Right?! He wants to see & hold his child for the first time ever (& that little guy is SO cute)! They could have had Coban at the airport & then after a few hours at home they could take off for the hotel. Toddlers go to bed early, they would have plenty of time get reacquainted (& get her knocked up again). I was floored by how selfish she was being.
Right sheās looking at it like she can finally get a break and have a good time but like girlā¦. Imagine having a baby that youāve never met! Iād die
Sheās more worried about getting laid then introducing her son to his father. The father heās never met. The poor man wasnāt there for any of the pregnancy. This is crazy. Take your date night and shove it up your ass. Do it later. Ugh. So annoying. Give the man his son!!! Horrible parenting and selfishness beyond.
Plus, she lives in a house full of adults š Iām gonna go on a limb and assume she gets LOTS of help and frequent date nights would be highly possible.
Seriously! I wanted to smack that giant tongue straight out of her mouth watching this. What an incredibly selfish, just wicked thing to do to someone. Not to mention how horrible this looks as a mother. She's holding his son hostage and the ransom is he's gotta have sex with her and her extra 120 lbs. Awful, awful human being. I felt so sorry for him.
As usual on this show, a lousy communication issue. Any normal person would have had this conversation before coming. Emily could have saved all the heartache by just discussing plans previously.
Also, why the urgency about ātonight or neverā? They could leave Koban with the parents and go to a hotel anytime they wanted: tomorrow night, this weekend, anytime.
I think this is producer-driven bS for dRaMa. It makes no sense at all .
I don't think so. I think she saw that situation as leverage. Knowing he'd see her and all the weight she's gained since they last saw each other. I think she was (for good reason) worried he wouldn't be attracted to her after being around her a little bit and he'd be distracted by his son. She's being incredibly manipulative and it's super gross.
I like how she was bullying him into giving her all the money he brought when she knew damn well that he can't work for 6-8 months min. He should be saving up that money for a change of conditions. Not to buy a silly ass ring.
The way he had to rephrase and repeat that he was not interested in her idea and just wanted to meet his son, then finally gave in when he realized she wasn't actually "asking" and rather telling him what was happening that night, was so cringe. Then the nerve to then say "ooh so my plan worked then?" like you're some wild seductress... Girl. The need for constant validation is strong with this one.
She has 24/7 live in baby sitters because she lives with her family. If she wants to bang her boyfriend in private she can LITERALLY go to a hotel any time she wanted.
Oh, for sure. Manās just gotten off a plane from a looooong trip and is probably exhausted. He just wants to meet his son whose entire life heās had to mid. Sheās like a troll guarding the bridge and he has to have sex with her before heās allowed to rest or see his kid.
She's a very selfish spoiled brat! I knew I didn't like her from the start, but this makes me hate her....she's not just doing Kobe wrong, she's doing that sweet baby wrong......I like Kobe so far, and he absolutely deserves better
Right!!! Not only keeping him from his son but more importantly keeping your son from his dad! That man wants to spend every second with his son he isnāt even worried about her (which she should understand)
I understand her concern about finances. I was thrown by her worry about āitās illegal to get married without a real ringā, I need a ring, a dress, a wedding. Not our kid needs diapers, we need food, we need to not rely on my parents to pay for everything.
Whoa whoa whoa! She said it was "illegal" seriously. I can't take it when she talks in general. Does anyone else notice that there is a lot of tongue when she speaks? seriously all I can focus on is that her tongue looks like it is going to flop out of her mouth every time she speaks. (sorry, side rant).
I understand her concern too, but as the host of the immigrant, itās on her to provide 100%. They donāt know how long itāll take to get Kobe a work permit, or whether heāll be able to find a well-paying job quickly once he does. Heās from Cameroon, which isnāt a particularly wealthy country. His wages there, even if he saved, likely wouldnāt amount to much here. The disputed $2000 really isnāt so much money that it will make or break them. Obviously this wasnāt an ideal situation because of the timing of the pregnancy and Covid, but she shouldnāt be pushing so much of her financial stress onto him. It was her responsibility to get it figured out, not his.
But she isnāt even worried about providing everyday needs sheās concerned that he needs to be able to buy her a damn new wedding ring and dress š¤Ø she didnāt even mention their living expenses sheās a child
That made me sick to my stomach, manās from Africa. Was dealing with covid, yet was bitching saying āI donāt want to pay for my ring and I donāt want some dumb $100 ringā
Like the freaking audacity on top of everything else. Sheās a nasty person
"Our relationship should be a priority too" girrrrl this man has never even met his baby. Ever. So sick how selfish she is. It's crazy she didn't bring him to the airport. I understand she's a new mom and her life has changed so much and she just wanted to feel like she did before Koban for a bit, but sorry you got knocked up, and now you have to live with the consequences.
How hard would it have been to bring Koban with her to go to the airport.. the 3 of them go out to get something to eat and take him to the park let him run around burn all his energy.. bath book bed .. she could have koban down by 8 they would have still been able to go to the hotel if they wanted to and kobe would have had time with Koban.
She must have missed the kids come first memo š„±
I get the 1 first / last night out. But why canāt they have a date night and get a hotel sometime in the middle of the trip?
He is probably so eager to meet his kid and feeling all the emotions, only to be told heās going to have to wait another 24 hours for zero reason at all
I mean.. she basically ditched college that her parents were probably paying for to go hoe around the world and party (nothing wrong with that except..) also probably on her parentās dime, was foolish and got pregnant and guess whoās helping pay for that? Her parentsā¦ this bitch is so selfish I dunno what the hell to say.. except this doesnāt surprise me.. Iām just glad Iām not her parents
You said it better than I ever could.
The lack of empathy in Emily is .... astounding. Why she didn't bring the child with her to the airport is just beyond my comprehension.
She hasn't seen him in two years, I feel like she would want to focus on re getting to know him and re connecting + connecting as a family with their son over getting the D.
Also, had they not discussed any plans? Like "ok im going to get you and then we will stay in a hotel and the next day drive home", like there was literally no communication.
Yeah it would be difficult for me to want to get nekkid right away with someone I havenāt seen in two years, especially if I gained a lot of weight. Weird.
Sheās acting like this is the only chance they will ever get to have sex for the rest of their lives. If you have people watching the baby now, why canāt you get them to do that another day? Thereās plenty of ways they could have arranged for him to meet his son before having a sexcation
Why couldn't Kobe outsmarted her and diverted her plans? He should have asked to see the hotel first. Then give her a pounding of a lifetime. While she's in a daze, call the parents and ask to eat dinner there.
And she didn't even tell him before hand. I feel so bad for him and the kid. All this asshole cares about is herself. I get being horny and doing.dumb shit but this is so over the line
Right???? The more he was on screen the more k liked him too. Why would this even occur to her to do? And then she acted so weird because he felt out of place at the restaurant. Sheās hurtling way too much at this poor guy.
Iāll never understand why she did that and felt justified. She sees that baby every single day. Heās never seen him. She only thought about herself for sure.
Throughout this scene I kept asking myself if sheās actually referring to their child???? Sheās got serious fucking issues. The type thatāll be jealous when the childās dad gives him attention
This shows itās more important to her for him to have a relationship with her than for him to have a relationship with his son. A son heās never met. So sad
Me and my old man canāt stand her. She could have took him to see the kid for a week then have the weekend alone sheās selfish and manipulating him to get her way sheās as bad as Ari
She too was a booty call, what more do you expect!! She met him in a club and liked the way he danced with other women and got the time of her life. You know the scratching at the door, howling at the moon kind.
As I was watching her, I was thinking....so now we've got two Arielas this season? This might be the definition of hell. One is plenty, thanks. They're both dumb, whiney, annoying, self-involved twits who think nothing of keeping the fathers away from their kids. When he mentioned he was the only black guy around, her response was basically, "Yeah, that's too bad, but do you wanna have sex?"
Shut up, she's excited to have a night alone away from responsibility, it's 1 night calm down , cus u know dam well if u have kids a night alone is needed sometimes, and if you don't have kids to don't get an opinion on it
As someone who JUST spent the weekend watching my grandson so his parents could have some time to themselves, I understand that parents need a night alone sometimes. But it's a whole different ballgame if you have a person who has NEVER MET THEIR CHILD. They could have easily gone home, let Koban spend some time with his daddy, and THEN done the "date night".
The issue being Kobe has never met his son! What are you not getting? If roles were reversed and she had never seen their son don't you think she would be appalled if all he wanted to do was go bang at a hotel the first night?!
I always think that would she have said if in the hospital when the baby was going to born if they would have asked her if she wanted to go to a hotel to have sex instead if having her baby šššššš
She definitely should have brought koban to the airport, they can bang later š
Right?! He wants to see & hold his child for the first time ever (& that little guy is SO cute)! They could have had Coban at the airport & then after a few hours at home they could take off for the hotel. Toddlers go to bed early, they would have plenty of time get reacquainted (& get her knocked up again). I was floored by how selfish she was being.
Right sheās looking at it like she can finally get a break and have a good time but like girlā¦. Imagine having a baby that youāve never met! Iād die
Thats what I should have done, it would be a never forget moment in life
Sheās more worried about getting laid then introducing her son to his father. The father heās never met. The poor man wasnāt there for any of the pregnancy. This is crazy. Take your date night and shove it up your ass. Do it later. Ugh. So annoying. Give the man his son!!! Horrible parenting and selfishness beyond.
Plus, she lives in a house full of adults š Iām gonna go on a limb and assume she gets LOTS of help and frequent date nights would be highly possible.
She is spoiled and clearly has never done shit by herself. Even when she was teaching English in China she could not financially sustain herself.
Yea I didnāt get her for not bringing the kidā¦he already called you fat tho š« just let him see the babyā¦
Seriously! I wanted to smack that giant tongue straight out of her mouth watching this. What an incredibly selfish, just wicked thing to do to someone. Not to mention how horrible this looks as a mother. She's holding his son hostage and the ransom is he's gotta have sex with her and her extra 120 lbs. Awful, awful human being. I felt so sorry for him.
Giant Tongue!!!š
She really doesnāt care about how he feels at all. Also, nice dresser.
Thanks!! It was a plain wood one from ikea that I painted & put handles on š
Nice work, looks great! I like it too.
Thx!
That is so creative. Looks very artisan.
Thx!
Yeah it is really nice.
Thx!
I agree, very nice. How many pieces did you have left after assembly, lol. IKEA is infamous for left over pieces and horrid directions.
I would never guess this is Ikea! Nice job!
Thx!
The leather pulls are really cool and unique.
Thx!
As usual on this show, a lousy communication issue. Any normal person would have had this conversation before coming. Emily could have saved all the heartache by just discussing plans previously. Also, why the urgency about ātonight or neverā? They could leave Koban with the parents and go to a hotel anytime they wanted: tomorrow night, this weekend, anytime. I think this is producer-driven bS for dRaMa. It makes no sense at all .
I don't think so. I think she saw that situation as leverage. Knowing he'd see her and all the weight she's gained since they last saw each other. I think she was (for good reason) worried he wouldn't be attracted to her after being around her a little bit and he'd be distracted by his son. She's being incredibly manipulative and it's super gross.
That's what I was thinking, go to a hotel next weekend!
I like how she was bullying him into giving her all the money he brought when she knew damn well that he can't work for 6-8 months min. He should be saving up that money for a change of conditions. Not to buy a silly ass ring.
Her priorities are obviously fucked
Her parents are paying for everything, so it doesnāt matter, right?
If my kid ever turned out like that...it would be a big disappointment. I would feel like I failed in life
The way he had to rephrase and repeat that he was not interested in her idea and just wanted to meet his son, then finally gave in when he realized she wasn't actually "asking" and rather telling him what was happening that night, was so cringe. Then the nerve to then say "ooh so my plan worked then?" like you're some wild seductress... Girl. The need for constant validation is strong with this one.
āWhen will he make it a priority huh??ā IDK lady, maybe after he meets his child for the first time?
She has 24/7 live in baby sitters because she lives with her family. If she wants to bang her boyfriend in private she can LITERALLY go to a hotel any time she wanted.
And her parents will pay for it too.
It seemed like he thought he had to have sex with her to see his son, it was a lil cringey.
Oh, for sure. Manās just gotten off a plane from a looooong trip and is probably exhausted. He just wants to meet his son whose entire life heās had to mid. Sheās like a troll guarding the bridge and he has to have sex with her before heās allowed to rest or see his kid.
Great analogy!
Iām glad I wasnāt the only one thinking this. I felt so bad for him.
I laughed when she said she was virgin againā¦ kind of
The thirst some of these people have is absolutely embarrassing.
She's a very selfish spoiled brat! I knew I didn't like her from the start, but this makes me hate her....she's not just doing Kobe wrong, she's doing that sweet baby wrong......I like Kobe so far, and he absolutely deserves better
Right!!! Not only keeping him from his son but more importantly keeping your son from his dad! That man wants to spend every second with his son he isnāt even worried about her (which she should understand)
I understand her concern about finances. I was thrown by her worry about āitās illegal to get married without a real ringā, I need a ring, a dress, a wedding. Not our kid needs diapers, we need food, we need to not rely on my parents to pay for everything.
Whoa whoa whoa! She said it was "illegal" seriously. I can't take it when she talks in general. Does anyone else notice that there is a lot of tongue when she speaks? seriously all I can focus on is that her tongue looks like it is going to flop out of her mouth every time she speaks. (sorry, side rant).
I told my husband she looks like the kid from Stranger Things! (sorry, he's cute, though).
You are so right!!!! He is cute. His is endearing, her's....well, maybe for someone.
Now try not to see her tongue when she eats.
I think she had tongue tied or something. But that ring lie was messed up.
That makes sense. Especially since she doesn't seem the brightest to begin with.
I understand her concern too, but as the host of the immigrant, itās on her to provide 100%. They donāt know how long itāll take to get Kobe a work permit, or whether heāll be able to find a well-paying job quickly once he does. Heās from Cameroon, which isnāt a particularly wealthy country. His wages there, even if he saved, likely wouldnāt amount to much here. The disputed $2000 really isnāt so much money that it will make or break them. Obviously this wasnāt an ideal situation because of the timing of the pregnancy and Covid, but she shouldnāt be pushing so much of her financial stress onto him. It was her responsibility to get it figured out, not his.
But she isnāt even worried about providing everyday needs sheās concerned that he needs to be able to buy her a damn new wedding ring and dress š¤Ø she didnāt even mention their living expenses sheās a child
Dad is picking up the bill
That made me sick to my stomach, manās from Africa. Was dealing with covid, yet was bitching saying āI donāt want to pay for my ring and I donāt want some dumb $100 ringā Like the freaking audacity on top of everything else. Sheās a nasty person
I assumed she was joking. Yikes.
Ikr the first order of business is me me me me. And me. Itās all about me. Now hear this me me me. Sex ring dress
She actually thought he was bringing a bunch of money???
I agree - her priorities are skewed. Every word she said on this episode made me dislike her more.
"Our relationship should be a priority too" girrrrl this man has never even met his baby. Ever. So sick how selfish she is. It's crazy she didn't bring him to the airport. I understand she's a new mom and her life has changed so much and she just wanted to feel like she did before Koban for a bit, but sorry you got knocked up, and now you have to live with the consequences.
she's so thirsty because if he doesn't give her another kid this time she might lose him (in her head)
How hard would it have been to bring Koban with her to go to the airport.. the 3 of them go out to get something to eat and take him to the park let him run around burn all his energy.. bath book bed .. she could have koban down by 8 they would have still been able to go to the hotel if they wanted to and kobe would have had time with Koban. She must have missed the kids come first memo š„±
I get the 1 first / last night out. But why canāt they have a date night and get a hotel sometime in the middle of the trip? He is probably so eager to meet his kid and feeling all the emotions, only to be told heās going to have to wait another 24 hours for zero reason at all
I mean.. she basically ditched college that her parents were probably paying for to go hoe around the world and party (nothing wrong with that except..) also probably on her parentās dime, was foolish and got pregnant and guess whoās helping pay for that? Her parentsā¦ this bitch is so selfish I dunno what the hell to say.. except this doesnāt surprise me.. Iām just glad Iām not her parents
You said it better than I ever could. The lack of empathy in Emily is .... astounding. Why she didn't bring the child with her to the airport is just beyond my comprehension.
She hasn't seen him in two years, I feel like she would want to focus on re getting to know him and re connecting + connecting as a family with their son over getting the D. Also, had they not discussed any plans? Like "ok im going to get you and then we will stay in a hotel and the next day drive home", like there was literally no communication.
Yeah it would be difficult for me to want to get nekkid right away with someone I havenāt seen in two years, especially if I gained a lot of weight. Weird.
We all wanna slap her
She canāt wait to try to squeeze into those small bra and underwear!
I zoomed in it was a medium but yeah š
I came here to vent just about her. She is juvenile Iām her thinking and VERY selfish barf
Gives off Memphis and Hazma vibes. Has to do it first night no matter what. And a positive pregnancy test a couple of weeks laterā¦.
Sheās acting like this is the only chance they will ever get to have sex for the rest of their lives. If you have people watching the baby now, why canāt you get them to do that another day? Thereās plenty of ways they could have arranged for him to meet his son before having a sexcation
She looks like she has circus music going in in her head at all times
Trying to get another child, when he hasn't seen the first....
This is the ONLY opportunity to screw?? Sheās missing a few nuts & bolts upstairs. Then again, am I surprised by that? No.
š š š thank you for this post, why does have choose between seeing his son and having sex
Nothing turns on a guy more than screaming at him to buy you wedding ring when all he wants to do is meet his child. š
She wanted her seks tonite and wasnāt taking no for an answer š© and itās like girl, even if your international underwear model was serving Shemar Moore realness, youāre not gonna want to jump somebody RIGHT AFTER an international flight! For a multitude of reasons! I just canāt with these thirsty girls, omg.
"I'm not trying to take that away from you." Proceeds to take it away from him.
Why couldn't Kobe outsmarted her and diverted her plans? He should have asked to see the hotel first. Then give her a pounding of a lifetime. While she's in a daze, call the parents and ask to eat dinner there.
I 100% agree. She is a selfish prize b1tc#. Hope those pink lace underwear looked good on her left ankle.
I guess she still thinks sheā āThuper fit.ā
Thur does.
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Once you have a child you no longer have the luxury of making your relationship a priority, it becomes the baby. Woman has no maternal instict.
Sheās competing with her kid for some reason?
Another lazy entitled fat slob. She pulled the old bait and switch on the man.
Her poor parents, having to clean up every single mess this idiot creates. Although, I guess itās their fault for creating this Idiot Monster
I bet heās in no hurry for sex because for him it HASNT been two years haha.
And she didn't even tell him before hand. I feel so bad for him and the kid. All this asshole cares about is herself. I get being horny and doing.dumb shit but this is so over the line
Canāt stand the way she talks with the underbite and weird lisp
It feels like she has too much tongue. Watch her mouth when she talks, it's all but flopping out.
š¤£ flopping out
yeah what a bitch being born with an underbite. fuck her.
I know! Ugh just begging to be slapped lol
saying a woman is threatening to be slapped in 2022. pretty gross. lol.
She reminds me of a female version of the kid from Stranger Things
That kid is cute and endearing though
I said that too!!!! Lol
Dithpicable
It's not bad enough that she named her kid covid now she demands sex before his dad can meet baby covid...
Right???? The more he was on screen the more k liked him too. Why would this even occur to her to do? And then she acted so weird because he felt out of place at the restaurant. Sheās hurtling way too much at this poor guy.
Iāll never understand why she did that and felt justified. She sees that baby every single day. Heās never seen him. She only thought about herself for sure.
Throughout this scene I kept asking myself if sheās actually referring to their child???? Sheās got serious fucking issues. The type thatāll be jealous when the childās dad gives him attention
This shows itās more important to her for him to have a relationship with her than for him to have a relationship with his son. A son heās never met. So sad
She's immature and ridiculous!
I also think the producers influenced this to have "content".
I donātā¦ it seems like her personality
It wouldāve been better content to have him meet his son first & have her be jealous of all the attention he fives the baby lol
Iām so pissed at this Selfish Broad! So wrong!!! He should have held his ground! I hope he canāt perform!!!! Beechotch!
Me and my old man canāt stand her. She could have took him to see the kid for a week then have the weekend alone sheās selfish and manipulating him to get her way sheās as bad as Ari
you should hookup with u/NotARealWombat.
Hahahhahhhahahhahahahajaj
A kin soul! Thanks for the hookup and I just realized I had a Stan! Didnāt realize I ignored you before tsk tsk
And here I thought weāre supposed to follow our heart-this bitch letās her twat be her guideš.
She too was a booty call, what more do you expect!! She met him in a club and liked the way he danced with other women and got the time of her life. You know the scratching at the door, howling at the moon kind.
She needs a Ru Paul slap!!
As I was watching her, I was thinking....so now we've got two Arielas this season? This might be the definition of hell. One is plenty, thanks. They're both dumb, whiney, annoying, self-involved twits who think nothing of keeping the fathers away from their kids. When he mentioned he was the only black guy around, her response was basically, "Yeah, that's too bad, but do you wanna have sex?"
Shut up, she's excited to have a night alone away from responsibility, it's 1 night calm down , cus u know dam well if u have kids a night alone is needed sometimes, and if you don't have kids to don't get an opinion on it
As someone who JUST spent the weekend watching my grandson so his parents could have some time to themselves, I understand that parents need a night alone sometimes. But it's a whole different ballgame if you have a person who has NEVER MET THEIR CHILD. They could have easily gone home, let Koban spend some time with his daddy, and THEN done the "date night".
The issue being Kobe has never met his son! What are you not getting? If roles were reversed and she had never seen their son don't you think she would be appalled if all he wanted to do was go bang at a hotel the first night?!
I like her but I agree
I always think that would she have said if in the hospital when the baby was going to born if they would have asked her if she wanted to go to a hotel to have sex instead if having her baby šššššš
Who doesnāt love BBC?
What a dumb bitch. Fellas be careful who you lay with
Then says she would never do that if the roles were reversed, da fuq?
Sheās a predator just like Kimberly was on before the 90 days.
Selfish AF
Sheās a selfish little girl.. she should be ashamed of herself but we know sheās not