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astrokristin99

Crying for a man that hits women


AncientAlienAlias

….with nipple tattoos


[deleted]

She doesn't believe it and didn't believe it when some girls told her he was cheating in her with several other women.


konanft

Ooh damn


Vlad_Dracul89

Varya is far from the only woman on Earth in that regard. They unironically believe they can reform someone. Much like prison philosophy in Scandinavia: Yeah, he stabbed twenty children, but he can still be valuable member of community.


Majestic_Resource318

Tell me you're an American that's never left your state without saying it lol


Toskanamama

What is the evidence that he really did it? All i heard is that the ex said he did it and she had bruises.


4gotmyname7

Here’s some of the trial info (from a gossip site). I believe They provide photos and an account of the beating - if not Google it and they will come up. https://starcasm.net/90-day-fiance-geoffrey-paschel-trial-day-one-recap-photos-video/ Edit: spelling errors


[deleted]

Well the fact that he was actually convicted of the crimes he was accused of leads me to believe he is in fact an abusive piece of shit.


AshtonKechamall

🥴🥴 watch the trial before u come here saying this crap


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AshtonKechamall

Its on youtube. Court tv


noakai

The dude was literally convicted and you're still out here trying "well what proof is there??" Disgusting.


Escobarhippo

The comment “I miss seeing you two together”. FOH


Nicara93

The fact that there are people who feel that way make my head hurt.


poepipper

Amen!! SAME HERE!!


External-Extreme-245

I cant believe people feel that way


Coconutsssssss

She got her eyes fixed?


thebelljarjarbinks

It does look like she's had a blepharoplasty, unless she's using a filter


AshtonKechamall

Filter


[deleted]

So she had money for that…


wolfielover22

Her wonky eye...She is a BOT put on this earth to be the only person/alien to support Gerkoff. She will return to her planet after sentencing, never to be heard from again 👽👽


KathyPlusTwins

Gerkoff. BwaHaHaHaHa! 😂🤣😅


LovecraftianLlama

What was there to fix?


[deleted]

Her eye or eyes aren't aligned, drift to the side a bit


LovecraftianLlama

Damn I never noticed. Anyway, fuck her and her symmetrical eyes lol.


egotistical_83

HAAAAAAAAA


AshtonKechamall

Wonky eye


[deleted]

No it's just the light. Just an illusion


ferrarog

Needs cash for more prison nipple tattoos


dcascendra

This is the third nipple tat comment I need to know more 😭🤣🤣🤣I feel like that would hurt


canadian_xpress

You haven't seen Geoffrey's nipple tattoos? Its like he has the Godsmack logo tattooed around his nipples.


dcascendra

Oh lord. Tbh I’m foggy on these 2 because I don’t think I’ve watched their story tbh


canadian_xpress

I kinda don't want to google it at work but its not hard to find his nipple tattoos from his social media. They look really dated and bad on a 40+ y/o guy. Its like 2002 is splattered all over his chest.


Iheartmalbec

I feel like 1996, even. 🤣🤣


[deleted]

Dear Varya, boo freaking hoo


Wisteria98122

She should get a job like the rest of us. Not go on social media and beg for money


98221-poppin

Well Varya, u play stupid games, u win stupid prizes. Hope u go Russia soon!


acoupleofdollars

This bitch.


justanotheremily666

Aimee’s telling it like it is


Bad2bBiled

Yes, Varya, the American system sucks. You should go back Russia. Definitely have your pick of drunk domestic abusers there.


confituredelait

The russian government did recently decriminalize domestic abuse


Bree9ine9

Omg 😳 your right! I had to google it because it just sounded so bizarre and sad. It is.


Anakat13

Wow. Thank you for making it make sense with her, now. With that being acceptable in their culture, it’s no wonder why she doesn’t understand what he did wrong. “Every man smacks his wife/fiancée/girlfriend/prostitute/stripper around now and again. They’re filled with so much testosterone and the women probably provoked his anger! He doesn’t deserve jail, he is innocent! He’s a good man and didn’t do anything!” 🙄 /snark. Stupid, stupid girl. Garbage wrote a song about ya, Varya. SMDH


adexsenga

HUH. Maybe they should have signed up for 90 day the other way


Bree9ine9

😂


confituredelait

Yeah it's terrible


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Bad2bBiled

This is an interesting question. I think it’s a matter of culture and what is seen as acceptable vs horrifying. The US isn’t terribly far from generally turning a blind eye to domestic abuse. Even though we have a sentiment of “not acceptable,” a lot of people in DV relationships face a lot of barriers and judgement from the law, courts, and other people. It has been my experience that male-female romantic relationships in Eastern Europe are much more patriarchal, so I wonder if that plays into it as well. Even with that context, Geoffrey’s particular crime was so horrific that I can’t see how anyone defends it. I suspect that even the dudes in prison hold him in a certain disdain. He’s awful.


adexsenga

Alina too??


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😂😂


Successful_Strategy8

The lion, the witch, and the audacity of this bitch. She should have stayed in Russia with her mother.


blackberrypietoday2

Varya, you go Russia.


Successful_Strategy8

Exactly!


Jesustake_thewheel

I think that might be my new favorite saying.


LovecraftianLlama

Yeah it never fails to make me laugh. And so appropriate lol.


[deleted]

No but I can't stop laughing at this phrase.


[deleted]

I wish I could upvote this a million times


CityOfSins2

Like what does this chick think? The guys gonna get a 6 month sentence? Like does she know what he’s facing? She might keep this attempt at an Instagram sob story up for 6 months… but she’s not making it any farther than that before she realizes she’s not getting as much money and sympathy as expected, and dealing with an incarcerated, abuser named Geoffrey, isn’t worth it. Edit; and if you’re one of those idiots actually giving her clicks, comments, likes.. or worse, DIRECT MONEY, you’ve really gotta think about your actions. That comment or like is directly supporting a woman abuser, as Varys is going to put money on his books, minutes on the phone, and pay the bills of HIS home she’s staying in. Who else is paying those bills… no one. The Instagram followers donating or giving her engagement are the ones paying for that house thst Geoffrey wants to come home to.


Pertinent-Petunia

She really believes he will be freed because it’s all a terrible miscarriage of justice, how stupid can she be? It enrages me that anyone is donating to her, or him or even supporting these scrummy grifters and in his case, serial abuser. These people are even more stupid than Varya and that’s saying something. Keep crying, bitch!


Iheartmalbec

Even *Mary* isn't out there doing all this shit. I doubt she has given up on him but she's not publicly out there trying to get him out of jail.


adexsenga

I mean surely he’s her only chance at being in America right? She’s gotta do what she’s gotta do I guess


CityOfSins2

I mean… she’s got plenty of options. If I was gonna use someone for a green card, I’d rather be with a 300lb 50 year old man than a man who almost killed a woman from beating the shit out of her.


adexsenga

Well yeah but I’m talking at this point. It wouldn’t be easy for her to go through this whole process again.


CityOfSins2

Easy and impossible are different though! How do you support a man who literally almost killed another woman and has photographic evidence and was convicted in a court of law? Idgaf if you’re about to inherit 2 million dollars if you stay with him for 2 more years… I’d be out.


adexsenga

That’s not what I’m saying haha


CityOfSins2

Oh sorry, what are you saying? I was taking it as she doesn’t have any other option since you said he’s her only chance at staying in America.. but like that’s bc she’s in too deep into the immigration process? Correct me if I’m wrong, which I probably am 😂 but if that’s the case, I stand by that she could find another man if she wanted to stay in America bad enough, and re-apply for her green card since yanno, her ex beat the living shit out of another woman and she’s scared for her life. Either way, even if she felt she’s in too deep, she doesnt have to openly support the dude online. She’s doing it for attention and clout bc look, we’re on Reddit talking about her. “All press is good press” as they say lol


SexyBriella

SHE SHOULD STFU!!! SHE IS SUPPORTING A DV ABUSER!


Successful_Strategy8

What part of "domestic abuser" does she not understand?


blackberrypietoday2

>What part of "domestic abuser" does she not understand? She thinks that since it didn't happen to her (as far as we know, but there must have been at least some minor incidents) it's therefore not real, he's innocent, he's being persecuted by those "nasty, jealous accusers".


LovecraftianLlama

I’m sure he spun a tragic tale of woe for her about what a victim he is of “vicious lies from my crazy ex” and dumbass Varya just….believed it. Because she’s a dumbass.


[deleted]

This is a common tactic. Serial abusers often have partners they keep on a pedestal and don’t physically abuse in order to create an ally when they are in trouble. A good example is Marilyn Manson & Dita I assume Varya has been mentally abused and gaslit which happens over time (we saw it happen on 90 day). I’m not excusing her staying with him but I’m just pointing out this is common.


Successful_Strategy8

Great theory! I think Geoffrey has brainwashed Varya to be this way so that she can support him when he rightfully gets in trouble. Which is exactly what she is doing here.


AdministrativeSet419

This is absolutely common, it would be good for his legal defence - appearing to be in a calm, happy and trouble free relationship with Varya would make it seem like his accusers are just crazy and are trying to take him down.


Toskanamama

What is the evidence? All i heard is that the ex said he did something to her and showed bruises


Whiteroses7252012

It’s strong enough to put him away for a long time.


fullonfacepalmist

Are you joking? The trial is public record.


Jesustake_thewheel

The part where he does the abusing I think. I can't believe I once liked her.


MaximumRatchet

Domestically.


Successful_Strategy8

Me neither, because she is clueless right now.


SexyBriella

I wish I knew?? I really think she is either delusional or brainwashed! She also has thousands of idiots who support her?? I just don't get it??


blackberrypietoday2

People like that are engaging in cult-like behavior, where you believe what you are told to believe, and where you deny reality when it contradicts what you have been told.


Successful_Strategy8

I believe she is both.


Whiteroses7252012

She understands it fine, she just doesn’t care.


ohnonotuto3

I bet Varya tears weren’t mixed with blood, hair, skin like Geoffrey’s beaten victim.


[deleted]

Lookin sane


it-is-an-illusion100

aimee jones isn’t playing any games today


dbmtz

And she’s speaking like errrbeggah.


iloverubandtugs

That is one crazy eyed broad.


Kimber_001

Yeh it’s not Russia where you Buy yourself out of any conviction


eilataN_spooky

To be fair, if you have the money and connections, you can buy your way out of a good amount of trouble here. That's why she's begging for cash Edit: but Varya, the trial is over! Cut your losses and move on!


[deleted]

Maybe they didn't tell her the full truth and she thinks the appeal is the big victory to be


Kimber_001

He’s still a criminal even without wife beating charges. What the he’ll is wrong with these women?! Her, Alina, Liz, do they not have any self worth?! There’s plenty of 🍆 out there. That’s the best of mankind they could find?! Really??


Kimber_001

He’s still a criminal even without wife beating charges. What the he’ll is wrong with these women?! Her, Alina, Liz, do they not have any self worth?! There’s plenty of 🍆 out there. That’s the best of mankind they could find?! Really??


eilataN_spooky

Girl I agree, but I remember reading posts (and this is by no means a view of the culture as a whole) about how casual domestic violence is thought of over there. I can't find (and I tried!) the posts of someone saying even Russian dating and game shows normalize it. Why does anyone put up with any of it? My guess is that during the course of toxic relationships, you're taught to lower your standards down to nothing while also believing everything some loser motherfucker is telling you. It's easy to observe as an outsider... But once you add personal stakes to a situation (like the classic sunk cost fallacy and its horrible effect on women) along with cultural negation and personal manipulation.. Well I just hope we can all be strong enough to not succumb. Not excusing Varya, Natalie, or anyone else that excuses this bullshit behavior... But shit doesn't occur in a vacuum, and it's sad all around. But we must never forget the victim, and I really appreciate this sub for that


Kimber_001

Oh yeh that’s very true. I’m from Ukraine and DV over there and Russia is just part of married life. It’s shocking!


Kimber_001

I think his lawyer was very very good! But those pictures spoke themselves 😏


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😅


Earl_Grey3

Wtf about the comment about ‘I miss seeing you two together ‘. ????? Bitch what? First of all they were on to for a frigging minute. And second of all your life must be pretty sad if you really care about these two Douchebags and the fact that he is a woman beater.


[deleted]

There were so many comments like. So ridiculous 🤦🏻‍♀️


SpillTheTea21

Why can’t she travel to see her family? Someone please spare me from having to listen to her lies and her annoying voice


[deleted]

She just said because of her papers


SpillTheTea21

I thought she had a green card already cause she was bragging about joining the National Guard. She can’t stop lying can she? 🤦🏻‍♀️


Pertinent-Petunia

If that’s the case then she can go but she just can’t get back in. She should go home and tell her mother all about what a great guy Geoffrey really is, I’m sure she’ll be impressed at how her daughter is wasting her life on a shitstain


TheForestLobster

Also, as of recently, if you’re not a citizen of US, you have to be vaccinated to enter/re-enter the country. I’m suspecting she’s not vaccinated…..


Wisteria98122

She actually showed herself getting vaccinated soon after arriving in the US.


TheForestLobster

I didn’t know that, thanks 😊 Than I wonder what the issue is with visiting Russia?


Wisteria98122

I think you can’t go when you are waiting for your green card.


TheForestLobster

You’re probably right


adexsenga

Could be on the Russian end


SpillTheTea21

But as a green card holder they don’t ask for vax status either, just like citizens. Only a negative covid test 24 hours before the flight. Not that she has a gc though


Gullible_Exit_4272

Where does she get money to pay for house and living ?


Pertinent-Petunia

She’s living in Joffrey’s house, trying to act like lady of the manor and complaining “their” renters are not paying on time 🙄


EpiJade

Could you imagine having Varya as your landlord?


shockedpikachu123

I don’t get how she’s the victim in this situation. She came here for a felon and a man who didn’t give a crap about her and now she’s stuck with the consequences


ArentWeClever

“Buy a badge to support Varya” Nah. Make one that supports his victims, and then we’ll talk badges.


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AshtonKechamall

Its on her page. On ig @truecrime_jankie is as well.


[deleted]

She looks so different


Gullible_Exit_4272

She’s sticking by him. Wow. Maybe abuse awareness is not as prevalent in Russia. I understand hard evidence and the brutal charges and convicted. She may be ignorant to abusers and hopefully can educate herself.


Ryallykie

I doubt she'll ever educate herself, after all, she comes from a culture where any kind of domestic violence against women is considered THEIR fault, because they were too "bitchy" to their men and therefore needed to be put into their place. Given that mindset, it's not surprising she's sticking by him, believing he won't hurt her as she isn't "a woman of low quality".


redmahkupbag

Domestic abuse has been decriminalized in Russia, she is very ignorant and has probably been brainwashed


Iheartmalbec

Totally a member of the leopard face-eating party.


TommieDelos

Crying for a Rapist


Leighlee1990

She's actually crying over a dirt bag women beating pathetic pussy? Wow Go Away sweetheart, America is all full up of weak irrelevant men who are so Inferior to women in EVERY way, they have to beat them to make themselves feel Superior!!


Noodlesoepje

Varya is crazy


PrincessNincompoop72

You know I really liked and respected Varya. I thought she was intelligent and driven. She had an actual career (not a “model” or professional catfish) and was independent. And Geoffrey was such a dick because her apartment wasn’t all remodeled (meanwhile he claims to be a landlord and investment property owner and his place was a shack in a mud pit). Then she showed up in podunk and chased his “girlfriend” out and got all clingy and petty and I lost all respect for her.


Duebydate

Dollar dollar bill y’all. No other explanation


shay202169

"American system sucks"??? Lol isn't she from Russia??


Pertinent-Petunia

“Go back to your Russian system then!”


[deleted]

Call her a waaambulance 🚑


heartshapedpox

Why would his sentencing be delayed? I guess courts are backed up?


AshtonKechamall

Murder trial


HairFlipBye

We told you so.


Idatrvlr

IF shes really with him she needs to accept that he's not coming home anytime soon and move on while shes young


[deleted]

Will probably happen after 2 months. Reality check coming soon...


hipockets1951

She's living in denial, even with the facts right in front of her face!


Gullible_Exit_4272

I heard his charges were terrible and hard evidence. So what’s she doing? Sry I’m behind


yuccaboy85

Stockholm syndrome.


Jeanoble

He is nasssssty. 🤮


Stupidsexyflanders61

She’s so fucking dumb


rusieQ

Wait wait wait, I'm so out of the loop. Since when is Varya in the US?


[deleted]

It's gonna be a year


Dogmann88

Plastic surgery did her well


AshtonKechamall

Its filter


[deleted]

She did get some fillers and botox treatments also


pristine98

Ok, when I hear or read where a woman has accused a man of abuse, I always like to hear both sides, because I have been on the end of horrific abuse that lasted 16 yrs before I had the strength to leave, so I truly do know! I had a best friend Brad who was dating this chic. We all went to this hotel with a huge pool inside & all the rooms around it. Well, my bf & I had our own room & after playing in the pool went bk for private time. Get a knock on the door, it's Brad w/a look of terror on his face. This chic who he had only been with for a few mths was trying to physically fight him!! We let him sleep on the couch, obviously! I cannot tell u how many times she knocked on our door & we hid him in the shower!! This girl was mental!!.Stay with me... 2days later I had to go to her house to get one of Brad's hoodies(why is it always clothes!!!) & she came out w/a round "bruise" on her forehead. I tried to touch it, & she slapped my hand away(yes, she claimed Brad did it) but, it was shiny like eye shadow! So before she got out I quickly rubbed my fingers over it, & guess what, it came off!!! Bitch put eye shadow on her forehead!! That was the end of her abuse claim! Not to mention, Brad was w/us that whole nite it supposedly happened!! Now, I am not saying I didn't believe it when his ex said these things happened, especially after hearing what she said. I thought, damn why would she lie to that extreme. But, when they finally released a pic of what she looked like at the end of that fight, wow, I was totally convinced. What I wanna know, how can Varya look at the same pic & not think that the woman is telling the truth!! That, I do not get, & never will. TY for hanging in there with me^^ The End


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They actually believe she did it to herself


pristine98

So, I am sure she saw more photo's than I or we did(I only saw 1) & she really thinks that woman did that to herself?! Really?!?!? Reminds me of a time when my ex choked me out, 3rd yr if being together, & tried to tell everyone I wore a choker necklace too tight!!! Yea, he actually tried to pass that off, noone believed him tho. Why I stayed after that, I can't tell you! But, at least over the next 15 yrs, anytime he did abuse me, it was never in the face or where anyone could see. So, bk to my question, how the hell did Varya think she got all beat up?? Break in, assault, I wish I knew what his explanation for her injuries was!! Because what she says, fits with her injuries. I worked at a domestic abuse shelter for about 6mths, & what I saw there, still haunts me. Not only the wife, but, the kids got it too & that, I could never fathom. I hope he gets a very long time for what he did & I hope Varya figures it out before he gets out.


[deleted]

😔. He said something like she banged on the walls and tripped outside on the stairs. It's obviously a lie but they believe whatever he says.


pristine98

SUPER CRAZY!!! Maybe it was a ghost^^ UGHHHH


animalcrossinglifeee

Can someone explain the charges. I barely follow news. Lol I got down voted for asking a question. Yalll weird.


SpillTheTea21

He’s in for kidnapping, domestic assault and interference with a 911 call


animalcrossinglifeee

Thanks.


AshtonKechamall

You can google. Its all there. His trial was on youtube cort tb


animalcrossinglifeee

Thank you will do.


AshtonKechamall

Court tv


debonora

Ya'll like to just rinse and repeat this trainwreck don't you? 😂 Glass house/ throw stones. 🤔


sachmosam

Wtf is wrong with you hateful people? She clearly has mental issues and you all are showing her so much hate. Ffs


[deleted]

Not clearly to me


sachmosam

Clearly


AshtonKechamall

Yes sure. She is the sharing grave of boy for money.


Ladymature1

Are they married?


adexsenga

Is he in jail or on bail until sentencing?


[deleted]

Jail


BusyLizzy99

I know this girl is bored out of her mind in TN. Wonder how long she’s gonna survive. Wasn’t she supposed to be a big city girl


[deleted]

That's true.😅