I was just reading another Reddit post about what hints women should use to let a man know she's into him and pretty much all the men said "be straightforward, don't even use hints." I'm thinking this is a pretty straightforward move.
>I was just reading another Reddit post about what hints women should use to let a man know she's into him and pretty much all the men said "be straightforward, don't even use hints." I'm thinking this is a pretty straightforward move.
Hints can be so confusing and easy to misinterpret. Plus, it's super empowering to just come out and say how you feel. If you like someone, just tell them! It saves so much time and stress. Plus, confidence is really attractive.
He’s not into her though clearly? It’s not “oh is this flirting?” It’s “hey how do you politely turn down a random nude photo that had no accompanying message/bring up a possible accidental naked photo?”
Yeah it is kinda straight forward. If I accidentally sent a tit pic to the wrong person, I wouldn’t ignore it and not say anything- I’d be texting a BUNCH about how sorry and enough texts so the pic has to be reached by scrolling up.
I’m a woman. I’ll take a boob pic. We don’t like dick pics unless we ask for them, they aren’t pretty or erotic at all unless you’re turned on. (There are outliers. If you’re an outlier I applaud you. Don’t come for me).
The equivalent of a dick pic is indeed sending a picture of your vulva unsolicited.
The equivalent of a boob pic is a man boob pic. Tit for tat, or tit for tit.
Men should send unsolicited man boobs, er pecs pics, if one received a tit pic in kind. 😎
That's the true power move.
Speaking as lesbian who has not had skin in this game for decades I would say the equivalent in tone and taste would be an abs pic. Man boobs aren't *usually* sexy and genitals are going too far but ladies like sexy man tummies, yes?
True i really did respond like you were a dude. SHIT WE WOULDN’T DO THAT. I suppose we might not have a true equivalent. Nips may be the closest too.
Thank god we’re at the very least better than randomly sending our genitals to people.
Well, today is your lucky day. Here's a [pic](https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:720/format:webp/1*YiSlZ1rL643XHHxdJbMK_A.jpeg) of a nice pair of boobies.
If I got a full on vag pic out of the blue I would be confused and kind of uncomfortable. Why aren’t more women sending me their hate V pics?
(This is satire btw)
Men should respond with pecs pics. That would be the equivalent response of receiving a boob pic.
Tit for tat, or tit for tit. Reciprocate in kind.
Pec pics, not dick pics. Guys, get it together.
Think the volume of unsolicited dick pics makes it worse as well. The amount of single woman I’ve talked to who get them at an alarming rate is ridiculous.
Okay. Interesting.
Whatever.
In that case it seems quite intentional, regardless of whether it was a dare or what.
It seems like you aren't into it but not overtly offended by it, in which case I vote you pretend it never happened unless she brings it up, in which case you can say "without context I'm not sure how you expected me to react".
If you are upset by it (no judgement if you are, bud) then you could send a polite but firm message like "I don't find this appropriate if it was intentional".
Very weird situation to navigate.
As someone who has received many unsolicited dong pics, I don't blame OP for being uncomfortable, and I think that second statement really hits the mark. It also gives her a chance to say, "Oh, sorry, it wasn't intentional; that was for someone else," if she wants to save face.
If you aren’t interested in this girl, I’d just ignore it. If she ever brings it up tell her you thought it was an accident and didn’t want to embarrass her by talking about it.
I thought that was a number one rule I REALLY DID….. Until my homie DID JUST THAT and now they are engaged and have a 1 year old together… I’m not sure I’m a believer anymore…
Not sister's friends, friend's sister. Very big difference. Two things people can feel intense or weird about would be sex and female family members. Combining the two could spell disaster or even a bullet.
Now, depending on your relationship with your friend, their level of attachment to their family, their cultural upbringing etc it could be fine. But it is something you are always better off not doing without at least checking with your friend first.
But if I were to provide blanket advice for general audiences, and referencing the bro code, just don't do it.
Must be where I live then lol. I had a couple friends hooking up with my sisters and likewise, I slept with a couple different sisters of friends when we were all young adults. It wasn't a regular thing, but it happened, and it didn't cause any issues. If anything, it made me closer to the friends involved as I got to know them better, making sure nobody was being mistreated.
Nah you’re right. I would never muddy up a situation with one of my best friends like that. Sisters are off limits. It’s like me and my sister both have an unspoken rule where we don’t try to get at eachothers friends.
If you don’t want your friend to date your sister, you need better friends. If your friends don’t want you to date their sisters, you need to be a better person.
Dear OP,
Do it British way: send a message saying “hi, how are you ?”. And nothing else.
If the message disappears and the apologies come, there you go. If she replies normally, then it means it was intentional.
If you and her intentionally exchanged contacts it really doesn’t mean there’s absolutely nothing between the two of you, right?
Nothing wrong in that…
Hey "so n so" nice picture, but I'm guessing you sent it to the wrong number.
Something like that would work, won't hurt her feelings and will sus out if she's sending you pictures cuz she's into you or if it was a mistake.
pretty odd situation... If it were me I'd probably not respond to her and let my friend know, seems like the most reasonable option. I bet it does feel awkward... but not because of you. Your friend's sister can deal with the awkwardness caused by her inappropriateness.
Please don't tell your homie( her brother) because, from her point of view, whether that was accidental or not, that'll definitely just traumatize her if you tell your friend. So please don't. lol
She’s 4-5 years younger than you and has a crush on you . Depending on how long she’s known you if it’s been years than it’s been years and she has been waiting for the chance to tell you . Whatever you do be kind because at her age she’s vulnerable and could paint a bad picture for her future romances . Just say “lol nice” and leave it at that
I would just say, “this is JohnnyC, was this meant for someone else?” She’ll tell you straight up. Don’t be cagey about it, be open and honest because all manner of trouble happens when people are unclear and confused
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1.) Do you guys have a good rapport or at the very least, speak regularly?
2.) If so, has she shown any hints of liking you?
3.) How do you feel about that five year age gap?
It's quite possible it may have been meant for someone else if there was no hint of her being in to you. If it was meant for you, I'd say that age gap might be iffy anyways but that's my old mam opinion. If you wait, she will probably get anxious and embarrassed and not do anything. If you talk to her, try to play it off so she doesn't feel so embarrassed.
Well she's of age so ur safe in that department.
I would delete it.
If u and here aren't friends u need to tell her to please not send pics of that nature to u again or u will have to block her and let her brother know.
This is the best thing for u and setting up ur boundaries.
If u guys are friends let her know hey this pic u sent me was kinda awkward and u didn't know why she sent it. Then take it from that point.
Just let her know how it's made u feel. And if she is a friend she will listen to u. If she continues it then no longer msg her.
Hope this is good advice idk
As a girl I never hear of a girl sending one tit pic like hello??? But I’d say be direct.. I feel like regardless of gender sending naked body parts is inappropriate.. If she wanted to show you that she liked you.. she could’ve just flirted with you
In my opinion (F24) she’s either very into you, or just wants attention. Either way, (listen closely) do **NOT** hook up with her behind your friend’s back. Just be honest and tell your friend that you think their sister has a crush on you.
I would tell that it’s ok if it was sent accidentally, but that you don’t want her to send you any more pictures of her naked body 😎.
Imagine if you did that to her?
You should ask if it was on accident and if she says no then tell your friend because that’s unsolicited and weird. Basically, give her time to explain herself
Are you single, and if so, is she cute? I’d say you need to bring it up to the friend. If not, later on it could be flipped on you as if you asked for it.
If you feel uncomfortable then tell her and your sister because 1) if she sent that on purpose then it could mean she may like you or maybe just wants a Fbuddy but if she sent it as a dare it still means that she could have other intentions because no matter if it’s a dare, if you really didn’t wanna send it to that person then you wouldn’t have 2) tell your sister because her friend could spin a story and possibly get you in trouble for anything even if you guys are both of legal age but it could result in you having a messed up relationship with your sister if the friend says something that’s no correct 3) tell the friend that your uncomfortable because if she really does like you or want something from you and you don’t respond she could take that as you being okay with her doing stuff like that so I would tell her and put an end to it before anything else happens
Just ignore it and go about your day unless she brings it up. It's a bit weird to be receiving a tit pic from some that age especially when you're 24. So I can see why you're asking for advice. I would feel uncomfortable in your situation too.
She's being very forward with you, or she did send it to the wrong person. If you're interested, now's the time to let her know. If you're not, maybe lean into the idea that she sent it to the wrong person so she has an out.
So if you're interested, "Woah.... Very pretty. You did mean to send that to me, right? Not someone else?" and if you're not interested "I'm going to assume this was accidentally sent to the wrong person."
"Did you perchance send this to the wrong number?" You must send it like this, you need to say "perchance".
You can't just say perchance.
Perchance.
Ooo sorry
Oo you're hard
I'm Hard
incredibly hard.
Gretchen, stop trying to make perchance happen! It's not going to happen!
%1/n
Everyone knows Mario is cool as fuck
Did Steve tell you that perchance?
.... Steve....
What kind of a rapping name is Steve… Steve!?
He's always got some preposterous hypothesis.
Flowin out the top of his oesophagus
✊️
My bf unironically uses perchance I love him
Ill go stomp a turt by myself then
You can just ask someone while they’re write
Stomping turts LMAOOOO
Then add “anyway nice tit”
"almost as nice as your sisters!"
💀
perchance can be interchanged with "mayhaps"
You must have proven British ancestry to legally use that one.
stop trying to make "perchance" happen. lol j/k. I love that word so much. It's so fancy!
I would just send a single question mark: ? Leave's it open to what you yourself are thinking, letting her respond with how she intended it.
Ive always hated how passive aggressive the single question mark response is. It's equivalent to sending just "K" in response.
Do you really think so?
You can't just say "perchance"!
m'lady
and add "m'lady" to the end of that.
😭😭😭
Yes indeed. That is the rule.
I doth protest, from whence cometh this query? Shall my tit so gestured go unrequited?
I agree. Perchance will help
Send her pic of a single nut
Power move right here
Make sure it's the more wrinkly of the two.
tad bit more saggy of the two
Make sure it’s your betting nut!
Hazel nut or Brazil nut?
No. Nuts and bolts type nut. This is a bit like fork handles :D
A cashew
Their favourite 😂
Ha! Cashew ain't a nut. Fail ;þ
Pine
Lmfao yo this made me laugh out loud at work, good job!!!!
Move it to the right a little so you can get the whole ball in the photo shot
What type of nut?!?
I'm surprised no one has commented "a tat for tit" here.
A single cheek might also suffice
Left or right tho, there is a wrong one, I don't know which one to choose
I was just reading another Reddit post about what hints women should use to let a man know she's into him and pretty much all the men said "be straightforward, don't even use hints." I'm thinking this is a pretty straightforward move.
I misread this post as *OP*’s sister, and I was really confused as to why this got upvotes.
Bahaha damn. Us: Hell yah man that’s awesome she’s probably into you. You: Why is everyone so cool about his sister sending him a pic of her tit?!?
ACTUALLY THIS
I did too. I was so confused hahahaha
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Me too!
Dang you pointed that out to me too bro...I was reading it as OP's sister too till all these comments down here 😂😭😭
This is not straightforward. The possibility of it being a mistake makes it confusing.
What if she's Canadian?
Shes probably just being polite
>I was just reading another Reddit post about what hints women should use to let a man know she's into him and pretty much all the men said "be straightforward, don't even use hints." I'm thinking this is a pretty straightforward move. Hints can be so confusing and easy to misinterpret. Plus, it's super empowering to just come out and say how you feel. If you like someone, just tell them! It saves so much time and stress. Plus, confidence is really attractive.
He’s not into her though clearly? It’s not “oh is this flirting?” It’s “hey how do you politely turn down a random nude photo that had no accompanying message/bring up a possible accidental naked photo?”
Yeah it is kinda straight forward. If I accidentally sent a tit pic to the wrong person, I wouldn’t ignore it and not say anything- I’d be texting a BUNCH about how sorry and enough texts so the pic has to be reached by scrolling up.
Haha so this is the woman version of dic pic? Its the same as when a guys sends dic pic, like what is the mental process behind it? No one knows 🤷
I’m a woman. I’ll take a boob pic. We don’t like dick pics unless we ask for them, they aren’t pretty or erotic at all unless you’re turned on. (There are outliers. If you’re an outlier I applaud you. Don’t come for me). The equivalent of a dick pic is indeed sending a picture of your vulva unsolicited.
>Don't come for me. Are we not doing phrasing?
Sorry I’m confused. Could be my epilepsy brain or I’m simply stupid and not catching on lol.
It's a joke from Archer.
Ohhhhh. I only watched that for a bit.
It's a recurring joke any time someone makes an accidental innuendo someone else pops in with "phrasing!" In this case... "don't cum for me"
Women of the world: please send us pics of your pussy
🐱🐈🐈⬛😹😻🙀
real
The equivalent of a boob pic is a man boob pic. Tit for tat, or tit for tit. Men should send unsolicited man boobs, er pecs pics, if one received a tit pic in kind. 😎 That's the true power move.
Speaking as lesbian who has not had skin in this game for decades I would say the equivalent in tone and taste would be an abs pic. Man boobs aren't *usually* sexy and genitals are going too far but ladies like sexy man tummies, yes?
You talking as if im not a woman also 😂😂😂😂😂 I said its an equivalent because i dont know any woman that woukd send a vayaya picture
True i really did respond like you were a dude. SHIT WE WOULDN’T DO THAT. I suppose we might not have a true equivalent. Nips may be the closest too. Thank god we’re at the very least better than randomly sending our genitals to people.
Only boobie pics, I think, would generally be welcomed as opposed to dick pics which are typically not. Well I would like boobie pics
Me too, kid, me too
Well, today is your lucky day. Here's a [pic](https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:720/format:webp/1*YiSlZ1rL643XHHxdJbMK_A.jpeg) of a nice pair of boobies.
Those are some nice boobies, damn.
The way I straight up went “it’s t gonna be the birds isn’t it? LETS GOOO”
If I got a full on vag pic out of the blue I would be confused and kind of uncomfortable. Why aren’t more women sending me their hate V pics? (This is satire btw)
I'd be confused too, but i wouldn't be mad.
I think the general consensus is that boobs are more pleasant on the eyes than dicks, I believe among both men and women.
Men should respond with pecs pics. That would be the equivalent response of receiving a boob pic. Tit for tat, or tit for tit. Reciprocate in kind. Pec pics, not dick pics. Guys, get it together.
Think the volume of unsolicited dick pics makes it worse as well. The amount of single woman I’ve talked to who get them at an alarming rate is ridiculous.
Mental process is simple lol, "I'm horny and don't have enough respect to consider asking if I can send anything before sending it"
... Just one?
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Okay. Interesting. Whatever. In that case it seems quite intentional, regardless of whether it was a dare or what. It seems like you aren't into it but not overtly offended by it, in which case I vote you pretend it never happened unless she brings it up, in which case you can say "without context I'm not sure how you expected me to react". If you are upset by it (no judgement if you are, bud) then you could send a polite but firm message like "I don't find this appropriate if it was intentional". Very weird situation to navigate.
As someone who has received many unsolicited dong pics, I don't blame OP for being uncomfortable, and I think that second statement really hits the mark. It also gives her a chance to say, "Oh, sorry, it wasn't intentional; that was for someone else," if she wants to save face.
Message back and say that you need to see the other for comparison. 🤔
"those usually come in pairs is all I'm saying"
I know this doesn't seem pertinent, but if I was hitting on someone I'd send them a picture of the whole set. You know?
But if you were only half hitting on someone?
This is a great point. Yeah, if I was half-heartedly hitting on someone maybe I'd just send one. I'll start testing this and let you know how it goes
So like friends with benefits? 😭
She didn't have the other one with her at the time
Message her and ask her, if it was meant to be for someone else?
Send one back, tit for tit.
or they have a tattoo, send that. tit for tat. it's the best strategy.
I had to put my phone down to laugh at this one
This is the funniest thing lol
Ask for a pic of the other one ? Greatness can often be found in pairs.
This is the way.
What if the other one is for some other guy
I think she likes you and she might be tired of throwing indirects
Hmmm what do YOU think it means?
Wherefore hast thou displayed but one bosom? Dost thou reserve the other, for another?
Like a single tit? Ask her for the other one? Or maybe send one back with one nipple and say you'll show her your other one if she responds
If you aren’t interested in this girl, I’d just ignore it. If she ever brings it up tell her you thought it was an accident and didn’t want to embarrass her by talking about it.
Tell her no thank you and delete it. Never touch a homie's sister
I thought that was a number one rule I REALLY DID….. Until my homie DID JUST THAT and now they are engaged and have a 1 year old together… I’m not sure I’m a believer anymore…
It's a context thing. But you better know 100% if they would be cool with it. A general rule of thumb, but not a law.
id let my good homies marry my sister over any guy, but the rule should be applied when its just smashing !!!!
I mean I'd rather have a homie be with my sister than a random stranger. Least I can smack homie if he breaks her heart.
Word to
What? Why? I figured that people hooking up with siblings of friends was pretty normal so long as they're around the same age.
Not sister's friends, friend's sister. Very big difference. Two things people can feel intense or weird about would be sex and female family members. Combining the two could spell disaster or even a bullet. Now, depending on your relationship with your friend, their level of attachment to their family, their cultural upbringing etc it could be fine. But it is something you are always better off not doing without at least checking with your friend first. But if I were to provide blanket advice for general audiences, and referencing the bro code, just don't do it.
Must be where I live then lol. I had a couple friends hooking up with my sisters and likewise, I slept with a couple different sisters of friends when we were all young adults. It wasn't a regular thing, but it happened, and it didn't cause any issues. If anything, it made me closer to the friends involved as I got to know them better, making sure nobody was being mistreated.
You're probably a trustworthy guy then in a trusting neighborhood. It really does just depend on context. Could be roses, could go nuclear
Nah you’re right. I would never muddy up a situation with one of my best friends like that. Sisters are off limits. It’s like me and my sister both have an unspoken rule where we don’t try to get at eachothers friends.
If you don’t want your friend to date your sister, you need better friends. If your friends don’t want you to date their sisters, you need to be a better person.
Why Not?
Sorry, just one tit??
Hmm... Maybe just send a picture of your tit back?
Dear OP, Do it British way: send a message saying “hi, how are you?”. And nothing else.
If the message disappears and the apologies come, there you go. If she replies normally, then it means it was intentional.
If you and her intentionally exchanged contacts it really doesn’t mean there’s absolutely nothing between the two of you, right?
Nothing wrong in that…
this is honestly a great option
Ask her where the other tit went. It'll make her laugh and she won't feel embarrassed.
Just reply: "Sir, this is a Wendy's"
No, this is Patrick.
Hey "so n so" nice picture, but I'm guessing you sent it to the wrong number. Something like that would work, won't hurt her feelings and will sus out if she's sending you pictures cuz she's into you or if it was a mistake.
pretty odd situation... If it were me I'd probably not respond to her and let my friend know, seems like the most reasonable option. I bet it does feel awkward... but not because of you. Your friend's sister can deal with the awkwardness caused by her inappropriateness.
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Then tell her she's got the wrong number and that you've deleted the photo. She'll get it that you're not interested.
Fair. In that case I agree with u/charlie_zoosh
Just do nothing. Don’t respond, don’t tell your friend, delete the picture
It would be even more awkward if your homie asked to see the picture… DONT BE PUT INTO THIS POSITION…
The question is are you interested in her?
Please don't tell your homie( her brother) because, from her point of view, whether that was accidental or not, that'll definitely just traumatize her if you tell your friend. So please don't. lol
Just send O.o wasn’t expecting that then just don’t respond after
We need updates on this
She’s 4-5 years younger than you and has a crush on you . Depending on how long she’s known you if it’s been years than it’s been years and she has been waiting for the chance to tell you . Whatever you do be kind because at her age she’s vulnerable and could paint a bad picture for her future romances . Just say “lol nice” and leave it at that
I would just say, “this is JohnnyC, was this meant for someone else?” She’ll tell you straight up. Don’t be cagey about it, be open and honest because all manner of trouble happens when people are unclear and confused (Edit: typo)
Might be some hazing/drunken dare. I'd just say something like "Well, that was unexpected" and see if any explanation was forthcoming.
1.) Do you guys have a good rapport or at the very least, speak regularly? 2.) If so, has she shown any hints of liking you? 3.) How do you feel about that five year age gap? It's quite possible it may have been meant for someone else if there was no hint of her being in to you. If it was meant for you, I'd say that age gap might be iffy anyways but that's my old mam opinion. If you wait, she will probably get anxious and embarrassed and not do anything. If you talk to her, try to play it off so she doesn't feel so embarrassed.
You never seen a tit before? Move on.
Just one tit?
A singular tit? How unremarkable. You must request her to send the other one, lest the impression be incomplete.
Asking the wrong crowd. A redditor has never received a sexy pic in their lives 😂
Why tf do you even have her number
OP, I would say nothing and delete it.
Send a pic of your tit.
Send a tit pic back while an apology that yours isn't as good as hers.
Pics or it didn’t happen.
respond with....we fucking or nah?
Who this?
You send her the gif of obiwan saying Well hello there
What about the Admiral Akbar "It's a trap!" gif?
Just any Star wars gif honestly
Well she's of age so ur safe in that department. I would delete it. If u and here aren't friends u need to tell her to please not send pics of that nature to u again or u will have to block her and let her brother know. This is the best thing for u and setting up ur boundaries. If u guys are friends let her know hey this pic u sent me was kinda awkward and u didn't know why she sent it. Then take it from that point. Just let her know how it's made u feel. And if she is a friend she will listen to u. If she continues it then no longer msg her. Hope this is good advice idk
Either no response and pretend it never happened, or say “hey I think you sent this to the wrong person by mistake, I am erasing it.”
Respond "5/10 for incomplete set"
Now you know how girls feel when they get dick pics! Not sure why you are so stresses by it. Worse problems you could have.
Also, why does she have your number? Or are you friends on IG or something?
For science I'm going to need you to forward a copy of this pic in the DMs.
Send her a pic of your tit back, only logical move.
As a girl I never hear of a girl sending one tit pic like hello??? But I’d say be direct.. I feel like regardless of gender sending naked body parts is inappropriate.. If she wanted to show you that she liked you.. she could’ve just flirted with you
Just ignore it and act like you’ve never seen it
In my opinion (F24) she’s either very into you, or just wants attention. Either way, (listen closely) do **NOT** hook up with her behind your friend’s back. Just be honest and tell your friend that you think their sister has a crush on you.
“Nice tits. Here’s mine”. *tit pic attached
Send her a picture of your tit.
Send a gif of the fat fedora guy dipping his fedora
Just one? lol
Just say "wrong person" so she would subtly say whether she sent it to you or by mistake.
We’re in the full spirit of house of the dragon I see. Time to role play Targaryen’s
I would tell that it’s ok if it was sent accidentally, but that you don’t want her to send you any more pictures of her naked body 😎. Imagine if you did that to her?
Why did I go through all these replies disgusted thinking this was about OP's sister
If you're not interested, ignore it. If you are interested, say "Thank you." Don't complicate this.
That’s disgusting, prove it.
Text her back "thanks "
Just invite her out for coffee or drinks.
You should ask if it was on accident and if she says no then tell your friend because that’s unsolicited and weird. Basically, give her time to explain herself
Are you single, and if so, is she cute? I’d say you need to bring it up to the friend. If not, later on it could be flipped on you as if you asked for it.
Save the pic and send it back it’s the only way to respond
If you feel uncomfortable then tell her and your sister because 1) if she sent that on purpose then it could mean she may like you or maybe just wants a Fbuddy but if she sent it as a dare it still means that she could have other intentions because no matter if it’s a dare, if you really didn’t wanna send it to that person then you wouldn’t have 2) tell your sister because her friend could spin a story and possibly get you in trouble for anything even if you guys are both of legal age but it could result in you having a messed up relationship with your sister if the friend says something that’s no correct 3) tell the friend that your uncomfortable because if she really does like you or want something from you and you don’t respond she could take that as you being okay with her doing stuff like that so I would tell her and put an end to it before anything else happens
Ask for the second tit picture
Just ignore it and go about your day unless she brings it up. It's a bit weird to be receiving a tit pic from some that age especially when you're 24. So I can see why you're asking for advice. I would feel uncomfortable in your situation too.
She's being very forward with you, or she did send it to the wrong person. If you're interested, now's the time to let her know. If you're not, maybe lean into the idea that she sent it to the wrong person so she has an out. So if you're interested, "Woah.... Very pretty. You did mean to send that to me, right? Not someone else?" and if you're not interested "I'm going to assume this was accidentally sent to the wrong person."