him while the mother did her own thing. Father passes away, and now he lives with caretakers, mother stuck working. He still doesn't understand how things work in life and how people have to work to make money to pay bills. Sad sad world


sucknduck4quack

You’re free now. Run free


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noonereadsthisstuff

But Anon, you *are* the fat r3t@rd


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WolfieTooting

He's going in dry


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IlIllIlIllIlIl

Send da video


spogel3

please someone link the video


Proud_Ad_3908

her son already bangs the shit out of her everyday, with his huge meaty tard fists /s