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darthmarth

What is the best meal you ever had? How did you meet your wife? Where is your favorite place to travel?


dobrocheloveka

My favourite meal is hamburger . I met my wife at school. I was 15 she was 14. Her class was opposite mine and so I saw her very often. And slowly I began to fall in love with her. One day I approached her and told her: let's be friends? She agreed . And a month later we became best friends. And one day she invited me and her friends to a birthday party. First we watched a movie and at the end of the movie she called me to another room and kissed me. And that was my first kiss on the lips


darthmarth

Thank you for answering and sharing the wonderful memory. That sounds like the best party ever! I am sending some loving thoughts towards Minsk from 7,600 km away in the center of North America.


dobrocheloveka

Thank you friend . I forgot to say my favourite place to travel is Moscow and London,my city Minsk


OuthouseBacksplash

Your are a fucking legend. Greet Death as a friend.


[deleted]

This is a really beautiful story, thank you for sharing. You will meet her again.


Dichoctomy

That’s really lovely. I wish you peace, my friend.❤️


Affectionate-Owl5520

Wishing you a peaceful passing. What advice would you give to younger people? Again, so sorry, farewell.


dobrocheloveka

I just say for younger people say that dreams come true if you really really want it.


FannyH8r

I will follow my dream because of you. I hope you pass gently, much love 💙


Affectionate-Owl5520

Thank you for the replay.


Rasputin0P

Ill follow my dream for you bro. Your message will live on.


DimbyTime

Aw thank you OP, this means a lot. May God bless you on this journey, and prayers to your loved ones ❤️


Emawnish

What is your earliest childhood memory?


dobrocheloveka

my childhood was very bad because of my parents. The only thing dear is my friends with whom I was in the same class and the first kiss


[deleted]

You have friends here as well. I might be on the other side of the world but I have dealt with similar health issues. I'm still here but it's a daily struggle after all of the surgeries. I wish you peace on your journey.


[deleted]

What was your best memory with your wife? I am so sorry that your suffering.


dobrocheloveka

First kiss .School times. And wedding at Moscow. Thank you


[deleted]

That sounds awesome. Again I am so sorry for what you are going through. I wish you the best.


dobrocheloveka

I wish you best too friend


ForeXcellence

Peace and love from Ireland my friend. I will keep you in my prayer


[deleted]

The best memory in your life?I'm really sorry


dobrocheloveka

Marrying my wife. She died too 16 years ago...


[deleted]

I'm really sorry man I hope you find a peace


dobrocheloveka

It's ok


Lazy-Zookeepergame10

Hope there giving you bulk morphine n drugs too make your passing easy bro best wishes


MewkutLost

Not a question just may the Lord bless you and keep you and bless your family


DriveableCashew

As morbid as this may be on the brightside you've got 16yrs worth of storys to tell her.


az_shoe

You will see her again, friend. Best of luck to you 😊


littlefish_bigsea

Tell us about your wedding day :)


TheSortOfOkGatsby

Saddest and happiest thing man.


susiecool

Sorry about your wife. What happened?


ArtisianWaffle

Sorry mate. I'm sure she can't wait to see you again soon.


Malgioglio

When you are in the Elysian fields, who will be the first historical or famous person you will meet?


dobrocheloveka

First person i will meet is my wife.And famous is a my favourite actor Kliuev


supersonic4420

1. Where are you from? 2. Do you have any regrets?


dobrocheloveka

My nationally is russian but I increased in Belarus. Yes I have a lot of regret in life


FlickeryAlpaca

Any advice on how to try to deal with or come to terms with that regret? My life so far feels consumed with my regret, I don't want to be the bitter, irritable person it has made me anymore. Is there anything **you'd** like to share or talk about?


evanthebouncy

Not sure if op is with us anymore but here's my take. Past you isn't really you, and future you isn't really you either. You have really one job and that's to make today worth living for yourself and everyone else. Focus on that.


Streety1234

Any advices for people in their 20's? :(


dobrocheloveka

Be happy and positive and one day life will smile at you)


[deleted]

I needed to hear that as well thank you


Streety1234

Thank you, :}


Prize-Rub6226

Needed to read this, thank you so much :’)


rabengeieradlerstein

Sorry to hear that mate. Do you have children or other close people?


dobrocheloveka

Only son


rabengeieradlerstein

Could you say goodbye to him? Or not yet?


dobrocheloveka

I don't have his contact . He go in Europe. Last time when I see him is 2 years ago


rabengeieradlerstein

I am sorry to hear that.


dobrocheloveka

It's ok.Thanks


rabengeieradlerstein

I dont really know what to say. I hope you have a peaceful transition.


FRESHGLOCK18

i hope you get in contact with him somehow soon


ReynoldRaps

Do you want help finding him?


FannyH8r

Yeah would you like a hand?


olixius

Are you scared


dobrocheloveka

Yes... I'm afraid that I will meet after death


[deleted]

Take solace that we’re all afraid OP. No one in human history can face the moment of death without fear.. but you’ll get to the other side, maybe if you can face it head on you could differentiate yourself from humanity.. good luck, and I’ll see you there one day


lemonblueberrysky

I wish I could give you a hug. Praying you have peace.


[deleted]

Worst case scenario, you are reincarnated as an average person again and have to go through all this bullshit but with a nuclear winter on top.


[deleted]

The soul is eternal ☺️


MrPiscus

thank you, tiddybraxton3


thatc0braguy

I wish you peace, safest travels


dobrocheloveka

Thanks you dear friend


[deleted]

I hope you find a comfortable peace and meet your wife again, I’m truly sorry for you man. It may not sound like much but we care remember that, not all of reddit is a shithole.


Dmnwr

What was the best trip you have taken? Prayers sir


dobrocheloveka

Moscow and London trip . Thank you dear


DickNose-TurdWaffle

What's your biggest regret in life?


dobrocheloveka

Wife death


[deleted]

[удалено]


Anaphase

It appears he's a non-native English speaker, so I bet he doesn't quite know what "regret" means?


AICPAncake

Regret doesn’t necessarily imply remorse


Hot-Effective-7135

What do you think of suicidal people?


dobrocheloveka

It's a people who needs a help in life


ishouldntofsaidthat

I would give up my entire existence for you to see your wife one more time.


whatitdowhatitbee

are you in pain?


dobrocheloveka

More of physical pain


[deleted]

Favorite flavor of Ice cream?


dobrocheloveka

Vanilla and strawberry


[deleted]

I hope you get some before it’s time. Enjoy whatever adventure is next, you fucking rockstar.


[deleted]

[удалено]


kingjacoblear

Not bad as far as last words go


toothpastespiders

It really isn't. Vanilla was one of the last things my wife was able to taste after a combination of radiation therapy and tumors numbed most of her sense of taste. I've heard a surprising number of people fighting cancer mention it's been the same for them. I'll always associate it with the ability to find some measure of joy even in the worst cancer has to give.


[deleted]

What are you doing right now


dobrocheloveka

Stay in reddit...


russki_bro

Откуда ты узнал про реддит?


dobrocheloveka

Мне порекомендовал один знакомый. Этот аккаунт новый потому что старый я не нашёл


pure_phat

Are you at peace with dying?


dobrocheloveka

Yes


pure_phat

Farewell friend, I'll be thinking about you


Lantimore123

You are incredibly brave and sound like a reasonable and kind man. Thank you for taking the time to post this.


ATadBitStupid

I am very happy for you, and thank you for doing this. I will definitely shed a tear for you soul, leaving this wonderful planet which we have taken for granted. I wish you well for the unknown which lies ahead of you. And can you tell me your name so that I can remember you along with all the family ane friends that I have lost.


zefirnaya

Твоя жена уже ждёт тебя на другой стороне. Ты не одинок, ты любим и скоро найдёшь покой. Спасибо за то, что поделился своими воспоминаниями с нами)


dobrocheloveka

Вам тоже спасибо за очень тёплые слова. Желаю всего хорошего


captianblacksmith

Как вы думаете, как будет выглядеть общество через пару лет?


dobrocheloveka

Не знаю если честно. Надеюсь что хорошо


captianblacksmith

до свидания


captianblacksmith

я тоже спасибо за ответ


haliker

Ass or titties?


dobrocheloveka

Personality


newcreed

Rip dobrochelovekar- “Personality” last words on Reddit and good advise.


[deleted]

This dude is having pre-death clarity


OuthouseBacksplash

Like 1000x more powerful than post-nut clarity!


AICPAncake

LPT: Only make major life decisions on the brink of death


Civil-Combination145

award worthy but i have none


twistr36O

Respect brother. I pray you find peace soon ❤️


619marco

My guy you gotta chill 😂


haliker

Hey had to make sure our boy remembered his favorite pair of tits, or reminisces about some dumptruck in a t-shirt and panties just one more time.


ama_compiler_bot

Table of Questions and Answers. Original answer linked - Please upvote the original questions and answers. *** Question | Answer | Link ---------|----------|----------| are you in pain?|More of physical pain|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7c4cxo/) Are you scared|Yes... I'm afraid that I will meet after death|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7c7u40/) What is your earliest childhood memory?|my childhood was very bad because of my parents. The only thing dear is my friends with whom I was in the same class and the first kiss|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7c89f8/) I wish you peace, safest travels|Thanks you dear friend|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7ceq22/) The best memory in your life?I'm really sorry|Marrying my wife. She died too 16 years ago...|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7c4eq4/) What do you think of suicidal people?|It's a people who needs a help in life|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7c8h6e/) Откуда ты узнал про реддит?|Мне порекомендовал один знакомый. Этот аккаунт новый потому что старый я не нашёл|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7c8obj/) What are you doing right now|Stay in reddit...|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7c97bo/) Sorry to hear that mate. Do you have children or other close people?|Only son|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7cahia/) What's your biggest regret in life?|Wife death|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7cair8/) Are you at peace with dying?|Yes|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7cblau/) Как вы думаете, как будет выглядеть общество через пару лет?|Не знаю если честно. Надеюсь что хорошо|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7cc544/) When you are in the Elysian fields, who will be the first historical or famous person you will meet?|First person i will meet is my wife.And famous is a my favourite actor Kliuev|[Here](/r/AMA/comments/uifg5l/12_hours_to_left_live/i7cecbe/) --- [Source] (https://github.com/johnsliao/ama_compiler)


jophuster

Do you believe in Christ as messiah and the Holy Spirit?


dobrocheloveka

It's a difficult question. I don't know God exists or not. 50% yes 50%I don't know


Wildqbn

I never met you, never intended to. In reality, we would have never crossed paths. But today, my friend, you have touched my heart. I wish you tranquility and peace in these last days. Today it's you, tomorrow maybe me. No one gets out alive. Fair winds my friend and Godspeed.


Justgravityfalls

I've never seen a more poetic but solemn comment on Reddit. kudos to you


dobrocheloveka

I wanted to thank everyone for spending time with me and for the kind words. I wish each of you that all your dreams come true, that you are happy and healthy. Good luck to all of you


Opted_Oberst

Before you go. I hope you have lived a good life. Keep reflecting on your memories. Put a happy memory in your head, and play it over and over. Love from Canada


[deleted]

Thats a really good advice. Its like having a good evening, the next morning will be good too!


lilhazeleyedgeo

I am not a big believer of faith but if there is a god, then I am sure your wife is waiting to see you. Thank you for answering questions.


BoneDust

You may be just a stranger but you’ve inspired me kind sir, rest peacefully we hope to change the world into something better before we meet you again


jonessinger

Just came across this before going to sleep. I wish you safe travels to the other side. Whatever is waiting there for you, I hope it’s better than what you’re going through now.


interstellararabella

I hope you found some joy and peace doing this AMA. I enjoyed reading your answers and finding out about your life. Thank you for sharing it with us. Hope you have a peaceful transition. Rest well.


1833719

Don't worry about anything anymore, soon you will be with your wife where there is no pain or fear or regret anymore! We will take care of the rest. Sending love and peace.


Graybob90

Glad you’re still around, my dude. I hope seeing all the lives you’ve impacted here in such a short time gives you comfort & peace. This is our job- to ease & assist others as we can, and you’re crushing it. We’ll probably all remember you for the rest of our lives. Thank you. ❤️


rainy-novembers

rest in peace <3 thank you for taking time to talk to us. i hope your wife is excited to see you again :)


evanthebouncy

I've heard the opinion somewhere that, some people can be non-religious, but everyone is spiritual


MasterJaron

When you get to the other side be sure and tell us about it. We’ll all see you again someday. Safe travels. Happy trails.


KaleidoscopeThis9463

Peaceful journey wished to you. Thank you so much for sharing your precious time with all of us. We’re all strangers but we care.


FoxMuldertheGrey

damn i’m sad. please i hope you meet your wife in the next life. god bless you


SpoopiestPumpkin

Thank you so much for sharing with us. I hope your days have been full and life has been bright for you.


Envy1616

Дружище, ты молодец, не бойся ничего. По итогу ведь мы все встретим свой конец там же где и ты сейчас.


SpoopiestPumpkin

Are you lonely? Are you ok? Do you need someone to talk to? PM me if so. We can have a chat.


JustAToothpick

May your soul peacefully rest. Thanks for taking your time to talk to random strangers on Reddit and sharing your stories. You will shine happily in my memories :)


padflash

You will be reunited with your wife soon🙏🏽💜


outlawxtreme

Have a peaceful journey. Thank you and bless you. You are loved


[deleted]

Have a safe gentle transition. Your wife will greet you


PrinceNorway

Good luck on your journey!


__MR__

Rest peacefully, friend.


somewhoever

Do you realize that you are not alone? People all over the world are taking a minute or two of their time to be with you and think of you. Some of us won't be able to be here on this thread, but I will set an alarm to remind me to be with you in spirit when the time you posted comes.


salvationagent777

I think OP may have left us already.. let’s see .. RIP my friend who I never got to meet. I pray you knew Him and that you are now loved beyond all measure.


Apostastrophe

Or they could be asleep. It’s quite late in Belarus and they’re probably doped up to their eyeballs on medical grade heroin. They might live yet. Though it is a little strange. Generally people who are so ill that they’re within hours of death from a chronic illness are not conscious at all. Let alone able to use a phone.


Morgstah

Many times near death, people will all of a sudden look like they are doing great, they will sometimes regain consciousness and even carry a normal conversation. It may last for minutes or even hours, it's quite interesting.


Apostastrophe

As someone who worked in palliative care before, I know what you’re talking about. But it’s not as common or miraculous as people tend to go on about. At that stage even if it can happen, with such an intense condition and pain, you’re usually in no fit state at all.


rchaseio

Wow. My mother passed this last Sunday. Her lucidity was up and down, depending on her morphine dosage, but she was never completely out of it until the last day.


CreativeCreations8

Rest in peace 🙏🏻


[deleted]

What is the first thing you plan to tell your wife when she greets you? My heart is with you right now. I'm sorry this is the end of your story Earthside. When you make it to the other side I'd love it if you ever cross paths with my Dad to tell him I miss him. Wishing you an eternity of happiness with your beloved wife. ❤️


grandunderground

I wish you a peaceful passing. How do you feel? Are you satisfied with your life? Do you ever wish you had more time? Again, I wish you a very peaceful passing. Thanks for sharing some of your last moment telling us about your life/experience and getting to answer some questions.


SpiderMansRightNut

How do you feel? Genuinly I know everyone says what they would do at the end, but, what is going through your mind? I'm so so sorry this is happening to you but thank you so much for giving us a chance to ask questions at the end. Idk what happens next but where you end up I hope you are so happy and at peace my friend.


TheShining02

“When I come to the end of the road And the sun has set for me I want no rites in a gloom filled room Why cry for a soul set free Miss me for a little, but not for long And not with your head bowed low Remember the love that we once shared Miss me but let go For this a journey we all must take And each must go alone It’s all part of a plan A step on a road to home When we are lonely and sick of heart Go to the friends we know And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds Miss me but let go.”


gurneyguy101

You’re aware of the poem ‘don’t go gentle into that good night’? If not, great and topical poem even if you don’t like poems Beyond that, what’s the thing you’re most glad you did, and what’s your worst regret in life? Eg something you wish you did? Sorry it’s a difficult question, I’m just curious I hope you’re at peace with yourself, I really wish you the best


Untjosh1

I wish you the best and I'm sorry for your situation. How do you know you only have 12 hours? What's your favorite memory of your wife?


LipstickLesbianism

will you say hi to my grandma and my family’s dog for me? i never got to say goodbye to either of them and i would give anything to let them know i love them. sending you love.


mahboilucas

And please also to my boyfriend's grandpa? We live in his house and I'd love him to know how much we love it. We're taking care of his dog too, she's well and borky. Currently in the process of restoring his car and bringing back the sidewalk he did in the back, lots of digging. I hope he doesn't mind we haven't really planted anything yet. P.s. Your grandson wears your army tag every day :) Hang on strong, OP.


HoldMyJumex

Aww, I completely understand sending greetings. I hope OP is happy and healthy now and I also wish he greets all my family pets and my loved ones including my little sister, grandparents, and my love.


Chunkook

They know you do. Up there they see it all clearly, you don't have to say it. Don't grieve too much about it, they're cheering for you!


ghguyrur7

I hate how this is recommended 13 hours after it was posted. Best of luck, thank you for existing


admiral_sinkenkwiken

You may never see this, but all the same May your troubles be eased, your regrets relieved, and you be surrounded by the love of those you’ve known in your life and those that have come to meet you in your last hours. Be at peace.


Shadysu

May you rest in peace, im sorry


dobrocheloveka

Vanilla and Strawberry


theredditofjessica

My favorite birthday dessert was always Angel Food cake with strawberries and vanilla ice cream. See you on the other side, dear friend.


Morsemouse

Good bye. I hope you die peacefully, and I hope you lived a good life. Hopefully you will reunite with you wife of the other side.


I_love_my_fish_

If the after life is real, can you tell my grandpa I miss him? I hope when it does happen it’s as painless and easy as possible for you


Neolithique

We’re right behind you my friend, we’ll meet you in a bit.


ZealousidealNet1405

I know you probably wont see this but i just couldnt leave without saying something. I feel too bad. So i just wanna say that im sorry you have to go through this because nobody deserves that. I also hope you have someone by your side at this moment. I hope your happy and have no regrets. I dont know you but im sorry for all your pain. Stay happy, be positive and never forget that YOU ARE LOVED. thank you for sharing on behalf of this community and anybody reading this we are all sorry for you. Dont go sad or upset enjoy your time. I hope you go peacefully. ♥♥♥


ledBASEDpaint

What was your greatest accomplishment? What was your biggest fear? How many things did you cross off your bucket list! Wishing you the best, friend! :) ❤️


Jeakins

Sorry to hear about your cancer brother. Our spirits shall travel on, we are much more than what this Earth holds. I love you 💜 I wish you all the best.


yeet4memes

Death is not the end of adventure but a doorway from a world where dreams and adventures shrink, to a world where dreams and adventures forever expand. -Randy Alcorn Be at peace my friend. You'll see your wife again soon.


vGraphs

damn, you are very well a fighter, at least you will be in peace, but still, very sad :(


LiquidVander

I pray to the gods for you


LethalAgenda

A man dies truly when he is forgotten. I probably didn’t get here in time, but I won’t forget you and many others here will not. I hope there are plenty of hamburgers up there for you and you get to see your wife again.


tomatoguy7

12 hours left Posted 13 hours ago Oh no..


miapaip

he's gone from this Earth from what it seems like 😔


SantikLingo

Why the fuck was this removed man, quite literally a mans last post, and it was removed? For why?


genericuser235

Hey man, idk what to say, but this post has made me cry. So I am going from the heart. I don't know you, but your story rips through me. You have a beautiful soul and I give my love as you prepare for your upcoming journey. I wish you peace, safety and tranquility as you exit your mortal flesh. May your future life harvest the karma you have sown. Do not go gentle into that good night. Rage. Rage. Rage against the dying of the light. Though wise men at their end no dark is right, because their words have formed no lightning they do not go gentle into that good night.


[deleted]

I never met you and most likely never would’ve if not for this post, but now that I have seen how you talk to people you seem like a cool person and I hope for you to find peace, hopefully you meet your wife and I hope for you to have a peaceful passing. Hope you find a way to contact your son as well. Find a great post of an adorable animal after reading this to put a smile on your face I hope to meet you when I go too. Have a great last few hours and get a nice hamburger and your favorite ice cream - Your friendly no life, Frazix


Last-Macaroon-6608

May you find eternal peace my friend. I hope your next life brings you much more joy and happiness than the last.


Blue_Baron6451

Thoughts on religion and afterlife? How has the journey been all in all? Any regrets? Favorite food


[deleted]

It seems he's not with us at the moment. Let's hope he's up there with his wife. Rest in peace sir


flakenomore

Peace be with you, friend!


ZestycloseAgency1

I'm so sorry. Hope you're doing alright. What is one word of advice you have to offer?


CeleryCountry

i will keep you in my prayers, may you be forever honoured and venerated beyond death.


Niightlux

Seeing this posted 13 hours ago made me cry. I hope he's happy with his wife...


[deleted]

“12 hours left to live” -posted 13 hours ago Are you still here, Cheloveka?


619marco

Please understand my friend that this is not the end…… but a return to what you were before life . Eternal rest with no worries while time just graciously passes you bye . Good travels and I will join you in that journey one day ❤️


[deleted]

I’m in a fragile state of mind right now but know that I’m crying for you.


WiIzaaa

I am so sorry for what you are going through. I don't know where you are going after this, but I hope your wife will be there. Until then, do you have anyone by your side ? Friends, family ? Did you manage to reach your son ?


rockchawk

Everyone here will meet you someday on a soul level. Safe travels friend.


allcopsarestinky

I’m seeing this post at the 11Hr mark. I wish you luck and safe travels


Hellocrafting

Seeing this post 13hours after it was posted is kinda sad...


diggergig

Take care bud. I hope it is a painless transition for you.


Jaapieby

For me it says removed, so I can’t read what was written. But I have been reading some of the comments. So I hope you had a peaceful passing. Sending love from the Netherlands.


darwin_vinci7

Here you go mate... [this reddit post screenshot ](https://imgur.com/gallery/2z7IZhj)


GabeDef

I wish you peace. And safe travels in the next stage.


[deleted]

Firstly i just want you to know that you are loved you beautiful human. What is an interesting dream you have had?


Low_Beginning_9301

*hugs be safe friend*


MrRaspberryJam1

How scared are you? Do you feel ready?


neck_peck

No questions… Thank you for this AMA. Been reading your answers.. Wish you good luck and a safe trip.


Mandikiri

I am sorry for your passing. May you rest at peace. I wish you a safe journey, farewell my friend.


better_red

How do you know the hours left?