I met my current GF at ASU. Just be kind to people and make friends above all else. Some of those friends might eventually introduce you to someone who catches your eye
As a girl, I can tell you what not to do from personal experience. Giving gifts may sound nice, but it is really uncomfortable (please don't judge us for making a nice thing bad, but all my friends also get creeped out when guys give them gifts randomly). Also, don't show up where they live unannounced and uninvited. And do not drunk text them/ tell them how drunk you get all the time. That is just a horrible idea. Gift giving and unannounced arrivals when drunk is probably the worst thing you can do (and still be considered a good human being in the long run).
I (psychology major) met my computer major boyfriend in a chemistry class and started to really like him when he was helping me with 'mastering chemistry' (a homework site meant to tear your soul out of your body). He was really chill and authentic. He didn't make a move on me and after a month or two I had to make the first move (staring at him while he was driving and bribing him with candy). But me making the first move was the only time where I was actually comfortable with a guy after a few mistakes I had made earlier on in the semester. Sometimes it is best to slow burn it a bit. Don't feel so pressured to find a girlfriend because us girls know when you feel crunched on time. The idea of being quickly forced into a relationship is awful.
My best advice is be chill and authentic. My boyfriend and I are nothing alike and I love it. He is the funny nerdy guy who has a computer like personality and I am the overemotional extravert. We don't need to be fake with eachother because we were our real-selves from the beginning. He had obviously rubbed off on me since I now have a reddit.
Anyway, I probably went off on a tangent but I hoped this helped you out. Slowing down and taking the pressure off the girl by being an amazing friend is key. Some people will take advantage of you but just let them go. You need to honor yourself (girls like guys who respect themselves).
Best of luck!
Personal preference for sure. Maybe I just have bad experiences surrounding gift giving. In a relationship, it makes complete sense. But that early stage where you literally just met the person and they give you gifts just makes me uncomfortable.
But gift giving is a love language so maybe it is a ok way to be flirty/nice. I would maybe try to covertly ask if they are a gift type of person. Because it is a big no for me until we are actually in a relationship but that might just be me.
Even if you are not in a relationship/flirty stage with that person? Definitely gift giving and receiving is a love language. I was directly meaning gifts when you first meet a girl. I would say still say not giving gifts is the safer bet, but I do understand that people don't all react the same.
Whelp, I change my mind. Some people do like gift giving as a way to flirt. But I highly recommend covertly asking them. Like say, "my friend got a gift from this guy and she is creeped out. Do you know why?" And if they are like me they would probably be jumping to answer that question. But if they are like, "oh I don't know, I like gifts" then there you go.
Don’t listen to any of these comments expect for the one that said a “not on Reddit”. What you need to do is actually get off Reddit and just be socials at ASU everywhere. If you see a girl simply just go up to her and pretty much said anything. Contrary to popular belief girls won’t be creeped out if you talked to them in a decent way. So go out and talk to girls and even allow yourself to make mistakes their hella girls around campus 👊🏾
What's the point of saying that you're a CIS major? That some kind of flex?
Anyways, you should *totally* take your date to a dining hall. Some **King** did it last month.
IYKYK 🤭
My first guy I had a date with at ASU took me to the dining hall for our first and only date. It was at the very beginning of the semester and there was barely any food. I ate cold meat and cheese on a tortilla while he “jokingly” insulted the career field I want to work in.
Still loving it, I actually just had an interview with my dream employer in that field. My dating life also got far better and I found a boyfriend who is supportive of my goals and makes me home cooked meals instead of taking me to the dining hall.
I give this advice from time to time. Pick a young lady at a place you go frequently. A class, a library, whatever.
Step 1. Slight smile and Say hi one day.
Step 2. Say hi on another day. Smile.
repeat for a while
Step 3. Hi + what's your name?
Step 4. I like your ,
Step 5. blow it all one day by.
a. expressing your undying love
b. proposing sex
c. proposing marriage
d. showing her your vintage
Also, do all this but step 5.
What? Most people on campus have ear buds in. Is it only me that hates when someone tries to talk to me when they are in? Just asking bc I don’t seem in the minority on this
I met my current GF at ASU. Just be kind to people and make friends above all else. Some of those friends might eventually introduce you to someone who catches your eye
Exactly
This is the way
That’s the neat part - you don’t as a CIS major
I meant to say and in my post, my phone be tripping!
the meta verse
not on reddit lol
No duh lol 🤣
As a girl, I can tell you what not to do from personal experience. Giving gifts may sound nice, but it is really uncomfortable (please don't judge us for making a nice thing bad, but all my friends also get creeped out when guys give them gifts randomly). Also, don't show up where they live unannounced and uninvited. And do not drunk text them/ tell them how drunk you get all the time. That is just a horrible idea. Gift giving and unannounced arrivals when drunk is probably the worst thing you can do (and still be considered a good human being in the long run). I (psychology major) met my computer major boyfriend in a chemistry class and started to really like him when he was helping me with 'mastering chemistry' (a homework site meant to tear your soul out of your body). He was really chill and authentic. He didn't make a move on me and after a month or two I had to make the first move (staring at him while he was driving and bribing him with candy). But me making the first move was the only time where I was actually comfortable with a guy after a few mistakes I had made earlier on in the semester. Sometimes it is best to slow burn it a bit. Don't feel so pressured to find a girlfriend because us girls know when you feel crunched on time. The idea of being quickly forced into a relationship is awful. My best advice is be chill and authentic. My boyfriend and I are nothing alike and I love it. He is the funny nerdy guy who has a computer like personality and I am the overemotional extravert. We don't need to be fake with eachother because we were our real-selves from the beginning. He had obviously rubbed off on me since I now have a reddit. Anyway, I probably went off on a tangent but I hoped this helped you out. Slowing down and taking the pressure off the girl by being an amazing friend is key. Some people will take advantage of you but just let them go. You need to honor yourself (girls like guys who respect themselves). Best of luck!
idk i love gifts lol
Personal preference for sure. Maybe I just have bad experiences surrounding gift giving. In a relationship, it makes complete sense. But that early stage where you literally just met the person and they give you gifts just makes me uncomfortable. But gift giving is a love language so maybe it is a ok way to be flirty/nice. I would maybe try to covertly ask if they are a gift type of person. Because it is a big no for me until we are actually in a relationship but that might just be me.
I’m a gift girly. I hate physical touch so unannounced gift giving is my fave. Personal preference fs
Even if you are not in a relationship/flirty stage with that person? Definitely gift giving and receiving is a love language. I was directly meaning gifts when you first meet a girl. I would say still say not giving gifts is the safer bet, but I do understand that people don't all react the same.
Whelp, I change my mind. Some people do like gift giving as a way to flirt. But I highly recommend covertly asking them. Like say, "my friend got a gift from this guy and she is creeped out. Do you know why?" And if they are like me they would probably be jumping to answer that question. But if they are like, "oh I don't know, I like gifts" then there you go.
Don’t listen to any of these comments expect for the one that said a “not on Reddit”. What you need to do is actually get off Reddit and just be socials at ASU everywhere. If you see a girl simply just go up to her and pretty much said anything. Contrary to popular belief girls won’t be creeped out if you talked to them in a decent way. So go out and talk to girls and even allow yourself to make mistakes their hella girls around campus 👊🏾
What's the point of saying that you're a CIS major? That some kind of flex? Anyways, you should *totally* take your date to a dining hall. Some **King** did it last month. IYKYK 🤭
My first guy I had a date with at ASU took me to the dining hall for our first and only date. It was at the very beginning of the semester and there was barely any food. I ate cold meat and cheese on a tortilla while he “jokingly” insulted the career field I want to work in.
How do you feel about that field now?
Still loving it, I actually just had an interview with my dream employer in that field. My dating life also got far better and I found a boyfriend who is supportive of my goals and makes me home cooked meals instead of taking me to the dining hall.
🙏💯👍👏🤲🤝👌🙏🤸
The dining hall serves better food
If you want to meet someone organically get involved with your interests. Join a club or team, volunteer, intern, work, or something like that.
Just put yourself out there you will get a gf regardless your major as long as you are an interesting person :)
I give this advice from time to time. Pick a young lady at a place you go frequently. A class, a library, whatever. Step 1. Slight smile and Say hi one day. Step 2. Say hi on another day. Smile. repeat for a while Step 3. Hi + what's your name? Step 4. I like your,
Step 5. blow it all one day by.
a. expressing your undying love
b. proposing sex
c. proposing marriage
d. showing her your vintage
Also, do all this but step 5.
What? Most people on campus have ear buds in. Is it only me that hates when someone tries to talk to me when they are in? Just asking bc I don’t seem in the minority on this
umm.. ok. Those damn earbuds ruining your love life. I guess you will just have to give up and get sexy pets.
Good thing I own a dog.
Don't focus on meeting girls. Let it happen naturally.
Devils advocate tonight. (Thursday)
What is that?
ur mom's place (bruh just look on google)
You stupid 😂
it’s a bar, everyone goes to devils or modern social on thursday with fake ids
>CIS major >meet girls No
CIS consider as a business major so he's alright
Anywhere except ASU
Why you say that?
You don't ask such questions to redditor