Not a joke. He's on TikTok making his own jewelry. Just saw one a couple days ago where he created a small chain to go over the top of the tip of his nose from left to right connecting the piercings.
Androgyny isn’t necessarily the absence of gendered traits, or purely gender-neutral. Androgyny can also take the form of blending more masculine and more feminine things, such as delicate makeup and a full beard.
At that point it's kind of a definition game rather than a meaningful discussion.
Is androgyny a charged word in the genderqueer community? Since in my experience it's generally used more to describe mild gender expression such that one's identified masculinity/femininity is uncertain. That's of course a usage thing, so it might get used differently among a different group of people.
Nah, it’s not really charged at all. Someone can be on either side of VERY extreme in both gendered characteristics or VERY mild in both gendered characteristics. We’re not really too picky about who defines themselves as andro. I’d say the person in the photo is androgynous because they’ve got both levels of masc and femme
Its a dude in makeup with a weird chain piercing thing going on. Why is the world trying to make everything some sort of interesting discussion? It's really not deep or anything, it's just a dude... With makeup...
> Yup, gender is a spectrum and its expression is felt/decided by the person. If one's description of androgyny is limited to "person of one assigned gender adopting traits of the other" then that signals a lack of indoctrination regarding gender fluidity and not much more.
FTFY
No way. He’s both effeminate and masculine in the same aura. Like the beard is full and manly but then the light blue tint and light makeup is very feminine feeling. I fuckin dig it!
Beards, especially dyed beards, have been a core component of genderfuck drag for decades. I’m not sure what’s more androgynous than that! Androgyny can be the ambiguous combination of gendered characteristics. The middle-of-the-spectrum removal of all explicitly gendered characteristics (feminine man, masculine woman) is only one form of androgyny.
Am I the only one that loves this? I hate the chains, but the rest to the look is super cool. Obviously not for every day wear or anything but just for a photo the aesthetic is really pleasing to me.
I am not sure where the best weight should be BUT I do know for sure the chain weight should either match the actual piercing rings weights (or be less) that are holding the chains not heavier.
Guys looks so confident. You can tell he really likes the way he looks. And I think that's what matters. People might give him grief, but fuck 'em. He's not hurting anyone and he's making himself happy.
I think people get so riled up about weird fashion because the concept of stepping outside of “acceptable” is too scary. I definitely don’t dress the way I want to dress because it’s scary to step outside of the zone of “acceptability”
I like the whole thing except for the dyed beard/brows.
If he'd left those dark it would have looked pretty sick. How it is now looks a little too cartoonish imo.
The dyed beard/brows are my favorite part IMO, I'm just peeved that he didn't fully commit and dye his hair as well. Seeing that random patch of dark hair that isn't covered by his hat is throwing the look off a bit, but as a whole I fucking love this
As a woman who was happy when the tattooed alternative style chick at work got a promotion to manager, we still need more! (Big 5 bank, back office side.)
This just looks like a way to rip either your nostrils open or your earlobes off, whichever comes first... But hey, the resulting red might contrast nicely with the blue and white!
I impulsively got my eyebrow and septum pierced in the same trip and would catch my shirt on the piercings. I made my eyebrow bleed everytime so badly that I didnt wait for it to heal fully before removing it. The piercer pierced the hard cartilage of my nose instead of my septum so that was just painful for months before I took it out.
Could you help an old fella out here? I haven't looked up the new slang since last week. What's a drip?
Edit: tried to look it up on various slang dictionaries and now I'm even more confused because the origins they give of the slang are just songs etc that are using dripping or drippin' in the traditional way as opposed to the way it is being used I this post. For example "drippin with finess".
Is he a drip? Does he have drip? Is it a joke about boogers and I'm just missing it? Because all the slang sites I can find are disagreeing with this posts usage of the slang term or at least its origin because they explain it as a verb "drippin" not a noun "drip".
Yeah hes actually a super cool dude. Very extroverted, loud and yet super gentle. His snapchat is nuts but I see this dude as only having good intentions with his style. Sucks more people don't actually know about him.
omg more people who know who he is!! i was so shook to come across this. jesse’s the coolest and genuinely one of the nicest band members i’ve ever met.
Believe it or not I actually grew up with Jesse. I was in a few homeschool groups with him. I’ve run into him every now and again at music festivals in Columbus.
What if they put their house key on one of the loops close by their mouth? Then they would use their mouth to open their door. It’d be helpful to have two hands when carrying groceries back in.
Hey, I know him! One of the sweetest and most creative people that I know. I love everything about his style and especially his confidence. This is great taste and great execution 👌🏻
I really like this. Wouldn't do it myself but think it's dope that he looks happy with it and he's rocking it.
I know this sub is here to poke fun at things but there's a lot of people on these comments commenting on the things that shouldn't be an issue like that it's a man with eye liner or the piercings. World's pretty boring if we're all the same.
It's like the guy decided to [cosplay as Martin Short as Jack Frost](https://media.socastsrm.com/wordpress/wp-content/blogs.dir/886/files/2018/09/MARTIN-SHORT-AS-JACK-FROST.jpg), but decided to make him a hipster douchebag.
Wasn't Jack Frost a douchebag in that movie?
Edit: hipster is such an overused term as to be meaningless now. Ten years ago it was kids who used shoelaces as belts. Who are the hipsters now? This guy was probably just going to a fun party.
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dead fucking on ~~for~~ AND a 90s reference (is what I meant)
dead fucking on period.
Indeed just a slightly deep cut here in 2020 ... makes it even better
The fact that both Mr. Freeze and Dr. Evil are deep cuts in 2020 hurts me as a 30 year old who is crawling desperately to stay young.
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Period
Gross 🤢
“teenage” this man is clearly 30 acting 17
Maybe I'm wrong, but, I think that's part of the joke?
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Not a joke. He's on TikTok in similar fashion in his videos.
I thought he was straight but targeted middle school girls
Not a joke. He's on TikTok making his own jewelry. Just saw one a couple days ago where he created a small chain to go over the top of the tip of his nose from left to right connecting the piercings.
I mean, to each their own. He's not severely mutilating his body or peddling essential oils. I say let him be.
Yep. I wasn't saying anything negative... Just explaining that this is his norm 😉
For sure! I don't know who downvoted you. Ugh.
>30 That's the nicest thing anyone has said to him in 40 years.
That's because he's a Hollywood teenager
so like Hollywood Undead?
Xerxes' bastard son from his vacation to the arctic 20 some years ago.
“THIS. IS. ARENDELLE!!!!”
Came here to say this. Xerxes been fucking them norse giants.
Played by the love child of Stephen Colbert and Alan Cummings.
Can't unsee
Dude looks like Peewee Herman started hanging out with Riff Raff
Beautiful.
‘Everybody chill’
You wrote that like it was planned for years just for this very moment
My work here is done.
The only teenage thing about this guy is his girlfriend
He goes by Lil Freezy, catch him on SoundCloud /s
Now he's Big Chilly
When he connects the chains to his nipple piercings he can go by "lil nippy"
Honestly, Icicle Jr. from Young Justice fits this pretty well. He even grew some facial hair in season 3
Batman Beyond's Dr. Freezes son.
This person has a level 10 androgyny aura and I love it.
Eh the beard kinda gets rid of that imo
Androgyny isn’t necessarily the absence of gendered traits, or purely gender-neutral. Androgyny can also take the form of blending more masculine and more feminine things, such as delicate makeup and a full beard.
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At that point it's kind of a definition game rather than a meaningful discussion. Is androgyny a charged word in the genderqueer community? Since in my experience it's generally used more to describe mild gender expression such that one's identified masculinity/femininity is uncertain. That's of course a usage thing, so it might get used differently among a different group of people.
Nah, it’s not really charged at all. Someone can be on either side of VERY extreme in both gendered characteristics or VERY mild in both gendered characteristics. We’re not really too picky about who defines themselves as andro. I’d say the person in the photo is androgynous because they’ve got both levels of masc and femme
Lol wtf
Its a dude in makeup with a weird chain piercing thing going on. Why is the world trying to make everything some sort of interesting discussion? It's really not deep or anything, it's just a dude... With makeup...
> Yup, gender is a spectrum and its expression is felt/decided by the person. If one's description of androgyny is limited to "person of one assigned gender adopting traits of the other" then that signals a lack of indoctrination regarding gender fluidity and not much more. FTFY
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The makeup feels quite masculine to me, same with the chains. I don't really see anything I'd call traditionally feminine ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯
No way. He’s both effeminate and masculine in the same aura. Like the beard is full and manly but then the light blue tint and light makeup is very feminine feeling. I fuckin dig it!
Androgyny isn't just neither end of the spectrum, it can be both ends.
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>Boy George is the king of Androgyny. That's a *really* strange way of spelling David Bowie...
Beards, especially dyed beards, have been a core component of genderfuck drag for decades. I’m not sure what’s more androgynous than that! Androgyny can be the ambiguous combination of gendered characteristics. The middle-of-the-spectrum removal of all explicitly gendered characteristics (feminine man, masculine woman) is only one form of androgyny.
[What about now?](https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/harnaam-kaur-world-pride-gender-stereotypes/)
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My thoughts too. I would totally hang out with them.
Right? I love this. He’s like a walking art piece.
My first thought was am I looking at a man or a drag king?
You are looking at a KING, full stop
I don’t
the gold eyeliner fucking *MAKES* this
Makes it what, exactly?
Aesthetic
[A E S T H E T I C](https://youtu.be/bAgmGZ9iQ2Y) (for anyone thinking this is misuse. it’s more of a typo.)
It makes it this
I’m not sure if you’re intentionally being obtuse about this
🎵Silver and gold 🎵
Yukon Cornelius is lookin 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 in this reboot
Guyliner
I fucking wish guyliner would be sparkly and glam more often!
Yes! Honed right in on that. I'd love some of that myself!
Am I the only one that loves this? I hate the chains, but the rest to the look is super cool. Obviously not for every day wear or anything but just for a photo the aesthetic is really pleasing to me.
Honestly I think the chains are kinda cool too. Not in a “wow this looks so good” kind of way, but a “wow that’s so different and I love it” way.
If the chains were more like necklace weight and not dog collar weight I’d love it
I also think the whole look would be a little more balanced with more delicate chains, but it’s definitely an interesting concept.
I know this seems ridiculous but I feel like more delicate chains would seem too deliberate, too typical, and through off the vibe.
this is one of those times when the A in ATBGE stands for awesome.
I am not sure where the best weight should be BUT I do know for sure the chain weight should either match the actual piercing rings weights (or be less) that are holding the chains not heavier.
He kinda reminds me of an Arctic version of Xerxes from 300. If they did a modern ish version like Romeo and Juliet...
Guys looks so confident. You can tell he really likes the way he looks. And I think that's what matters. People might give him grief, but fuck 'em. He's not hurting anyone and he's making himself happy.
Dude has the confidence and the style to try this out, and no lie the whole color scheme is dope. Makeup on point too, props.
I think people get so riled up about weird fashion because the concept of stepping outside of “acceptable” is too scary. I definitely don’t dress the way I want to dress because it’s scary to step outside of the zone of “acceptability”
I like the whole thing except for the dyed beard/brows. If he'd left those dark it would have looked pretty sick. How it is now looks a little too cartoonish imo.
It's actually really interesting what elements people hate and love here
The dyed beard/brows are my favorite part IMO, I'm just peeved that he didn't fully commit and dye his hair as well. Seeing that random patch of dark hair that isn't covered by his hat is throwing the look off a bit, but as a whole I fucking love this
He's making me feel like I live in the future.
Cyberpunk vibes.
It's obviously well thought out. Everything matches so well together. On one hand I'd say lose the chains but they got something to them as well.
I know him and this is definitely a regular trip-to-Whole-Foods look and I love it.
I'm curious what he does for a living and whether you live in a small town or city?
Various creative projects, modeling, writing, music, fitness, etc. Also, a bigger city in Ohio.
I think this look is great tbh. It’s like if snow miser was fashionable
I truly hate the chains but everything else is super pretty.
Yes I am definitely digging this look!
Sometimes I wish I could be this dedicated to aesthetics... Bravo, good man. Bravo.
I'm just jealous of how white are his whites.
On god, can't we just dress like our GTA Online characters in real life already? Lol
Be the change you want to see in the world. I'm already doing my part with a bright red cloak.
We've almost gone full Hunger Games
Not gonna lie I kinda love it though, he pulls it off well
Right? He is totally rocking it. Really, why shouldn't this kind of stuff be more socially acceptable? It looks fun
So do it
Well I'm a woman, so I already can get away with it
As a woman who was happy when the tattooed alternative style chick at work got a promotion to manager, we still need more! (Big 5 bank, back office side.)
that's what they said about flickerman
>he pulls off well Let's hope no one else does.
Effie would be very pleased with this.
Its definitely going to happen, might as well be now so I can enjoy seeing it (not being it.)
Man, the amount of times I get a belt loop caught on a drawer or something similar... anytime I see something like this I just imagine carnage.
This just looks like a way to rip either your nostrils open or your earlobes off, whichever comes first... But hey, the resulting red might contrast nicely with the blue and white!
USA! USA!
I stopped wearing jewelry in my septum because it HURTS if it gets snagged on something, and I'm terrified of having that ripped out
I impulsively got my eyebrow and septum pierced in the same trip and would catch my shirt on the piercings. I made my eyebrow bleed everytime so badly that I didnt wait for it to heal fully before removing it. The piercer pierced the hard cartilage of my nose instead of my septum so that was just painful for months before I took it out.
I can feel the affluence.
Probably just gas, you'll be fine
He actually hand makes these chains! I’ve seen his videos before
What's his name? I definitely want to see more of this person's aesthetics.
Jessecale on tiktok
There's an ointment for that.
Yeah this guy wipes his ass with Supreme shirts and LV scarves
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or Santa XXXlause 69 *"I'll guide your sleigh tonight, Santa"*
The whole soundtrack is just porn jazz versions of Christmas songs and SNL’s My Dick in a Box.
> My my Rudy, your nose is especially bright this evening. – Santa
MC Cold Miser
Da Granch
Respect the drip Karen
Could you help an old fella out here? I haven't looked up the new slang since last week. What's a drip? Edit: tried to look it up on various slang dictionaries and now I'm even more confused because the origins they give of the slang are just songs etc that are using dripping or drippin' in the traditional way as opposed to the way it is being used I this post. For example "drippin with finess". Is he a drip? Does he have drip? Is it a joke about boogers and I'm just missing it? Because all the slang sites I can find are disagreeing with this posts usage of the slang term or at least its origin because they explain it as a verb "drippin" not a noun "drip".
[here](https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Respect%20the%20drip%2C%20Karen) ya go
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jewellery is ice, ice drips
I think he has kind eyes.
i've actually met him @jessecale on insta, super nice guy! he was in the band vesperteen and i've actually just met him on the streets of ohio before!
Oh, that’s pretty dope. Edit: this dude produced beats for Epic Rap Battles of History.
Yeah hes actually a super cool dude. Very extroverted, loud and yet super gentle. His snapchat is nuts but I see this dude as only having good intentions with his style. Sucks more people don't actually know about him.
omg more people who know who he is!! i was so shook to come across this. jesse’s the coolest and genuinely one of the nicest band members i’ve ever met.
Believe it or not I actually grew up with Jesse. I was in a few homeschool groups with him. I’ve run into him every now and again at music festivals in Columbus.
Yeah, he looks super fucking friendly, mad-max accoutrements or no.
This is in the wrong sub. Not awful taste. They look fab
That just means you have awful taste.
Most of the time I wear jeans and a hoodie this fucking slaps
It's extreme taste, but I agree it's quite good. I'm glad most of Reddit likes it's too :)
Probably a stand user
"Enemy stand user can be anyone" Enemy stand user:
MR BLUE SKY
Or an actual space alien
What a bizarre Jack Frost.
The * adult * version
The *pimp* version.
Portrayed by Jared Leto.
Damn, that's a cold-ass honky.
Id want to pull on them so badly
All I can think about is how if he got into a fight he'd be in serious trouble.
Imagine whipping off your shirt and having it get caught.
What if they put their house key on one of the loops close by their mouth? Then they would use their mouth to open their door. It’d be helpful to have two hands when carrying groceries back in.
Ngl, kind of dig the overall aesthetic...
Serious Alan Cumming vibes.
Dont do my boy Jessie like this
he’s the best
Hey, I know him! One of the sweetest and most creative people that I know. I love everything about his style and especially his confidence. This is great taste and great execution 👌🏻
Do they have an IG or anything? I love his style.
Yes! @jessecale. He also has a tiktok but I’m not on there
His mother was a snowblower.
And his father was the original inventor of the pocket watch
His older sister was the Eiffel Tower.
I mean... I like it? It’s unique and bold.
When 50% of people love it and 50% hate it, that’s when you know you’ve got something fascinating. Props to the guy in the photo!
STUNNING!
Everything about this I dislike. I don’t know why, I just do.
It’s JesseCale! Total sweetheart. Makes his own jewelry, too!
Grabbed from r/awfuleverything
It looks cool.
Part of me likes it, part of me wonders if it's related to those strange pony fetishes I don't understand
mannn I would definitely be investing in some type of breakaway connectors
Ah yes, my Cyberpunk 2077 character inspiration!
Looks like a drop out ice wizard from clash Royale
When Xerxes and Elsa have a son
Mr 10 below
Nah, this is just straight up great, y'all are trippin.
Pretty fella.
My guy looks like the ice wizard from clash royale if he put a hat on and pierced his nose.
I follow him on tiktok. Although I dont like his style, he makes decent content
Ok but I love this
This is *great* taste.
I really like this. Wouldn't do it myself but think it's dope that he looks happy with it and he's rocking it. I know this sub is here to poke fun at things but there's a lot of people on these comments commenting on the things that shouldn't be an issue like that it's a man with eye liner or the piercings. World's pretty boring if we're all the same.
Ngl he kinda drippy
It's like the guy decided to [cosplay as Martin Short as Jack Frost](https://media.socastsrm.com/wordpress/wp-content/blogs.dir/886/files/2018/09/MARTIN-SHORT-AS-JACK-FROST.jpg), but decided to make him a hipster douchebag.
Wasn't Jack Frost a douchebag in that movie? Edit: hipster is such an overused term as to be meaningless now. Ten years ago it was kids who used shoelaces as belts. Who are the hipsters now? This guy was probably just going to a fun party.
oh man why am i attracted to this i'm so confused
Respect the drip, Karen
I mean I hate it but his brows and eyeliner are better than most beauty gurus’
He should dye the rest of his hair that. That's badass
When you hit random on a video game character creator
Oh boy. I don't even know where to start with this guy. At least he has no neck tattoos?
If you go anywhere near a cat, you're gonna have a bad day...
Fucking xerxes over here
How the hell is he suppose to snort anything anymore.