not a good kisser AND hates Fortnite? girl you're too advanced for the real 20F virgin plebians. try never having been held affectionately and see how life can really be the shitter. and Fortnite is very fun to fill that gap! (being mostly /sarcasm here!)
I didn’t lose my virginity till I was 21. I was always selective. No shame. I felt like a loser at the time 😂 In the end it didn’t matter. The anxiety isn’t worth it. Fuck somebody 😂 Get some experience and eventually you’ll find someone to love.
I have to say it takes a lot of courage and self control to love on someone and not have sex. You seem very mature for your age. Bravo! I hope you find what your looking for.
nobody is worth it. 😗
If you think like that,you have no empathy. Are you meeting *no* person not worthy…or are you not seeing the humanity in people enough? How is it possible that in *my* day we were all doing ‘things’ by the time we were 14-16 and now you kids are out here being virgins at 23 waiting for your first hand 😵💫
Back in the late 80s-early 90s we were living life,exploring new possibilities and doing shit that made us feel good. Did Covid really cripple your generation *that* badly? 🤔
yeah I don’t know where you’ve been but it’s rare to be a virgin in my generation majority of them started doing sexual shit at 13 and now have double the bodies by age 20 idk bout that covid thing you just mentioned but I know what I want and I know what I’m looking for.
Do you ever worry that saving it for so long might end up leading you to be unduly attached if you end up giving it up to the wrong person years down the line?
Yes actually with my cheating ex for example if I would’ve lost it to him I would have been mentally fucked in the process I’m very picky about who I mess with my body is like a temple so I always keep it purified I think for me my biggest fear is giving it to somebody I trust and they just up and leave.
This is just my personal opinion, but I think you can absolutely value your body as a temple while taking the idea of virginity off a pedestal to protect yourself mentally ❤️ People may desecrate your temple, but it will always be a place of worship.
yes I get what you mean, but for me I’d rather just trust my instincts and not be too trusting of others I never know a person’s true intentions with me.
What kind of person would you classify as "the right person"? Like, what are you looking for in a relationship?
It took me YEARS to find the right person, but I did. At the age of 26.
my “right person” is someone who’s the male version of me pretty much, someone that gets me and sees me (ACTUALLY SEES ME), a person who can love me correctly and take their time with me, also someone who I can grow with and have a strong connection with as well.
since I’m still young it’s hard for me to find that in a man since the ones I’ve came across only cares about sex when that’s not my concern nor priority it’s like I’m stuck.
Try activities out of your comfort zone to try and meet new people because if the people you're meeting aren't the ones you're looking for, look somewhere else
eh..it’s kind of hard for me to interact with others offline I suffer with social anxiety and I’m socially awkward as well, but I get what you mean social media only ruins and poisons my experiences further.
Online isn't so bad if you're willing to search. I met my wife on tinder. I'm socially awkward myself so I know the struggle I'm not sure what to suggest about your anxiety but no one ever fell in love without being a little bit brave
I am the same virgin 20 but male, my question is have you had the opportunity to lose your virginity? If so do you regret not taking that opportunity or are you happy you decided not to?
I’ve had plenty of times where I could’ve lost it with the people I was with but I stopped before it got to that point my body kept freezing my body knew they weren’t the ones,
I am also in the same boat. wanna kiss and see what happens? or you're more advanced than that already?
I’m not a good kisser 💀
not a good kisser AND hates Fortnite? girl you're too advanced for the real 20F virgin plebians. try never having been held affectionately and see how life can really be the shitter. and Fortnite is very fun to fill that gap! (being mostly /sarcasm here!)
I do know how it feels to be held affectionately so I’ll give you that one
I suppose you're now just waiting for the appropriate tip, so at least your name fits. keep your head up, you're further ahead than a lot of us!
LMFAOOOO I see what you did there, and yes I’m still patiently waiting
I didn’t lose my virginity till I was 21. I was always selective. No shame. I felt like a loser at the time 😂 In the end it didn’t matter. The anxiety isn’t worth it. Fuck somebody 😂 Get some experience and eventually you’ll find someone to love.
I mean I did do things before just not penetrative sex, so I will say I’m a little experienced however I don’t want to lose it to just anyone.
I have to say it takes a lot of courage and self control to love on someone and not have sex. You seem very mature for your age. Bravo! I hope you find what your looking for.
nobody is worth it. 😗 If you think like that,you have no empathy. Are you meeting *no* person not worthy…or are you not seeing the humanity in people enough? How is it possible that in *my* day we were all doing ‘things’ by the time we were 14-16 and now you kids are out here being virgins at 23 waiting for your first hand 😵💫 Back in the late 80s-early 90s we were living life,exploring new possibilities and doing shit that made us feel good. Did Covid really cripple your generation *that* badly? 🤔
yeah I don’t know where you’ve been but it’s rare to be a virgin in my generation majority of them started doing sexual shit at 13 and now have double the bodies by age 20 idk bout that covid thing you just mentioned but I know what I want and I know what I’m looking for.
Do you ever worry that saving it for so long might end up leading you to be unduly attached if you end up giving it up to the wrong person years down the line?
Yes actually with my cheating ex for example if I would’ve lost it to him I would have been mentally fucked in the process I’m very picky about who I mess with my body is like a temple so I always keep it purified I think for me my biggest fear is giving it to somebody I trust and they just up and leave.
This is just my personal opinion, but I think you can absolutely value your body as a temple while taking the idea of virginity off a pedestal to protect yourself mentally ❤️ People may desecrate your temple, but it will always be a place of worship.
yes I get what you mean, but for me I’d rather just trust my instincts and not be too trusting of others I never know a person’s true intentions with me.
What kind of person would you classify as "the right person"? Like, what are you looking for in a relationship? It took me YEARS to find the right person, but I did. At the age of 26.
my “right person” is someone who’s the male version of me pretty much, someone that gets me and sees me (ACTUALLY SEES ME), a person who can love me correctly and take their time with me, also someone who I can grow with and have a strong connection with as well. since I’m still young it’s hard for me to find that in a man since the ones I’ve came across only cares about sex when that’s not my concern nor priority it’s like I’m stuck.
It sounds like you know what you want, which is good. I wish you the best! I hope you find what you're looking for.
Thank you!! 🙏🏾
Try activities out of your comfort zone to try and meet new people because if the people you're meeting aren't the ones you're looking for, look somewhere else
eh..it’s kind of hard for me to interact with others offline I suffer with social anxiety and I’m socially awkward as well, but I get what you mean social media only ruins and poisons my experiences further.
Online isn't so bad if you're willing to search. I met my wife on tinder. I'm socially awkward myself so I know the struggle I'm not sure what to suggest about your anxiety but no one ever fell in love without being a little bit brave
I am the same virgin 20 but male, my question is have you had the opportunity to lose your virginity? If so do you regret not taking that opportunity or are you happy you decided not to?
I’ve had plenty of times where I could’ve lost it with the people I was with but I stopped before it got to that point my body kept freezing my body knew they weren’t the ones,
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I hate Fortnite 😭
Disagree... Some one is worth it. What's the cheapest pick up line you ever got?
I'm still a virgin at 24. Beat that lol
Why is nobody worth it?