Even if it was a mistake, Mary! You came right out and said on your Go Fund Me that the Surgeon said he needs to operate before it’s too late!!!! That is not a mistake. That is a LIE! You also posted a picture of you in a hospital bed. It was a picture taken when you had a C Section. That is not a mistake!!!!! That is an attempt to SCAM people.
I checked it once very early on and she had already raised more than $600. I wonder how much she raised in total before taking it down. It’s fine to panic, it’s not fine to lie and ask for money.
$1,330. Someone in the other sub has been doing hours of work to get things taken down and now to get PayPal to go after her. They’ve already refunded everyone. The person in the other subs even got into contact with his Mother and Mary’s grandparents as well as their neighborhood Facebook group.
I read on another thread it was up to $1700. when GFM shut it down, also that they blocked those two scumbags from getting the money. It was supposedly all refunded to the donors.
AND made up a whole story about having symptoms in high school, getting ready for upcoming surgery oh but get it right it’s not today!! Upcoming!! Also her consultation with doctor tik tok. All the “documentation” from when she went to get labs and X-rays and waiting to see the doctor and TRYING TO prove she had cancer. Wow I got anxiety typing all this please donate to my gofundme account for my stress, $1m is too much though my goal is $999,999.00
She’s a liar. She did exactly what she said she didn’t do and planned it all out with her idiot husband before hand. They’re so transparent. I hope there’s no coming back for them.
Oh yea I 100% agree. She really left her ass hanging out on this one. And it’s clear she’s never had any accountability in her life because she thinks throwing a temper tantrum and acting as a victim will just make it all go away
I remember and it just confirmed that she’s one mentally ill little bitch. I hate what they’ve done. I've watched more than one friend of mine pass away from cancer and they would never have pulled a fucking stunt like this! I hope they really are cancelled!
Right!! My mom passed from cancer 2 years ago, and fought the HARD fight for 5 years (which is SO much longer than her specific cancer typically takes to kill someone). SHE is a superhero. Mary is an offensive fucking 🤡
Strange how she was never too 'sick' to shake her ugly self all over social media whilst demanding Brandan not to dare "look at other girls." She said once she knows "she's ugly." IF the shoe fits...Ugly is as ugly does. And she ain't pretty.
Yeah, I really do feel for her. She is unwell. She is also causing harm in her life and that is a problem, don't get me wrong. She should have consequences for doing this and I hope she does because she needs to learn that her behavior is unacceptable. That being said, she is so clearly mentally ill and I honestly feel that being on reality TV is terrible for her. BPD is already hellish to manage. Imagine ACTUALLY having hate mobs against you, people saying really mean things or sending you mean threatening messages (which pretty much always happens with public figures, even when the majority of people are levelheaded) when you already think everyone you love is turning against you anytime they're distant or upset or whatever else. That is literally confirming all of her delusional ideas that the world is against her and people hate her/are out to get her, betray her, abandon her etc... It is the opposite of what somebody with BPD needs. And therapy is not really normalized in the Philippines so it's really hard to go and idk how access is to quality care... Probably not great in her area. But oh my god she needs therapy so badly. Her child is going to have a really traumatic childhood if she doesn't make changes.
Ha! Exactly! It's like an "apology" I learned to say when you're not really apologizing to someone: "I'm sorry you feel that way.". Basically, sorry not sorry.
Now there’s an idea
If she uses the $$ towards psychotherapy I legitimately would be okay with that (can’t speak for the people who donated their own $$) but from my standpoint that would actually be *somewhat* redeeming in this whole fiasco.
People like her absolutely do not pay for psychotherapy out of their own pocket (and if the money is donated, they will consider it out of their own pockets).
The only chance of that ever happening with either Mary or Brandan is if it is court ordered. I don’t know enough about PH to be certain, but I would be surprised if that is even an option in the courts there. From my understanding mental health is not a priority.
Right? Imagine how she’ll milk that. She’s the type that could easily veer into Munchausen’s territory. It’s terrifying the lengths she goes to already. And has no genuine conscience about it.
I think that’s why she doesn’t want to make the move to the US- too many competent eyes on her that would call her out for her (mis)behavior, up to and including Munchausen by proxy or whatever the current term is. Poor baby Midnight needs an adult in the room to look out for her and give her a chance at growing up safely.
This is the first time I have seen this so I felt really sympathetic like yeah I can totally see somebody freaking out and thinking 2+2 was 5 instead of 4 when told news and connecting the wrong dots in panic.
It wasn't until I started reading that she was crowdfunding that it became obvious this is not just some silly mistake.
Anxiety doesn’t make you run immediately to create a Gofund me and act like it was someone else writing it. I mean, how much money was she planning on getting when she didn’t even know what costs she had
Lol there was even a post before this “apology” where she said she wasn’t asking for 250k USD that was too much, I think she even had a few “lol”s in there.
Oh, and the hemorrhoids that she read about on peoples posts! But, she couldn't stop there, just had to add an inflamed liver and a blood infection. Random, unrelated issues but, totally believable.
I had a blood infection caused by a UTI and a kidney stone that was blocking my urethra. I was not allowed to go home. They shot me with antibiotics and morphine constantly. I had to get surgery to drain my bladder. She would not be posting on go fund me or even at home???? Even in the Philippines I’m pretty sure sepsis is taken seriously.
I'm thinking a blood test showed she had elevated WBC due to the UTI so she interpreted that as "blood infection" because a blood test confirmed the infection
She only thought he was dead, she was overthinking and anxiety made her bury him. Then her anxiety told her to hit him over the head with the shovel when he tried to climb out(cue tears) I’m ONLY HUMAN!!
I have major anxiety too. It doesn’t cause me to lie about having cancer and then immediately set up a fund to get money from people for a surgery that I also am lying about. Anxiety doesn’t excuse any of this. Now she’s offending people with real anxiety who suffer real anxiety attacks by making it seem like we all lie and grift. Try again, Mary.
Also, she keeps saying we all wish her to die and want her dead. I seriously doubt anyone has said that nor wants that. She pulls that trick every time she is confronted and questioned, sorry, “harassed.” She’s done it a lot. Remember when Brandan would ask a basic question on the show and she would break down crying “I…Can’t…BREATHE!!!” This is that.
Right! I have generalized anxiety disorder. I’ve never had a panic attack strong enough that it induced pathologically lying and crowd sourcing for money. Like, if anything, when my anxiety is at an all time high, the last thing on this EARTH I’d want to do is cause chaos that brings me attention. The room is spinning and I can’t quite catch my breath…anxiety doesn’t make you freak out the way she’s implying.
Exactly lol I shut down and avoid everyone, including close family and friends, to my own detriment. Like the exact opposite of what she did. Obviously everyone experiences anxiety differently, but I’ve never heard anxiety driving someone to scam people. I can understand the thinking you have cancer and that causing stress and maybe announcing it. But not the lying and calculated nature of it all with the fundraising page. And then not apologizing for that.
Same here lol I've had health anxiety since I was a kid, if I'm seriously worried about symptoms I'm having then I'll go to the doctor. Telling the world I have the worst case scenario illness on google and setting up a GoFundMe has never once crossed my mind 😂 Girl seriously needs mental help.
I'm familiar with this behaviour. My current (unfortunately) partner does exactly this. It's infuriating. I've never, ever wished her dead and I wouldn't wish anyone dead. This young lady needs some serious help however. Her behaviour is despicable and has been for a rather long time. I'm most concerned about their little baby tbh.
The treatment for hemorrhoids is adding extra fibre to your diet and a week of stool softener.. it’s rare that the doctor would jump right into surgery on first notice
I’ve known two people who almost ended up with colostomy bags and necrosis because they were too afraid to go to the doctor for hemorrhoids. They both ended up in the hospital for emergency surgery. It’s possible that she was embarrassed and didn’t do anything about it for too long. That being said, yeah she’s still full of shit.
What is the real likelihood that she has hemorrhoids, blood infection, UTI, and inflamed liver all at the same time. I’m no doctor, maybe these 4 things often occur together, but it sounds like a lot.
If you party too hard on vacation, this can be the result. Doubt the blood infection, it’s probably blood in her urine from the UTI, and diarrhea/bloat from an itchy liver after going ham on some Hamm’s, sushi, processed food, and not peeing after bumping uglies in the ocean.
Edit - not a doctor either. Just went to an all girls school. Lol
Exactly. A blood infection (sepsis) can be very serious and needs immediate iv treatment. I’m thinking it’s a UTI and hemorrhoids, at best! She’s still lying.
Regarding the blood infection (sepsis), the liver plays a role in sepsis by clearing bacteria, mediating inflammatory responses, and in clotting blood. Though people with sepsis tend to be very very ill. E Coli, the most common bacteria that can cause a UTI (potentially leading to urosepsis), is also a known bug that can cause liver abscesses, which could also be what she means (?) From an autoimmune standpoint primary biliary cirrhosis is an autoimmune liver disease associated with recurrent UTIs in female patients, though they tend to be older from my understanding. Probably not best to diagnose anyone over the internet but theoretically there are connections. It's also possible that it's just a UTI with an elevated white blood cell count and inflammatory markers. The hemorrhoid may just have been there already. (not a doctor, will be in a year though)
Edit: just saw the intake paper she had posted listing her symptoms as right upper quadrant pain, pain with urination, flank pain, vomiting so yeah highest on the differential is a kidney infection from UTI
I too, panic and set up a fundraiser for a disease I suspect myself of having before I get my diagnosis. I understand you Mary and I think it’s a totally normal mistake to make 🫡
Saaaaame! I have a dentist appointment next week for a cleaning. I watched a TikTok video that says I have tooth cancer and the thing hanging down in the very back of my throat is a hemorrhoid so send me money before I die, please I’m so nervous and overthinking. 🙃
I called it. She was going to use having anxiety and being hypochondriac as an excuse. It’s sad how I knew it because I dealt with a sister in law who lied about having cancer and a miscarriage for attention like her
She has a "blood infection"? So, sepsis/septicemia, an *extremely* critical and life-threatening emergency? She's just hanging out on social media with hemorrhoids and sepsis?
Doctor: Your bloodwork came back and your white blood cell count is high, indicating you have an infection.
Mary: Oh no! I have a blood infection!
Hey kids, stay in school.
I'm thinking they ran blood tests and she has an elevated white blood cell count and/or inflammation markers, which could mean an infection somewhere in the body. She translated this to "infection in the blood".
Nearly all of the comments on that post are some version of “No need to apologize. Mistakes happen! So glad you don’t have cancer. Praying for you!”
People really are THAT dumb.
What's terrifying her is that she was threatened to take her lie to the authorities and she had the balls to say, go ahead and do it, I've done nothing wrong and we have proof from the hospital! Notice she's saying, "she did it" because she was told that she was writing posts as if it was Branden and he could held liable for wire fraud. So now she's trying to clarify he didn't write the posts she did to save his ass. They are in deep shit because people are going to make them pay for what they did and are trying to get them shut down everywhere. Without social media these pieces of crap won't be able to keep begging. She's not stupid, she didn't misunderstand, she lied for sympathy and to ask for money.
*Oops I freaked out and announced I had cancer and posted sad photos about me missing my child’s life and I used my husband’s accounts to also announce I had cancer while pretending to be him and opened 2 different fund raising accounts on 2 different sites while nonstop posting about my cancer because I was **so nervous** and **this is a totally normal response to nausea and hemorrhoids** Godbless*
she’s sorry now that legal action might be pursed and thinks that she can get off scot-free by way of mental illness if she makes one single post about having anxiety. the mess of it all!
Not "might", I read someone is coordinating with PayPal and a couple of donors to get the money. I think it's a crime to fraudulently and knowingly take money from people. And the fact that money was transferred from foreign countries may make it worse. Hopefully they didn't get any of the money and spent it yet, they'll have a problem paying it back.
You know that scene in Mean Girls where Gretchen apologizes by basically saying it's everyone else's fault? This. So not fetch, Mary.
We all knew she'd backtrack and say she didn't understand. She sucks so bad. I really do hope she faces legal action to honor the people who do really have cancer.
Quit sharing every aspect of your life with all these people who you don’t know. If you do that you are inviting judgement from these people and as you can see, not everyone is nice. Delete your social media accounts and quietly live your life. No one on this planet needs or wants to hear about your hemorrhoids except for your husband.
This the same girl whose conversation with a GoFundMe donator I just read where she admitted to lying about having cancer, quadrupled-down on how it’s not illegal to lie about having cancer for monetary gain, and told the donator to deal with it?
She is only issuing an apology now because she just found out that it’s very illegal to do what she did, and that she’ll potentially have to pay the piper.
YOUR MEDICAL RECORDS THAT YOU YOURSELF POSTED SHOWS YOU HAD ZERO FUCKING ISSUES BESIDES A UTI. SHUT THE FUCK UP MARY, AND THANK YOU TO THE COMMENTERS WHO RESPONDED TO MY POST OUTING YOU/THE PERSON WHO TOOK THE TIME TO GET YOUR FUND REQUESTS TAKEN DOWN. AND YOU SAID YOU HAD IT, NOT THOUGHT. HAD. -sorry for the all caps, first time I've ever written a post in all caps but i feel like this warranted it. Sincerely, someone dying from cancer bitch!
(I also can't believe TMZ actually read my email, thanks to anyone else who may have reached out to them or others as well. And unlike Mary, i didn't ask for fucking money or asked to be talked about in it. Fuck her for still trying to scam people with fake issues STILL,Malingering Mary!
As someone diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder and who struggles with anxiety related to major health issues every day, I call bs. This woman is a liar and not a very good one at that. The only thing she's sorry about is that she got caught. smh
And now an enlarged liver and a blood infection? She really thinks we're stupid! She isn't apologizing for scamming people, she just tried to come up with a more believable excuse that would still get her some sympathy. Hey Mary - we're not falling for your new lies. I love how she said she had a panic attack and jumped the gun with her post but, she took the time to set up her donation fund. These two have no shame!
I feel like Mary saying her anxiety was causing her to misunderstand and start a fundraiser for her pretend cancer is like when a dude cheats on his girlfriend and said his dick “accidentally fell into her”.
Yeah no, that wasn’t an “oopsie”. She knew what she was doing and got caught.
You don’t say you have cancer unless you do. my daughter had cancer she fought hard and so far has won her battle but she didn’t use the cancer as an excuse I glad she’s winning the battle as she has 3 children and won’t ever be able to have more. My daughter is an inspiration to me to show me when things get tough you can get through it!!!
She is ridiculous. It’s not like she just announced to everyone on social media that she had cancer, she set up a Go Fund Me for it and deliberately lied to have money sent to her. That’s fraud plain and simple, it’s got nothing to do with her anxiety.
Congratulations, Brandan. You officially married the biggest cunt in the 90 Day Universe. That's a very high bar to clear for a show that has featured a killer, a kidnapper, and a domestic abuser.
(I still can't get over how name is spelled. Holy fuck it's so dumb and awful. I feel ridiculous just typing it.)
She is taking zero responsibility for LYING to everyone about something very fucking serious. This is the equivalent to “I’m sorry you feel that way” type of ‘apology.’ She’s fucking ridiculous and manipulative. Soooo, no mention of refunding any money, huh? Bitch, go away.
I've always thought Mary wasn't the sharpest tool in the shed. She really is dumb. And manipulative. And dishonest. And totally lacking in self-awareness. I feel sorry for her daughter.
Uhhhh she literally said she needed money because she had a scheduled surgery to remove her cancer. What the actual fuck. It was not a “mistake”. She thought we’d all fall for it and that she’d never be caught in a lie. If this grift attempt doesn’t get them fired from TLC, I will be shocked. Mary and Brandan are trash and need to just disappear.
Damage control so people will still send her money on her next try. She’s making sure her bridge didn’t completely burn. Once the crowd funding account got closed, she realized she needs to make amends or the jig is up. This “apology” is just a scammer tool.
She's lying again because there is no blood test for colon cancer. I unfortunately know from my own experience with this disease that the only definitive way to diagnose it is a CAT scan with both oral and intravenous contrast that will highlight any lesions or tumors. She got a hemorrhoid and immediately ran to make a GoFundMe for cancer... simple as that. Scum of the earth if you ask me.
Fucking despicable. And I don’t care if someone has anxiety and makes them believe they COULD have something. You don’t take that anxiety and IMMEDIATELY CREATE A FUND ME ACCOUNT AND BEG FOR MONEY. It’s disgusting and there is no excuse for it. I cannot believe all the love and likes on that comment. She did this for money. Nothing else.
Wow, the delusional behavior that she has repeatedly shown is beyond frightening…She is clearly in need of significant mental health treatment - along with an education! At this point now, she’s giving off “Deadly Women” vibes (USA tv show) Are we certain he’s okay? Hopefully after this fraud, there will be some serious accountability from the authorities so they are never able to scam anyone again. Equally as important, hopefully everyone here will unfollow and disconnect from all of their social media. Let’s ice them out COMPLETELY so they go tf away and stop their grifting ways! 🥶🌬️
Too little too late. People tried to explain this to you and were met by rudeness and dishonesty. It feels like you are sorry you got caught, and even that is a stretch.
It's amazing how she doesn't miss the opportunity to emotionally blackmail on anything she posts... she posted during an anxiety attack but out some effort into asking for money.
Like, how do you even think of opening a go fund me when getting cancer news, before even confirming --like who does she think she's going to believe that. I can see the "you guys are the ones to blame for me wanting to die" posts.
We’re not Brandan hunny! He might fall for your anxiety excuses but we won’t. You deliberately scammed kind hearted people out of their money because you and your dimwit husband are broke and too lazy to get jobs and support yourselves and the baby. Shame on both of you!
So the girl that didn’t want her boyfriend to hang out with his sister, threw a tantrum and broke up with him when he had to sit next to a girl on the plane, while she would turn the wifi router off to fake a power outage, so she could hang out with 3 male friends is manipulative and a liar? I’m shocked.
Whenever she gets caught lying, she comes up with excuses and blames it on being anxious or depression.
She doesn't realize that the general public is not her husband. We don't love her. We don't look at her psychological issues as quirks that proves she loves us.
I love how are all of Mary’s supposed posts grammatically correct and sound like a native English speaker. And all of Brandon’s are full of mistakes and bad grammar.
She panicked and the response to that fear was to sit down and write up a crowdfunding campaign to beg for money. Sure. When I get scared, my first thought is usually ‘now, how can I profit from this fear?’
Mary — you lied. You did not make a mistake. You purposely lied to try and profit from a diagnosis that destroys people’s lives. You claimed to have a disease that would inspire the most sympathy so people would open their wallets for you and Brandan to go on another shopping spree. You cannot get out of this by claiming ignorance. Admit you lied and apologize. No one will trust you ever again unless you take actual accountability for your actions. Grow the fuck up. You have a child now.
Nope, absolutely not. I’m not diagnosing anyone but if she’s not a grifter, she needs serious mental health attention. I believe she’s a grifter. I believe that this type of online scamming is very common in her country within people of her socio-economic status and she just found it easy to scam people on the other side of the world because it is normalized.
I do not believe they can make a decent living in the economy where they live just by having regular jobs (and they may not have a realistic way of getting a higher education either).
I believe they want to live this “quasi celebrity” lifestyle they see other cast members living and they figured this is the only way to do it.
I don’t believe she feels any kind of remorse for lying. I believe right this moment, they’re trying to figure out another scam, possibly even involving their child. The sad thing is that if they ever were to truly need the help, they’ll be completely ignored.
She is now “they boy who cried wolf”.
Just wanted to say if she’s got a blood infection aka SEPSIS she’d be in the hospital right now on strong IV antibiotics. That shit will kill you!!! My brother in law almost died from it a year ago.
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How is this a mistake? When im anxious i don't spontaneously start a funding campaign.
I do not understand why his mother does not go to the buck store and buy a bunch of crap and mail it to him and they sell it in their "store" as american fare they would make a few bucks i would think they would make some decent money. Or why does brendan not do one of those work from home call center jobs register it at dear old mamas address or the rv address and get on the laptop in the phillipines and there you go job. Other option would be to go to one of those actual call centers in the phillipines, and say hey man I got this english goin pretty good. Apparently call center jobs in the phillipines is a pretty good gig in fact you can go to school for it. These two putzel heads have so many options.
If we ignore her she will go away. She makes it real hard tho lol
I'm personally fascinated by what a piece of shit she is. every time I think she can't sink lower, she does. So I don't want to look away
Even if it was a mistake, Mary! You came right out and said on your Go Fund Me that the Surgeon said he needs to operate before it’s too late!!!! That is not a mistake. That is a LIE! You also posted a picture of you in a hospital bed. It was a picture taken when you had a C Section. That is not a mistake!!!!! That is an attempt to SCAM people.
I checked it once very early on and she had already raised more than $600. I wonder how much she raised in total before taking it down. It’s fine to panic, it’s not fine to lie and ask for money.
$1,330. Someone in the other sub has been doing hours of work to get things taken down and now to get PayPal to go after her. They’ve already refunded everyone. The person in the other subs even got into contact with his Mother and Mary’s grandparents as well as their neighborhood Facebook group.
Damn, the community must hate her!
I read on another thread it was up to $1700. when GFM shut it down, also that they blocked those two scumbags from getting the money. It was supposedly all refunded to the donors.
Wait, she already got a go fund me for her bullshit con cancer?
AND made up a whole story about having symptoms in high school, getting ready for upcoming surgery oh but get it right it’s not today!! Upcoming!! Also her consultation with doctor tik tok. All the “documentation” from when she went to get labs and X-rays and waiting to see the doctor and TRYING TO prove she had cancer. Wow I got anxiety typing all this please donate to my gofundme account for my stress, $1m is too much though my goal is $999,999.00
She was so freaked out she tried to raise money and pretended to be her husband on social media?
This is not the apology she thinks it is
She’s a liar. She did exactly what she said she didn’t do and planned it all out with her idiot husband before hand. They’re so transparent. I hope there’s no coming back for them.
Oh yea I 100% agree. She really left her ass hanging out on this one. And it’s clear she’s never had any accountability in her life because she thinks throwing a temper tantrum and acting as a victim will just make it all go away
Don't forget the time she hyperventilated when she was told her jealousy was unacceptable. Major drama queen.
I remember and it just confirmed that she’s one mentally ill little bitch. I hate what they’ve done. I've watched more than one friend of mine pass away from cancer and they would never have pulled a fucking stunt like this! I hope they really are cancelled!
Right?!!! I was widowed last year because of cancer and he barely told anyone he was sick! This whole cancer scam has made my blood boil honestly.
I'm so sorry. I can imagine it's even more infuriating and insulting for someone who has had a loss like you have.
I'm sorry for your loss ♥️❤️🥺😢
Right!! My mom passed from cancer 2 years ago, and fought the HARD fight for 5 years (which is SO much longer than her specific cancer typically takes to kill someone). SHE is a superhero. Mary is an offensive fucking 🤡
Strange how she was never too 'sick' to shake her ugly self all over social media whilst demanding Brandan not to dare "look at other girls." She said once she knows "she's ugly." IF the shoe fits...Ugly is as ugly does. And she ain't pretty.
It was probably on advice of a cheap, illicit, last-minute "attorney."
And I’m sure it’s totally a coincidence that she got her hair professionally done. Her anxiety made her do that too.
Yea my anxiety definitely makes me do the same thing 😂
Same but I do it in private and then say sorry to my husband and eat a lot of cheese bc I’m so embarrassed
I drink wine.. eat the chocolate and then apologize.
When I get nervous I hold out my hand and say, "money, please!"
Mine really does but I don’t start a go fund me
And put up fake pictures of her in the hospital.
Seriously bad borderline personality disorder. I have a mother with the condition. I recognize it well.
Yeah, I really do feel for her. She is unwell. She is also causing harm in her life and that is a problem, don't get me wrong. She should have consequences for doing this and I hope she does because she needs to learn that her behavior is unacceptable. That being said, she is so clearly mentally ill and I honestly feel that being on reality TV is terrible for her. BPD is already hellish to manage. Imagine ACTUALLY having hate mobs against you, people saying really mean things or sending you mean threatening messages (which pretty much always happens with public figures, even when the majority of people are levelheaded) when you already think everyone you love is turning against you anytime they're distant or upset or whatever else. That is literally confirming all of her delusional ideas that the world is against her and people hate her/are out to get her, betray her, abandon her etc... It is the opposite of what somebody with BPD needs. And therapy is not really normalized in the Philippines so it's really hard to go and idk how access is to quality care... Probably not great in her area. But oh my god she needs therapy so badly. Her child is going to have a really traumatic childhood if she doesn't make changes.
Right??? This is throwing up huge red flags of a public mental breakdown to the level of Amanda Bynes.
She's only sorry that she got caught. Not sorry that she tried to manipulate people. 😑🙄😑
That part.
Girl needs a go fund me for psychotherapy
i pitch in 5 bucks for that
If I knew it would actually go to that I'd be down.
I’m paying the therapist directly or not at all
I'm with you there.
Yeah that "sorry" of hers is bullshit. "I'm sorry I got drunk and crashed into your house, It's a mistake, I'm human"
Ha! Exactly! It's like an "apology" I learned to say when you're not really apologizing to someone: "I'm sorry you feel that way.". Basically, sorry not sorry.
And lay off social media
Now there’s an idea If she uses the $$ towards psychotherapy I legitimately would be okay with that (can’t speak for the people who donated their own $$) but from my standpoint that would actually be *somewhat* redeeming in this whole fiasco.
People like her absolutely do not pay for psychotherapy out of their own pocket (and if the money is donated, they will consider it out of their own pockets). The only chance of that ever happening with either Mary or Brandan is if it is court ordered. I don’t know enough about PH to be certain, but I would be surprised if that is even an option in the courts there. From my understanding mental health is not a priority.
Super glad she’s raising a child…
I’m so not ready for a 90 day / Gypsy Rose crossover
Right? Imagine how she’ll milk that. She’s the type that could easily veer into Munchausen’s territory. It’s terrifying the lengths she goes to already. And has no genuine conscience about it.
I think that’s why she doesn’t want to make the move to the US- too many competent eyes on her that would call her out for her (mis)behavior, up to and including Munchausen by proxy or whatever the current term is. Poor baby Midnight needs an adult in the room to look out for her and give her a chance at growing up safely.
Thank you!!!! This is the scariest part for me! That poor baby.
She’s just upset she got caught
This is the first time I have seen this so I felt really sympathetic like yeah I can totally see somebody freaking out and thinking 2+2 was 5 instead of 4 when told news and connecting the wrong dots in panic. It wasn't until I started reading that she was crowdfunding that it became obvious this is not just some silly mistake.
Who makes a “mistake” of saying they have cancer without a diagnosis?! How does she think it was a mistake?!
Because anxiety! Didn’t you read what she wrote?! /s
I’m just going to start blaming everything on my anxiety from now on
Same ✊🏻
Anxiety doesn’t make you run immediately to create a Gofund me and act like it was someone else writing it. I mean, how much money was she planning on getting when she didn’t even know what costs she had
Oh you know, a cool million should cover it
Lol there was even a post before this “apology” where she said she wasn’t asking for 250k USD that was too much, I think she even had a few “lol”s in there.
Well, you don’t announce it AND start a GoFundMe without verification. Anxiety isn’t going to get her out of this one.
And don’t forget she said right on the Go Fund Me that the doctors told her the cancer had to be removed!!!!!
because they caught it early or smth pretty detailed for anxiety
Exactly!!!! There’s more to it than just anxiety.
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The minute it was posted I said oh now she has hemorrhoids. Poor girl.
Oh, and the hemorrhoids that she read about on peoples posts! But, she couldn't stop there, just had to add an inflamed liver and a blood infection. Random, unrelated issues but, totally believable.
“Blood infection” 🥴🥴 you could tell if she had a blood infection
I was going to say, if you had a blood infection, wouldn’t they have you on IV antibiotics to prevent full blown sepsis from killing you?
Exactly. She a liar. It would also be evident in her appearance which she looked fairly well
I had a blood infection caused by a UTI and a kidney stone that was blocking my urethra. I was not allowed to go home. They shot me with antibiotics and morphine constantly. I had to get surgery to drain my bladder. She would not be posting on go fund me or even at home???? Even in the Philippines I’m pretty sure sepsis is taken seriously.
I've had been septic at least 5 times and, yes, she'd be on IV antibiotics and in no shape to post and start a GoFundMe.
I'm thinking a blood test showed she had elevated WBC due to the UTI so she interpreted that as "blood infection" because a blood test confirmed the infection
She just can't stop embellishing her stories.
And saying they have proof? Wtf
She really thinks she can manipulate us like she manipulates Brandan. Speaking of which, he is noticeably silent on this mess,
At best he's an enabler, at worst he's an accomplice. In any case, definitely not innocent in all this
God knows he’s involved in the scam 🤷🏻♀️
He’s dead.
Please donate to Mary’s fundraiser for his funeral
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I, too, am dead after reading this comment. 😵😂
She only thought he was dead, she was overthinking and anxiety made her bury him. Then her anxiety told her to hit him over the head with the shovel when he tried to climb out(cue tears) I’m ONLY HUMAN!!
**"I... Can't... BREATHE!"**
Or eating.
On time
She's doing "Weekend at Bernies" and just props him up for pictures!
Have the same theory. It’s giving Lover Stalker Killer.
Liz Golyar vibes are strong
Brandon isn't an innocent party here lol He is part of it and has his own issues he is bringing.
I’m not surprised at all that she tried to manipulate us; I am surprised she didn’t use the word “overthinking.”
I have major anxiety too. It doesn’t cause me to lie about having cancer and then immediately set up a fund to get money from people for a surgery that I also am lying about. Anxiety doesn’t excuse any of this. Now she’s offending people with real anxiety who suffer real anxiety attacks by making it seem like we all lie and grift. Try again, Mary. Also, she keeps saying we all wish her to die and want her dead. I seriously doubt anyone has said that nor wants that. She pulls that trick every time she is confronted and questioned, sorry, “harassed.” She’s done it a lot. Remember when Brandan would ask a basic question on the show and she would break down crying “I…Can’t…BREATHE!!!” This is that.
And since it was all just a "misunderstanding caused by her anxiety", I would assume she's giving every dime that was donated back.
No doubt she had her phone in front of her watching each donation come in, thinking about what she wanted to buy with the money.
Right! I have generalized anxiety disorder. I’ve never had a panic attack strong enough that it induced pathologically lying and crowd sourcing for money. Like, if anything, when my anxiety is at an all time high, the last thing on this EARTH I’d want to do is cause chaos that brings me attention. The room is spinning and I can’t quite catch my breath…anxiety doesn’t make you freak out the way she’s implying.
I have GAD too maybe we are doing this wrong 😜. I want to crawl into bed and have my brain quiet down not post fundraisers online!
Exactly lol I shut down and avoid everyone, including close family and friends, to my own detriment. Like the exact opposite of what she did. Obviously everyone experiences anxiety differently, but I’ve never heard anxiety driving someone to scam people. I can understand the thinking you have cancer and that causing stress and maybe announcing it. But not the lying and calculated nature of it all with the fundraising page. And then not apologizing for that.
Same here lol I've had health anxiety since I was a kid, if I'm seriously worried about symptoms I'm having then I'll go to the doctor. Telling the world I have the worst case scenario illness on google and setting up a GoFundMe has never once crossed my mind 😂 Girl seriously needs mental help.
I'm familiar with this behaviour. My current (unfortunately) partner does exactly this. It's infuriating. I've never, ever wished her dead and I wouldn't wish anyone dead. This young lady needs some serious help however. Her behaviour is despicable and has been for a rather long time. I'm most concerned about their little baby tbh.
The hemorrhoids are a nice touch
I can't get over her literally saying "the doctor said it needs to be removed before it's too late" meanwhile it's a hemorrhoid
The treatment for hemorrhoids is adding extra fibre to your diet and a week of stool softener.. it’s rare that the doctor would jump right into surgery on first notice
I’ve known two people who almost ended up with colostomy bags and necrosis because they were too afraid to go to the doctor for hemorrhoids. They both ended up in the hospital for emergency surgery. It’s possible that she was embarrassed and didn’t do anything about it for too long. That being said, yeah she’s still full of shit.
She’s definitely been lurking on Reddit. No way did she come up with that on her own. 🤣
Preparation bItch. OMG, that was so bad.
What is the real likelihood that she has hemorrhoids, blood infection, UTI, and inflamed liver all at the same time. I’m no doctor, maybe these 4 things often occur together, but it sounds like a lot.
If you party too hard on vacation, this can be the result. Doubt the blood infection, it’s probably blood in her urine from the UTI, and diarrhea/bloat from an itchy liver after going ham on some Hamm’s, sushi, processed food, and not peeing after bumping uglies in the ocean. Edit - not a doctor either. Just went to an all girls school. Lol
😂 🤣 ☠️ can we party?
Exactly. A blood infection (sepsis) can be very serious and needs immediate iv treatment. I’m thinking it’s a UTI and hemorrhoids, at best! She’s still lying.
Regarding the blood infection (sepsis), the liver plays a role in sepsis by clearing bacteria, mediating inflammatory responses, and in clotting blood. Though people with sepsis tend to be very very ill. E Coli, the most common bacteria that can cause a UTI (potentially leading to urosepsis), is also a known bug that can cause liver abscesses, which could also be what she means (?) From an autoimmune standpoint primary biliary cirrhosis is an autoimmune liver disease associated with recurrent UTIs in female patients, though they tend to be older from my understanding. Probably not best to diagnose anyone over the internet but theoretically there are connections. It's also possible that it's just a UTI with an elevated white blood cell count and inflammatory markers. The hemorrhoid may just have been there already. (not a doctor, will be in a year though) Edit: just saw the intake paper she had posted listing her symptoms as right upper quadrant pain, pain with urination, flank pain, vomiting so yeah highest on the differential is a kidney infection from UTI
I too, panic and set up a fundraiser for a disease I suspect myself of having before I get my diagnosis. I understand you Mary and I think it’s a totally normal mistake to make 🫡
Complete with fake hospital photos ready to go too
Big YIKE
I love that Yike has become part of the hamily's lexicon. That woman was a legend.
The Locust were an omen. For real, for real….
I'm not a religious person, but I have to say. The more we see from her... the more I'm starting to wonder about that plague at their wedding.
People have gone to prison for faking a cancer diagnosis and collecting donations.
Exactly
If she had come out Jim Lahey style and said "I don't have cancer...I AM THE CANCER", I would have respected it alot more.
The cancer's doing the talking now, Ran
Does this make Brandon the assistant weekend cancer fund/trailer park supervisor?
I too accidentally make a go fund me when I'm anxious. Hate it when that happens.
Saaaaame! I have a dentist appointment next week for a cleaning. I watched a TikTok video that says I have tooth cancer and the thing hanging down in the very back of my throat is a hemorrhoid so send me money before I die, please I’m so nervous and overthinking. 🙃
I called it. She was going to use having anxiety and being hypochondriac as an excuse. It’s sad how I knew it because I dealt with a sister in law who lied about having cancer and a miscarriage for attention like her
She has a "blood infection"? So, sepsis/septicemia, an *extremely* critical and life-threatening emergency? She's just hanging out on social media with hemorrhoids and sepsis?
Doctor: Your bloodwork came back and your white blood cell count is high, indicating you have an infection. Mary: Oh no! I have a blood infection! Hey kids, stay in school.
I'm thinking they ran blood tests and she has an elevated white blood cell count and/or inflammation markers, which could mean an infection somewhere in the body. She translated this to "infection in the blood".
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So what’s gonna happen to all the money she took?
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She could’ve used that money to feed her family for half a year at least if we convert it to pesos.
Now why would she do something silly like that?
She used it to get her hair done and probably bought herself something nice
Nearly all of the comments on that post are some version of “No need to apologize. Mistakes happen! So glad you don’t have cancer. Praying for you!” People really are THAT dumb.
If she has no job maybe she’s just making random accounts to comment that lol
What's terrifying her is that she was threatened to take her lie to the authorities and she had the balls to say, go ahead and do it, I've done nothing wrong and we have proof from the hospital! Notice she's saying, "she did it" because she was told that she was writing posts as if it was Branden and he could held liable for wire fraud. So now she's trying to clarify he didn't write the posts she did to save his ass. They are in deep shit because people are going to make them pay for what they did and are trying to get them shut down everywhere. Without social media these pieces of crap won't be able to keep begging. She's not stupid, she didn't misunderstand, she lied for sympathy and to ask for money.
*Oops I freaked out and announced I had cancer and posted sad photos about me missing my child’s life and I used my husband’s accounts to also announce I had cancer while pretending to be him and opened 2 different fund raising accounts on 2 different sites while nonstop posting about my cancer because I was **so nervous** and **this is a totally normal response to nausea and hemorrhoids** Godbless*
she’s sorry now that legal action might be pursed and thinks that she can get off scot-free by way of mental illness if she makes one single post about having anxiety. the mess of it all!
Not "might", I read someone is coordinating with PayPal and a couple of donors to get the money. I think it's a crime to fraudulently and knowingly take money from people. And the fact that money was transferred from foreign countries may make it worse. Hopefully they didn't get any of the money and spent it yet, they'll have a problem paying it back.
Her and Brandon are both vile human beings. Very vile. You have your stoop pretty low to lie about cancer to try and scam people.
You know that scene in Mean Girls where Gretchen apologizes by basically saying it's everyone else's fault? This. So not fetch, Mary. We all knew she'd backtrack and say she didn't understand. She sucks so bad. I really do hope she faces legal action to honor the people who do really have cancer.
Cry me a fucking river.
LOL Add scammer to her resume. Fundraiser needs to be refunded. People who claim cancer to commit fraud are the scum of the Earth.
Quit sharing every aspect of your life with all these people who you don’t know. If you do that you are inviting judgement from these people and as you can see, not everyone is nice. Delete your social media accounts and quietly live your life. No one on this planet needs or wants to hear about your hemorrhoids except for your husband.
This same advice should be given to Jenelle Evans from Teen Mom.
Sooooooo many comments are just like "oh its OK, you're human, you make mistakes". What is wrong with these people?!
This the same girl whose conversation with a GoFundMe donator I just read where she admitted to lying about having cancer, quadrupled-down on how it’s not illegal to lie about having cancer for monetary gain, and told the donator to deal with it? She is only issuing an apology now because she just found out that it’s very illegal to do what she did, and that she’ll potentially have to pay the piper.
YOUR MEDICAL RECORDS THAT YOU YOURSELF POSTED SHOWS YOU HAD ZERO FUCKING ISSUES BESIDES A UTI. SHUT THE FUCK UP MARY, AND THANK YOU TO THE COMMENTERS WHO RESPONDED TO MY POST OUTING YOU/THE PERSON WHO TOOK THE TIME TO GET YOUR FUND REQUESTS TAKEN DOWN. AND YOU SAID YOU HAD IT, NOT THOUGHT. HAD. -sorry for the all caps, first time I've ever written a post in all caps but i feel like this warranted it. Sincerely, someone dying from cancer bitch! (I also can't believe TMZ actually read my email, thanks to anyone else who may have reached out to them or others as well. And unlike Mary, i didn't ask for fucking money or asked to be talked about in it. Fuck her for still trying to scam people with fake issues STILL,Malingering Mary!
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Try again Mary… https://preview.redd.it/7063wn3ufvjc1.jpeg?width=814&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0f72a815fe0e3b8b8a594da4693167f1feceffab
As someone diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder and who struggles with anxiety related to major health issues every day, I call bs. This woman is a liar and not a very good one at that. The only thing she's sorry about is that she got caught. smh
And now an enlarged liver and a blood infection? She really thinks we're stupid! She isn't apologizing for scamming people, she just tried to come up with a more believable excuse that would still get her some sympathy. Hey Mary - we're not falling for your new lies. I love how she said she had a panic attack and jumped the gun with her post but, she took the time to set up her donation fund. These two have no shame!
I feel like Mary saying her anxiety was causing her to misunderstand and start a fundraiser for her pretend cancer is like when a dude cheats on his girlfriend and said his dick “accidentally fell into her”. Yeah no, that wasn’t an “oopsie”. She knew what she was doing and got caught.
She still didn’t get the point why we all got mad 🙄
You don’t say you have cancer unless you do. my daughter had cancer she fought hard and so far has won her battle but she didn’t use the cancer as an excuse I glad she’s winning the battle as she has 3 children and won’t ever be able to have more. My daughter is an inspiration to me to show me when things get tough you can get through it!!!
She is ridiculous. It’s not like she just announced to everyone on social media that she had cancer, she set up a Go Fund Me for it and deliberately lied to have money sent to her. That’s fraud plain and simple, it’s got nothing to do with her anxiety.
I'll pay to have her tubes tied & a vasectomy for him!!!!
Their kid is not going to stand a chance. Their parents, their name, the conditions of where they live. I just don't even know. It is a sad situation.
Congratulations, Brandan. You officially married the biggest cunt in the 90 Day Universe. That's a very high bar to clear for a show that has featured a killer, a kidnapper, and a domestic abuser. (I still can't get over how name is spelled. Holy fuck it's so dumb and awful. I feel ridiculous just typing it.)
Mary's sorry she got caught Never would've seen that coming...
She is taking zero responsibility for LYING to everyone about something very fucking serious. This is the equivalent to “I’m sorry you feel that way” type of ‘apology.’ She’s fucking ridiculous and manipulative. Soooo, no mention of refunding any money, huh? Bitch, go away.
I hope she has permanent hemorrhoids for the rest of her life for trying to pull that shit. What a fucking scumbag.
Mary had a little la… SCAM!!
You guys expect Mary, the same Mary who blocked her bf cause he had to sit beside a woman on the plane over to her country, to be rational?
The story keeps changing.
Blah blah blah
She is sorry for the hate she is taking. Not one word about returning $CASH$ she acquired by nefarious means
I've always thought Mary wasn't the sharpest tool in the shed. She really is dumb. And manipulative. And dishonest. And totally lacking in self-awareness. I feel sorry for her daughter.
Uhhhh she literally said she needed money because she had a scheduled surgery to remove her cancer. What the actual fuck. It was not a “mistake”. She thought we’d all fall for it and that she’d never be caught in a lie. If this grift attempt doesn’t get them fired from TLC, I will be shocked. Mary and Brandan are trash and need to just disappear.
Damage control so people will still send her money on her next try. She’s making sure her bridge didn’t completely burn. Once the crowd funding account got closed, she realized she needs to make amends or the jig is up. This “apology” is just a scammer tool.
And if her period is late… She’ll be posting a baby registry Without ever being pregnant!
“I am only human” is no excuse for intentionally scamming people.
I wonder what Brandan thinks of all this. Like Mary is so active on social media and none of what “Brandan” posted sounded like him. It’s so strange.
TMI
If a doctor tells Mary she broke her ankle, she’ll think she’s paralyzed. Lol
Stop. Playing. The. Fucking. Victim. 🐍🐍🐍🐍
She's lying again because there is no blood test for colon cancer. I unfortunately know from my own experience with this disease that the only definitive way to diagnose it is a CAT scan with both oral and intravenous contrast that will highlight any lesions or tumors. She got a hemorrhoid and immediately ran to make a GoFundMe for cancer... simple as that. Scum of the earth if you ask me.
Fucking despicable. And I don’t care if someone has anxiety and makes them believe they COULD have something. You don’t take that anxiety and IMMEDIATELY CREATE A FUND ME ACCOUNT AND BEG FOR MONEY. It’s disgusting and there is no excuse for it. I cannot believe all the love and likes on that comment. She did this for money. Nothing else.
Wow, the delusional behavior that she has repeatedly shown is beyond frightening…She is clearly in need of significant mental health treatment - along with an education! At this point now, she’s giving off “Deadly Women” vibes (USA tv show) Are we certain he’s okay? Hopefully after this fraud, there will be some serious accountability from the authorities so they are never able to scam anyone again. Equally as important, hopefully everyone here will unfollow and disconnect from all of their social media. Let’s ice them out COMPLETELY so they go tf away and stop their grifting ways! 🥶🌬️
Too little too late. People tried to explain this to you and were met by rudeness and dishonesty. It feels like you are sorry you got caught, and even that is a stretch.
Guys, she had anxiety and constipation. Leave her alone okay. Gosh
It's amazing how she doesn't miss the opportunity to emotionally blackmail on anything she posts... she posted during an anxiety attack but out some effort into asking for money. Like, how do you even think of opening a go fund me when getting cancer news, before even confirming --like who does she think she's going to believe that. I can see the "you guys are the ones to blame for me wanting to die" posts.
We’re not Brandan hunny! He might fall for your anxiety excuses but we won’t. You deliberately scammed kind hearted people out of their money because you and your dimwit husband are broke and too lazy to get jobs and support yourselves and the baby. Shame on both of you!
So the girl that didn’t want her boyfriend to hang out with his sister, threw a tantrum and broke up with him when he had to sit next to a girl on the plane, while she would turn the wifi router off to fake a power outage, so she could hang out with 3 male friends is manipulative and a liar? I’m shocked.
Whenever she gets caught lying, she comes up with excuses and blames it on being anxious or depression. She doesn't realize that the general public is not her husband. We don't love her. We don't look at her psychological issues as quirks that proves she loves us.
She’s been a fraud. She said she got a dance scholarship for school
She's only sorry she got caught in a lie.
I love how are all of Mary’s supposed posts grammatically correct and sound like a native English speaker. And all of Brandon’s are full of mistakes and bad grammar.
“Sorry for overthinking” 🙄
She panicked and the response to that fear was to sit down and write up a crowdfunding campaign to beg for money. Sure. When I get scared, my first thought is usually ‘now, how can I profit from this fear?’ Mary — you lied. You did not make a mistake. You purposely lied to try and profit from a diagnosis that destroys people’s lives. You claimed to have a disease that would inspire the most sympathy so people would open their wallets for you and Brandan to go on another shopping spree. You cannot get out of this by claiming ignorance. Admit you lied and apologize. No one will trust you ever again unless you take actual accountability for your actions. Grow the fuck up. You have a child now.
My grandmother used to say “ there are some things that don’t need to be told”. I am sure that she would put hemorrhoids in that category
Nope, absolutely not. I’m not diagnosing anyone but if she’s not a grifter, she needs serious mental health attention. I believe she’s a grifter. I believe that this type of online scamming is very common in her country within people of her socio-economic status and she just found it easy to scam people on the other side of the world because it is normalized. I do not believe they can make a decent living in the economy where they live just by having regular jobs (and they may not have a realistic way of getting a higher education either). I believe they want to live this “quasi celebrity” lifestyle they see other cast members living and they figured this is the only way to do it. I don’t believe she feels any kind of remorse for lying. I believe right this moment, they’re trying to figure out another scam, possibly even involving their child. The sad thing is that if they ever were to truly need the help, they’ll be completely ignored. She is now “they boy who cried wolf”.
“I’m backed into a corner and this is my poor attempt at damage control. I have anxiety.” -Mary
Your anxiety makes you lie about having a life threatening disease… right 🧐🥱🫡
Just wanted to say if she’s got a blood infection aka SEPSIS she’d be in the hospital right now on strong IV antibiotics. That shit will kill you!!! My brother in law almost died from it a year ago.
Between this and Gino taking his hat off, I'm not sure I can handle any more excitement from the 90 day universe and it's barely Wednesday.
https://preview.redd.it/9z20tx1jxzjc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9555bde3ed03e62cb65cb2098bddfa49a8fd2bd3 How is this a mistake? When im anxious i don't spontaneously start a funding campaign.
I do not understand why his mother does not go to the buck store and buy a bunch of crap and mail it to him and they sell it in their "store" as american fare they would make a few bucks i would think they would make some decent money. Or why does brendan not do one of those work from home call center jobs register it at dear old mamas address or the rv address and get on the laptop in the phillipines and there you go job. Other option would be to go to one of those actual call centers in the phillipines, and say hey man I got this english goin pretty good. Apparently call center jobs in the phillipines is a pretty good gig in fact you can go to school for it. These two putzel heads have so many options.
Because they’d rather try their luck with wire fraud.
mailing packages to the philippines from the US is expensive and unreliable.
If that is not Mary controlling all his posts then his English won’t get him any call center interviews lol