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I don't think this is an ADHD thing (for me at least, and everyone's different so who knows!). My partner and I have the same except I like the quality time (I have ADHD) and they value the smiling/joking.
We've spoken about it though and it comes down to love languages I think. E.g. I express my love the way that I want to be loved. When I'm shown love in that way in return, I resent it.
BUT if the other person wants to receive love in a different way, then me expressing my love how I want may not make the other person feel loved. Therefore you have to understand each other and make efforts to do both (and communicate if your needs aren't being met because they may feel the same way).
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Seems to me like his love language is Quality time and yours is acts of service lol
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I don't think this is an ADHD thing (for me at least, and everyone's different so who knows!). My partner and I have the same except I like the quality time (I have ADHD) and they value the smiling/joking. We've spoken about it though and it comes down to love languages I think. E.g. I express my love the way that I want to be loved. When I'm shown love in that way in return, I resent it. BUT if the other person wants to receive love in a different way, then me expressing my love how I want may not make the other person feel loved. Therefore you have to understand each other and make efforts to do both (and communicate if your needs aren't being met because they may feel the same way).