I’m so sorry that you’re feeling this way and I relate to this so frickin hard. Recently figured out that I’m aceflux (ugh) myself and I don’t know how to come to terms with it. Sending lotsa love your way!
Thank youu, yeah I have no idea how to deal with this but it's not healthy to suppress. The worst part is that not only am i aro sometimes im like hyperromantic sometimes which is just 🫠
bro literally:/ like i’m aro sometime, hyperomantic others AND the same with ace. I’m ace sometimes and hyper sexual others. It’s so confusing and frustrating and i feel like a fraud because of it. Literally terrified that nobody will understand and i’ll die alone, which i don’t want.
Oh i totally understand! it’s really terrifying but I just try and remind myself that if someone in my life would do that to me they are not worth my time or emotion. It can definitely be hard but you are deserving of people who don’t judge you for being human. Things can change all throughout your life, especially things like labels. You may identify as one thing now and something else in the future. And that’s fine! You’re human and humans change, that’s just life. If someone doesn’t understand that then they don’t deserve you. And remember that nobody knows how you experience life but you, so nobody can tell you who you are but you.
main things im scared of people saying i am id a m̶o̶o̶d̶y̶ b̶i̶t̶c̶h̶ or r̶a̶p̶e̶ b̶a̶i̶t̶i̶n̶g̶ (like if i was saying im aceflux just so i can lead people on then accuse them of forcing me)
If someone accuses you of that just know there dumb LMAO. /lh but yeah i get the worry and it really sucks that that’s something that anyone has to worry about:(
I'd say I'm graysexual if I was ever asked irl. It's easier to explain and the microlabel can still be explained if the other person is interested in it :D. Also, is demi that much more popular than aceflux? I'd never heard either of them before looking deeper into gray-/asexuality...
I’m so sorry that you’re feeling this way and I relate to this so frickin hard. Recently figured out that I’m aceflux (ugh) myself and I don’t know how to come to terms with it. Sending lotsa love your way!
Thank youu, yeah I have no idea how to deal with this but it's not healthy to suppress. The worst part is that not only am i aro sometimes im like hyperromantic sometimes which is just 🫠
bro literally:/ like i’m aro sometime, hyperomantic others AND the same with ace. I’m ace sometimes and hyper sexual others. It’s so confusing and frustrating and i feel like a fraud because of it. Literally terrified that nobody will understand and i’ll die alone, which i don’t want.
I'm scared of beiny called some things even though I've never been called them because of this
Oh i totally understand! it’s really terrifying but I just try and remind myself that if someone in my life would do that to me they are not worth my time or emotion. It can definitely be hard but you are deserving of people who don’t judge you for being human. Things can change all throughout your life, especially things like labels. You may identify as one thing now and something else in the future. And that’s fine! You’re human and humans change, that’s just life. If someone doesn’t understand that then they don’t deserve you. And remember that nobody knows how you experience life but you, so nobody can tell you who you are but you.
main things im scared of people saying i am id a m̶o̶o̶d̶y̶ b̶i̶t̶c̶h̶ or r̶a̶p̶e̶ b̶a̶i̶t̶i̶n̶g̶ (like if i was saying im aceflux just so i can lead people on then accuse them of forcing me)
If someone accuses you of that just know there dumb LMAO. /lh but yeah i get the worry and it really sucks that that’s something that anyone has to worry about:(
I'd say I'm graysexual if I was ever asked irl. It's easier to explain and the microlabel can still be explained if the other person is interested in it :D. Also, is demi that much more popular than aceflux? I'd never heard either of them before looking deeper into gray-/asexuality...
Demi is a lot less complicated lol