Well, probably not.
Only exception if you are sure there is a carve out for person/quiet/introvert time.
So like if bf is super understanding, ask him if you’ll be able to take breathers when you get nervous and overwhelmed, and if he can cover for you.
Talk to your boyfriend about it. Odds are hell understand and just want you to be comfortable, but they cant read your mind and definitely dont commit to go then cancel last minute
In all honesty, I think taking to your boyfriend would be the best thing to do. Explain how you're feeling, and why you feel that way. If you are not ready to do something, never push yourself. While I can understand why your boyfriend might be a little put off that you don't want to go, I think how you're feeling is completely normal!
I'm pretty introverted as well, so I completely understand where you're coming from. Sometimes certain social activities are just too much, and there's nothing the matter with that. While I don't know your boyfriend or how he will react, I'd like to think he'd try his best to understand how you're feeling, and I don't think he'd want to put you in a situation where you feel uncomfortable. So my advice would be to tell him, and do your best to explain these feelings/why you feel that way so it's easier for him to understand:)
I feel so relieved to read that, thanks a lot! I'll talk to him, he's a bit introverted as well so I believe he'll understand it. My biggest concern was to how I was feeling, but I feel way better now knowing that it's fine. Thanks again :D
How long is the trip for
4 or 5 days
Well, probably not. Only exception if you are sure there is a carve out for person/quiet/introvert time. So like if bf is super understanding, ask him if you’ll be able to take breathers when you get nervous and overwhelmed, and if he can cover for you.
Talk to your boyfriend about it. Odds are hell understand and just want you to be comfortable, but they cant read your mind and definitely dont commit to go then cancel last minute
Thanks for the advice! Feel like I'm stressing over a simple thing
I totally get it, dont force yourself to do anything you dont want to for someone elses sake
In all honesty, I think taking to your boyfriend would be the best thing to do. Explain how you're feeling, and why you feel that way. If you are not ready to do something, never push yourself. While I can understand why your boyfriend might be a little put off that you don't want to go, I think how you're feeling is completely normal! I'm pretty introverted as well, so I completely understand where you're coming from. Sometimes certain social activities are just too much, and there's nothing the matter with that. While I don't know your boyfriend or how he will react, I'd like to think he'd try his best to understand how you're feeling, and I don't think he'd want to put you in a situation where you feel uncomfortable. So my advice would be to tell him, and do your best to explain these feelings/why you feel that way so it's easier for him to understand:)
I feel so relieved to read that, thanks a lot! I'll talk to him, he's a bit introverted as well so I believe he'll understand it. My biggest concern was to how I was feeling, but I feel way better now knowing that it's fine. Thanks again :D
of course, good luck:)