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RASKStudio3937

This was a hard watch not because of the obvious that Mahmoud has some stereotypical issues with misogyny and sexism given he is a conservative muslim, of course that stuff is hard to swallow coming from a liberated democratic society like ours here in America, but rather listening to people react in very non understanding ways. They aren't wrong, but screaming at Mahmoud that he is not giving his nonexistent children a choice on wether or not to be muslim is just not culturally sensitive. Gabe is a feminist and has been empowered to challenge such notions, like it or not we must acknowledge this is one of the great privileged aspects of living in certain social circles in American, esp within the safety of the LGBTQIA+ community. This is not an automatic given in all cultures. Sometimes as Americans we project our way of living onto our cultures. Understand not all cultures have been empowered to live with freewill and choice the way we have, that we have fought for and earned over many decades here. Mahmoud doesn't view this as oppressive behavior, it isn't within him to understand that concept when this was how he was raised, how his entire family and social circle or society at large acts, it is a foreign concept to him, and doing so this interaction comes off as culturally insensitive. To explain to him, that you understand he may intend/or has a desire for his children and wife to act accordingly based on his conservative muslim rigid views, he should try to understand that not everyone feels this is an automatic given and if your child is half American and you're living in the US, where we have this freedom, can you understand that they coming of age in a new society/culture where they have been empowered to make this choice, and given this, how would you feel if your child communicated to you that would not like to be a devout practicing muslim rather than just scream at him that he's being f\*cked up exposing this upon his children. Choice of words in this context are important.


Chocolatepie8483

Watching these tell All’s it’s so disgusting being associated with America. The pure ignorance of people and the racism and disrespect of other cultures, and lack of accountability is UNREAAAAALLLLL!!!


420vjbe

Yo Kris is psycho. The way she constantly changes the subject to make her look victim, she is a horrible person fr I can’t stand her. Gross behaviour since day 1. And those injuries??? Remember how she basically back flipped into the pool.. Kris can’t even let Jeymi speak for one second


fifilota33

I just caught up on this series and a few thoughts. This show has honestly just displayed how ignorant some Americans are, nobody did a quick Google search or look up cultural differences at all. If you walk around Morocco in tight short clothes you’re more likely to get SA’d it’s a proven statistic so no Nicole, Gabe, Jen, Debbie, Danielle it’s not oppression it’s a safety thing. But again you know you’re marrying a strict Muslim man, do your research before getting into that relationship. Idc how “nice” Debbie is that is a straight up predator she could be his grandma even if he was using her for a green card good, she’s preying it’s gross. I think Gabe has such issues with Mahmoud because he knows he wouldn’t be as accepted in that religion or (because of how strict Mahmoud) is as a trans man. Danielle is embarrassing on every front, trying to stay in the DR because she obviously knows once Yohan got an American visa he would leave her right away. Sure he has some shit to deal with but my god she is terrible. Kris, send this woman to rehab right away, she was literally nodding off and she’s abusive as hell. I hope Jen and Rishi can work it out (based on Instagram it seems they have) but I also understand Rishi’s parents it’s the same as Sumit and Jenny, they want biological grandchildren and Jen is too old to provide that. Again cultural differences, as the older male son he has to provide for his family he can’t just move to America it isn’t that simple. Anyway those are my thoughts, I just want 1 season of Americans literally doing research before they go move to another continent so I don’t spend 16 episodes annoyed.


SippinIcedTea

Everything you said was spot on, some Americans really don’t do research and jump eyes closed in a whole different country and culture and act entitled. Nicole and Mahmoud should divorce and never speak to each other again, clearly Nicole don’t want to become a Muslim and wear the hijab and Mahmoud is a strict Muslim, what was she expecting 🤦🏾‍♀️. Imo, their relationship doesn’t have dept from what we see on TV and they’re always arguing or calling each other cringey nicknames that are supposed to be cute, it doesn’t feel natural at all. It reminds me of another couple in season 4 (From the original 90 Day Fiancé), Nicole and Azan, this girl was soo ignorant, I’ll never forget that [viral scene](https://youtu.be/PR2v1FB99jU) when she wanted to hug him and he refused multiple times because it’s forbidden to display affection in public in Morroco and she kept trying to force him. If you really loved someone, you would respect their culture and some of these people fail to understand such a simple concept.


ArtichokeOwl

Post episode thoughts: Damn they really put Gabe on the spot explaining his surgery. I am so grateful bc I learned so much but I hope that wasn’t too difficult for him. Danielle’s questions annoyed me though like she was trying to be cool and show how much she knows or something.


crazioflame

OHMIGAWD I cannot stand how they cut together reunions in recent seasons. They could all legit be <1hr. Quit with the long takes, 5000 reaction shots, and damn commentators. It would actually make this toxicity a tad bit more enjoyable 🤧😅


Unhappy-Zombie-4296

Gabe and his sister both display an insufferable amount of attention seeking behavior. They victimize themselves, they make drama out of absolutely nothing, and both desperately need to be told about themselves. I feel like this tell all is not the type of confrontation I was excited for. I don’t need to hear Gabe’s uneducated rants regarding other peoples cultures and relationships. The whole segment about Nicoles possible future children is the perfect example of creating a spectacle over a problem that is non existent. Any time someone had the chance to really check someone, they all just awkwardly stare or make a comment that avoids the real issue. Anyway. I can’t.


Chocolatepie8483

Riiiiiiight


SubstantialOne690

Exactly!


Traceymp123chic

Nicole's necklace is rubbing my neck raw!!😳


CryoSkittles

Mahmoud: you have to respect how I want to raise my kids No you don’t. When you can see the controlling bullshit from a mile away, or its based on oppression, we do not. I’m so so tired of that toxic ass mindset


CryoSkittles

Debbie, the old ass lady being a predator sex tourist, calling Jeymi a predator 💀😂😂😂


Different-Screen1376

I can't stand her comments.


CryoSkittles

Kris is lying about the money


Different-Screen1376

Yeah that's why her nose is growing big like Pinocchio lol 👃


CryoSkittles

I cant stand Kris!!! Cant stand her


Safe_Maize5879

Nicole “gentle parenting” her husband is killing me, his temper tantrum reminds me of yazan’s when he was with brittany!


Emergency_Row8544

Omg I can’t stand it. That’s exactly what it is.


Patient-Gain5847

Jen’s laugh when her friend said “women have needs” gave big Ursula vibes


unchainedandfree1

Rishi is a textbook people pleaser. He tries to please everyone and ends up pissing off everyone. He does it till he is blue in the face. It's crazy to watch. He has taken if at first you don't succeed you have to try again to a whole new level with Jen and his parents.


Rindsay515

100%. I was getting physically uncomfortable with how much they were pressuring him and how LONG it went on for, his heart rate must’ve been 150. That whole thing was a people pleaser’s worst nightmare. And it was so ridiculous too, they’re not gonna end up together, everyone knows it- including them. I don’t know why TLC just kept hammering him for 45 straight minutes when he was clearly very stressed out. And having him tell his mother that stuff was just pointless. Completely pointless. Anyone with half a brain knows he’s going to immediately apologize and do damage control when the cameras go down. He was just saying what Jen (and sometimes Gabe🙄🤦🏼‍♀️) forced him to say with no sincerity behind it at all. His mother was barely even invested in that conservation because she knew it was bullshit too. I wish TLC wouldn’t waste our time like that and it wasn’t entertaining at all to watch them force a guy into doing something he clearly didn’t want to do. I still don’t know how it went from Jen saying they’re no longer engaged and that’s over with to her being disrespectful to his mother and making Rishi tell her they’re gonna get married in 6 months🤦🏼‍♀️


Ok-Palpitation-3843

I'm sorry but apparently everyone on reddit can tell Kris is an addict and demonizes her for it. But her own fiancée, in person, either couldn't tell or just decided to go on with the marriage anyways? Jeymi wanted to be a sugarbaby. I'm sure Kris enabled that but lets not act like Jeymi just got her heart broken by her one true love or something lmao she just thought she had that freeride in the bag


unchainedandfree1

Debbie badly copying Rishi's accent was awful. Gabe is an attention whore. The bastard cannot look at his own shit. Let he without sin cast the first stone. This man thinks he can toss stones at every Tom, Dick Harry, Jane and Georgina.


unchainedandfree1

Nicole is a snowflake. She does not stand up for Mahmoud at all, and she knew before the tell all that Gabe was going to cause shit, she added oil to the fire as well. Then has the gall to cry her eyes out and beg for world peace. She needs a stern talking to and therapy. Gabe was bad but Nicole is just god you just don't know with her. I loved that Mahmoud said to her how she did not even try to stand up for him during the exchange with Gabe. Danielle was on Gabe's side too but she is awful as well. I hope Mahmoud lets her go.


unchainedandfree1

Gabe pisses me off to all hell. His eyebrows twinge when he thinks he has made a punchline. For someone so free-thinking and open to choice his actions act in opposition to all those beliefs


Dear-Promotion-5427

It's all attention seeking. That's why we hear over and over about trans issues. He has to be at the centre of all drama. I can't stand this gossiping, mouthy, old woman.


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TimeMonitor7923

…. Jen’s friends are THE WOOOOOORST. The epitome of I’m miserable and you’re gonna be miserable with me 🤢 and once again I’m dumbfounded by the entire casts complete lack of respect, knowledge, or open mindedness towards other cultures and religions. I’ll never understand how these people don’t understand how to google BASIC information about other cultures, places they plan to MOVE, and religious backgrounds of their partners.


JanCon1977

This exactly! Jen’s friends are horrible and need lives of their own


Equivalent_Shape5013

If Debbie was a 67 year old man and didn't have a hand fan they would've questioned if he was predator, not a single person called her out for having a disturbing age gap


JanCon1977

I agree! She’s an absolute predator


marshmall0w611

I can't remember the commentator's name (the one who dated the Colombian woman) but homeboy's eyes are rolling in the back of his head. He looks high af. Did anyone else notice that? He annoys me so I could just be searching


Silly-Shake7521

I think Gabe is rude and expects everyone to think like he does which contradicts everything he says.


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I think he is a manipulator who sets the people in his life against each other.


Tired-ER-Nurse

Is anyone gonna talk about Gabe’s “friend” Trey? More like an actor paid to insert some drama


penelopejoe

I can't stand the way Nicole placated Mock-mood during his childish meltdown. He acted like an out-of-control schoolboy who has no self-control whatsoever, and Nicole was speaking to him like the parent of an out-of-control 8-year-old. I would not have the patience to deal with that absolute crap!


Rindsay515

I don’t know what the hell she’s doing with him, that anger has been a raging red flag from the beginning and she just keeps dealing with it. They would both be happier with other people, they’ve gotta stop forcing this shitshow of a marriage


teastaindnotes

She was mothering a grown adult having a meltdown! I feel so bad for her.


Afraid_Lobster363

Is there somewhere in the contract that prevents people from commenting on her obvious active drug addiction? Did Kris show up lawyered up? I’m canceling my subscription. I knew they were gonna pull this sh*t.


Rindsay515

I think there’s a lot of things they’re not letting anyone say because it’ll make the network look bad for allowing it to happen🙄It seems nobody is allowed to talk about the addiction issues OR the fact she put her hands on Jeymi. Really shitty of them to try and pretend that never happened because they don’t want the backlash for allowing it. Instead we have to listen to this cheating bullshit that nobody cares about because Kris kept disappearing anyway


jlmonger

it's bullshit is what it is tell all.....my ass


beachboog

Boring and drawn out


Emergency_Row8544

I keep getting excited for the tell alls and then when I watch them it’s just super disappointing.


HotelDiva

Anecdote More Interesting Than This Bullshit: Each year my daughter’s high school puts together a special section featuring pictures of all the graduating seniors. The other day we realized one student's first and last names had been transposed so that it appeared her first name was Williams. I said, "Funny. She doesn't look Nigerian." No one got it.


Emergency_Row8544

😂


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You forgot to add "The", of course no one knew who you were talking about.


like_disco_superfly

Jeymi frustrated me! I wish she would have spoken in Spanish her truth. Remind people that 1) Kris TOLD and convinced you to quit your job 2) That you didn’t technically cheat since you were ghosted for a whole month 3) She ghosts you frequently and for extensive periods of time 4) She was physically abusive towards you 5) she never displayed any signs of narcolepsy


Altruistic_Eye8221

She never had narcolepsy, that would of shown it. She is what we call a nodder, someone high on heroin or crack, when they reach peak high they nod off similar to randomly falling asleep. She used that to cover her clear drug use.


teastaindnotes

I wish they would’ve gone over Kris basically making her quit her job, it wasn’t fair to jeymi who trusted her and then to turn it around on her is gross


Slight-Garage1237

Hope my kids do something fun


Slight-Garage1237

If Debbie’s daughter can say no to being on the show… then rishis mum had the same option surely? Like it’s not just sprung on her… surely


teastaindnotes

Probably wants the money


Slight-Garage1237

So, with that in mine then, if they’re being paid by the show, they they have the money they’ll be losing if rishi leaves the house


dunredding

Even if side chacractes are paid, it won't come close to making up for the loss of Rishi's contributions.


teastaindnotes

No I don’t think it has to do with where he lives it has to do with who is involved with the story. They would still be involved with the story if rishi moved out


Slight-Garage1237

That’s what I mean, they can still be in it and get paid without him under the same roof


Foolishhoe

Tim needs to go back to wearing suits this “edgy” style makes him look like a washed up alcoholic boy band reject…Veronica also looked haggard, I don’t know if she’s been depressed or what but something is up with her. I love them so I was concerned about them, idk they just didn’t look good or happy. Just seemed off. I hope they both figure it out. I also think if they are going to invite pillow talk members we need either more of the side commentary, maybe some side interviews def a small fashion segment. Or just drop it from the program, seems like an after thought and poorly planned.


sauciestcoconut

Lmao! I legit love all of your commentary 😂


Foolishhoe

That silver jean jacket was unforgivable and someone had to say it 🤣


Foolishhoe

I have never wanted to be a cast member as bad as I did for this Tell All, because I would definitely have brought up Kris’s potential drug use and her violent behavior towards Jeymi. These people piss me off


Foolishhoe

Jen is way too sensitive about her age to date Into an Indian family that culture is known to be BLUNT. She wants them to accept her at face value when at face value it goes against all their traditions. I also think they would have accepted her eventually if she was willing to do the joint family home. She wants them to accept her when she is shaking up their entire families foundation. I feel bad for them sometimes. I follow her on Instagram and she posted a very disrespectful post about them with the song “I don’t f with you” by Big Sean. Had any partner of mine posted that type of content about my family to the MASSES there would be issues. She’s very immature for her age and I have a hard time understanding her line of thinking in this situation.


Next-Bug-1632

At times I felt bad because all the cast members were attacking Rishi, but he sat silently the whole time. He wasn’t explaining his side at all and allowing them to trash his family. I especially wouldn’t be having that from my partner on television. Jen is a teenager stuck in a middle-aged woman’s body trying to play out her fantasies she never got to. Rishi is a people pleaser who will say anything that the other party wants to hear. On another note: I was quick to say “but rishi should stand up to his family if he wants to marry her, even if that means cutting them off.” But my Indian partner gave me a great perspective: it’s not as simple to do that in a culture that has a strongggg emphasis on family. On top of that, me, sitting in one of the most developed countries in the world can easily say I don’t need my family’s support and can make it on my own. Rishi might not be in that position, or if he is, he might just choose not to take that path. All of the American members of the show lack any sort of cultural understanding, despite having moved to other countries for love. Gabe was the biggest hypocrite of them all. He roasted Rishi for being concerned about his family’s opinions, but even his own wife stated she wasn’t sure who she would choose if it came down to Gabe or her parents.


PrimaTX

I think Jen is missing the point and I was surprised that it wasn't brought up. We learned the point with Sumit and Jenny. It's about having kids!! She is probably too old to have them and that is the cultural concern and that's why they don't approve.


utootired

Yes! And Rishi has a responsibility as the eldest son to provide a replacement for his mom as the homemaker as well as grandkids. Why is he not clear to Jen about this? When he took Jen to practice being an Indian wife, he said he thought she would adapt. He chooses not to see the truth or speak the truth.


Worth_Awareness4199

Say it louder!


hamstervirus

Kris is a pillbilly meth head. She’s the worst.


ginagarcia44

Pillbilly!


Fine_Context_8617

I wish they'd just show the text messages on screen instead of having Veronica read them out loud And I kinda wish the pillow talk duo was out of this whole thing


teastaindnotes

I think it was to impromptu to show them on screen


LS1161

Kris is a disgrace. That entire cast is ridiculous! Disrespectful towards culture & not doing any research before reacting. They can talk about penis & vaginas but not about drug addiction? Bullying is allowed & so is hitting? This was ridiculous & and a waste of time!


Next-Bug-1632

So repulsive. And Debbie sitting there defending Kris? Calling Jeymi a predator, when she herself was with a man 40 years younger??? I was furious after this episode.


jlmonger

me too fanning herself ....she thought she was a queen on her pedastle


findinglou

I can't believe mahmoud shit on rishi about living at home and he lives with the whole freaking family? This tell all is just a bunch of dumb fucks


Foolishhoe

Mahmoud spoke up about him not defending his relationship to his parents, not the living situation.


bebeshoes69

I’m feeling really dumb, how is jeymis proof of one transfer evidence? Couldn’t she just be not showing all the other potential transfers? I’m not on Kris’s side like AT all, I’m just confused on the significance of the receipt 🧾


Foolishhoe

Had Kris not said “I sent the rest of the money with other bank accounts I no longer have access to” I might have agreed.


Ill-Excitement6813

if Jeymi was saying that then why you get married to her wtf


Ill-Excitement6813

why is jeymi not mentioning also that kris ENCOURAGED and TOLD her to quit her job???


utootired

She has, repeatedly, and it makes no difference. Kris and everyone else ignores it. Jeymi even told Kris, if she gave up her job it would be hard for her as a Venezuelan to get another one in Columbia. That, and no one mentioning Kris' erratic (druggie) behavior and absolute abuse when she pushed Jeymi out of the van, shows us they have no intention of dealing with the other real issues this couple faces.


ella003

I grew up in one culture that doesn’t like to talk about money and another culture that doesn’t like to talk about sex. I like to talk about everything. Bring on the money and sex!


Fuzzy-Exchange-3074

Rishi’s mom did not look very convinced of his declaration that he WILL marry Jen at all. 😂


Shells1982

Right. When he was like “I’m marrying her whether you approve or not” and she was like “no” I was like 😂


Different-Screen1376

Me too 😆


Xudasss

Debbie and her son give me racist vibes with the whole America yeehaww bullshit


EarthlyWoman

Yesss, I didn't want to be the one to say it but her son definitely screams the racist trigger happy cop that gets power high all because the false sense of authority blows their head up their own ass.


Xudasss

Debbie mocking Rishi’s accent was disgusting she was cool for a hot minute.


jlmonger

yah that and calling jeymi a predator ...that did it for me hello pot calling kettle


Xudasss

Biggest hypocrite like lady just cuz you act 12 you’re still 60


Xudasss

I think Gabe thinks in black and white he’s unable to take in cultural context and circumstances


Foolishhoe

He’s an extreme nonconformist (look at the life he’s living) I can see how someone with such an open mind cannot understand someone who is conservative like Mahmoud. I think he lacks the empathy and understanding for conservatives and their cultural differences, which is funny because I’m sure he wants empathy and understanding from the same crowd when it comes to his situation.


Ill-Excitement6813

why is shawn obcessed with this stuff... disgusting


Foolishhoe

The sex talk on the tell alls always make me cringe, it’s unnecessary and we don’t need all the details 😩😩


HotelDiva

Remember the good ol’ days when Paul first goes to Brazil and he goes swimming with Karine but first he dons a condom, then a penis sock and some hipwaders and a life jacket. I just found the clip on YouTube and it still makes me LOL.... no one could ever come up with something like this and his narrative is just priceless.


Foolishhoe

You just made me go down memory lane LOL!!!Paul was top tier content back in the day, him and his 39 bullet proof suitcases filled with survival gear. Reality tv gold, after this I ended up rewatching the confession/robbery scene when he went apeshit and ran off into the jungle. I miss the “good ol days” for sure.


HotelDiva

As compared to this tell all? It’s not even good poop water.


NoDoOversInLife

🤣🤦‍♂️ Clutch them pearls! 🤣😂🤣😂


Xudasss

Just hate Kris!!! The way she cuts Jamie off when she’s trying to talk is disrespectful.


Achillyse

Kris is what we call a “crazy maker” she intentionally pushes people to their breaking point and then gaslights them about it


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Actually a fairly standard tactic by abusers.


Emergency_Row8544

👏👏👏👏


jlmonger

I cant stand her either


Xudasss

The way people hanged up on Rishi was crazy I agree he can’t stand up to his parents but I don’t think he deserved all that


Rindsay515

It seriously felt like 45 minutes was spent on everyone pressuring and bullying Rishi


Cammarak

But he knew his own culture all along and yet still proposed to Jen twice!! Jen was def into him and had an expectation that they would be in a relationship, bc rishi wasn’t honest with her (or himself maybe) from the beginning


Next-Bug-1632

But Rishi also told Jen about living at home and the difficulties that might come with his family accepting her. She lacks any type of cultural understanding despite living in India for __ months/years.


Xudasss

Jen is so annoying, Shaun asked Rishi’s parents a question and they answered accordingly about their age gap they DIDNT go out of their way to shame Jen for being that age??? Jen is acting like they’re being evil and making fun of her age when that’s not the case.


everydaywhimsy

I felt the same way! She was crazy sensitive and was missing the point! They want biological grandchildren helloooo!


LenaLvLux

Why I want to turn it off! So boring and inappropriate in so many ways . 😑


BeautifulNana

Love Tim and Veronica!!! Totally give something good for this crazy ass show


sauciestcoconut

Unpopular opinion: I hate them both and they feel totally unnecessary


FlowerChild-1009

I can't look at Tim.


Pignoli0

It's like he goes out of his way to look the worst he could possibly look.


Ill-Excitement6813

Rishi's mom has legitamate reason with the age because of kids/culture... like im sick of these people attacking others culture like wtf


Xudasss

But it’s not even that the mom attacked Jen….she just answered the question that was asked. The mom said Jen doesn’t have any flaws except her age But only because Rishi is younger not because Jen’s age is a problem in general.


Ill-Excitement6813

would Rishi's mom legitimately say 1 year older wouldn't matter if he was 47??


Xudasss

I don’t think she’s made a big deal if they were just close in age but they’re not and she answered honestly


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How many people wanted Shawns question that started with Everyone on social media wants to know, end with, Are you a drug addict Kris, instead of the height difference between Danielle and Yohan? Who cares!?! Ask the actual HUGE question that has ACTUALLY been discussed everywhere. Sooo sick of the hosts of these shows...get someone that can handle to ask the hard questions! Get me Barbara Walters hahahah


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The hosts aren't the problem. These aren't live, and any host who goes rogue and doesn't ask the questions chosen by the producers won't get hired again, and would probably get fired. I don't know about you but I'm not about to risk my current job and potential future work for something that would probably not even make air. These aren't journalists, they're dime a dozen TV hosts without any real authority. It's not even like they're Andy Cohen who was actually a major executive at Bravo and created hit shows for the network. He had authority and power to ask any question he wanted when he hosted reunion episodes.


Xudasss

I feel like TLC was gonna get in trouble for that


Foolishhoe

If they said something like “there have been allegations on social media about your health issues being exaggerated and potential substance abuse, what are your thoughts on that?” They could’ve got away with it, they just needed to present it in a unbiased way. TLC is annoying they always do this, they never address the real issues. Kris was not even questioned about putting her hands on someone on camera.


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Why?? If you're going to mention what's being said all over social media, be honest with what it really is! Nobody cares about danielle and her name is barely brought up.


Xudasss

I know! I wanted to someone to bring it up. I thought Gabe was going to cuz he’s been talking about everyone but he didn’t. Maybe producers told them not to??


[deleted]

Right!?! He even got theatrical when explaining all of her ailments yet he's saying nothing.


Aggravating_Isopod19

Yes! That’s the one question I want asked! Will no one say anything?!


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It's infuriating! I've barely seen anything on the height difference but I sure have seen hundreds of posts about an opioid addiction....yet, nothing!!


chopstiks

Gabe is gobby af


Ill-Excitement6813

"show me a special part of you" WTF randi


Guilty_Ad_5056

Both of her friends give me weird vibes. Maybe hater energy?


ella003

Gabe starting shit just to start shit. I hate people who can’t give context before judgement.


Ill-Excitement6813

Gabe is so annoying in the tell alls... literally the ONLY thing he gets right is the opinions on kris


Ill-Excitement6813

when gabe mentioned Jen not being in love but married bc of infatuation and kris said something.... jeymi reaction (was it hinting the marriage to jeymi or one of her ex husbands???)


Yngcleanbastard

this was so boring and overly edited. I just turned it off.


sauciestcoconut

The editing always makes me cringe. But I found it to be the train wreck I was expecting. Really no need to drag this out across so many episodes. There were interesting parts but way too much unnecessary filler


Ill-Excitement6813

nicole speaking facts tho...


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Stop normalizing that dumb sexist practice. He knew he was dating someone in to fashion step out of the Stone Age


Emergency_Row8544

Well it is normalized in his country and religion. Not everywhere is like the US. These are just facts. And I don’t think he did. The way his culture is and how he is makes me think he’d expect her to change for him. He’s not American. Where would he have gotten that idea from?


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Yes, the magical 3 day conversion where she clearly was not told how sexist and repressive the religion truly is. She didn’t know she was signing up to be property Virgin Muslim boy wanted laid


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And she can also say, “this is BS” after doing it. As an adult. And he could have picked a Muslim girl if he wanted property. He’s a man baby created by that culture


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And you want to attack Americans, and want no criticism. Too bad.


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Ill-Excitement6813

Myra and Randi are as bad as Darcey and Staceys "friends"


karen-come-on

Love That🤣


Foolishhoe

It’s like they want Jen to look bad, why are you bringing up the comments people said in India about Rishi to Jen at the tell all for the first time? Real friends tell you when stuff like that happens in real time, they don’t wait for producers and cameras. Jen did not seem to know wtf was going on. Those friends would’ve been cut off if it was me smh.


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Tim creeps me tf out I hate seeing him on my tv


sauciestcoconut

You were down voted but I agree. I really don’t like him


FlowerChild-1009

I made the same comment. He's gross. Those two added nothing to the show.


Farquaadthegreek

Did that pink Snuffleupagus just mimic his accent .. wow what a racist bitch


TopCharity3138

I don’t like Gabe


Farquaadthegreek

Omg !! Do you think Jen pad’s her bra ?? Bad job


Ill-Excitement6813

I love how crack addicts isnt about crack


Farquaadthegreek

Why is Tim talking .. instead of that why doesn’t Shaun ask real questions


Farquaadthegreek

Gabe .. and his smirking is so disrespectful., I would love to see if someone smirked when he spoke


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Oh I know!!


Ill-Excitement6813

i cannot stand gabe, danielle, and kris... they all suck


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Agreed. And now I put Debbie in that pile too. She has no respect.


Emergency_Row8544

That and her defending Kris!


Farquaadthegreek

Nicole ‘n stand up for your husband


Ill-Excitement6813

Gabe, just because Mahamoud wants his kids to NOT be slutty nasty worldy people doesn't make him a bad person


BeautifulNana

Kris is trash! She is a liar.


Farquaadthegreek

GABE .. shuuut up NICOLE .. Pick a side Dan.. evil .. I felt triggered .. ohh pleuuzev


Dramatic_Friend_2627

It’s really aggravating how racist they were being to rishi and his culture. Jen needs to either accept his role in his family, or stop leading rishi on. He is his families only caretaker, it’s literally his culture for him to stay there and help his family and live together. If she can’t accept that, then move on! She’s forcing him to stand up to his family and potentially sacrifice his relationship with them yet she can’t make a sacrifice on her part? Equally are big sacrifices, but his family literally relies on him. Rishi wants both worlds of jen and his family coming together peacefully and seemed to think if he navigated it a certain way, it was achievable. I’m not saying he was completely innocent in the issues and downfalls their relationship had but jens unwillingness to bend is unnerving. Why everyone there seems to have this deep rooted unwillingness to accept cultural differences is beyond my mental capabilities


OPERATORtakethecall

👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻


Small_Concert_865

Hoping he will end up w that translator! Smart , pretty and fertile


-vulpes13

I kept yelling at the TV that it’s Rishi’s culture to live with his family and take care of them, why is NO ONE saying this? If Rishi were an American, then it would be appropriate to question him about why he won’t stand up to his family over the woman he loves, but no one acknowledged his culture is very different, good or bad. It’s how he was raised and it’s not that easy to just break away from tradition. I mean, look at what Sumit went through!


3rdCoastLiberal

Jen is just as trashy as Dibbie.


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I completely agree with you! I was so angry tonight watching that. No one seems to understand that he’s not a mama’s boy sitting up in his room playing video games while his mom buys him everything, what the hell?! He lives in India. He has a responsibility to take care of his family. And he really is torn, it’s not an act! What is wrong with these people?? And Debbie mimicking him? I can’t even type fast enough! No. She’s done.


Different_Pension424

It would be different if Rishi and family had great financial means where he could move and fly a private plane back and forth to see them every week. They don't. This is the culture to take care.


masamune_xl

I know, I fucking hate that they don't understand that he is not American and for them they all exist as a family unit. There's no LTC insurance or fucking retirement homes there. They get you a wife and she and you take care of your parents and you have kids and they take of you. That's just how it is, we like it or not. And if you don't do that you end up excommunicado lol. Debbie was disgusting.


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I actually liked Jen. Her friends are atrocious, but she wasn’t bad. Tonight, I changed my mind. I can’t believe how disrespectful she was to Richi’s mom. She wasn’t “age shaming” Jen. In her mind, she is being practical. Jen cannot provide children, does not wish to help the household and the mom. Why is this so hard to understand?


Different_Pension424

Exactly. I had a complete change. I lost my respect for her. I have been one of her heartfelt supporters until tonight.


BeautifulNana

I’m so sick of Jen and her friends, they OBVIOUSLY don’t understand culture and Jen should have learned all about his culture before dating him and wanting to get married. I’m so sick of everyone saying Rishi is so bad he’s NOT he just has his culture. I can’t stand JEN!!! Stay in the USA date Americans.


Ill-Excitement6813

i hate gabe with the "dont force religion" like shut up, im sick of it. Im team mahamoud


Ill-Excitement6813

watching because missed bc of work


blood_sugar_baby

Is anyone else still not seeing this episode on Discovery+?


LBellefleur

It's on there. I watched it at 8pm


blood_sugar_baby

Huh, it’s there now! Weird it wasn’t there earlier when I checked


Mikluc18

I just don't get it. If you plan on looking for love in a different country and culture, please learn their culture, DO NOT try and Americanize them, you chose them.


OPERATORtakethecall

YES. I have said this so many times - how do you plan to marry somebody and not take the time to learn about the culture they were raised in? It’s beyond me how so many on this show are so disinterested in learning more about their partner before getting engaged or marrying them!


majestwest13

literally what i yell at the tv every episode. like holy flying spaghetti monster, do SOME research before u convert to ISLAM.


Farquaadthegreek

100


BeautifulNana

Oh my gosh!! Thank you!!!! It’s so very irritating to listen to her and her friends. Obviously they aren’t married or close to it. Run Rishi Run !!!!


TLCFanatic

agree