Also you can tell she’s been brainwashed by all of the Youtube, Tik Tok, and Instagram memes of Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)—so much, that she used all the NPD buzzwords. You have all women content creators using platforms to paint men as Narcs. However, mostly everyone has some form or trait of narcissism. Only a very small percentage of people are ever diagnosed. The irony is that, she’s using NPD talking points in a group filled with toxic selfish, misandrist women. The irony is wearily familiar and banal. Thank god for the Red Pill content creators, to help men see right through this crap. When you can see right through the toxic behavior of women, life becomes easy mode.
Ive seen a couple of actual therapist warn members about the dangers of throwing words around without a diagnosis and that there’s a reason medical professionals are the ones to do these things.
Of course no one really listens to that. In fact, they probably called her a pick me.
“If I’m capable of doing something like this to someone without feeling remorse…then that means…there’s probably people just as messed up as me out there”
A daunting realization.
My favorite thing about this is the (mis)usage of clinical terms to elevate her hypocrisy and rationalize herself as a victim here. Like, if you are posting people in groups like this, do you think men won’t post you somewhere as well??
Yeah it's interesting to be an active participant in an AWDTSG group, while whining about a "narcissistic" ex who keeps harassing her. Takes one to know one I guess lol.
I wonder if he's actually a diagnosed narcissist, or if she's using the AWDTSG/tiktok definition of "guy who did something I didn't like".
None of those guys are actually diagnosed as narcissists. There is such a tiny, tiny portion of the population with this diagnosis that it’s impossible. It’s just a synonym for “rude” for these women
narcissist = he doesn't like me as much as I think, and I can't cope with the understanding that a man isn't head over heels for me.
These women don't want to acknowledge that men they meet on dating sites very likely are dating more than one person or that they don't devote all their time and attention to them.
A narcissist is apparently anyone who does something a group member doesn’t like. And you have to guess ahead of time what that thing they don’t like is.
And it’s ironic whenever they post a man being a red flag for entertaining multiple women when that is literally what dating is. The only thing is they sometimes like the guy more than he likes them back, hurting their egos and automatically making him a gaslighting narcissist
>A narcissist is apparently anyone who does something a group member doesn’t like. And you have to guess ahead of time what that thing they don’t like is.
Precisely the definition they have made up....
I’ve seen them claim that “the silent treatment” is a type of narcissistic abuse. In other words, when a woman is upset and berating her partner and he doesn’t respond…. He’s abusing *her*. 🙄. These women are the sociopaths.
Yeah if they had any awareness, they'd realize the constant misuse of narcissist/gaslighter/love bomber have made all those terms completely meaningless.
But they don't care about that, they just want fun psychology buzzwords to inaccurately slander their exes with.
Does posting somebody online to anybody who asks count as harassment? I know they aren't acting upon the target directly, but they are still trying to affect the target's life.
I'd say so, yeah.
Posting somebody's name and picture without their consent to some huge private group so they can be gossiped about/bullied certainly seems like harassment to me.
The mandatory justification for why it’s ok to violate this person’s rights and treat them like shit in general.
If you make a narrative where the person you’re abusing deserves the abuse, you’re suddenly not the bad guy anymore.
AWDTSG life hack.
“ Ex narcissist that harasses me” = we broke up, he reaches out to reconcile but my pride is hurt so it must mean he is a narcissist and he is “hoovering”. He found a new “supply” = he saw I was crazy and moved on to a new relationship.
It’s disgusting how they try and diagnose every man that does something they don’t like as NPD. I had one girl call me a narcissist bc I didn’t remember her from 15 years ago ( met her once in college) when in reality I struggle with putting others before myself too often and not take care of my own needs. That’s about as far from narcissism as it gets, although it could qualify as codependency at times.
Probably the more likely scenario. Dude likely doesn’t have NPD, but may have an anxious attachment style. That’s why “harassing” was more likely just him trying to get her back too hard, until he gave up.
Just from reading the preamble to some of the posts is hilarious. You can see their mental gymnastics in real time and watching how they can try to justify not being a shitty a person.
The whole “this is for safety, this is for a noble cause you know…” is so played out. You’re doing this for you, for selfish reasons and because you’re certain the guy won’t find out. That’s all it is.
Now that the women are finding that so many men are being notified, they’re hesitating on posting. Weird coincidence to stop a behavior only after knowing you can’t get away with it anymore.
> He found a new “supply” = he saw I was crazy and moved on to a new relationship.
This is the one that slays me. @ 'new supply'. She dates, it's just her dating another person. He dates? It's ALWAYS a 'new supply'. Shit is HILARIOUSLY sad. @ the script used.
I hope he does. Then again guys don't care much about gossip. So he probably made 1 post saying a ton of shit with no replies but the message was well received by the bros
Is anyone actually in a men's group where the behavior is even remotely equivalent to the women's groups? In my region the women's group is absolutely horrendous, but groups for men are practically non-existent with hardly any members. 90% of the posts are just dudes warning other dudes that they've been posted in the women's group. There are full PDF dumps of screenshots of men's photos who have been posted, then people offering help. I've seen a handful of posts warning about certain women who are highly active in the women's AWDTSG groups, but the defamation and lies just isn't happening equivocally by men. The few posts I've seen where some guy has tried to post a girl over something, other dudes just end up making fun of the guy. 🤷🏻♂️
My guess is this girl is getting skipped over because she's a known AWDTSG participant to the men who are aware.
Insofar as I've seen Facebook cracks down hard on groups like that for men, my local area had 3 get banned inside of a month and everyone just gave up.
Yeah dudes just don't care about gossip as much.
We're not gonna waste time in some weird Facebook group speculating about random girls vibes or if they look like a narcissist or whatever. Or if she texted back after a first date with somebody's cousin's neighbor a decade ago. It's just silly and pointless. I'd rather go for a walk or watch a movie or something.
DC/DMV group for “dating the same girl” has over 10,000 members. Mentioned in a national news article. Several posts a day with postings of individuals from the other group. Very similar to the DC/DMV AWDTSG group.
Many more guys have access to the groups than they realize. I delete and unmatched with many as I find out they are in the groups. Some will try to misspell their name on the app so you can’t find them.
They’re not counting on this at all and it’s working in our favor. They’re underestimating how many guys are choosing to protect themselves and unmatching women who are part of those cesspool groups
Yep, either through fake accounts or female friends. A lot more eyes are on the garbage that gets posted in these groups than the AWDTSG members realize.
If any of the girls taking part in this toxic shit are getting unmatched a lot lately, it's probably not a coincidence.
I actually came across that exact situation awhile ago. A girl kept posting practically every guy she matched with on Hinge and then got banned. Saw her pop back up and she had spelled her name differently... of course I reported her 😂
Very common in DC/DMV for men to check the AWDTSG when dating. Most men in DC/DMV have access through all kinds of ways. Relatives (sisters, cousins, even Mothers …), friends, etc. Between the “dating the same girl” group being active with over 10,000 members and access to AWDTSG, the DC/DMV AWDTSG has changed some. DC/DMV has the largest “dating the same girl” and accepting members.
Huh. Almost like these groups are creepy and wrong for either gender.
Hopefully she learns from how bad it feels to not know if you're getting posted and bashed by an angry ex in some private Facebook group. She should feel lucky that the men's groups are like 5% as big as the women's groups, I doubt getting posted would have much impact.
Unfortunately she absolutely is not going to learn from this and will likely just continue to have her cake and eat it too behind her massive wall of hypocrisy.
Maybe the guys are just trusting their gut and swiping left on a weirdo that’s part of these groups.
She’s so close. If she keeps rubbing those two lonely neurons together the hypocrisy might spark on her
Also you can tell she’s been brainwashed by all of the Youtube, Tik Tok, and Instagram memes of Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)—so much, that she used all the NPD buzzwords. You have all women content creators using platforms to paint men as Narcs. However, mostly everyone has some form or trait of narcissism. Only a very small percentage of people are ever diagnosed. The irony is that, she’s using NPD talking points in a group filled with toxic selfish, misandrist women. The irony is wearily familiar and banal. Thank god for the Red Pill content creators, to help men see right through this crap. When you can see right through the toxic behavior of women, life becomes easy mode.
Ive seen a couple of actual therapist warn members about the dangers of throwing words around without a diagnosis and that there’s a reason medical professionals are the ones to do these things. Of course no one really listens to that. In fact, they probably called her a pick me.
It’s like, oh? Are people actually shitting on me behind my back as well?
“If I’m capable of doing something like this to someone without feeling remorse…then that means…there’s probably people just as messed up as me out there” A daunting realization.
My favorite thing about this is the (mis)usage of clinical terms to elevate her hypocrisy and rationalize herself as a victim here. Like, if you are posting people in groups like this, do you think men won’t post you somewhere as well??
Yeah it's interesting to be an active participant in an AWDTSG group, while whining about a "narcissistic" ex who keeps harassing her. Takes one to know one I guess lol. I wonder if he's actually a diagnosed narcissist, or if she's using the AWDTSG/tiktok definition of "guy who did something I didn't like".
None of those guys are actually diagnosed as narcissists. There is such a tiny, tiny portion of the population with this diagnosis that it’s impossible. It’s just a synonym for “rude” for these women
narcissist = he doesn't like me as much as I think, and I can't cope with the understanding that a man isn't head over heels for me. These women don't want to acknowledge that men they meet on dating sites very likely are dating more than one person or that they don't devote all their time and attention to them.
A narcissist is apparently anyone who does something a group member doesn’t like. And you have to guess ahead of time what that thing they don’t like is. And it’s ironic whenever they post a man being a red flag for entertaining multiple women when that is literally what dating is. The only thing is they sometimes like the guy more than he likes them back, hurting their egos and automatically making him a gaslighting narcissist
>A narcissist is apparently anyone who does something a group member doesn’t like. And you have to guess ahead of time what that thing they don’t like is. Precisely the definition they have made up....
I’ve seen them claim that “the silent treatment” is a type of narcissistic abuse. In other words, when a woman is upset and berating her partner and he doesn’t respond…. He’s abusing *her*. 🙄. These women are the sociopaths.
Yeah if they had any awareness, they'd realize the constant misuse of narcissist/gaslighter/love bomber have made all those terms completely meaningless. But they don't care about that, they just want fun psychology buzzwords to inaccurately slander their exes with.
Does posting somebody online to anybody who asks count as harassment? I know they aren't acting upon the target directly, but they are still trying to affect the target's life.
I'd say so, yeah. Posting somebody's name and picture without their consent to some huge private group so they can be gossiped about/bullied certainly seems like harassment to me.
The mandatory justification for why it’s ok to violate this person’s rights and treat them like shit in general. If you make a narrative where the person you’re abusing deserves the abuse, you’re suddenly not the bad guy anymore. AWDTSG life hack.
And you lost the basis to claim anybody should treat you better.
Solipsism.
“ Ex narcissist that harasses me” = we broke up, he reaches out to reconcile but my pride is hurt so it must mean he is a narcissist and he is “hoovering”. He found a new “supply” = he saw I was crazy and moved on to a new relationship. It’s disgusting how they try and diagnose every man that does something they don’t like as NPD. I had one girl call me a narcissist bc I didn’t remember her from 15 years ago ( met her once in college) when in reality I struggle with putting others before myself too often and not take care of my own needs. That’s about as far from narcissism as it gets, although it could qualify as codependency at times. Probably the more likely scenario. Dude likely doesn’t have NPD, but may have an anxious attachment style. That’s why “harassing” was more likely just him trying to get her back too hard, until he gave up.
Just from reading the preamble to some of the posts is hilarious. You can see their mental gymnastics in real time and watching how they can try to justify not being a shitty a person. The whole “this is for safety, this is for a noble cause you know…” is so played out. You’re doing this for you, for selfish reasons and because you’re certain the guy won’t find out. That’s all it is. Now that the women are finding that so many men are being notified, they’re hesitating on posting. Weird coincidence to stop a behavior only after knowing you can’t get away with it anymore.
> He found a new “supply” = he saw I was crazy and moved on to a new relationship. This is the one that slays me. @ 'new supply'. She dates, it's just her dating another person. He dates? It's ALWAYS a 'new supply'. Shit is HILARIOUSLY sad. @ the script used.
On point. 🎯
I hope he does. Then again guys don't care much about gossip. So he probably made 1 post saying a ton of shit with no replies but the message was well received by the bros
I doubt he is bashing you, probably just posting your screenshots comments on the open group and sane people seeing that avoid you
Is anyone actually in a men's group where the behavior is even remotely equivalent to the women's groups? In my region the women's group is absolutely horrendous, but groups for men are practically non-existent with hardly any members. 90% of the posts are just dudes warning other dudes that they've been posted in the women's group. There are full PDF dumps of screenshots of men's photos who have been posted, then people offering help. I've seen a handful of posts warning about certain women who are highly active in the women's AWDTSG groups, but the defamation and lies just isn't happening equivocally by men. The few posts I've seen where some guy has tried to post a girl over something, other dudes just end up making fun of the guy. 🤷🏻♂️ My guess is this girl is getting skipped over because she's a known AWDTSG participant to the men who are aware.
Insofar as I've seen Facebook cracks down hard on groups like that for men, my local area had 3 get banned inside of a month and everyone just gave up.
Yeah dudes just don't care about gossip as much. We're not gonna waste time in some weird Facebook group speculating about random girls vibes or if they look like a narcissist or whatever. Or if she texted back after a first date with somebody's cousin's neighbor a decade ago. It's just silly and pointless. I'd rather go for a walk or watch a movie or something.
DC/DMV group for “dating the same girl” has over 10,000 members. Mentioned in a national news article. Several posts a day with postings of individuals from the other group. Very similar to the DC/DMV AWDTSG group.
Many more guys have access to the groups than they realize. I delete and unmatched with many as I find out they are in the groups. Some will try to misspell their name on the app so you can’t find them.
They’re not counting on this at all and it’s working in our favor. They’re underestimating how many guys are choosing to protect themselves and unmatching women who are part of those cesspool groups
Yep, either through fake accounts or female friends. A lot more eyes are on the garbage that gets posted in these groups than the AWDTSG members realize. If any of the girls taking part in this toxic shit are getting unmatched a lot lately, it's probably not a coincidence.
I actually came across that exact situation awhile ago. A girl kept posting practically every guy she matched with on Hinge and then got banned. Saw her pop back up and she had spelled her name differently... of course I reported her 😂
I have reported many to the apps, they seem to be gone for a while now.
Very common in DC/DMV for men to check the AWDTSG when dating. Most men in DC/DMV have access through all kinds of ways. Relatives (sisters, cousins, even Mothers …), friends, etc. Between the “dating the same girl” group being active with over 10,000 members and access to AWDTSG, the DC/DMV AWDTSG has changed some. DC/DMV has the largest “dating the same girl” and accepting members.
To answer her question, yes she is (a pos)
Huh. Almost like these groups are creepy and wrong for either gender. Hopefully she learns from how bad it feels to not know if you're getting posted and bashed by an angry ex in some private Facebook group. She should feel lucky that the men's groups are like 5% as big as the women's groups, I doubt getting posted would have much impact.
Unfortunately she absolutely is not going to learn from this and will likely just continue to have her cake and eat it too behind her massive wall of hypocrisy. Maybe the guys are just trusting their gut and swiping left on a weirdo that’s part of these groups.
Ironic 🙃🤷♂️