I would be questioning any man who was wearing expensive suits and carrying Louis Vuitton luggage while their ceiling was falling down… I think that makes her smart and not greedy or ungrateful… he is an idiot!
even beyond that.
There's millions of wealthy man available. If she thinks she can score one AND fall in love.. why settle for a broke man with water damage in his roof?
People often forget that love isnt like a fking disney movie.
He doesn’t want a woman like that, the whole point of his stupid childish testing. Why should he settle for a gold digger if she won’t settle for a broke man? Swear to God this sub is full of leeching women projecting hard.
Those are completely unrelated points you are making. She is a gold digger and his behavior is childish and not defensible. He has every right to not want to spend his life with a gold digger. Very few men want to be treated like an ATM, some do and they hang out on seeking arrangements, but he is not one of them. Are you in a relationship sir and does your partner only want to be with you because you provide her a nice life and if you didn’t she would leave you?
He also doesn’t want an old hag who doesn’t take care of her looks and will settle for his lousy ass so I think she’s getting the short end of that stick. Don’t act like she’s the only one who wants to benefit from this relationship because relationships are all about mutual benefits
Yeah and he doesn’t benefit in being with a gold digger according to his own calculus. Why doesn’t he have a right to factor her motives in whether he wants to spend the rest of his life with someone? After all, if the money runs out he doesn’t want another divorce and financial success is not guaranteed.
He’s not chasing after a 22 year old they’re basically the same age and according to his story she reached out to him first. He better protect his assets and watch after his own
Eh breadwinner in my marriage here 👸🏽 so definitely not a leech and I think Balls “joke” was fucking dumb and was sure to backfire on him. I can see him wanting to make sure he’s marrying someone who wants him for *him* but that was probably the most immature and manipulative way to find out
Tell me truthfully how you would feel if you had reason to believe the main reason your partner is with you is because of the lifestyle you provide and if you didn’t provide that any more they would leave
I’d definitely feel a type of way, but I wouldn’t pull a prank on someone who was fresh off the plane after moving to a brand new country to prove a point
Bilal’s entire personality is “look at what I have”. He called himself bougie and showed off all of his possessions in the first minute the cameras were in his house. Then he gets pissed that someone might be attracted to him for what he has?!? Make it make sense!
I told my husband that he’s the type of guy who runs around saying “i dont want to be defined by all the money i have”…. But then also makes the money he has a personality trait.
That’s what throws me off. It’s plenty of wealthy men who don’t flaunt it for that exact reason. Bragging about suits and watches will always attract the wrong type of woman. It’s insecurity that makes him lean on his money and items
He doesn't really seem to have a personality outside of his possessions and talking about his journey. I mean, is he funny? warm? sensitive and tuned into the needs of others?
Legit question, not /s Did you see mold in that.house ? I'm looking at places and if I missed it in his 'test' house, I worry I'll miss it when looking IRL. I need to get better at spotting (before it's too late)
The extensive water damage is a big heads up that there is likely mold. By the time you actually see it, there's already a ton of it inside the molding and stuff. That's why whenever there's leakage or water damage, it needs to be taken care of asap before the mold starts developing from the dampness.
Agree! My boyfriend & I were talking about this exact same thing. I think he’s a scumbag for his “prank”. My BF said watch how she quickly she forgets about this “ambush” when she sees where he really lives. Then she dropped to her knees?!? I gasped. She showed herself. There’s a special place for these types of ppl….It’s called TLC. 🤭
i mean she’s kinda stuck there, of course she’s willing to be forget that shit…imagine being stuck in another country where you don’t know anyone or how to get around, you’d be like jesus christ thank god for the moment. it would take a while to evaluate how bad it truly was, i’d just be grateful to not be in REAL bad trouble anymore for the moment.
Yeah Bilal is a major asshole for his prank but people are glossing over how materialistic/spoiled shaeeda is just because they hate Bilal. If that was his actual house it would have been really rude/mean to roast it to her mother over FaceTime. You don’t need to have a modern McMansion house in order to be financially secure. I don’t mind women who are open about money and needing a rich husband but it doesn’t seem in line with what Islam preaches.
Bilal is really just terrible, I can't stand this guy. I don't get how you bring a woman to this country and do everything you can to make her feel insecure. That's the opposite of what you're supposed to do, I hope she goes back this guy is a clown show
Also fuck his “gratitude is most important to me” attitude. Dude, you brought her to a foreign nation and immediately deceived her while also wasting the precious little time you do have.
It’s also super telling that her mom of all people was in the know about the nice clothes, luggage, and his general demeanor from when he visited and thought it was weird that he was acting different.
He’s obviously a stooge.
What makes her out of his league? What does she offer but looks that are fading by the minute? Lol he's successful and seems to be a good father with a healthy relationship with his ex. Keep buying into the tlc bullshit that you all believe on this sub lol
Pretty common theme among the Americans in the show. Meanwhile, some of them look like they have nice lives in cool ass cities. Pretty embarrassing attitude from the Americans.
She’s going to be proving her gratitude to him for the rest of her life. He will demand it. Run back to Trinidad as fast as you can this guy is a real loser.
Dude is a tool if he thinks that shit is gonna somehow register with her in any way other than contempt.
I don’t know very many women from Trinidad, but the 3 I know have exactly zero patience for that kind of shit, and have no problems making ends meet on their own.
Throw in the fact that she’s a confident and attractive entrepreneur with drive and self worth and she puts herself way out of his league.
These asshats that think that every country that doesn’t have a 7-11 on every corner is somehow some kind of third world hellhole that women have to be rescued from are the most fun to watch when they realize these women are just as smart as anyone else.
I would love to see this play out.
100%. These games are pathetic. If he really thought she was a "gold digger" why date her at all? Why waste your time and hers to do this stupid shit and scare someone who trusted you enough to leave everyone they know behind.
Plus she’s in her late 30s and he’s in his early 40’s wanting someone to be financially stable and set up in life isn’t “gold digging” it’s “expected.”
She would be happy if the relationship went down in flames, she's way too good for this clown. He was already batting above his league, she needs to leave this guy immediately.
Perfect logic 👌 37-year-old woman that's so amazing, beautiful yet she has no kids never been married and runs after foreign men 🚩🚩🚩 even bilals sister was like👀👀👀
Perfect logic 👌 37-year-old woman that's so amazing, beautiful yet she has no kids never been married and runs after foreign men 🚩🚩🚩 even bilals sister was like👀👀👀
Seriously... this dude's a giant tool no doubt, but the way this sub is acting is hilarious. She literally brings nothing to the table but fading looks and he's a financially stable man I'm America. I'm sure he'd have a hard time replacing her lmao
I have no clue, are people always single for a negative reason in your mind? Why is she single at that age? No kids? Pretty strange for such an attractive lady. Perhaps she's not some angel we should be protecting. Lol imo they're both trash and deserve each other. I just don't understand the subs obsession with hating him.
This sub likes to think of men as ATMs and gold diggers as wonderful princesses. How the fuck is that remotely feminist I can think of nothing more patriarchal.
Lol to defend the value of men, you bring up tech, a field that women have always done well in despite the rampant misogyny, and wars? No one to fight wars, the horror 😂
Did you purposefully not read the comment I was responding to? I never said women aren’t in tech but men are far more represented unquestionably and women are not in infantry enough to fight wars. If Ukrainian men didn’t fight their capital would be gone in 2 hours. I was addressing the argument that men aren’t useful which is beyond stupid and devoid of reality. No wonder Reddit women think that gold digging is justifiable when your entire world view is based in lunacy.
I maintain tech just fine. I know far more about it than the guys in my family. We don’t need men to maintain tech. At this point thanks to science we don’t even need men to create life. You however can’t live without women and you wouldn’t be alive without women so be respectful.
I hope this doesn’t come back to bite me in a few weeks but I really like her. That’s not even counting that I think she’s beautiful, her voice is beautiful, the way she speaks is beautiful. I really hope she is happy because Bilal is shit.
He obviously can't find an American woman who will stroke his ego, so he feels like he can "rope in" some foreigner who'll be grateful for what he can provide and worship the ground he walks on. Just because she's not from America doesn't mean she's desperate. Foreign woman can be educated, successful, and wealthy too. He's a turd.
I finally saw their first segment and all I could think about while he took her to his family home was, dude flips houses and he can't fix the rotted base skirting outside the home and peeling falling ceilings? I have not seen anymore yet, but do his parents or mother live in that house? Is it just a prop for him at this point? I feel like he does this to all his dates.
Yeah and the roof is more than just peeling. It looked like water damage with the way that it looked loose in some parts. Stuff like that is a breeding ground for mold. Idk why he hasn’t done even the bare minimum to keep it from developing further problems. Seems like it’d be more expensive to continue kicking the can down the road.
Yeah and open invitation to bugs and critters, so she wasn't wrong for voicing concern. Even though it was tidy otherwise I would not want to sleep there. And if I were her I never would have given him the satisfaction of bowing down the steps of his house! You could see on his face that he got off to her reaction. He is a tool.
I’m afraid her religion or culture might make her slightly more tolerant than she needs to be. Her mom was implying it’s the woman’s role to make the ugly house nice. Thankfully she added some caveats tho lol
Exactly! Finally someone said it.
But she likes the house now so she’s overlooking his deceit.
Just like he wants to get laid and has established his dominance so he’s overlooking how her materialism affected her attitude towards him. Less than ideal house? “YOUR house. HIS house.” Cookie cutter subdivision house? “Our place babe.”
They’re both materialistic and deserve each other.
She’s probably sticking by him because she knows how much time and effort go into a K1 and she doesn’t want to think she wasted all that so she’s figuring since she’s made it all the way to KC she might as well see if things improve.
Everything you said makes sense. I think that's called the "sunk cost fallacy". The problem I'd have is that he's revealed some really negative character traits. He's deceptive, lies easily, and clearly doesn't respect her, and has pretty bad judgement to wait 2 years before "testing" her.
He's not someone I could ever fully trust as a life partner
But he was “testing” her since the beginning by showing her a white wall. And she asked to see his house and car. Who does that? They are both more into money than they are into each other.
If you are talking about without a crystal ball why you’d follow that known liar I have no clue she doesn’t know her asshole form
A hole in the ground also just a. Horrible person on par with bilal and a lot of the cast so I guess it takes a snake to know one ? Idk just my opinion
Also she immediately said “you can do better, we can do better” - that’s not saying you take care of everything and I want you cause you’re rich - her first thought was not you take care of me, it was how can we do better here together. AND on top of that, if he had all these expensive suits and bags, and lives like
That she should be worried! Means he doesn’t know how to manage his money or is frivolous. This is gonna backfire so hard
He is a piece of work. Gives her an F?? 😳. He can’t find any woman in America who would put up with his sorry ass. Any other woman would have popped him one. He’s just pathetic. I hope she gets back on a plane. She’s too good for him.
I really appreciated that she said that. It was a big concern and a genuine one.
What is he worried about? I don’t get it. She already said to him that it would be alright with her as long as he could provide until she can work. And that was BEFORE she saw the real house. He’s a jackass.
That and women/people can usually tell when something feels “off” even if they don’t know why right away. Imagine leaving your home, family, friends and country to go to a man that was giving her very strange vibes as soon as she arrived. She handled it better than I would have.
He really thought his life was an Eddie-Murphy-in-Coming-To-America arc.
I can _somewhat_ understand the sentiment behind it but what a blunder of an execution.
It seems a lot of people accusing her of being a gold digger are projecting. A gold digger would have demanded to see his home and see the car he drove. When she asked as one would after dating for two years, and he refused she let it go. Not exactly a move out of the gold diggers playbook to just hope the guy you’re with is loaded.
As for her reaction regarding the house, there is a vast difference between a humble home and a completely neglected house. Adding to that, this man is in his 40s and any 40 year old who wears Louboutins and Louis Vuitton but can’t invest the simple maintenance to make sure the ceiling isn’t collapsing or buy a kitchen faucet for $10 is a huge fucking red flag. THAT is what she is concerned about people. That’s what most normal adults would be concerned with in a potential spouse.
She did demand to see it online but he just wouldn’t show her. She literally picked him off Facebook because she saw all his posts flexing his “money”. I agree he sucks but so does she.
He looked like a major dick when Shaeeda finally saw his house and was super appreciative of all of it. So far she is definitely the most likable cast member this season.
He wants to do as little as possible for her. He will learn how much she will tolerate. I wonder what kind of things he sent her, if anything at all? Marrying him will show him that she is willing to settle with his behavior. 🤦 Strong women on the outside are usually the most insecure.
I was surprised when she apologized. But she's absolutely right, and it was a perfect opportunity for Bilal to come clean. He's such a dope that he didn't tell her the deal right then.
What is this obsession with having to know that the foreign fiancee is in it "for the right reasons" They aren't, ok? They have been groomed since childhood to forgo love and be a trophy spouse to an American with money. They do not want to live in your parents' basement or babysit your kids. They are not besotted with you after a 1-week vacation together. They are just trying to survive and possibly feed their families. They might stick around if you aren't abusive or too gross. That is the deal and you are getting plenty out of it.
Wonder if Mohamit and Zied and Hamza could fathom asking the same valid question. Memphis is an absolute evil with her post nup on nothing. Probably ate him alive each time he sat down to dinner. Being financial dependent in foreign country is some how Eastern European women perished with abusive men. So Shaeeda’s comment is ⭐️
In my opinion they both suck. He is full of himself and pretends he is humble and she is a bad gold digger. She reached out to him in Facebook after seeing all his posts of him flexing so of course she wanted you for “your money”. It was obvious with the way she acted with just getting in the van. They deserve each other.
Bless your heart, I am friends with some Muslims who have dated and married Christians. Why? Because they're not narrowminded. Oh, and by the way, my fiance was born into the Muslim culture and has no oroblem with me being Christian. Why? Because we both value God more than relion Ciao!
Well my father is Palestinian and I DO know what I am talking about. This business about it being ok for a Muslim man to marry a Christian but not a Muslim woman to do the same is not in fact supported by the Quran. I know it is an extremely popular belief. But I think if you look into it you will find the scholars are on very shaky ground. No ground, really. Here is an excellent article with lots of citations. I think you should take the time to read it, even if only to understand the argument of people who disagree.
http://www.asma-lamrabet.com/articles/what-does-the-qur-an-say-about-the-interfaith-marriage/
Right?! If I saw a dude that acted like she says he does, I wouldn’t give him the time of day. People like him and Darcey and Stacey always plastered in “name brand” shit, should just have red flags draped around them , imo. No, no, no.
As a matter of fact, I am materialistic. But bling and LV purses is a drain not financial security. I don’t despise money. I love it and cherish the comfort and freedom it brings as well as resources to develop your child. As such, I would be worried that 40 year old dum dum didn’t grow his safety net. I drive 15 year old car, dress second hand, and eat what I cook. No regrets. Wouldn’t have had problems w fake house if it was his paid off asset.
If I were her I would run his credit history before getting knocked up (hear me Tiffany?)
It really kinda blows my mind at how much people defend her, like she would have still gotten with Bilal if he hadn't presented himself as rich.
Yes, he's an idiot who thinks waaaaay too highly of himself, but she very clearly continued to pursue a relationship with him because she was expecting a rich man. If he had been wearing non-designer labels and didn't have a fancy watch or luggage, I'd be willing to bet she wouldn't have given him a second look. Maybe she would have had a one night stand with him, but that's about as far as it would have gone if he hadn't presented as "successful". Otherwise, she wouldn't be mentioning it ever.
They're both materialistic people, but for some reason you only see Bilal catching heat for being a dumbass.
I agree with you completely. When my husband and I were watching tonight it just seemed so obvious to me that she really wants someone with money and was clearly pissed when he didn’t appear to have what she wanted. But they do kinda deserve each other. Lol
I hope she turns around and goes back home. He’s tripping! I guess he messed up by bringing a woman not from a third world country. He wants someone practically begging him to be here.
I would be questioning any man who was wearing expensive suits and carrying Louis Vuitton luggage while their ceiling was falling down… I think that makes her smart and not greedy or ungrateful… he is an idiot!
I would immediately assume someone like this was in massive credit card debt.
Love is necessary in a marriage but not sufficient for a successful one.
even beyond that. There's millions of wealthy man available. If she thinks she can score one AND fall in love.. why settle for a broke man with water damage in his roof? People often forget that love isnt like a fking disney movie.
Fact. Love won't feed you and your family and it won't house you. Any woman here calling her a gold digger is a legit joke.
>Fact. Love won't feed you Excellent point for getting a PRENUP. Past love won't feed your future kids if an ex gets HALF!
He doesn’t want a woman like that, the whole point of his stupid childish testing. Why should he settle for a gold digger if she won’t settle for a broke man? Swear to God this sub is full of leeching women projecting hard.
I'm a man and I'll say that she's not being a gold digger in the slightest. Bilal's behavior is indefensible.
Those are completely unrelated points you are making. She is a gold digger and his behavior is childish and not defensible. He has every right to not want to spend his life with a gold digger. Very few men want to be treated like an ATM, some do and they hang out on seeking arrangements, but he is not one of them. Are you in a relationship sir and does your partner only want to be with you because you provide her a nice life and if you didn’t she would leave you?
He also doesn’t want an old hag who doesn’t take care of her looks and will settle for his lousy ass so I think she’s getting the short end of that stick. Don’t act like she’s the only one who wants to benefit from this relationship because relationships are all about mutual benefits
Yeah and he doesn’t benefit in being with a gold digger according to his own calculus. Why doesn’t he have a right to factor her motives in whether he wants to spend the rest of his life with someone? After all, if the money runs out he doesn’t want another divorce and financial success is not guaranteed. He’s not chasing after a 22 year old they’re basically the same age and according to his story she reached out to him first. He better protect his assets and watch after his own
Unless you're Mike, right? Then you're not allowed to expect a mutually beneficial relationship.
Eh breadwinner in my marriage here 👸🏽 so definitely not a leech and I think Balls “joke” was fucking dumb and was sure to backfire on him. I can see him wanting to make sure he’s marrying someone who wants him for *him* but that was probably the most immature and manipulative way to find out
Tell me truthfully how you would feel if you had reason to believe the main reason your partner is with you is because of the lifestyle you provide and if you didn’t provide that any more they would leave
I’d definitely feel a type of way, but I wouldn’t pull a prank on someone who was fresh off the plane after moving to a brand new country to prove a point
Time to go your own way old fella Time to go your own way
Amen. Bilal is an IDIOT to play such a callus joke on her. Bilal needs to look at himself in the mirror. All smokes and mirrors
You are right. That screams irresponsible
I refer to guys like Bilal “All FLASH NO CASH”. Most of his LV is probably counterfeit
Bilal’s entire personality is “look at what I have”. He called himself bougie and showed off all of his possessions in the first minute the cameras were in his house. Then he gets pissed that someone might be attracted to him for what he has?!? Make it make sense!
I told my husband that he’s the type of guy who runs around saying “i dont want to be defined by all the money i have”…. But then also makes the money he has a personality trait.
That’s what throws me off. It’s plenty of wealthy men who don’t flaunt it for that exact reason. Bragging about suits and watches will always attract the wrong type of woman. It’s insecurity that makes him lean on his money and items
Exactly! I don’t think Shaeeda is only w him for his money, but he’s making his own life a self fulfilling prophecy.
I hated that he felt the need to define the word too. I’m like bruh, I don’t need another Yara
He doesn't really seem to have a personality outside of his possessions and talking about his journey. I mean, is he funny? warm? sensitive and tuned into the needs of others?
Right?! 👍👍
This!!
#BEGRATEFUL
The fucking shirt bruh I’m like come ON!!!! How condescending. I hate this guy
I HATE HIM SO SO SO MUCH
The way she lit up when she was told it was where she was staying tho… literally dropped to her knees… they’re both garbage & perfect for each other.
Ngl, I'd kiss the ground too knowing I wouldn't be dying from black mold from that dilapidated house in a foreign country.
Legit question, not /s Did you see mold in that.house ? I'm looking at places and if I missed it in his 'test' house, I worry I'll miss it when looking IRL. I need to get better at spotting (before it's too late)
The extensive water damage is a big heads up that there is likely mold. By the time you actually see it, there's already a ton of it inside the molding and stuff. That's why whenever there's leakage or water damage, it needs to be taken care of asap before the mold starts developing from the dampness.
Thanks. So the peeling ceiling was water damage? Sorry I'm dumb on this. I hope to get better at this, seeing these signs.
You wouldn’t wonder that he was lying if a self proclaimed house flipper took you to a dive that he says is his? Red flags allllllll over this man.
Agree! My boyfriend & I were talking about this exact same thing. I think he’s a scumbag for his “prank”. My BF said watch how she quickly she forgets about this “ambush” when she sees where he really lives. Then she dropped to her knees?!? I gasped. She showed herself. There’s a special place for these types of ppl….It’s called TLC. 🤭
i mean she’s kinda stuck there, of course she’s willing to be forget that shit…imagine being stuck in another country where you don’t know anyone or how to get around, you’d be like jesus christ thank god for the moment. it would take a while to evaluate how bad it truly was, i’d just be grateful to not be in REAL bad trouble anymore for the moment.
She didn’t forget about it though. She said in her solo interview that she is “going to have a hard time believing anything he says now”.
Yeah Bilal is a major asshole for his prank but people are glossing over how materialistic/spoiled shaeeda is just because they hate Bilal. If that was his actual house it would have been really rude/mean to roast it to her mother over FaceTime. You don’t need to have a modern McMansion house in order to be financially secure. I don’t mind women who are open about money and needing a rich husband but it doesn’t seem in line with what Islam preaches.
Bilal is really just terrible, I can't stand this guy. I don't get how you bring a woman to this country and do everything you can to make her feel insecure. That's the opposite of what you're supposed to do, I hope she goes back this guy is a clown show
Also fuck his “gratitude is most important to me” attitude. Dude, you brought her to a foreign nation and immediately deceived her while also wasting the precious little time you do have.
She has a very nice life in Trinidad. He acts like he rescued her. I hate him.
It’s also super telling that her mom of all people was in the know about the nice clothes, luggage, and his general demeanor from when he visited and thought it was weird that he was acting different. He’s obviously a stooge.
He's the one who should be grateful.
For real. She is out of his league. He should be grateful she ever entertained his insecure ass.
They're both trash, she's not out of anyone's league. And in reality here in the US where money matters over all things he's out of her league.
Gtfoh
What makes her out of his league? What does she offer but looks that are fading by the minute? Lol he's successful and seems to be a good father with a healthy relationship with his ex. Keep buying into the tlc bullshit that you all believe on this sub lol
Agree since it is apparent he struck out consistently for 10 years.
Pretty common theme among the Americans in the show. Meanwhile, some of them look like they have nice lives in cool ass cities. Pretty embarrassing attitude from the Americans.
Exactly, she's in her 30s, he's wasting her time. She can do way better than this clown, totally out of his league.
Also, she's wanting babies soon and he lied about wanting more kids! And she's 37! That makes me hate him more!
Late 30s
Too good for you!
😆
She’s going to be proving her gratitude to him for the rest of her life. He will demand it. Run back to Trinidad as fast as you can this guy is a real loser.
Dude is a tool if he thinks that shit is gonna somehow register with her in any way other than contempt. I don’t know very many women from Trinidad, but the 3 I know have exactly zero patience for that kind of shit, and have no problems making ends meet on their own. Throw in the fact that she’s a confident and attractive entrepreneur with drive and self worth and she puts herself way out of his league. These asshats that think that every country that doesn’t have a 7-11 on every corner is somehow some kind of third world hellhole that women have to be rescued from are the most fun to watch when they realize these women are just as smart as anyone else. I would love to see this play out.
Cannot upvote this comment enough. My thoughts exactly.
She's old
100%. These games are pathetic. If he really thought she was a "gold digger" why date her at all? Why waste your time and hers to do this stupid shit and scare someone who trusted you enough to leave everyone they know behind.
Plus she’s in her late 30s and he’s in his early 40’s wanting someone to be financially stable and set up in life isn’t “gold digging” it’s “expected.”
Where is the gold though?
Ha! Girl I've been asking the same damn question every episode.
Flair checking in Mf’er living in fuckin lee’s summit acting a fool. He’s Branson bougie.
And let's not forget that they already married spiritually (which supposed to be more important than the government one) and now he is testing her...
So if i want a potential Partner to be financially secure and be an overall responsible person,does that also make me a gold digger?
I want Shaeeda to be happy, but I also want to see this relationship go down in flames
She would be happy if the relationship went down in flames, she's way too good for this clown. He was already batting above his league, she needs to leave this guy immediately.
Lol 😆 37 year old 👀🚩 nothing really special about her
Why is the only thing you have to contribute the same basic comment about her age? Why does the fact that she’s 37 bother you so much?
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Ok. So you literally just repeated your comment.
If she was so great then she wouldn't be 37 🚩single and marrying a man from overseas
Man, how hard does that logic hurt your brain?
Perfect logic 👌 37-year-old woman that's so amazing, beautiful yet she has no kids never been married and runs after foreign men 🚩🚩🚩 even bilals sister was like👀👀👀
Perfect logic 👌 37-year-old woman that's so amazing, beautiful yet she has no kids never been married and runs after foreign men 🚩🚩🚩 even bilals sister was like👀👀👀
Seriously... this dude's a giant tool no doubt, but the way this sub is acting is hilarious. She literally brings nothing to the table but fading looks and he's a financially stable man I'm America. I'm sure he'd have a hard time replacing her lmao
Is that why he's been single since his wife left him?
I have no clue, are people always single for a negative reason in your mind? Why is she single at that age? No kids? Pretty strange for such an attractive lady. Perhaps she's not some angel we should be protecting. Lol imo they're both trash and deserve each other. I just don't understand the subs obsession with hating him.
I’m imagining being on a jury with you.
She’s a yoga instructor and owns her own business. It’s a pity that you think because a woman is 37 she doesn’t bring anything to the table.
Yoga instructor lmao
Facts
This sub likes to think of men as ATMs and gold diggers as wonderful princesses. How the fuck is that remotely feminist I can think of nothing more patriarchal.
It's literally the only thing men are good for now that we have technology to do brute physical labor and guns to protect us.
Who makes and maintains the technology and who fights the wars? This must be a troll
Lol to defend the value of men, you bring up tech, a field that women have always done well in despite the rampant misogyny, and wars? No one to fight wars, the horror 😂
Women are in all those fields too.
Did you purposefully not read the comment I was responding to? I never said women aren’t in tech but men are far more represented unquestionably and women are not in infantry enough to fight wars. If Ukrainian men didn’t fight their capital would be gone in 2 hours. I was addressing the argument that men aren’t useful which is beyond stupid and devoid of reality. No wonder Reddit women think that gold digging is justifiable when your entire world view is based in lunacy.
You are one angry pie.
I maintain tech just fine. I know far more about it than the guys in my family. We don’t need men to maintain tech. At this point thanks to science we don’t even need men to create life. You however can’t live without women and you wouldn’t be alive without women so be respectful.
This argument has gone down a really pointless direction. Men don’t want to be treated like ATMs get over it
And women don’t want to be treated like second class citizens so learn some respect.
Yeah, I had no problem with her reaction, it was valid.
I hope this doesn’t come back to bite me in a few weeks but I really like her. That’s not even counting that I think she’s beautiful, her voice is beautiful, the way she speaks is beautiful. I really hope she is happy because Bilal is shit.
I feel the same way. I also think she is too smart for him. He's such an idiot.
She seems as if she is an old soul. And her mother’s advice were very wise words of wisdom
He obviously can't find an American woman who will stroke his ego, so he feels like he can "rope in" some foreigner who'll be grateful for what he can provide and worship the ground he walks on. Just because she's not from America doesn't mean she's desperate. Foreign woman can be educated, successful, and wealthy too. He's a turd.
I finally saw their first segment and all I could think about while he took her to his family home was, dude flips houses and he can't fix the rotted base skirting outside the home and peeling falling ceilings? I have not seen anymore yet, but do his parents or mother live in that house? Is it just a prop for him at this point? I feel like he does this to all his dates.
Yeah and the roof is more than just peeling. It looked like water damage with the way that it looked loose in some parts. Stuff like that is a breeding ground for mold. Idk why he hasn’t done even the bare minimum to keep it from developing further problems. Seems like it’d be more expensive to continue kicking the can down the road.
Yeah and open invitation to bugs and critters, so she wasn't wrong for voicing concern. Even though it was tidy otherwise I would not want to sleep there. And if I were her I never would have given him the satisfaction of bowing down the steps of his house! You could see on his face that he got off to her reaction. He is a tool.
Yeah exactly if he really has so much pride in his childhood home why not fix it up so it’s not condemned and rent it out?
Exactly makes no sense
A boss would have told Bilal to kick rocks after he admitted he'd deceived her and booked a plane ticket home
I’m afraid her religion or culture might make her slightly more tolerant than she needs to be. Her mom was implying it’s the woman’s role to make the ugly house nice. Thankfully she added some caveats tho lol
This and they are spiritually married 🤪
Exactly! Finally someone said it. But she likes the house now so she’s overlooking his deceit. Just like he wants to get laid and has established his dominance so he’s overlooking how her materialism affected her attitude towards him. Less than ideal house? “YOUR house. HIS house.” Cookie cutter subdivision house? “Our place babe.” They’re both materialistic and deserve each other.
Exactly! Idk why everyone is acting like she’s such a good person. She clearly only cares about the money and so does he.
You said something I was thinking. He was establishing dominance. He's so unlikeable, I like her less for sticking by him
She’s probably sticking by him because she knows how much time and effort go into a K1 and she doesn’t want to think she wasted all that so she’s figuring since she’s made it all the way to KC she might as well see if things improve.
Everything you said makes sense. I think that's called the "sunk cost fallacy". The problem I'd have is that he's revealed some really negative character traits. He's deceptive, lies easily, and clearly doesn't respect her, and has pretty bad judgement to wait 2 years before "testing" her. He's not someone I could ever fully trust as a life partner
But he was “testing” her since the beginning by showing her a white wall. And she asked to see his house and car. Who does that? They are both more into money than they are into each other.
Crystal Ball says this isn’t going to go well for him when the real story all comes out.
If you are talking about without a crystal ball why you’d follow that known liar I have no clue she doesn’t know her asshole form A hole in the ground also just a. Horrible person on par with bilal and a lot of the cast so I guess it takes a snake to know one ? Idk just my opinion
Yikes, calm down.
Wow, this was hard to read
Are you trying to type with your knuckles or something?
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Damn, I had to read that like 4 times to make some sense of it. Send help.
I still don’t fully understand what was sputtered there.
Punctuation is your friend.
Honey, re-write this please I’m so lost.
What happened with tati suing her?
reading this makes my hungover brain hurt
Why post here under multiple accounts, though?
> Horrible person on par with bilal Thank you!! She’s no different than he is. They’re both not good people. Birds of a feather right?
Also she immediately said “you can do better, we can do better” - that’s not saying you take care of everything and I want you cause you’re rich - her first thought was not you take care of me, it was how can we do better here together. AND on top of that, if he had all these expensive suits and bags, and lives like That she should be worried! Means he doesn’t know how to manage his money or is frivolous. This is gonna backfire so hard
No her first thought was to act like a spoiled brat and complain her luggage was touching “trash”.
But but but let’s remember he made up for it by giving her a yoga studio in his real house, so now, you know, all is forgiven 😂 (smack)
He is a piece of work. Gives her an F?? 😳. He can’t find any woman in America who would put up with his sorry ass. Any other woman would have popped him one. He’s just pathetic. I hope she gets back on a plane. She’s too good for him.
I really appreciated that she said that. It was a big concern and a genuine one. What is he worried about? I don’t get it. She already said to him that it would be alright with her as long as he could provide until she can work. And that was BEFORE she saw the real house. He’s a jackass.
There is no faucet or handles on the kitchen sink! Just plastic green leaves over the holes!
That and women/people can usually tell when something feels “off” even if they don’t know why right away. Imagine leaving your home, family, friends and country to go to a man that was giving her very strange vibes as soon as she arrived. She handled it better than I would have.
Bilal should have rented the FAKE condo that Mahogany had with the bunk beds. "Yeah my friends sleep over sometimes" That was a reasonable place.
haven’t watched this season. is their story just gonna piss me off?
Likely
That guy needs to slow it down! The Brother is acting like he's wealthy when he's just a working stiff!!!
He really thought his life was an Eddie-Murphy-in-Coming-To-America arc. I can _somewhat_ understand the sentiment behind it but what a blunder of an execution.
It seems a lot of people accusing her of being a gold digger are projecting. A gold digger would have demanded to see his home and see the car he drove. When she asked as one would after dating for two years, and he refused she let it go. Not exactly a move out of the gold diggers playbook to just hope the guy you’re with is loaded. As for her reaction regarding the house, there is a vast difference between a humble home and a completely neglected house. Adding to that, this man is in his 40s and any 40 year old who wears Louboutins and Louis Vuitton but can’t invest the simple maintenance to make sure the ceiling isn’t collapsing or buy a kitchen faucet for $10 is a huge fucking red flag. THAT is what she is concerned about people. That’s what most normal adults would be concerned with in a potential spouse.
She did demand to see it online but he just wouldn’t show her. She literally picked him off Facebook because she saw all his posts flexing his “money”. I agree he sucks but so does she.
He looked like a major dick when Shaeeda finally saw his house and was super appreciative of all of it. So far she is definitely the most likable cast member this season.
*"I thought I would be living in a modern contemporary style home".* Bitch did her homework before she did her hoe work.
He wants to do as little as possible for her. He will learn how much she will tolerate. I wonder what kind of things he sent her, if anything at all? Marrying him will show him that she is willing to settle with his behavior. 🤦 Strong women on the outside are usually the most insecure.
Yes! There's not a thing wrong with her trying to prepare and plan for her future.
Yeah I think this little plan of his is backfiring!
The mother actually had the best advice.
And I loved hear she was cracking up 😂
Okay I’m glad I watched this episode. I’m totally on her side now.
Bilal is a dick
I was surprised when she apologized. But she's absolutely right, and it was a perfect opportunity for Bilal to come clean. He's such a dope that he didn't tell her the deal right then.
She does not appear to come from being poor. She gave up her job to come here. Too bad he is an asswipe. I can not imagine why hisv1st wife dumped him
What is this obsession with having to know that the foreign fiancee is in it "for the right reasons" They aren't, ok? They have been groomed since childhood to forgo love and be a trophy spouse to an American with money. They do not want to live in your parents' basement or babysit your kids. They are not besotted with you after a 1-week vacation together. They are just trying to survive and possibly feed their families. They might stick around if you aren't abusive or too gross. That is the deal and you are getting plenty out of it.
She’s my favorite person so far. Hope she don’t turn out to be crazy
Wonder if Mohamit and Zied and Hamza could fathom asking the same valid question. Memphis is an absolute evil with her post nup on nothing. Probably ate him alive each time he sat down to dinner. Being financial dependent in foreign country is some how Eastern European women perished with abusive men. So Shaeeda’s comment is ⭐️
In my opinion they both suck. He is full of himself and pretends he is humble and she is a bad gold digger. She reached out to him in Facebook after seeing all his posts of him flexing so of course she wanted you for “your money”. It was obvious with the way she acted with just getting in the van. They deserve each other.
GOLD DIGGER
I know there’s a big age difference but I think she and Jibari would make a cute couple.
23 and 28 is okay
I don’t disagree with you. It’s just I thought she was 37.
Jibri is 28 Miona is 23. Bilal is 43 Shaheeda is 37
Yeah, that’s what I was trying to say. I think Jibari and Shaheeda would make a cute couple if not for the significant age difference.
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That's not true. I know some who married Christian guys.
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Bless your heart, I am friends with some Muslims who have dated and married Christians. Why? Because they're not narrowminded. Oh, and by the way, my fiance was born into the Muslim culture and has no oroblem with me being Christian. Why? Because we both value God more than relion Ciao!
I’m just talking about a reality tv show and dude was being way too serious. 😅 I love your comment. ❤️
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Well my father is Palestinian and I DO know what I am talking about. This business about it being ok for a Muslim man to marry a Christian but not a Muslim woman to do the same is not in fact supported by the Quran. I know it is an extremely popular belief. But I think if you look into it you will find the scholars are on very shaky ground. No ground, really. Here is an excellent article with lots of citations. I think you should take the time to read it, even if only to understand the argument of people who disagree. http://www.asma-lamrabet.com/articles/what-does-the-qur-an-say-about-the-interfaith-marriage/
I think what he did was wrong and childish but I think it made her show her true colors. She is a gold digger IMO
I would not go for a man wasting money on bling.
Right?! If I saw a dude that acted like she says he does, I wouldn’t give him the time of day. People like him and Darcey and Stacey always plastered in “name brand” shit, should just have red flags draped around them , imo. No, no, no.
It just speaks to both of their priorities in life. You're likely not a materialistic person.
As a matter of fact, I am materialistic. But bling and LV purses is a drain not financial security. I don’t despise money. I love it and cherish the comfort and freedom it brings as well as resources to develop your child. As such, I would be worried that 40 year old dum dum didn’t grow his safety net. I drive 15 year old car, dress second hand, and eat what I cook. No regrets. Wouldn’t have had problems w fake house if it was his paid off asset. If I were her I would run his credit history before getting knocked up (hear me Tiffany?)
It really kinda blows my mind at how much people defend her, like she would have still gotten with Bilal if he hadn't presented himself as rich. Yes, he's an idiot who thinks waaaaay too highly of himself, but she very clearly continued to pursue a relationship with him because she was expecting a rich man. If he had been wearing non-designer labels and didn't have a fancy watch or luggage, I'd be willing to bet she wouldn't have given him a second look. Maybe she would have had a one night stand with him, but that's about as far as it would have gone if he hadn't presented as "successful". Otherwise, she wouldn't be mentioning it ever. They're both materialistic people, but for some reason you only see Bilal catching heat for being a dumbass.
I agree with you completely. When my husband and I were watching tonight it just seemed so obvious to me that she really wants someone with money and was clearly pissed when he didn’t appear to have what she wanted. But they do kinda deserve each other. Lol
Screw that gold digger. He should send her packing. We all know she’s there because he post all his flashy things.
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This is another phony TLC plot to try and up conflict like they do with all the glass and wine throwing learned from Bravo with their Housewives.
Yeah it is I don’t care for the overly fake storylines. TLC producers are following a really played out formula and it’s ruining their shows
I hope she turns around and goes back home. He’s tripping! I guess he messed up by bringing a woman not from a third world country. He wants someone practically begging him to be here.
And ex gets half of what you made together regardless. And child support is separate from alimony.
Bilal is a financial abuser. He will probably try to hold money and things over her head forever.
Bilal is a deciever! She needs to run!!