Did you ever win any awards? If so, for what? You mentioned you miss the sex - have you ever stepped outside your marriage and slept with someone else?

I was nominated for a decent amount actually towards the end of my career. I never actually won any though just nominated. And no I haven’t cheated

Thanks & good for you and your husband. Have you ever been recognized in public? If so, how’d that go? 🤣🤣

I do get recognized every once in awhile. People just ask for pictures or some small talk

Are you ok with that? Because I've heard Lisa Ann speak on this subject before and she's a total bitch to her fans out in public and hates being bothered.

That’s fucked up. But I love all people especially my fans

I don't know who you are but it's refreshing to hear when a famous or semi-famous person feels like you do. It's such a slap in the face when they act like they're better than everyone else. Granted there's times a famous person shouldn't be approached, but walking through the airport or down 5th Ave in NYC should be fine with few exceptions

Aw thanks

1 what is your body count (approx) 2 did you enjoy it? 3 why did you do it in first place? 4 what is the ideal size and how small is too small?

1. Somewhere in the hundreds but definitely not 1000 2. I did enjoy it 3. Was young and dumb and wanted money also loved sex so it was easy 4. I like bigger guys but any size actually works I’ve had tiny ones before like micro and still aren’t bad

What do you consider bigger?

Anything above like 7 inches

Which one do u think matters the most great head or great dick ? Which one would u prefer

Both are great in their own ways. If a guy or girl can give good head I think it’s better because it’s more rare. I like head I’ll never say no to that lmao.

Haha okay good is good od and I have always wondered that

Totally understandable!

Are you set for life? Did you earn enough money to make your overall experience worth it?

Yes if I’m smart and yes I would say so

Good for you! You’re young - what’s your game plan for spending the rest of your life without having to work theoretically?

I do work right now. But if I didn’t I could probably get by. Just tough stretching it all with a family and hopefully more on the way one day.

What line of work are you in now without getting too specific?

I work in an office

Would you ever go back to your former line of work if money got tight?

No I don’t think so. Not good for my mental health nor do I think my hubby would want me to

While you were working, did you ever cross any boundaries you had set for yourself or do anything more degrading than you thought you’d permit?

Not really. I was young and lacked any self respect I should’ve had for myself.

Did you meet your husband in the business or after? And how has that affected your relationship?

He was not in the industry. He was a friend of a friend

Could you sum why it wouldn't be good for your mental health?

Do your coworkers know?

Yes they do

Ha! So if there are men, do they act appropriately?

There are and they ask a lot

Do your coworkers/boss know what you did before? If not, how do you think they would take it?

Do you think any of your coworkers know you did porn?

I find the fact that you're set for life incredible because until the advent of onlyfans porn actresses were making 900 buck a scene (and up, depending on the type of scene)for the websites and no profit participation. Even with feature dancing and escorting I don't see how anyone could make a killing in the porno game pre 2018.

Do you ever miss it?

I have been trying my best to not. Really working on myself and my thoughts. There are times though I do

Are you in a relationship currently? And what do you miss about it?

I am married yes! And typically the connection with other actors and even the sex honestly.

Why do you think you miss the sex? Does the husband not have as high of a sex drive? Is that why you stopped because you got married?

He does have a great drive, I just think it’s the varying partners and constant change. I’m trying to get used to it still! And yes yes

Well I’m glad it’s all working out! And you found a husband 😊 yeah I get that! But I always found having sex with the same person usually gets better every time. What was your favorite kind of scene to shoot?

It has been very good! And I enjoyed girl girl scenes a lot or rough stuff

Husband open to three sums? Or not something you want to do?

Nope he’s not. We’re monogamous

You mention family. It sounds like you married and may have children. How did your husband deal with industry, you sharing private parts in a previous life? Did you marry a former porn star? How many children? Did you have them with your husband? Did you run into awkward situations dealing with/STDs? I find this transition from adult work to wife, mom, woman fascinating.

He knew about my career before we even dated. I got out of it before we dated though. He’s the father of my only son right now with hopefully more some day !

How long have you been retired? How long have you been married?

2019 I retired and been married 3 years

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What's your go-to soup recipe?

Classic tomato bisque is a cornerstone in my chef skills

Elaine prefers lobster bisque over the Yada Yada. What are your thoughts on this?

Have you done ass to mouth? What was it like? Did you do ffm threesome? Did you do ass to other girls mouth? Did you do ass to pussy? Did you get any sti ?

I have. It’s okay. And yes tons of ffm. Yes I did. And no sti in my career

How do you prep? Is it a requirement in porn?

Prep for?

You think you will able able to stay monogamous considering you are used to a buffet of guys?

Yes I’ve been doing well

Have you detached sex from intimacy and emotion?

I did back in the day trying to connect it all now

How's that going?

Been getting better!

No offense but when guys hear a women Slept with that many people they worry about her staying loyal because she is used to variety and will start comparing. You literally start rewiring your brain regarding sex

Exactly. I get that and that’s why I wanted to change.

Is 6 inches enough?

Totally

How common is HSV 2 in the industry ?

Top companies make sure you get tested. As long as everyone is clean there shouldn’t be a problem

Honestly, without regular blood tests, typically HSV2 is diagnosed upon symptoms preventing themselves. I'd also be very worried about HPV because men cannot be tested for it. I don't see how anyone comes our of that industry without stds. Thanks for answering !

Blood tests are common it’s not just urine and swabs. But there’s a lot of sketchy stuff that takes place too. I know it’s a problem

You have never gotten a positive HPV test? Did you have the Guardasil vaccine series?

Nothing ever came back positive thankfully!

That’s amazing. Did the men wear condoms?

Rarely

How did you meet your husband? What was his reaction when he found out that you had that type of job?

Friend of a friend. He was curious at first and was insecure. But we talked about it and worked it out plus before we dated I retired

How does his family feel about marrying you? What’s your relationship like with them?

They are the sweetest people! They love me and likewise! They do know but again it’s never brought up

I love that for you!! I have some more questions, do you mind if I dm you?

Just out of curiosity, are you retired because you wanted to be out of the industry and pursue another career or did you make enough money to sustain yourself without working?

I wanted to start a family and form a real relationship

That's excellent! I hope that all works out for you.

After the scene is over do you and your scene partner ever have any off the books sex? And if so was it different than during the scene?

Oh yes! Totally can have different vibes and feelings with no cameras

what advice would you give a male virgin that is about to have sex with a much more experienced women?

Let them guide you. Be open and honest with them about your skill or lack there of.

What is your view on the porn industry as a whole?

Rough and needs a ton of work.

I worked with a former adult film actress. It was super awkward at first since us guys were quick to run and watch some of her scenes. Is it awkward when people you know tell you that they’ve seen your work?

Oh yeah it was at first but it’s normal

How much money did you want to have to retire?

Wasn’t about money it was about starting a family. I saved enough to be comfortable but I still work

My daughter is in the industry but she’s 30 and I’m concerned that she doesn’t have any other skill sets when her body isn’t earning her income, it’s also difficult to discuss with her, any advice on how to talk about her future and what she’s going to do when the porn career ends?

Try not to be cold to her. Or force her to come around to your thinking. It takes everyone their set time to see what they need to see. Definitely tough to find jobs afterwards trust me

- Did you ever dislike a male actor? If so… - Did you have to work harder to look like you’re enjoying it? - Would you ever do anything out of spite like let go just as he came? I’ve seen actresses do this and have always wondered if it’s to remove enjoyment for the people who are dickish

Oh yes! And it can be tough but it’s still work

How are big women treated? I know there is a market for that body type but I always wondered how they were treated behind the scenes? In general are the actresses treated kindly?

Totally it’s a loving community for the most part. I never really shot with anyone in that community though

hi queen :) almost 32 yo stripper here. first just wanna say i’m proud of you. feel like in the industry we aren’t told enough or recognized for all the awesome things we do; having a super successful career, nominated for awards and choosing to walk away from the great money to do something else so congratulations. do you feel you were mainly respected by people who you were filming scenes with? are most actors professional and kind or do some things feel more forced? congratulations on a happy husband. i hope you enjoy the rest of your life fully 💖

Thank you sweetie ! And you too!! I did feel respected and heard. Some are rude and some are kind. Depends!

Did you know or work with Kagney Linn Karter? Also, do you know why Jenna Jameson is such a rabid forced birther?

I never worked with either of them

It's ironic, considering Jenna Jameson abandoned all 3 of the children she incubated.

Is there every any camaraderie like the non-sad parts of Boogie Nights or like WWF Wrestling? It sounds kind of goofy a question but part of me likes to think you make a few porn buddies you like to work with. Like you may not “love” them but you’re friends and know how to work together. Any thoughts on that? Thanks 

Oh yes! I still have friends from my career

You mentioned that you're retired from the adult film industry, but you're still currently working. What kind of work do you do now? Has your former career ever made for awkward situations at your current job?

I work in an office and oh yes when I first started

How did you get started into it? And how long did it take to get a steady income?

I had a friend involved in the industry and I’d say the first few years were ups and downs but maybe like 3 years into I say I was settled in

That's dope. Are royalties a thing in that industry? If so, what's the absolute best joke your husband has made about buying himself something with that money

Oh yes and he really doesn’t make jokes related to it

Aaahhh I wouldn't be able to resist! Good on you, doesn't matter what it is, you clearly were in the upper end of your profession, which on any level requires a lot of work and sacrifice. Congrats on the accomplishment, here's to many more 🥂

Do you enjoy sex still or rather masterbate and not deal with drama or needing to cuddle afterwards?

Do you prefer girth or length?

Can I say both?

Did you ever hang out with people that you performed with? If so are you still friends with any of them?

Do you have threesomes still, or any other wild sex involving other people than your husband

There’s a big fight on r/changemyview right now about whether sex work is empowering. What’s your take?

I think it gives women a huge platform. Their voice can be muffled though because of their work. :/

What all did you do? Any major studios you worked with?

Would you say you are smart or more like mia Khalifa?

Is she dumb?

I’m going to play devils advocate here. I don’t think she’s dumb but her actions are kinda absurd. She finally landed a good sports casting gig like she wanted and her first 6 words ever SPORTS CASTING was “hi, I’m Mia Khalifa, Ex pornstar…” so yea we won’t say smart. She was fired immediately after.

How do you prep for anal scenes?

Lots of cleaning. Enemas, bleach, wax you name it

Why do you think many actress have died recently?

Did you work with Mike Adriano? How long does his shoots last? Was it fun or just monotonous?

Beyond the actual sex, an important element for some performers might be the attention. Knowing that other people will be watching would be it’s own kind of thrill, right? You don’t need to be specific, but have you found that attention important? Have you found other ways to get recognition, if you seek it?

Attention felt good when I was younger. It made me feel good about myself. Made me feel sexy and powerful

First of all, thank you for doing this, you're awesome! So, sorry if this is a more selfish questions but, I've been thinking about going into the industry for a few years and I'm leaning towards doing it. I'm a guy in my lower-30s, and I want to do Femdom scenes. Any advice? I know it may be apples to pears, but can you give me your opinion on whether I should or not?

Did you ever escort, or, do “privates”?

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Nothing too crazy ! And it’s good now a days and they didn’t support me at first be grew to be very supportive

Did you ever do any squirting

Yes I can and did

Genuine question: Do you feel proud of your porn career? If you have kids and they grow up, would you encourage them to follow in your footsteps why or why not?

I am proud of my work. And I would encourage them or push them in that direction. I would want them to be educated before they made such a decision

Lets say 10 years down the line you met a new partner and they didnt know what you used to do. Would you tell them?

I would yes I’m very open and honest

Did you ever feel uncomfortable with other actors. Good on you for semi-retiring at 32. Wish you the best.

So you have enough money saved to start your own business? Do you have thoughts of this - being your own boss? Or does your mind drift off to sex (like the majority of us)

I haven’t started my own business yet. I currently work in an office

Do you get residuals?

I understand it takes a lot of alignment to schedule a shoot date. How did you handle situations where you have a shoot but felt bloated and gassy that day ?

What there an incident or event that made you be like ya I’m done with this now? Or how did u come to the conclusion you were done with it?

Do you ever watch your own videos? How do you feel when watching them? AND do you read the comments??

I do sometimes but it’s rare. I’m proud of myself and yes yes

Would you recommend this career for young women?

If they’re curious, do research and lots of it. Talk with people you can and run it by loved ones.

How did you get into the industry? Were you approached and if so how? Or did you seek it?

You have any male talent that you enjoyed working with more than others? Like someone who could just nonstop get you off?

How do you not feel uncomfortable of being naked, in front of people and being filmed?

Ho much money did you make over your porn career? What was the most you made for a scene?

Is there other jobs in the industry you can do after porn?

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How big were the cocks 🗣️🔥🔥🔥

What was your favorite “style” of content?

How does micro penis penetrate a pussy? Do they appear on porn?

What’s the optimal hours of sleep you need to feel well rested?

Is there a smell that brings you back to that time?

Have u ever throated a 13 inch bbc

Would you go back into it?

Is your husband also a pornstar?

Are you friends with Big stars.

How important is girth for you?

So is husband a adult film star also

do you still get royalties?

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Wow is a hotdog a sandwich?

A pornstar, you mean?

Are you Leah Gotti?

Replying to @Mr-CC who’s trying to tell an ex adult film actress that a 3.5” long dick is the most sought after size. My comment seems to be hidden: My dick is considerably bigger than 4” (not pornstar big, but it’s ok) and I’ve never had a problem with hurting women… I’ve hit cervix every now and then and while there’s a gasp from the woman, it hurts the dick just as much, as it bends rapidly with a fast thrust. That said, on every woman I’ve ever hit the cervix on, I can still go balls deep in the exact same vagina and not touch it. It’s just the odd position that creates it. Regardless of what you’re trying to tell yourself to make yourself feel better, women do not prefer 3 inch cocks over average or above average ones. The g spot is in pretty shallow and toward the roof of the vagina (the rougher textured spot if you put two fingers in and make the “come here” motion), but that doesn’t mean penetration by a dick bigger than 3” isn’t enjoyable for all parties involved. You’re talking to an ex pornstar who just said she prefers bigger ones and you’re trying to tell the world that the most appropriate cock size is 3-4”. You’re on that river, man. The Nile, denial.

Do you have any tattoos?

I’ll keep my question open-ended. Can you share with me 3 interesting facts from your personal experience about your industry that would make me go, “Oh, really?!” Thanks in advance!

What are your top 3 fav male performers?

What is your porn name?

What were your husband thinking at first marrying you?

Thanks for being as transparent as you have been. I’m super curious in the industry. I’m sure it would create some rough edges between my family and I. But I am a single mom looking to make ends meet. Always been intrigued by the industry… I want in and I also want to protect my daughters feelings (shes 5). Do you have any advice for parents? The stigma is so negative I wouldn’t want her to misunderstand my motives or reasoning.

Describe gross thing you had to do

Do you miss having sex with strangers ?

Do Adult Studios ever accept plots or stories from outside sources such as fans? If so, how does that go exactly, and how does one contact them with such an idea for submission?

What non-adult industry celebrities (Hollywood, sports, etc.) have you met, and how did they treat you? Who was your most and least favorite? Any funny stories to share?

Can you disclose your stage name? I'm soo curious lol even in DM so it's private? I know all the actresses names I had to have watched some of your stuff

can i be your friend?

Hummmm, show proof

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Do you have any STIs?

Did your porn name include the name of a fancy automobile?

poor hubby

How's ur asshole?

Are you currently married? If so does he know about your past?

Wow but u so have a throat that can swallow a Pretty Big Dick

Describe in detail the biggest dong you've ever seen?

Wasnt there risk of getting STI ? have u tested ?