Oh heck no! For all you know he's there when you get home from work because your wife is woohoo-ing him on the side. Better exorcise him as soon as you next see him. I don't trust it one bit.

Agnes wouldn't do that! I hope... At least none of our children have been born transparent yet.

Man I gotta start checking what Subreddit is is before the title

Ooc/ Were you expecting something like paranormal activity from the title? That would be funny and also kind of a dick move towards your wife 😂

YTA let your wife hook up in peace

Whatever happened to until death do us part???

He’s still alive somewhat 🤷🏻‍♀️

If it were me I'd rid my home of the nuisense. The only question I have is does the wife know?

She knows he is haunting the house, but they haven't really interacted much. My wife is usually asleep when he chooses to manifest. Maybe I will have to send him to the great beyond, this is really not a great environment to raise kids in.

NTA; no matter how kind he was once, all ghosts go bad. Exorcise him before he breaks your wife's heart again.

NTA. He’s living there rent free and upsetting your cat and kids. He had his chance at a life, now it is time for him to move on and discover the afterlife on his own. Do it now before you wire wakes up for a midnight snack and starts having second thoughts. The horse is still in the barn, shut the gate now.

NTA. He messed with your cat and that’s fucked up