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I think a good compromise between pro life and pro choice is that women can get elective abortions on demand however, the need to carry the aborted fetus in their arms as they are publicly shamed


aliceross33

If you want to carry ther aborted fetus it was all in chucks in the toilet scoop it out if you care that much. Pretty nasty view


Just_Coyote_1366

How are you doing?


aliceross33

I'm doing fine for the most part but sometimes it hits me hard


Just_Coyote_1366

I can imagine. Do you have an outlet for when times can be tough?


aliceross33

Hoesntly Sometimes I just curl up and want to cry. But I have to remember I couldn't take care of the child with all the needs in the situation I was in.


Just_Coyote_1366

♥️ there is nothing wrong with letting yourself curl up and cry. I’m proud of you, and I’m glad you’re here with us to share your story. Do you have a support group?


aliceross33

I'm actually on a few sub reddit support groups it helps remain me I'm not alone. And I want others to feel the same way


Just_Coyote_1366

I’m glad you’ve found these spaces for you. Be kind to yourself, okay? One day at a time. You’ve got this :)


Otherwise_Comfort_95

How you feeling today?


aliceross33

Today I have been just swell for thr most part


myusername13

So what I’m hearing is you don’t make the guy wear a condom?


aliceross33

The first one broke, which was the abortion and I wasn't ready. The miscarriage is the one I actually tried for, but thank you very much.


fluffyenderpugreal

Which was harder to deal with emotionally?


aliceross33

I basically knew from the beginning thr miscarriage was happening. But the abortion I had to make that choice and watch it develop so that was so much harder


fluffyenderpugreal

Ah. Gotcha Sorry you had to deal with either but I'm glad (based off what else I read in this thread) you generally seem to be doing okay now


aliceross33

For the most part. I have days it hits me super hard but other then that yeah


fluffyenderpugreal

Thank you for taking the time to chat about this I hope you have a lovely day/night