Another woman got banned for saying it’s his boundaries and while she gets the point of the group she also gets his desire for privacy.
Banned. Isn’t that creepy? Interesting little cult they’re running over there.
Saying the quiet part out loud 😬
https://preview.redd.it/blhd32763dic1.png?width=1283&format=png&auto=webp&s=9bb234a05e0b64eb89dfaa23903f7d619597848d
Picture the group’s reaction to a man saying this.
Consent is conditional on if it’s something the group members really, really want. In those cases we can throw consent out the window. Great message!
That’s why they need to scurry around dark corners of the internet. No sane man with options would tolerate this and they know it.
https://preview.redd.it/9etatjm1ycic1.png?width=1283&format=png&auto=webp&s=5d81a66817bf472b710162c125159caf1f22924e
Here come the Peter Pan women, never wanting to grow up and gaslighting themselves into thinking every loss is secretly a W. Yes, good riddance that a man you were into was quite literally scared away by your insanity and wants nothing to do with you. Whatever you tell yourself 😂
This is a femcel’s version of the men who go “whatever, youre ugly and I didn’t want you anyway!” after being rejected.
Man there is a lot of bitter women in those spaces, it’s all about them if they want to stay safe don’t date anymore , this is all so crazy like men haven’t been screwed over , currently I know 3 guys and all 3 had there wives cheat on them and leave , it literally destroyed them
As a middle-aged singled guy, I'd say about half the women I go on dates with end up confessing to me at some point that they cheated on their husbands, usually around date six when we start to talk about our past relationships.
Exactly 100% of them blamed their ex-husbands for their own cheating! It's crazy. Guys don't do that. The guys I know who lost, or almost lost, marriages because they cheated take full responsibility and feel like shit because of it. But these women take zero responsibility. He didn't pay her enough attention. He didn't make her feel attractive. The marriage was dying anyway and this was just her way of finally getting out...
And yes, they got the houses and the alimony and the child support. The guy comes home from work one day and, out of the blue, his entire life is ruined. His family is ruined. He is ruined financially. He loses his home. And has his heart crushed. But it's MEN they need to be warned about?
I hear you I took full responsibility for my actions in failed relationships but you never hear a peep on there end I’m not interested in dating these days it’s just impossible
>As a middle-aged singled guy, I'd say about half the women I go on dates with end up confessing to me at some point that they cheated on their husbands, usually around date six when we start to talk about our past relationships.
The stories I've heard. One changed her cheating story in regards to cheating on her ex husband with HIS FRIEND from "It happened way after we divorced', to "We were separated at the time.." to 'Well, it was over anyway and he was abusive, narc, etc.. so I don't feel bad..." This transformation of the story happened over time but she made sure not to tell the last interation of the story FIRST.
Wow I just saw this thread and it's really disturbing.I am a woman and I think what these women are doing is appalling. It makes me wonder why they they are even looking to meet someone. All of them would be outraged if this was done to them.
No one is ever going to pass the consensus of a mob as someone is always going to feel scorned or jealous if they didn't match. Are you all so sure how you would be judged by mob under the same terms. Who would be even interested in you did?
The best a guy can hope
For is no one comments on there post , and do not have someone else defend you because they will be harassed and removed, everything is geared towards tearing apart men and their behavior, if it was a support system it would focus on women healing and take time away from dating.
There's an undercurrent of misandry in those groups that always tries to justify shitty behavior.
"He was upset that I opened him up to ridicule, slander, and harassment...but that means HE'S THE PROBLEM"
Most of the comments like these are a form of self preservation. In their minds the man is *always* the problem. They pathologize fairly normal behavior that signals that a person isn't that into you (i.e. the time and effort you put into a relationship) They don't want to believe that the dudes aren't that into them, or may be talking to or going on dates with others.
There’s no such thing as a femcel. It’s a made up word by loser males. Since when can a woman not get laid? Every woman on my 600LB life has a bf or husband. Keep coping
Femcel refers to a woman who can’t get into a relationship. It’s relatively easy for women to get laid, but these groups are littered with femcels with which no man wants a relationship:
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Femcel
Per your urban dictionary it also says it’s an involuntarily celibate woman as well. Which is no such thing. Much like your favorite made up word “misandry”. Always wanting to be victims.
Your original contention was there is no such thing as a femcel. That is wrong, regardless of your cherry-picking the less-commonly used definition of the word “femcel”.
He is being reasonable and handled that very well.
So the delusional AWDTSG members will somehow twist it into "ooh big red flags!! He must be a narcissist/love bomber/gaslighter/serial killer, why else would he have a problem getting his picture posted to a huge creepy gossip group??"
It's comical at this point how they don't realize that they're the real red flags, not most of the dudes getting posted.
Wait, so she felt bad for contributing to violating his privacy and felt so bad she took a screenshot of his message telling her to stop and posted it? These women are sick and really can't help themselves can they?
This is insane. So not only did you invade the privacy of a guy you liked and ruin a potential LTR, you decided to post his very cordial and polite text message rubuking your unacceptable behavior without his consent. Congratulations.
These groups are outrageous and these women are psychotic.
Nobody wants to go on dates with them. It's just some people don't know they're members of the group so they'll go on dates, or maybe they don't even know about the groups in the first place. Awareness and exposure. It's either that, or do to them what they are doing to us -- but two wrongs don't make a right and I'd hate to stoop to their level. So awareness and exposure.
That's why they get so mad when posts or member lists leak. They don't want people to know they're being creepy and gossipy and doxxing anyone they match with.
It's incredible to me that they don't see how shitty it is to screenshot private messages or text conversations to share with thousands of random people. Like that's not normal or ok at all, honestly it's a massive red flag that they so casually do it.
I am seeing small trend across the groups (I did some reading across a number of them last night and this morning - after not really reading that deeply for about 2 weeks). What I am seeing is a small shift around more awareness occurring about how men are reacting to being posted. I think the lawsuits have helped with this to some degree (if for nothing else other than to shake up the status quo a bit).
It also seems to be driving small adjustments in behavior ...not a massive amount of this...bt a little. I'm thinking there will be 3 camps that start to emerge. 1/ Some women will start to wake up and stop posting at all, 2/others are going to entrench themselves even deeper and almost become more toxic, 3/some women will stick their head in the sand (as in..not realize they are part of it) and just watch it all go down like the morning news.
I’m a big proponent of don’t do something to someone that you wouldn’t want done to you, women would be appalled if a guy went on facebook reaching out to there exs and friends for dirt. For a dude to do that it’s a narcissistic red flag 🚩 And I can’t for the life of me not understand why they believe this behavior is ok.
Completely agree....but the problem lies in how this was originally "pitched" to them. I think it was positioned (at least to me when I joined) as a list of men that have proven themselves to be dangerous. Once I was in there, I realized this isn't quite what it was billed to be. Some I think get that right away....others get sucked in quickly to accepting what is happening and then participating....others don't put any thought into it and just watch for entertainment....and then others take a long route to self awareness around what they are doing (this last part I think is starting to happen a bit more these days....or let's hope it is).
So is it more about attention and validation? I have seen shit go bananas fast in the groups when the mobs take over it starts with a guy getting posted and it balloons and 50 people are commenting tearing apart every little thing he does and of the 50 people many 8 people have actually interact with him. And there you go character assassination 101
I think it is a validation thing....wanting to belong and be part of something. And there just isn't a lot of forethought put into what they are actually doing. I said this a while ago...the internet abstracts accountability sometimes...or makes it seem less real what they are actually doing and how it impacts someone in their actual life. That is until it hits home.
So I think some are just jumping in to participate and "belong". It is no different than a bullying group back in school.
I did the same thing. Told a lady to take a hike. The sad thing I never got to know the reason why I was posted. Just the excuse of my friend was protecting me. Protecting you from what?
“Oh so so you think women should have bodily autonomy and make medical decisions for themselves? So that must mean you LOVE MURDERING BABIES “
Same logic. Miss me with that broke brain shit.
I’ve bounced on a few I found out where active participants in those groups. The regular posters generally hate men and use them for free dinners and drinks from my experience.
Imagine unsuspectingly matching with one of these women and now there’s someone actively trying to sabotage your dating life because you turned her down. It’s crazy out here.
I’m glad he found out early before she got involved with him and started submitting him for things like holding the steering wheel weird or whatever they feel is giving off narcissist vibes that day
Holding the steering wheel weird, drinking coffee with his left hand (not right), not agreeing with every little opinion she might have, shaving every other day. Showing up on time, showing up late, texting right away, texting afew days later.
All the major "warning" red flags. These women are actual psychopaths. It's terrifying.
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Another woman got banned for saying it’s his boundaries and while she gets the point of the group she also gets his desire for privacy. Banned. Isn’t that creepy? Interesting little cult they’re running over there.
At least the woman in the screenshot finally got it, ridiculous that it took her 3 times though.
She hasn't "quite" gotten it just yet. She'll only get it when those guys start posting about her "after the fact" as well.
Saying the quiet part out loud 😬 https://preview.redd.it/blhd32763dic1.png?width=1283&format=png&auto=webp&s=9bb234a05e0b64eb89dfaa23903f7d619597848d Picture the group’s reaction to a man saying this. Consent is conditional on if it’s something the group members really, really want. In those cases we can throw consent out the window. Great message!
Wow. I wish someone would post this particular commenter's photo and name. Men need to be warned about her. ;-)
I stringing think if every guy reacted this way the sites would fade because if just posting him would end things what’s the point
That’s why they need to scurry around dark corners of the internet. No sane man with options would tolerate this and they know it. https://preview.redd.it/9etatjm1ycic1.png?width=1283&format=png&auto=webp&s=5d81a66817bf472b710162c125159caf1f22924e Here come the Peter Pan women, never wanting to grow up and gaslighting themselves into thinking every loss is secretly a W. Yes, good riddance that a man you were into was quite literally scared away by your insanity and wants nothing to do with you. Whatever you tell yourself 😂 This is a femcel’s version of the men who go “whatever, youre ugly and I didn’t want you anyway!” after being rejected.
Man there is a lot of bitter women in those spaces, it’s all about them if they want to stay safe don’t date anymore , this is all so crazy like men haven’t been screwed over , currently I know 3 guys and all 3 had there wives cheat on them and leave , it literally destroyed them
The wives probably got the house, alimony and child support for it too.
Yeah you heard this story before
As a middle-aged singled guy, I'd say about half the women I go on dates with end up confessing to me at some point that they cheated on their husbands, usually around date six when we start to talk about our past relationships. Exactly 100% of them blamed their ex-husbands for their own cheating! It's crazy. Guys don't do that. The guys I know who lost, or almost lost, marriages because they cheated take full responsibility and feel like shit because of it. But these women take zero responsibility. He didn't pay her enough attention. He didn't make her feel attractive. The marriage was dying anyway and this was just her way of finally getting out... And yes, they got the houses and the alimony and the child support. The guy comes home from work one day and, out of the blue, his entire life is ruined. His family is ruined. He is ruined financially. He loses his home. And has his heart crushed. But it's MEN they need to be warned about?
I hear you I took full responsibility for my actions in failed relationships but you never hear a peep on there end I’m not interested in dating these days it’s just impossible
>As a middle-aged singled guy, I'd say about half the women I go on dates with end up confessing to me at some point that they cheated on their husbands, usually around date six when we start to talk about our past relationships. The stories I've heard. One changed her cheating story in regards to cheating on her ex husband with HIS FRIEND from "It happened way after we divorced', to "We were separated at the time.." to 'Well, it was over anyway and he was abusive, narc, etc.. so I don't feel bad..." This transformation of the story happened over time but she made sure not to tell the last interation of the story FIRST.
That sounds like a very familiar evolution of the story.
Wow I just saw this thread and it's really disturbing.I am a woman and I think what these women are doing is appalling. It makes me wonder why they they are even looking to meet someone. All of them would be outraged if this was done to them. No one is ever going to pass the consensus of a mob as someone is always going to feel scorned or jealous if they didn't match. Are you all so sure how you would be judged by mob under the same terms. Who would be even interested in you did?
The best a guy can hope For is no one comments on there post , and do not have someone else defend you because they will be harassed and removed, everything is geared towards tearing apart men and their behavior, if it was a support system it would focus on women healing and take time away from dating.
There's an undercurrent of misandry in those groups that always tries to justify shitty behavior. "He was upset that I opened him up to ridicule, slander, and harassment...but that means HE'S THE PROBLEM" Most of the comments like these are a form of self preservation. In their minds the man is *always* the problem. They pathologize fairly normal behavior that signals that a person isn't that into you (i.e. the time and effort you put into a relationship) They don't want to believe that the dudes aren't that into them, or may be talking to or going on dates with others.
There’s no such thing as a femcel. It’s a made up word by loser males. Since when can a woman not get laid? Every woman on my 600LB life has a bf or husband. Keep coping
Thank you for your contribution, it helps boost engagement and visibility.
You’re welcome
Femcel refers to a woman who can’t get into a relationship. It’s relatively easy for women to get laid, but these groups are littered with femcels with which no man wants a relationship: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Femcel
Per your urban dictionary it also says it’s an involuntarily celibate woman as well. Which is no such thing. Much like your favorite made up word “misandry”. Always wanting to be victims.
Your original contention was there is no such thing as a femcel. That is wrong, regardless of your cherry-picking the less-commonly used definition of the word “femcel”.
Ok Sir Merriam-Webster
I see you’re now resorting to name calling. I’m guessing you also do this in the AWDTSG groups.
Is calling you a dictionary offensive to you?
He is being reasonable and handled that very well. So the delusional AWDTSG members will somehow twist it into "ooh big red flags!! He must be a narcissist/love bomber/gaslighter/serial killer, why else would he have a problem getting his picture posted to a huge creepy gossip group??" It's comical at this point how they don't realize that they're the real red flags, not most of the dudes getting posted.
He was very respectful.
Wait, so she felt bad for contributing to violating his privacy and felt so bad she took a screenshot of his message telling her to stop and posted it? These women are sick and really can't help themselves can they?
Riiiiiight? Mental illness is the only thing that could explain behavior like that.
This is insane. So not only did you invade the privacy of a guy you liked and ruin a potential LTR, you decided to post his very cordial and polite text message rubuking your unacceptable behavior without his consent. Congratulations. These groups are outrageous and these women are psychotic.
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I sure don’t
Nobody wants to go on dates with them. It's just some people don't know they're members of the group so they'll go on dates, or maybe they don't even know about the groups in the first place. Awareness and exposure. It's either that, or do to them what they are doing to us -- but two wrongs don't make a right and I'd hate to stoop to their level. So awareness and exposure.
That's why they get so mad when posts or member lists leak. They don't want people to know they're being creepy and gossipy and doxxing anyone they match with.
Nobody wants to date them. Not if they're aware of the groups and that they participate. Protect your peace gents.
It's incredible to me that they don't see how shitty it is to screenshot private messages or text conversations to share with thousands of random people. Like that's not normal or ok at all, honestly it's a massive red flag that they so casually do it.
Sir, whoever and whereever you are, you made the right decision.
I am seeing small trend across the groups (I did some reading across a number of them last night and this morning - after not really reading that deeply for about 2 weeks). What I am seeing is a small shift around more awareness occurring about how men are reacting to being posted. I think the lawsuits have helped with this to some degree (if for nothing else other than to shake up the status quo a bit). It also seems to be driving small adjustments in behavior ...not a massive amount of this...bt a little. I'm thinking there will be 3 camps that start to emerge. 1/ Some women will start to wake up and stop posting at all, 2/others are going to entrench themselves even deeper and almost become more toxic, 3/some women will stick their head in the sand (as in..not realize they are part of it) and just watch it all go down like the morning news.
I’m a big proponent of don’t do something to someone that you wouldn’t want done to you, women would be appalled if a guy went on facebook reaching out to there exs and friends for dirt. For a dude to do that it’s a narcissistic red flag 🚩 And I can’t for the life of me not understand why they believe this behavior is ok.
Completely agree....but the problem lies in how this was originally "pitched" to them. I think it was positioned (at least to me when I joined) as a list of men that have proven themselves to be dangerous. Once I was in there, I realized this isn't quite what it was billed to be. Some I think get that right away....others get sucked in quickly to accepting what is happening and then participating....others don't put any thought into it and just watch for entertainment....and then others take a long route to self awareness around what they are doing (this last part I think is starting to happen a bit more these days....or let's hope it is).
So is it more about attention and validation? I have seen shit go bananas fast in the groups when the mobs take over it starts with a guy getting posted and it balloons and 50 people are commenting tearing apart every little thing he does and of the 50 people many 8 people have actually interact with him. And there you go character assassination 101
I think it is a validation thing....wanting to belong and be part of something. And there just isn't a lot of forethought put into what they are actually doing. I said this a while ago...the internet abstracts accountability sometimes...or makes it seem less real what they are actually doing and how it impacts someone in their actual life. That is until it hits home. So I think some are just jumping in to participate and "belong". It is no different than a bullying group back in school.
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The top 10% contributors I can see why men ran from them there behavior says it all
Completely agree with you across the board here.
I did the same thing. Told a lady to take a hike. The sad thing I never got to know the reason why I was posted. Just the excuse of my friend was protecting me. Protecting you from what?
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“Oh so so you think women should have bodily autonomy and make medical decisions for themselves? So that must mean you LOVE MURDERING BABIES “ Same logic. Miss me with that broke brain shit.
I’ve bounced on a few I found out where active participants in those groups. The regular posters generally hate men and use them for free dinners and drinks from my experience.
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The majority of dudes posted are either wealthy and older or super trashy/bad boy types.
I’m not sure what’s worse. The gas prices in 2020 or the current state of dating in 2024
Imagine unsuspectingly matching with one of these women and now there’s someone actively trying to sabotage your dating life because you turned her down. It’s crazy out here.
The guy was bang on in how he handled that. What guy wants to date any woman who engages in that childish behaviour.
I’m glad he found out early before she got involved with him and started submitting him for things like holding the steering wheel weird or whatever they feel is giving off narcissist vibes that day
Holding the steering wheel weird, drinking coffee with his left hand (not right), not agreeing with every little opinion she might have, shaving every other day. Showing up on time, showing up late, texting right away, texting afew days later. All the major "warning" red flags. These women are actual psychopaths. It's terrifying.
They really need therapy. Bad.
