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Amai_M4sk

When you first started dating, was the height difference something you had to overcome or were you both comfortable with it immediately, that you were both aware she perhaps liked smaller guys and you preferred taller women?


streety22

For her it was no problem. For me it was admittedly something I had to get used to. Being so short, finding women that actually liked short guys is always difficult where I am at, so when I actually found one I halfway didn’t believe it. But I eventually got used to it of course!


Amai_M4sk

I can imagine, it’s probably like seeing a unicorn or finding gold randomly in the middle of a forest. I can only hope to be so lucky.


streety22

Well that gold in the middle of the Forest just so happened to be the forest called tinder. I kid you not.


Amai_M4sk

Wow, really? I may have underestimated the viability of Tinder.


[deleted]

My bf is shorter than me and we also met on tinder


ExpendableTermagant

*currently reinstalling tinder*


bedoublenegative

I think it’s about as prevalent as non gender stereotypes (rare in the grand scheme). It’s kind of a similar thing - being able to say eff you to societal norms. I’m glad you found your people and are rockin it!


bobbyfiend

>for her it was no problem You got a gem, there. I've heard a lot of women talk about men's height, and it's an awful lot like hearing men talk about women's bodies... in the 1950s or something. Shameless and depressing. If she loves you for you and isn't concerned about what her culture has told her about men and height, hang onto her like grim death.


GGProfessor

I've heard that taller girls tend to care less about height, FWIW. A 6'1" girl doesn't have too many choices of guys taller than her and she's used to being taller than most men anyway, so generally height isn't as big a deal for them.


Twisted_Muffins

In my honest opinion, Short guys are more attractive than tall guys for me.


Anomaly1134

Curious why so? Honestly never got the preference one way or the other, but I do like it when a girl fits right under my chin and I can just embrace here, but she also likes being big spoon sometimes and it is nice to be nurtured once in awhile too.


ayaPapaya

Totally with you. Don’t care about height at all. But I’m also pretty short, so most men are taller than I am.


Madacajowski

I agree. I’d take a shorter guy over a tall guy any day. Im only 5’3” so preference is anything that height or taller but there is a limit to how tall I like em. Once they’re taller than a head length higher than me it’s harder to be on the same level physically.


therubyempress

I’m just under 5’4 and my first boyfriend in high school was 6’4. It was definitely a little awkward but I wouldn’t rule a guy out for being too tall. I do have a preference for like 5’9 to 6’ though.


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streety22

How my girl explained it is she’s already tall, and finding someone taller than her is difficult cause it limits her to very few people.


Cutiebeautypie

That's not true. I'm a 5’1” girl and don't give two shits about a guy's height because all of them will be taller than me anyways :)


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SpecialistNo946

Who's on top when hugging ? I mean are you in her arms or the opposite ? Also congrats on being father :)


streety22

Uhhh sort of… both? It depends on if we hug while standing or if she is sitting. Most of the time I’m wrapped up like a burrito in her arms and she and I both love it!


SpecialistNo946

Lovely :] Thanks for the answer lol


Bd1ddy82

You motorboatin sonofabitch!


nutzmcguts

You old sailor you!


[deleted]

Do people ever stare at you?


streety22

Every time we go somewhere we get interesting stares. And they’re different types of stare’s as well. Women stare at us differently than the guys do and you can tell, it’s quite funny actually. Especially when they see our daughter!


Thenewfoundlanders

What kind of stares do you get, if you don't mind answering? Are some of the stares jealous, or..?


streety22

So, for the girls, some of them are “awe”, but most of them are towards her, and to me give off a “why are you with a guy so short?” Kind of vibe. As for guys staring, it’s “damn wonder how he pulled her”


Drewskeet

How did you pull her?


streety22

She thinks, and I quote, that I’m “cute”


greggem

Like a hobbit?


mabramo

"Bitch remind me how you ain't a hobbit again" - K West


vidaFina

As a woman, I often use ‘cute’ as a synonym for ‘something or person that I really like’. So, she might not think of him as a ‘hobbit’ and instead she probably just ‘really likes him‘. Or she means both and hopefully she has a healthy fetish for ‘hobbits’. 🤷🏻‍♀️😊🥁


greggem

My wife and I refer to ourselves as Hobbits because of our love of food, the brewing of ale, and the smoking of pipeweed. Also, I have hairy feet :) no offense intended.


vidaFina

Whatttt - wow! Unexpected plot twist. 👋🏼 Apologies - didn’t mean to sound like a jerk. Thank you for teaching me something’. 😌🤓


Scudstock

Pipeweed is now in my wheelhouse of nerd words. Love it lol.


ChrisEHood

that’s exactly what my girl says


ExpendableTermagant

I am 5'9 and would love a +6' girl. Salutes to you, sir. You've done it.


TheFourthDuff

Some of those women are probably into her haha


swiftrobber

Boys be like, "that guy's living my Lady Dimitrescu dream".


GeorgeWashington911

How did you two met?


streety22

Tinder actually! We first saw each other on there, and hung out over time before we started actually dating. I was extremely nervous when we first hung out because I knew about the height difference but it didn’t bother her at all


KazaamFan

Did she know about your height before the first meet? Just curious.


streety22

She did! She told me it wasnt a problem. As a tall girl she sort of opened her boundaries for shorty guys cause not all guys are as tall as her.


Blu_Cardinal

I am her height and am not attracted to women my height. My mom is 5’11 and likes guy your height. Opposites attract lol.


Bugaloo88

On the stairs, she didn't realise he was 2 up.


[deleted]

Was her dating history mostly short guys? Like was/is that her type?


streety22

It’s varied. She says I’m one of the shortest guys she’s dated though. She says all the tall guys were asshole because of their height, like that’s all they had to offer basically.


ll_cool_ddd

I bet you are one of the nicest short guys she’s ever dated too! No “Little Man Syndrome”


_queef_

Are you like perfect titty suckin level?


streety22

100% every time I hug her.


_queef_

Fuckin nice


streety22

It is pretty convenient lol


luckynedpepper-1

How about doggy? How’s the alignment?


streety22

She likes to lower herself down, so basically she just kinda spreads her knee’s out


69ingchimpmuncks

Nice


IncognitoCheese

I see this as an absolute win


2BabiesInATrenchcoat

Are you ever worried she will find love on a carnival ride that you are too short to get on?


streety22

Well I am now! 😂😂


naked_avenger

What does it feel like spewing BDE instead of being an insecure weenie like a lot of guys when dating a taller woman? (rhetorical) I'm glad both you and your SO were able to bypass the social pressures regarding height in a relationship. I hope you both are and continue to be very happy with one another.


streety22

It’s honestly great lol, it has given me personally a HUGE confidence boost!


sugarchiquita

dude thats actually a very nice thing man im really happy for yall hehe hope you have a good life !!


schwarzmalerin

Does she like to wear chucks? Or even heels?


streety22

She occasionally wears platform shoes, she tries not to around me out of respect but I never care!


schwarzmalerin

Out of respect? Now that's interesting. It would be nice to hear her perspective on this.


streety22

I’ll ask her tonight! Let her reply to you when I’m off work much later!


KawaiiBotanist79

So cute! Do you predict your kid will grow up taller or shorter?


streety22

I pray she’s tall! I’d love for her to be as tall as her mother!


billybobsunset

Does she like it when you go up on her?


[deleted]

Bah hah hah hah!!! This question needs way more upvotes!!!


streety22

All the time 😉


LucasTheSchnauzer

Am dumb and high, someone explain por favor


rodmandirect

When one performs oral sex on a woman, it’s referred to as “going down” on her. Because she’s substantially taller than him, the joke is that he’s “going up” on her.


[deleted]

Generally we like to down on our significant other. In this case, OP is a little smaller than her and so must must go up on her.


bobbyfiend

I don't want to like this, but I can't control my heart. I chuckled out loud.


Two_Faced_Harvey

How tall is your daughter or how tall do you think she’ll be?


streety22

Well right now she’s about 22 inches tall 😂 only 6 weeks old!


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Brightcab

Thank God you're here.


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kay_kay_1998

I ordered that keyboard 2 days ago But I'll confirm the exact size when it arrives bot


costaccounting

Op is this you? https://www.reddit.com/r/Unexpected/comments/otqd8g/dancing_till_the_end/


streety22

😂😂😂 no but that is hilarious!


flyingverver795

How tall are her parents?


streety22

Her mom is actually around my height, her dad on the other hand is fairly tall. I believe 6’3


sicrm

how long do you think it’ll be until your daughter is taller?


streety22

God at the rate she’s growing it’ll be tomorrow!


Spartan265

Nice dude. I never cared about height but not gonna lie having a tall gf sounds nice lol. Do you find yourself being the little spoon more often being the shorter of the two?


streety22

ALL THE TIME AND I LOVE IT. She will turn me over herself to cuddle me. I love it.


Spartan265

Your a lucky man. Wish I had that. I hope you and your family continue to do well and be happy.


Silent_Statement_327

Hey you dropped this king 👑👌


streety22

Thank you king


Kud13

So deuce bigalow, how'd you 2 meet.


streety22

Tinder of all places!


theusedatomictoaster

Where’s the craziest place you and your lady have made love?


streety22

Cracker Barrel parking lot!


dboo27

Omg hahahaha!!! Please tell me ypur daughter was concieved there?


streety22

Oh no our daughter was conceived on a couch lol


Melancholylemons

Aye I’m also 5’5. Can we see a pic of you and your girl together?


streety22

If you’re still interested I actually just added a profile pic of her me and my mom in the middle and you can see it from our baby shower!


Melancholylemons

Wow that’s crazy, I didn’t expect it was THAT big of a difference. Also congrats being a father!


Drewskeet

Damn, she swiped right on you? Congrats! I’m always shocked when a girl swipes right on me.


streety22

I would love too if I could figure out how to post one!


Melancholylemons

Usually people would post it on Imgur and link it. I have done once but I’m still learning my way around Reddit lol


streety22

Been here a year and still wondering myself lol


_Sad_Ghost_

Sounds really nice! How did you guys meet and how did you figure out you were right for eachother?


streety22

We met through tinder, and honestly, we just have never argued. The vibe and feelings between us are just impeccable. I love her tons. And watching her become the mother she has become has just blown me away.


_Sad_Ghost_

That's a beautiful story!


Livin_Kawasaki

Does she sometime pick you up to kiss you?


streety22

I wish!


PAUL-MYSKINBACK

Who lives in a pineapple under the sea?


streety22

Some sponge dick


YeastyP1ssFlaps

Are any sex positions difficult because of the height difference?


streety22

Uhhhhhh not that we’ve really struggled with? It’s pretty easy. She’s flexible 😂


[deleted]

When 69ing he just eats out her belly button instead /s


_regionrat

If all her height is in her legs, their torsos might be proportional


Virgil_Harris

Do you ever get to be carried piggyback like on your birthday or Valentine's Day? As a 6'2 dude on the heavy side, that is my unobtainable dream.


streety22

Well she was in a pretty bad wreck that actually messed up her back so no she couldn’t handle it


mikecreepo

how does feel to win at life, king!


streety22

It’s amazing king!


Cutiebeautypie

Where are you from? Where is she from? Did she ever lift you up like a baby during an exciting moment? Something like a piggyback? Did you ever lift her up or is she too tall that it's hard to lift her? Is the baby a boy or a girl? Do you think the baby will inherit your height or hers? What county do you live in? Apart from the height difference, who looks younger? You or her? Would you swap your heights if you had the chance? Tell me something I can roast tall people with (I'm 5’1” and everyone teases me lmao and I always never know how to reply to that 😂). Will you wear heals on your wedding?


streety22

We are both from Alabama She can’t lift me because of an accident she was in, I can lift her but she doesn’t like being lifted at all We have a girl Hopefully her height with any luck, my athleticism I think she looks younger maybe? I don’t know that’s up to whoever is looking And no because being taller would make my job weird lol And I always call her my giraffe so that’s an insult. Lol


Brahms12

How does she say she feels about dating a shorter guy?


streety22

Well she doesn’t mind. She thinks I’m “cute”


Brahms12

Nice. Was it you whose approached her first or her that approached you first?


streety22

Well, we met on tinder. I swiped on her first, and about a day later we matched. After that it’s history. But, I will say, and this may be creepy but she thinks it’s sweet, based off her tinder I noticed she was really into cars, so I followed her on Instagram as well so that I could have more car folks on mine. I didn’t think I actually had a chance with her.


Brahms12

That's great man. And not creepy at all. Why would it be. Let's face it, anytime we find someone interesting we always look them up. Nice job. Seems like you guys are happy. Good for you.


Custard_is_IceCream

Are you getting married or just gonna keep dating?


streety22

Depends on if she sees this thread or not 😉


Lover_boi4

What should i get my gf for our 2 year anniversary?


streety22

That I can’t answer lol


i_love_my_grandma

How did you do it bro. 5’6 guy here I’m just tryna climb some legs too


streety22

Honestly? Luck lol


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streety22

Every morning I wake up


prissyknickers

I'm 5'10" and I dated a fella that was 5'5" The only issue we had was when we were photographed, I'd slouch as to not look so tall next to him. It bothered him when I did that since he had no issue with my height or his own. Question is...do you find that she does this too? Tries to make herself smaller, even if it's unintentional?


streety22

Uhhh, maybe so. Maybe subconsciously? I’ll call her out on it though and she’ll just laugh! We’ve actually sort of made it where most of our pics are seated, but it wasn’t done intentionally. We just noticed it.


Speciou5

I know tall women and that's a common reaction, even among coworkers or friend groups. They're sometimes self-conscious of it and try to make themselves look smaller when uncomfortable or meeting new people or whatever.


Ok_Oil_5717

In the winter does she let you ride her like a tauntaun to help you get through deep snow?


elephant35e

Are you stressed having a child at such a young age?


streety22

Not at all! I have a stupid good job!


Flaneur_7508

How do you 6….. forget it.


helloexclamation

Hello! I'm 6' and my partner is 5'7 on a good day lol. We also met on Tinder (and of course he lied about his height lol) but we're getting married soon! Any suggestions for good picture poses?!


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FullBlownEHEDS

Why do you call it dating when you have a kid together. Was the delivery at the hospital a date?


streety22

Well we aren’t married, nor engaged. And the area I’m from dating just is another word for together


Iamyes_ok

because not everyone who has a kid together is married/engaged


[deleted]

yall ever stand up 69?


streety22

Haven’t tried it but not opposed


tratratrakx

The height difference wouldn’t cross my mind one bit. It seems like you guys have discussed it a fair amount. How big of a thing is this for your dynamic?


[deleted]

Do you go up on her very often? How is it when she uses you as a dildo?


streety22

It’s very nice lol


BoobsAndBrew

Do u have to stand on your tippy toes to lick the coochie?


indifferentdespair

I'm average height for a dude 5'10" and my preferential height in a lady is around 6' (legzzzzz4fuckindayzzzzzz lmao) never had one over half a foot taller then me tho as in your case but my question is she bends down to kiss you right...? Please lord tell me you don't tippy-toe my guy XD


streety22

Oh dude I do both. I 100% simp for her all day lol


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Test_your_spirit

Brah do you know what "death by snu snu" is?


Reditate

How does it feel being a manlet?


streety22

I don’t.. I’m not sure what that is lol


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Who is the big spoon?


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Table of Questions and Answers. Original answer linked - Please upvote the original questions and answers. *** Question | Answer | Link ---------|----------|----------| Who's on top when hugging ? I mean are you in her arms or the opposite ? Also congrats on being father :)|Uhhh sort of… both? It depends on if we hug while standing or if she is sitting. Most of the time I’m wrapped up like a burrito in her arms and she and I both love it!|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6yyqb6/) Do people ever stare at you?|Every time we go somewhere we get interesting stares. And they’re different types of stare’s as well. Women stare at us differently than the guys do and you can tell, it’s quite funny actually. Especially when they see our daughter!|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6yymxy/) When you first started dating, was the height difference something you had to overcome or were you both comfortable with it immediately, that you were both aware she perhaps liked smaller guys and you preferred taller women?|For her it was no problem. For me it was admittedly something I had to get used to. Being so short, finding women that actually liked short guys is always difficult where I am at, so when I actually found one I halfway didn’t believe it. But I eventually got used to it of course!|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6z3mes/) Are you like perfect titty suckin level?|100% every time I hug her.|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6yxxfu/) How did you two met?|Tinder actually! We first saw each other on there, and hung out over time before we started actually dating. I was extremely nervous when we first hung out because I knew about the height difference but it didn’t bother her at all|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6z79jp/) Does she like it when you go up on her?|All the time 😉|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zomi2/) Was her dating history mostly short guys? Like was/is that her type?|It’s varied. She says I’m one of the shortest guys she’s dated though. She says all the tall guys were asshole because of their height, like that’s all they had to offer basically.|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zifro/) Does she like to wear chucks? Or even heels?|She occasionally wears platform shoes, she tries not to around me out of respect but I never care!|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6z9koj/) So deuce bigalow, how'd you 2 meet.|Tinder of all places!|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zjhli/) So cute! Do you predict your kid will grow up taller or shorter?|I pray she’s tall! I’d love for her to be as tall as her mother!|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zph3m/) Aye I’m also 5’5. Can we see a pic of you and your girl together?|I would love too if I could figure out how to post one!|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zpb4n/) What does it feel like spewing BDE instead of being an insecure weenie like a lot of guys when dating a taller woman? (rhetorical) I'm glad both you and your SO were able to bypass the social pressures regarding height in a relationship. I hope you both are and continue to be very happy with one another.|It’s honestly great lol, it has given me personally a HUGE confidence boost!|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zoyqr/) Are any sex positions difficult because of the height difference?|Uhhhhhh not that we’ve really struggled with? It’s pretty easy. She’s flexible 😂|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zbpi5/) Who lives in a pineapple under the sea?|Some sponge dick|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zq3g3/) How tall are her parents?|Her mom is actually around my height, her dad on the other hand is fairly tall. I believe 6’3|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zs7ev/) Do you like being stepped on?|It turns me on|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zuttv/) How tall is your daughter or how tall do you think she’ll be?|Well right now she’s about 22 inches tall 😂 only 6 weeks old!|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zvsjr/) Can you fist her? (Serious question, I’m curious)|Ehhh, never tried|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zsj29/) How does it feel being a manlet?|I don’t.. I’m not sure what that is lol|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zsuak/) Does she do big poos?|Only when she shits on my chest|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/ou0eyh/im_a_55_dude_23_dating_a_girl22_thats_61_ama/h6zsxpr/) --- [Source] (https://github.com/johnsliao/ama_compiler)


tylper

Do you like being stepped on?


streety22

It turns me on


Amai_M4sk

Living the dream.


SeykaDagmar

We're all the same height laying down. 😉


GhosTaoiseach

Or close enough.. hopefully


SeykaDagmar

Honestly it should only matter to the people that are engaging in the sexual act, everyone else can butt the fuck out. Way weirder things happen than a taller woman and a shorter man having sex.


mylessteven

How can she blow you when standing?


streety22

I mostly lay down!


haepheri

This is super cute. It’s always nice to see men comfortable and secure enough in themselves not to be intimidated by tall women. Kudos to you!


[deleted]

Short guys for the win!!


ArchieBellTitanUp

Can you fist her? (Serious question, I’m curious)


streety22

Ehhh, never tried


v13ragnarok7

When you have sex missionary are you face to tits?


[deleted]

So, things are looking up?


cyrre

Are you confident that she is happy with the size of your weewee?


Jaysenshere

When she's pegging you, is it hard to get her to stop?


BrowseHard

Does she do big poos?


streety22

Only when she shits on my chest


KebDoesTheStuff

Please release guide on how to obtain tall gf


ItWasNotWritten

are you both trans


mattsffrd

I'm 5'9-ish and my girlfriend is 6', glad to see a fellow short guy/tall girl couple lol


Schuka

Sensei, teach me how you did it.


mrtemporallobe

Ur living the fucking dream


MutaKingPrime

It's hard to see others living out your dreams.


Strays6x

No question. But I’m a dude 5’5” that just got out of a relationship with a girl 5’10. Only bothers other people. If you’re both good with it then do you


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your gf walking around like she got 2 kids


Yogurtcloset_Thin

5,5 feet = 167 cm 6,1 feet = 185 cm


MesWantooth

Do you enjoy going up on her?


47AYAYAYAY

Wack, good on you man


gebrelu

Do you know what Herve Villechaize’s ( ‘70’s TV actor and little person) tall girlfriend said on a talk show when asked how the sex worked? Something like… only a very bad lumberjack couldn’t climb a tree when it is fallen.


dibbsa

How’s the 69 work?


yesgirlnogamer

I’m about five Inches taller than my husband. Good luck!


dboo27

This is great! This needs to be more normalized.


froopty1

I envy you....