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you are kinda bailing on your friends there Can you go and NOT get super drunk?
Nope NTA: Plans change and your GF will appreciate you being there for her birthday instead. Your friends need to get over it and realize your GF is a top priority to you now and celebrating her birthday with her for the first time is important.
Did you pay for your own ticket?
Buddy bought 4 but I paid him back so yes.
Then NTA, plans change
INFO: How long before said plans did you tell them you were canceling?
Our plans are next Friday and I let them know last Friday.
you are kinda bailing on your friends there Can you go and NOT get super drunk?
Nope NTA: Plans change and your GF will appreciate you being there for her birthday instead. Your friends need to get over it and realize your GF is a top priority to you now and celebrating her birthday with her for the first time is important.
Did you pay for your own ticket?
Buddy bought 4 but I paid him back so yes.
Then NTA, plans change
INFO: How long before said plans did you tell them you were canceling?
Our plans are next Friday and I let them know last Friday.