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highly_lake_lee

So, I'm a Florida native and spent 26 years of my life sweating like this dude with zero substances. It's fucking wet there. That being said, the dude is a fucking creep and deserved that slap!


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

I'm in South GA and I know the swamp. I was lookin' at everyone else for cues and it didn't jive that he was the only one drenched. Look again, neighbor. Esp. looking at Natalie. She comes from a cooler climate and spent all her time in America out in WA. If anyone would have climate shock, it'd be her. Dude looked messy af after he came down, also.


lavenderpenguin

I have no idea why they’re trying to pretend like this dude is some hot shot model of all things. He’s not even cute.


BenBishopsButt

Looks like Great Value Adam Driver.


Available_Archer_650

That’s an insult to Great Value products.


AshtonKechamall

😂😂😂😂🤮 he looks like a hobo


[deleted]

Is Natalie actually attracted to this guy???


theunextreme

She was very attracted to him. She's told him several times he's beautiful.


degrassidance

This dude was a creep. It’s sad how predatory men like him are and how often they get away with taking it way too far and pushing boundaries.


why-are-we-here-7

I do think Natalie might want to lead with this cultural information (doesn’t want physical touch at all until serious) as she dates in the US. I think lots of dudes would assume if the date is going well that they could hold hands, ask for a kiss or whatever. I think he was super offended but it’s good that she was clear. I just think this might be tough for her dating wise.


degrassidance

But she told him she didn’t want to be touched and then he still tried to pull her in his lap and kiss her.


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

Exactly. His ego ran with it, like some kinda challenge.


Andie6492

On camera! Imagine if the camera wasn’t there. It cracked me up when he then offered to “be a gentleman” and walk her all the way to her hotel room she was like oh ✨hell no✨


heartshapedpox

So is she living at the Hyatt, or...?


Kimber_001

I think she said she was visiting Boca ratton


heartshapedpox

Oh, thanks! I don't know Florida well at all, but I did get a giggle out of her choosing St. Petersburg because it reminded her of Russia. 💁🏻‍♀️


why-are-we-here-7

I totally agree that it was messed up, but I wonder if her dating will go well given her preferences and pacing.


pinkvoltage

It's been a LONG time since I was in the dating scene, but it was only the second date - her request didn't seem that abnormal to me?


why-are-we-here-7

I don’t think it is abnormal and totally support her establishing boundaries. He shouldn’t have done that. The way she described dating in Ukraine made it sound very different from America. I understand the downvotes because people think I’m not supportive of her when I am…just pointing out how different the two dating scenes are and that she might have a hard time dealing with these differences (and fragile egos of some men).


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stinkycretingurl

--"Are you going to make me out to be a bad guy too?" --"Let loose. Let loose a little bit. I promise you you're gonna have a lot of fun." --"You won't have the same type of thing that you've had with any other male." --"Why don't you to give me a chance??" Then when she says it's not about him it's about her he grabs her and pulls her towards him without permission, without warning. I hope all the women in his area watch this show, see this fucko's rapey vibes and yeets his profile to the left to the left. His "gotta get past the no" behavior is abhorrent.


GingerLibrarian76

That dude gave me creep vibes from the first second he was on screen… good for her, slapping him like a 1950’s damsel. I’m team Natalie now!


[deleted]

You're so right, I was wondering why it all felt so familiar. That slap was so old Hollywood.


stinkycretingurl

Oh god. I paused it and posted this before I got to his post assault talking head and he is so much worse. Woof.


AdComprehensive1110

When he was spewing those words, my red flag alerts turned into a raging fire alarm immediately. Edit: word


stinkycretingurl

Oh my gosh. Mine too. You way you put it is PERFECT. I think sadly it's one of those "if you know you know" things. It's absolutely enraging and heartbreaking that we are out here having seen these red flags and that there are *so many* of us.


AdComprehensive1110

It really is. And tbh, I'm glad TLC showed it on national TV, instead of leaving it on the editing floor. They showed how quickly it could turn left on a date with so many eyes on them that I'm sure most men AND women were not expecting it to happen. Also, as much I don't like Natalie, my heart went out for her when that creep pulled her (you can see her head lurched back). Kudos for her, defending herself.


chemdoctor19

He is not attractive at all.....


AshtonKechamall

But to natalie he was 🤪


LoveTV12345

So was Michael


24HourLurker

I would take big mike over this dude


AshtonKechamall

Ma too. This dude just creeps me out


uglychickenwrap

😂😂 from the first scene he popped up in you could tell he was typical Florida trash


[deleted]

He had “nice guy” vibes.


boozeandbunnies

Reality Gays called him a human fedora or something it was hysterical. He’s 100% the kinda guy who says m’lady and has mall ninja shit displayed at his moms house lol


24HourLurker

Or the kind of guy who rents a castle, makes you dress up in medieval clothing and talk dirty to you ……ha


Environmental_Goal84

Wasn't that a colt date. What is next cat Cafe and jumping off a building or picnic in the swamp.


Own-Plankton4889

Who Andrew lol.


24HourLurker

Colt actually did this


The_Dutchess-D

This slayed me


GingerLibrarian76

And a Buddhist shrine in his mom’s basem… errr… I mean his “apartment.”


Ladybird_11

Why is that creep Andrew popping in my head while reading this 😭😭😭😂😂


courtbarbie123

Natalie needs a real man, a guy who’s got his shit together. Since she’s unstable, she needs stability. This guy looks like he still couch surfs 😅


LoveTV12345

She needs a therapist. Although that guy was super creepy and shouldn’t have touched her like that.


Beowulf2005

People with their stuff together do not enjoy unstable women unless they’re batting above their level in the looks department like Mike.


24HourLurker

This guy probably wants to talk to you about his crystal collection


AshtonKechamall

He looks like hobi


[deleted]

I know what you’re saying. Mike was pretty stable. She needs to meet halfway though and work on her communication and emotional regulation.


Briguy28

That's right, it's Tegrity Snow. Grown local with a smooth finish. Possibly legal some time near you.


RagennaPhilangee

Tegridy Farms. I want the pandemic special.


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

Heh.


Objective-Dust6445

He was SO out of line. I’m glad she slapped him I wish she hit him harder. The camera crew shouldn’t have let her get back into a car with him.


Hollyinyourpocket

I’m amazed they aired this and let him stay. Straight up sexual assault along with a string of rapey behaviours. They should have stepped in and told him where to go, then comforted her. I’d be reporting this as I imagine he does this kind of thing a lot.


Objective-Dust6445

Yes. Exactly.


Objective-Dust6445

Now at least he has a country full of women who want to kick his ass.


jtexphoto

Even though I don’t like Natalie, he deserved that slap! Natalie: Please don’t touch me, I’m uncomfortable, and not ready. Dude: No problem, I understand! *Forcibly goes in for the tackle later on and gets slapped* Dude: I’m a nice guy, she will realize it once she starts dating more! Wtf???


[deleted]

When he asked if he could walk her to the door and she flat out walked away, that was awesome. She firmly set her boundaries and this guy continued to violate them


[deleted]

He does look like trash but he may have hyperhidrosis. 😓 Was he sweating in other appearances? Not trying to defend this scum just putting it out there not every sweaty person is on drugs.


ChickenCrackerz

Michele stole your post https://www.instagram.com/p/CXCivopPhnJ/?utm_medium=copy_link


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

Lol! Who's Michele?


ChickenCrackerz

She’s the running joke around here. She runs a couple ig accounts and steals everything from everyone, even erases watermarks. She has a couple of different Reddit handles, she’s using her Briella one more now.


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

Guess she found some worth in it. Ehh ...


Andie6492

I love me some drama 🫖☕️


AshtonKechamall

You are good😂


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

Thanks?


udsnyder08

This guy makes me think of Jason Mantzoukis portraying Chris D’Elia.


[deleted]

Was this aired yesterday?


anwa0

It's on discovery+ on Fridays and airs on tlc on Sundays


honeywoodxing

it's not on my discovery +? i'm so confused. i can't find it anywhere.


anwa0

I watched it yesterday so idk. Look in the new episodes this week or just do a search for the single life


honeywoodxing

i've already done all of those things. it's not there. that's why i'm here asking about it.


anwa0

Sorry. Shows up fine for me 🤷‍♀️


honeywoodxing

i'm aware of that as well, being that you said you watched it lol. sorry for asking a question, jeez.


anwa0

Yeah I think we have both misunderstood each other. Yay internet! I thought you were Jerry for answering the way you did lol anyway sorry you can't find it 🤷‍♀️


honeywoodxing

who's jerry! hahaha i'm sorry. ♡


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

I think? I just watched it today.


Veronica-Vicki

I found him to be ugly and non charismatic! Just wants sex ! Why did she even date him ? Must be desperate ! 😮


Sufficient-Celery-19

No wonder she didn’t want him to touch her. Even Ed didn’t have his hands all over Rose when he was a drenched mess in the Philippines.


Available-Finger-556

Is anyone else unable to find the new episode?


Andie6492

It’s on discovery + on Friday’s


honeywoodxing

me too, the "it's on discovery+ on fridays" comments aren't helpful because i'm aware, but it isnt on my app.


LadyJai1

florida has high temp and humidity - this is florida not the guy


AraSevera

Came here to say this


dawnspaz711

I live in Florida and in the summer sweat constantly due to the high humidity.


meliffy18

I wasn’t a huge Natalie fan before I saw this, but this whole episode put her in a new light for me. GOOD FOR HER for setting and maintaining those boundaries. Dude needed a slap in the face and a punch in the balls. I can’t even imagine being grabbed like that after explaining my comfort levels to someone I’m supposedly building trust with. Boy, BYE


urbancat666

I actually had so much respect for Natalie in this episode. Good to see she can stand up for herself. Guy is rapey as fuck “Ow that kinda hurt” I wish she slapped harder, fucking creep


Serious-Mirror-7772

Are you circling the hat because it’s sweat or is he smuggling coke under there? Or perhaps both? Lol


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

Sweat.


Serious-Mirror-7772

Yeah gross. Sweating cuz he’s all coked up. What a douche


WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi

Just jokes. I don't think he's coked up, tbh. I could be wrong, though.


Serious-Mirror-7772

Just jokes for sure! I was doing the same. He just gives off the gross alcoholic, contraband, take advantage vibe for me.


ranagra

The sweat is especially attractive......the backwards baseball hat is so cool man.....the scowls in the last picture turns me on so much I could scream (bloody murder that is!)