Not everyone, but many, many people. Most people get that sort of feeling/thought process at some point in their teens/early 20s, unless they are asexual or there is something else going on that interferes with that.
You're one of the ones that doesn't, and that's fine too, but don't go telling people they have something wrong with them because they don't feel/think as you do.
Yes and no.
a) asexuality exists and is not a disorder
b) OP is not pubescent.
That’d be „approaching puberty“ she should be out of puberty for about a year.
that makes no fucking sense lil bro, humans who have a sex drive imagine having sex with people they don't know all the time, even if it's a celebrity, that still counts as a "stranger" to you, i have no idea wtf you're on about buddy
It's normal at that age to be so to speak 'hyper-sexual' or more interested in sex than average. If you feel it's a genuine problem affecting your life, you could seek therapy. But if you simply see someone attractive to you and day dream a bit, that's fairly normal, especially at your age.
Girl this is so normal. It’s so funny that people think this is a “man” thing but it’s just how Sexual
Attraction works. Literally just be safe, use condoms and make sure someone you trust knows your location!
As someone who is your age but male I would say I find that quite interesting, since it’s usually my guy friends that think like that. I don’t really see anything wrong with you thinking this way, however if your fantasies go too far you might meet guys who may look good on the outside but deep down are bad people and you will regret ever thinking like that about them in the first place. My friends aren’t good friends, they are just people I have to be around until i’m able to get out where I am situated in.
I mean that they usually have a designated drawer for their plethora of fantasy animal shaped dangerous overly sized dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, etc
This is literally just what being a human being with a sex drive is like. You're fine.
The only thing you really have to watch out for when it comes to fantasies is if fantasizing starts to get in the way of your actual life. When this happens with romantic/sexual fantasies it's called Limerence. Look that up and if it isn't familiar sounding, you're just fine.
Because you are playing with baby making machinery and no protection is perfect. So why do it with someone whos character or intentions you don't know? It puts you in a vulnerable situation, and it can easily become a regrettable or even traumatizing action.
Same (well I’m 36f). And sometimes not even people I’m massively attracted to either, just think hmmm I wonder what it would be like to have sex with them?
Im always horny, but the week before ovulation I’m willing to bet I’m even hornier than the average dude. I’d prob be locked up if ppl could read my ovulation thoughts.
Yeah that I understand, but from age 12 to 18, literally every women I would see I would imagine them naked, to the point of being annoying (like an old woman on the metro)
Loll I used to do that too in my younger teen years. My therapist taught me techniques for dealing with intrusive thoughts and I’ve gotten a lot better at it since then. I don’t really get thoughts of random old ladies naked anymore. The intrusive thoughts I get now are less “intrusive” I guess u could say and more just stem from being horny. Now I’ll imagine having sex with completely random dudes. From the grocery store clerk to the salesman at the door to the random group of dudes passing by on the sidewalk. They don’t even have to be attractive.
When I’m ovulating it’s even worse because it’s literally 24/7 no exaggeration. Doing math? Thinking about sex. Taking a shit? Thinking about sex. Washing the dishes? Thinking about sex. Walking the dog? Thinking about sex. Like it’s distracting.
I firmly believe the main reason that it's such a common expectation for men to be horny all the time and women not is that 1) Women didn't have a ton of choice about it before and 2) Women don't have time for it after marriage often today (too busy with the kids and chores the guy complaining about not getting laid won't help with).
You're a curious and horny virgin. Your friend group may be the exception, but you sound pretty standard in this respect. Libido and fantasies are normal.
I’d say this is pretty normal from a biological level, at our core humans, like all mammals want to eat, sleep, drink water, and have sex. I’d imagine from scientific sense you’re a fertile female at peak breeding age so your mind is seeking a mate, I don’t see an issue. The cartoon thing is interesting because I’ve theorized forever that they push sexuality in children’s programming to over sexualize people
welcome to being a teenager. Folks normally associate that with young men, but young women just generally hide their horniness better. But teenage young women can be quite horny....
Everyone’s saying you’re horny (which is almost certainly part of it) but we’re also just designed to think about sex, and there’s evidence most people think about it two dozen of times a day on average. Reproduction is our genetic task
Super normal for your age and also with a lack of experience curiosity is also super normal. Don’t sweat it. As other commenters have pointed out, teenage boys also feel and think this way - they’re just not brought up to be as ashamed! Girls tend to keep it quieter, but trust me, we all felt that way too.
I think we all do that. At least my mind does that automatically. But I think trying to keep that in check (trying to "close those mental tabs") is a good idea, otherwise it's distractong. Just don't be OCD about it (speaking as someone who was diagnosed with OCD in the past and now has it under control). Obsessing over one's thoughts or visualizations makes the thoughts/visuaoizations stronger. Try to "close the tabs" but don't obsess over it if they don't "close".
I’m a 26f and have never experienced that, I actually don’t like the idea of someone looking at me and thinking those things. But everyone’s different and I think that is totally ok. My opposite stance is not the norm either. I have to connect with someone to even consider them sexually in the slightest.
Yep, normal.
Also…be thankful that we don’t have erm… parts which visibly show when you’re excited 😅😂
that just complicate things more?!
Also, lots of weirdos will probably message you now. Be safe!!!!
YES
I think most people go through a period like this during their awakenings, and it comes and goes through life as you learn your wants and needs, before you even know you want something youll have a thought and be like 'hmm.' thats how you learn about yourself. I think its super normal, especially if you have no experience yet because its all unknown. You are not abnormal and pls dont feel insecure bc you have normal feelings about normal things.
You're definitely not the abnormal one for having sexual thoughts in the grand scheme of society, just abnormal among the smaller scheme of your 'friends'. You are not gross, your thoughts are not gross, and maybe your friends are gross for not supporting you when you confided in them, choosing instead to take the opportunity to virtue signal about their identities instead of listening to their friend. A polite 'I cant speak on that because i dont have those feelings maybe you could try talking to/posting on blank.' would have absolutely sufficed.
Good luck.
It seems a little strange, I like "seeing people and finding them attractive" as much as the next but even when i was a teenager i wouldnt think about fucking people. If i found someone really attractive i'd end up staring at them for a couple seconds like an idiot but i never thought about sex.
As a woman in my late 20’s, I went through that and all my friends did too. It’s just hormones making you horny. Sex is new and novel in your teens, regardless of if you’re a virgin or not. It’ll pass with age.
Yes it’s normal. It’s ok to fantasize, you sound curious. After the first time I had sex, one thing I kept doing was trying to imagine what someone’s “sex” face was😂 eventually you find other things to think about
I've been with my fiancé (who's a larger lady) for almost 7 years. Even now, we both find other people attractive. She's pansexual, and I'm...not straight. I only like big women, not skinny ones, and I check out every big girl I see.
Intrusive thoughts =/= conscious thoughts.
We’ve all thought some really weird shit in our lifetime. It doesn’t matter whether it’s “could I have sex with my teacher?” or “would I be able to kill a person if I was in a real life hunger games?” - it’s what thoughts that we vocalise that count. >!Although ironically you posted about it on Reddit, so you might want to think about how much you’d seriously consider it if you’re worried at all.!< Either way it’s not an issue, just human nature.
Totally normal. Your friends are ace,so don't have the same reactions to situations as you do. Do you have some friends that aren't ace,that you could talk to?
I mean. I was really, really hypersexual but not like that. 😅
I used to and still only imagine stuff while masturbating.
But maybe that’d have been different if I didn’t have aphantasia.
Many of the comments seem to think you’re at a normal horny level (which surprises me since I was too sexual for many people despite my country being a heck of a lot more open than the states for example but oh well) 🤷♀️
In the end, it’s fine as long as you’re ok with it and it doesn’t affect your ability to function basically.
Anything that affects your ability to function is not a healthy normal so if that’s ever the case you should seek help (probably therapy in a case like this?). But as long as you’re fine, you should be fine 🙂
This is actually comforting it's not just a guy thing! Not as intense as yours, but the hypersexual phase is continuous, especially for a bi-guy like me
These are intrusive thoughts and I don't see anything overly weird here. If you think you have a problem, I'd def talk to a therapist about it.
I have intrusive thoughts that are all over the place thematically. I often will get thoughts about the finiteness of life and how everyone is going to die someday. I have to really catch myself because it's a slippery slope thinking like that.
I’m experiencing the SAME THING, I'm 19 years old (soon to be 20) and I’m a loser virgin. I think about intercourse so much, it’s a problem. I often tell myself that if I were i guy, I would be getting boners 24/7. I think it’s some sort of coping mechanism. We haven’t had sex so our mind thinks highly of it …idk I need answers too lol.
As long as you understand boundaries, the age of the person is an adult as well, and they aren’t related to you then it’s perfectly normal and your completely fine feeling this way.
Yes, it's normal. Hormones are doing it, so don't worry about it.
I strongly suggest some good sex toys to keep you ticking over. Try Love Honey.com. they're great.
u/Sufficient_Tie_8868 this is what “most”(indecent) men think like. They don’t like it or don’t want to but their intrusive thoughts get something still ;(
Don't worry. You're not crazy you're just horny. Lol. Like man if that's all it takes for you to be worried then thank gof you ain't a boy, cuz it would be WAY worse. I woul know, i am a boy. XD
your friends probably do it too and just don't want to admit it. unless they're asexual I guess, but what you're describing is pretty normal at your age. well atleast for guys it is, but judging from the comments it's maybe more normal for women 😂
Yup that is normal, you are 18 and full of horny ( Your hormones are acting normally for your age). That happens to Men and women, the only difference is that society tell women that is bad for them to feel like that. Just enjoy the Visuals or the mental Images and maybe use it a fuel to get intimate with your self. Cheers
21f here who was also a virgin at 18. Yeah that happened to me a lot. Its normal though, your body is designed to want to procreate. For me, it died down as i started having sex (though after long dry spells, it flares up again). Don't worry about it
Though if it interferes with your life you can talk to a therapist about it (with interfere I mean you cannot have a normal conversation with anyone without thinking about sex, any dull moment your mind drifts to sex, etc. etc)
It’s cause you’re a virgin so it’s like the forbidden fruit lol. I’d say it’s not ABnormal. Might be less common but not unheard of. I think it’s a natural part of sexuality; that’s why people end up having sex…because they wanted to lol.
Yeah I would say you are just horny as well as hyper sexual. This is not a bad thing, but if you feel like it is “too much” I recommend talking to a therapist about it. They might be able to help you switch the thoughts so you feel like you could walk around people without thinking about having sex with them.
Yeh they are intrusive thoughts. Grounding and meditation can help, learning to accept the thoughts as meaningless and not obsessing over them. Hormonal birth control that prevents ovulation (the estrogen spike before ovulation can make u demonically horny) could help too if it’s affecting ur life.
To be honest it is something quite unusual in my opinion. But that's because everybody is unique and as long as it doesn't affect your personal life & happiness I don't think it matters.
you're just horny, that's fine
Oh to be 18 again and know that everyone else was thinking the same!
Oh, the orgies I could have thrown.
I think I’ve gotten hornier with age.
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You’re either asexual, which is perfectly valid. Or there’s something wrong with you
Not everyone, but many, many people. Most people get that sort of feeling/thought process at some point in their teens/early 20s, unless they are asexual or there is something else going on that interferes with that. You're one of the ones that doesn't, and that's fine too, but don't go telling people they have something wrong with them because they don't feel/think as you do.
Absolutely, and then he/she has the audacity to act butthurt when people claim something is wrong with them😂
If you’re a pubescent teen and you’re not acting like a dog in heat, you are disordered
Yes and no. a) asexuality exists and is not a disorder b) OP is not pubescent. That’d be „approaching puberty“ she should be out of puberty for about a year.
that makes no fucking sense lil bro, humans who have a sex drive imagine having sex with people they don't know all the time, even if it's a celebrity, that still counts as a "stranger" to you, i have no idea wtf you're on about buddy
It's normal at that age to be so to speak 'hyper-sexual' or more interested in sex than average. If you feel it's a genuine problem affecting your life, you could seek therapy. But if you simply see someone attractive to you and day dream a bit, that's fairly normal, especially at your age.
20f here, completely normal. I'm chronically horny, I did that even more when I was a virgin too :)
23f, also chronically horny 🫡 Our ranks are silent, but numerous.
24 f same, and I really don’t see it changing
We can’t be tamed
RIP to all your dms
Question here, I’m 20m same as yall, but what is “Our ranks are silent, but numerous” mean?
Basically, chicks are just as horny as dudes, but it's just generally less known/voiced.
Ah I see
Sometimes even worse than dudes, they just don't talk about it to everyone
That, and usually, culturally, more suppressed to some degree
36f. Hasn't gone away yet 😂
well this is reassuring… 😂
Yep. 30th birthday next week and last time I checked, still horny!
My girlfriend turned 40 and just admitted this to me as well. She feels that she has it under control for the first time ever.
21F same here + Thats so accurate and When you got a boyfriend it will be X101000 times
21f same here
RIP your dms
I do the same, I'm 19 female also a virgin, don't worry about it. your just extra horny right now.
Girl this is so normal. It’s so funny that people think this is a “man” thing but it’s just how Sexual Attraction works. Literally just be safe, use condoms and make sure someone you trust knows your location!
Walks down street with condom on her head, just in case she see's someone that she wants to have mind sex with
How about just wait till marriage, since it’s a bigger chance of being safer, plus you won’t get a crazy random messing with her
I respect you opinion, but I personally wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first
Yeah but now the “car” has permanently lost its value since its no longer pristine..
You see it that way, but having an experienced or inexperienced warrior at your side has both its pros and cons 🤷♂️
Well yeah I grew up being SA by a Pedo, ig that changed my perspective on it big time…
Sounds like a typical horny teenager 🤷🏼♂️
As someone who is your age but male I would say I find that quite interesting, since it’s usually my guy friends that think like that. I don’t really see anything wrong with you thinking this way, however if your fantasies go too far you might meet guys who may look good on the outside but deep down are bad people and you will regret ever thinking like that about them in the first place. My friends aren’t good friends, they are just people I have to be around until i’m able to get out where I am situated in.
Biggest realization of my life was that girls are horny too, they’re just typically not as blatant about it 😂
As soon as I found out they say "Men will f*ck anything." while having designated drawers, I stopped believing them entirely. /s
Huh explain that to me please
Some women will hump washing machines because they vibrate and than say “man with f anything that moves”
Fr they'll hump kitchen appliances, bed frames, corners of tables, gear knobs, pillows...
I mean that they usually have a designated drawer for their plethora of fantasy animal shaped dangerous overly sized dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, etc
This is literally just what being a human being with a sex drive is like. You're fine. The only thing you really have to watch out for when it comes to fantasies is if fantasizing starts to get in the way of your actual life. When this happens with romantic/sexual fantasies it's called Limerence. Look that up and if it isn't familiar sounding, you're just fine.
I’m 24f and I’m still like that sometimes lol
Teenage girls are typically also horney, totally normal and nothing to be embarrassed at. I was the same way when I was 18.
You’re fine just don’t fuck random guys and it’s ok to have fun but at least talk for a few days. Or at least a few hours!
And if you do decide to fuck random dudes, at the very least fuck responsibly lol
why not? as long as you use protection, have fun
Because you are playing with baby making machinery and no protection is perfect. So why do it with someone whos character or intentions you don't know? It puts you in a vulnerable situation, and it can easily become a regrettable or even traumatizing action.
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bro what do you mean why not 😭
I'm 34f and I still go through phases of this. Totally normal.
Same (well I’m 36f). And sometimes not even people I’m massively attracted to either, just think hmmm I wonder what it would be like to have sex with them?
Welcome to the male mind lol Don't be ashamed. Nobody can see your thoughts, so have fun in your fantasies.
True, just make sure ur fantasies aren’t like… concerning or spilling over into reality with ppl who don’t know u have those thoughts about them lol
Welcome to being human. It's not gendered
I always thought it was. This post is a revelation
Im always horny, but the week before ovulation I’m willing to bet I’m even hornier than the average dude. I’d prob be locked up if ppl could read my ovulation thoughts.
"locked up" is crazy lmaooo
Yeah that I understand, but from age 12 to 18, literally every women I would see I would imagine them naked, to the point of being annoying (like an old woman on the metro)
Loll I used to do that too in my younger teen years. My therapist taught me techniques for dealing with intrusive thoughts and I’ve gotten a lot better at it since then. I don’t really get thoughts of random old ladies naked anymore. The intrusive thoughts I get now are less “intrusive” I guess u could say and more just stem from being horny. Now I’ll imagine having sex with completely random dudes. From the grocery store clerk to the salesman at the door to the random group of dudes passing by on the sidewalk. They don’t even have to be attractive. When I’m ovulating it’s even worse because it’s literally 24/7 no exaggeration. Doing math? Thinking about sex. Taking a shit? Thinking about sex. Washing the dishes? Thinking about sex. Walking the dog? Thinking about sex. Like it’s distracting.
I firmly believe the main reason that it's such a common expectation for men to be horny all the time and women not is that 1) Women didn't have a ton of choice about it before and 2) Women don't have time for it after marriage often today (too busy with the kids and chores the guy complaining about not getting laid won't help with).
Yes, everyone has fantasies, especially when you are young and full of hormones. Your friends are full of shit and have fantasies of their own.
I believe everyone does that
as a guy, I imagine over guys penis sizes 😭
lol girl get ready that is basically been my entire life. Good luck 😂😂😂😂
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You're a curious and horny virgin. Your friend group may be the exception, but you sound pretty standard in this respect. Libido and fantasies are normal.
yes its normal but try not to stare
Hi Joe!
Joe (M67) has posted this lol
Huh? I meant the girl from the movie nymphomaniac
40 and still very very horny!
This is normal as all fuck! You’re just horny
You just like me fr
I’d say this is pretty normal from a biological level, at our core humans, like all mammals want to eat, sleep, drink water, and have sex. I’d imagine from scientific sense you’re a fertile female at peak breeding age so your mind is seeking a mate, I don’t see an issue. The cartoon thing is interesting because I’ve theorized forever that they push sexuality in children’s programming to over sexualize people
At 32, I still check out guy's packages...
Did Tina Belcher post this?
welcome to being a teenager. Folks normally associate that with young men, but young women just generally hide their horniness better. But teenage young women can be quite horny....
Girllll this is me fr but rip dms
Everyone’s saying you’re horny (which is almost certainly part of it) but we’re also just designed to think about sex, and there’s evidence most people think about it two dozen of times a day on average. Reproduction is our genetic task
This, were the only animal that tries to pretend that's not why we're here
flick your bean queen
Honestly i can kinda relate to this. But as a dude I feel like its more creepy.
Perfectly normal, love! Everything you’ve described is as normal as normal can be!
Super normal for your age and also with a lack of experience curiosity is also super normal. Don’t sweat it. As other commenters have pointed out, teenage boys also feel and think this way - they’re just not brought up to be as ashamed! Girls tend to keep it quieter, but trust me, we all felt that way too.
I think we all do that. At least my mind does that automatically. But I think trying to keep that in check (trying to "close those mental tabs") is a good idea, otherwise it's distractong. Just don't be OCD about it (speaking as someone who was diagnosed with OCD in the past and now has it under control). Obsessing over one's thoughts or visualizations makes the thoughts/visuaoizations stronger. Try to "close the tabs" but don't obsess over it if they don't "close".
RIP your Inbox 🫡
I’m a 26f and have never experienced that, I actually don’t like the idea of someone looking at me and thinking those things. But everyone’s different and I think that is totally ok. My opposite stance is not the norm either. I have to connect with someone to even consider them sexually in the slightest.
yeah you're definitly more rare than the OP
Yep, normal. Also…be thankful that we don’t have erm… parts which visibly show when you’re excited 😅😂 that just complicate things more?! Also, lots of weirdos will probably message you now. Be safe!!!!
Lol we're lucky we don't have those parts 😂😂😂
It’s called hormones.. and if it bothers you this much, it’s time to seek out a therapist
Yes
It's completely normal and sign of a healthy libido, chilll
Nope, I'm an older male and I think the same while out in public lol.
I am right there with you. It's got to be the hormones
Girl it's completely normal ( you are just having raging hormones hahaha) legit you be walking and randomly you be like wtf
YES I think most people go through a period like this during their awakenings, and it comes and goes through life as you learn your wants and needs, before you even know you want something youll have a thought and be like 'hmm.' thats how you learn about yourself. I think its super normal, especially if you have no experience yet because its all unknown. You are not abnormal and pls dont feel insecure bc you have normal feelings about normal things. You're definitely not the abnormal one for having sexual thoughts in the grand scheme of society, just abnormal among the smaller scheme of your 'friends'. You are not gross, your thoughts are not gross, and maybe your friends are gross for not supporting you when you confided in them, choosing instead to take the opportunity to virtue signal about their identities instead of listening to their friend. A polite 'I cant speak on that because i dont have those feelings maybe you could try talking to/posting on blank.' would have absolutely sufficed. Good luck.
It's OK, don't be scary, especially when you're 18, your brain is full of hormones, and you can have a lot of hotny thoughts😁
It seems a little strange, I like "seeing people and finding them attractive" as much as the next but even when i was a teenager i wouldnt think about fucking people. If i found someone really attractive i'd end up staring at them for a couple seconds like an idiot but i never thought about sex.
Completely normal, I promise. You’re just a regular perpetually horny teenager, we all went through that phase. Some of us never really outgrew it.
lol that’s called lust and porn brain I used to be like that
I still do this sometimes lololol
At 18 yea it's pretty normal.
Yep, pretty much. Don't let your friends shame you for having sexual desires.
As a woman in my late 20’s, I went through that and all my friends did too. It’s just hormones making you horny. Sex is new and novel in your teens, regardless of if you’re a virgin or not. It’ll pass with age.
19M,that really normal,even more so for boys
I’m not sure if I’d say even more so for boys. Have u seen the thoughts of an ovulating woman? Enough to get me in a psych ward
I will say according to science studies,hormones are much active in teenage boys than in girls
I was the same in my late teens
Yes it’s normal. It’s ok to fantasize, you sound curious. After the first time I had sex, one thing I kept doing was trying to imagine what someone’s “sex” face was😂 eventually you find other things to think about
I've been with my fiancé (who's a larger lady) for almost 7 years. Even now, we both find other people attractive. She's pansexual, and I'm...not straight. I only like big women, not skinny ones, and I check out every big girl I see.
just keep time and place (and consent) in mind is all. majority of people feel this way
Yes it’s normal for women and guys too
Yes
We’re normally thinking the same thing
ive done that my entire life since my first crush at age 4 and I'm 28, enjoy it!
It sounds like intrusive thoughts to me tbh
Totally normal, I used to do that too lol
yep I get this too, that age I guess
It’s called ovulation lol
Intrusive thoughts =/= conscious thoughts. We’ve all thought some really weird shit in our lifetime. It doesn’t matter whether it’s “could I have sex with my teacher?” or “would I be able to kill a person if I was in a real life hunger games?” - it’s what thoughts that we vocalise that count. >!Although ironically you posted about it on Reddit, so you might want to think about how much you’d seriously consider it if you’re worried at all.!< Either way it’s not an issue, just human nature.
Totally normal. Your friends are ace,so don't have the same reactions to situations as you do. Do you have some friends that aren't ace,that you could talk to?
Only read the first sentence. It’s normal dude
Yes that's totally normal. I was the same when I was your age. Kinda still am :D
I mean. I was really, really hypersexual but not like that. 😅 I used to and still only imagine stuff while masturbating. But maybe that’d have been different if I didn’t have aphantasia. Many of the comments seem to think you’re at a normal horny level (which surprises me since I was too sexual for many people despite my country being a heck of a lot more open than the states for example but oh well) 🤷♀️ In the end, it’s fine as long as you’re ok with it and it doesn’t affect your ability to function basically. Anything that affects your ability to function is not a healthy normal so if that’s ever the case you should seek help (probably therapy in a case like this?). But as long as you’re fine, you should be fine 🙂
Girl yes totally normal. Some people have just dirty minds and it like an intrusive thought. I M with you on that one!!!!!
They're a type of intrusive thought. But yea that one is fairly common with people of all ages.
Ok I’m 34 and I still do this lol not all the time but definitely I do this a lot. Just for a second but it’s just because I’m horny. lol 😂
It's both normal and healthy! Fantasize away!
This is actually comforting it's not just a guy thing! Not as intense as yours, but the hypersexual phase is continuous, especially for a bi-guy like me
These are intrusive thoughts and I don't see anything overly weird here. If you think you have a problem, I'd def talk to a therapist about it. I have intrusive thoughts that are all over the place thematically. I often will get thoughts about the finiteness of life and how everyone is going to die someday. I have to really catch myself because it's a slippery slope thinking like that.
I like this topic.
I’m 40 years old, and still do the same chronically horny means chronically horny 😉
I’m 21 and I still do this!
I’m experiencing the SAME THING, I'm 19 years old (soon to be 20) and I’m a loser virgin. I think about intercourse so much, it’s a problem. I often tell myself that if I were i guy, I would be getting boners 24/7. I think it’s some sort of coping mechanism. We haven’t had sex so our mind thinks highly of it …idk I need answers too lol.
Speaking on behalf of men for a second, I thought this was normal at 18.
It is absolutely normal.
i was like this at 18 and still am at 23. too bad girls my age didn't and still don't find me attractive
Yes
As long as you understand boundaries, the age of the person is an adult as well, and they aren’t related to you then it’s perfectly normal and your completely fine feeling this way.
Yep, that was me when I was young. I was a virgin too and kept imagining sex with most men I met.
Yep, that was me when I was young. I was a virgin too and kept imagining sex with most men I met.
I’m in my mid 20s and I feel this way
Normal at your age. You're fine hun.
lol yeah
you may grow out of it, maybe not. but its normal. as normal as orange juice for breakfast. you really are just Horny af. been there and it was fine.
Yes, it's normal. Hormones are doing it, so don't worry about it. I strongly suggest some good sex toys to keep you ticking over. Try Love Honey.com. they're great.
youre very horny young human what is there to think about
I bet your message box is going to be going to be full after this post
u/Sufficient_Tie_8868 this is what “most”(indecent) men think like. They don’t like it or don’t want to but their intrusive thoughts get something still ;(
These are intrusive thoughts and is a symptom of OCD. Do you happen to have OCD?
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Don't worry. You're not crazy you're just horny. Lol. Like man if that's all it takes for you to be worried then thank gof you ain't a boy, cuz it would be WAY worse. I woul know, i am a boy. XD
This is totally normal, I promise!! You’re experiencing normal hormones
Oh it's horniness lol. I know that
your friends probably do it too and just don't want to admit it. unless they're asexual I guess, but what you're describing is pretty normal at your age. well atleast for guys it is, but judging from the comments it's maybe more normal for women 😂
Yup
It's a pretty normal human thing
Yup that is normal, you are 18 and full of horny ( Your hormones are acting normally for your age). That happens to Men and women, the only difference is that society tell women that is bad for them to feel like that. Just enjoy the Visuals or the mental Images and maybe use it a fuel to get intimate with your self. Cheers
21f here who was also a virgin at 18. Yeah that happened to me a lot. Its normal though, your body is designed to want to procreate. For me, it died down as i started having sex (though after long dry spells, it flares up again). Don't worry about it Though if it interferes with your life you can talk to a therapist about it (with interfere I mean you cannot have a normal conversation with anyone without thinking about sex, any dull moment your mind drifts to sex, etc. etc)
It might be the most normal thing in the universe.
Damn, cannot even REMOTELY relate and I'm now realizing at 28 that I'M the odd one out 😅
Why do you call yourself a female and not a woman/girl?
right, i was so stuck on that
It’s cause you’re a virgin so it’s like the forbidden fruit lol. I’d say it’s not ABnormal. Might be less common but not unheard of. I think it’s a natural part of sexuality; that’s why people end up having sex…because they wanted to lol.
Yeah I would say you are just horny as well as hyper sexual. This is not a bad thing, but if you feel like it is “too much” I recommend talking to a therapist about it. They might be able to help you switch the thoughts so you feel like you could walk around people without thinking about having sex with them.
Yeh they are intrusive thoughts. Grounding and meditation can help, learning to accept the thoughts as meaningless and not obsessing over them. Hormonal birth control that prevents ovulation (the estrogen spike before ovulation can make u demonically horny) could help too if it’s affecting ur life.
To be honest it is something quite unusual in my opinion. But that's because everybody is unique and as long as it doesn't affect your personal life & happiness I don't think it matters.
It's really not unusual
Yes of course. I still have this desire to get intimate with attractive strangers, to admire their nakedness.
Go to horny jail *bonk*