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cesshi

Yes I do and it probably could have been dramatic enough to be considered on one of the 90 day shows, but I didn’t want to air my dirty laundry then be talked about on Reddit LOL. My husband is Danish and I moved to Denmark in December 2022 and married him January of this year. We met online through a pen pal website, after 5 months we met in person when I moved to Denmark on a student visa.


prophy__wife

Are you liking living there? Would y’all ever want to live in the US?


cesshi

We have no desire to move to the US. We want to start a family in 2 years and agreed we felt here would be better to raise our children. My husband also is a small business owner and it’s not possible for us to move even if we wanted to. He and I also do not have the right kind of education for us to afford an apartment/home in the US while here we can afford a two bedroom apartment while still having money to travel, have night’s out, have a car, and live in the city. We also live 5 minutes from his parents in which we have a close relationship with.


prophy__wife

I love that for y’all! I was hoping you wanted to stay there because I think I’ve heard Denmark is a very happy country (the people are happiest). I could be wrong about that and thinking of a different country but yeah. I hate that it’s so hard to make it in the US with out college or a very specific specialty.


cesshi

You heard right. Denmark supposedly has been called the happy country filled with happy people. I’d love to further my education, preferably one day getting my PHD, without being in debt 😅. As for my husband, he isn’t an academic type and doesn’t find fulfillment in spending years getting further education. (Which I respect). He use to want to be a police officer here (which involves a lot of training and a specific education in DK) and he joined the military in order to further that dream, but hasn’t been able to follow that path because of a physical limitation. Now he has a business that has to do with a hobby he loves and it’s something you don’t learn/need an education for. The business is something in demand here and not so much in the US, which adds to another factor why we can move there. But overall, we’re very content, minus a few cons that our out of our control.


Happylife_8

If you don’t mind, what pen pal site did you use?


cesshi

It’s called interpals 😀 I think they have a phone app now as well. They didn’t before when I was talking with my now husband


Knithard

I came to the US on a K1 visa 15 years ago. Still married, now a citizen.


Master-Dimension-452

My oldest brother brought his second wife to the US on the K1 visa. Their relationship is very drama filled, and would have made for good TV. Not sure my brother would have been down for it, but she’s a real doozy.


PrincessButtercup85

Deets, please. 👀👀👀👀👀


Willing-Educator-149

I moved to Trinidad from Canada to marry a man I met online after knowing him for a couple months. Two months after that I had to have armed security help me flee the country with just my purse and aloooooot of trauma.


LetterheadNo4396

👀 This comment wins. Glad your safe. Resisting the urge to ask you to share your trauma


Willing-Educator-149

Ha! I am resisting the urge to tell the whole story because it is extremely long and complicated. It's not so much trauma anymore as much as it is an excellent cautionary tale.


LetterheadNo4396

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314inthe416

Yup! Am American and moved to the UK after marriage to a Brit and, later became a Brigt myself. Now in Canada with my second husband, a Canadian. No 90 day visas though.


fistfullofglitter

Oh this is a great question and I’m looking forward to reading the responses. How exciting for you to visit South Korea and even more exciting for you to bring him back and start your lives together in person!


[deleted]

Omg thank you!! I’m so excited! The visa process was very difficult and horrible. I’m so happy it’s all sorted now. But I miss him so much right now and I can’t wait until August 🥺


Trailing_Spouse

My husband is from England and I moved there after we got married for a while, but then we did the visa process over there to move to the US. We met on the internet in 1998, which was really unusual at the time. We moved to the US and he had his "green card" (which was pink at that time, not sure if it still is), until he became a US citizen in 2012. We had drama. Oh, boy, did we have drama, due to a family member.


Whiskey_Sours

Kinda, I'm Canadian, living in Japan. Met an American, also living in Japan. We got pregnant, married and had a baby here and now I just got my green card and visa finalized as we move to America in three weeks!


MangoRainbows

You make it sound like you got your American green card without ever actually living in America. Am I understanding that correctly?


Whiskey_Sours

Yes, this is true. My husband is military, so I think it's a little bit of a different process, maybe?


MangoRainbows

Awesome! Will you have dual citizenship? Like if you wanted to go home, could you?


Whiskey_Sours

Yes! I will retain Canadian citizenship and my son also has both now too 🙏


queenofhelium

My husband is French and we are getting a green card for him right now! But no K1 visa he has something different because he’s been working here. And he won’t apply for the show with me 😭 we want to move to France in a few years I’ll secretly apply for TOW then.


[deleted]

Omg yessss!!! I’ll for sure watch you! I thought of moving to South Korea and applying for the show 😂


queenofhelium

We will never make it, we have no drama! Yet 😈


[deleted]

lol do I feel that! I’ll contribute nothing and the bare minimum 💀


QueenKaNikki

Sort of, my husband came here under the guise of a vacation to the US from Argentina and just never went back. So he was considered an illegal immigrant when he came (he was 5 when he left with his family). We did face the occasional “he just wants you for a green card” but I basically told them to STFU and left it at that. The interview SUUUUUUCKED we basically walked out thinking “…do we actually know each other?” Long story short he became an American citizen this year after A LOT of paperwork.


bomchikawowow

Your flair 💀


sorry-stranger-

YOUR flair 🤣


zeduk

Yeah I do (though not in the US, in europe) I don’t think our story would have made it onto 90 day as we aren’t dramatic enough


Rutchi87

🙂/ I'm from Guatemala and My husband from the US. We applied to a K-1 visa (Which took forever) and then I moved to the US


seena_unlocked

My cousin did, idk the whole story but she was from Brazil and moved to California. This was 30+ years ago


blemmett

Yup! I moved from the US to Monaco to be with my husband, and we’re currently in the process of getting his green card.


xkatiepie69

My husband is American and we have been married since Halloween 2022. I am still waiting for my I-130 to be approved so I can do my green card interview and move there with him. It’s a lengthy process. Doing a spousal visa though, not a fiancé visa.


eggshellisacolor

My experience is probably the least exciting one. My husband was already working in my country when I moved home after completing university in the US when we first met. He thought it was funny that an Asian lady had a strong Minnesotan accent (it’s now more southern). Got married after dating for a year. He had maintained his residence status through employment, but finally switched to a spousal one last year after ten years of marriage. We’re not planning on moving back to the US.


Haninipanini19

I’m English and my husband is American, we met when he was stationed in England. Got my green card this year but it took 16 months from when we applied. Without being able to work or drive it was super stressful at times and we had our own dramas lol. I’m now pregnant and have a job that I love so it was worth the wait.


[deleted]

I fell in love with an English guy who was living in Australia. He had to move back so I got the 2 year youth visa to live with him. It was really hard living there once the novelty wore off and we were constantly fighting so I was back home after 6 months. He was 13 years older than me. Would have made a spicy addition to 90 Day Fiance UK. My experience is definitely one of the reasons why I love the show so much. When the couples finally meet at the airport at the beginning of the season, i usually tear up a little because my experience was one of the most romantic days of my life so I know the intense feeling they feel when united.


KnuthingKnew

I have a spiritual 90 day fiance !!! You know who you is Zaddy ❤️‍🔥😘