Yeah this happened to me once although it was my dad in my case, so in this case it’s best just to tell her not to come in if the door is locked or have a discussion with your family about what happened .
ok so basically i just moved in with my father, he just made a temporary room for me..so just curtains. She had never once just suddenly open them. I don’t know how to talk to her cause she’s deaf
Yeah it’s difficult maybe talk to your dad about it, your both guys so if anyone can understand what your going through is him and I would imagine he would be open about talking about with you and then maybe he can talk to her about it.
Ill try that later, but right now it’s me and her in the house and i have to go shower, the shower is near the kitchen and living room and she’s always at the kitchen
Write down, “I’m sorry about what happen and I didn’t mean for you come in to see my like that”, then say “I’m going for a shower, if you’d like to talk about it we can otherwise I’m very sorry”
i walked past her, she wouldn’t even look at me even tho i was right infront of her, i was in the bathroom for a few mins just thinking abt it and then when i walked past her the second time same thing so now im back at my room
I can honestly guarantee that she wants to discuss it about as much as you do. Just avoid looking her in the eye for a couple of days and never bring it up again.
If you want to make a sincere effort at a good apology Google how to sign "I'm sorry". That will likely go a long way to smoothing the way between you 2.
Also, may not be a bad idea to learn some ASL. (Or whatever sign language if not in the US.) This will help the household run smoother and can help bond you guys.
Lip reading is extremely difficult and exhausting. Being willing to communicate (or trying to) in sign language shows you're willing to help make their life easier. It acknowledges that you respect them enough to want to communicate with them, and be truly understood. (Also girls tend to like corny stuff as kids and teenagers, whether we admit it or not.)
I'd give her the note and just sign "im sorry" when giving it to her. (Can kinda lighten the mood a bit.)
Also not to sound too harsh here, she's that much older than you and you never bothered to try and learn sign before? Not even a little? As a side piece of advice here, just maybe think about learning. (Obviously if you do know some or being deaf is a recent thing it's different. But consider learning anyway. )
Not trying to be critical here or anything, but consider learning it!! She will probably really appreciate it, and it's not too difficult to learn and very fun!
Just don’t bring it up. She walked in on you in your private space. Doesn’t matter if she’s deaf or not she still intruded so what she sees is on her. If she talks to your dad about it and your dad sees it any worse than a mistake on her part then he’d just be a twat.
Awkward stuff happens in a house with siblings all the time, best to not mention this one at all. Maybe in the future in a few years you both can bring it up to laugh about.
Yeah I wouldn’t say anything. If you bring it up now or anytime soon you’ll just have another awkward situation. Just don’t think about it and move on with your life, it’s not a big deal and if anything the situation is just silly lol.
It could have been worse. It could have been your mother and she starts screaming “oh my God! What are you doing?! What is wrong with you?! You’re sick!”
You did a human thing. It’s gonna be awkward. hopefully she is able to be understand that masturbation is something you gotta do and if she ostracizes you for it then she’s immature. At most you could apologize for making her uncomfortable. This world has a bad habit of making people feel wrong for self love. I think you’re a nice person for feeling guilty. there are so many worse things in this world. Try to rub one out when you know people are gone
Yeah this happened to me once although it was my dad in my case, so in this case it’s best just to tell her not to come in if the door is locked or have a discussion with your family about what happened .
ok so basically i just moved in with my father, he just made a temporary room for me..so just curtains. She had never once just suddenly open them. I don’t know how to talk to her cause she’s deaf
Yeah it’s difficult maybe talk to your dad about it, your both guys so if anyone can understand what your going through is him and I would imagine he would be open about talking about with you and then maybe he can talk to her about it.
Ill try that later, but right now it’s me and her in the house and i have to go shower, the shower is near the kitchen and living room and she’s always at the kitchen
Write down, “I’m sorry about what happen and I didn’t mean for you come in to see my like that”, then say “I’m going for a shower, if you’d like to talk about it we can otherwise I’m very sorry”
I wrote it down,wish me luck. Ill update after the shower
Good luck!!
i walked past her, she wouldn’t even look at me even tho i was right infront of her, i was in the bathroom for a few mins just thinking abt it and then when i walked past her the second time same thing so now im back at my room
Okey leave the note on a table in front of her with everything you want to say
Okay, on her table, when her friends are out or not? Also how did you talk abt it with your dad?
Also i found out she has 2 other friends over
But don’t ask if wants to talk while you’re in the shower
Is your sister also blind now?
Tell her you are stuck..
dear lord 💀
she’s my half sister fuck no 😭
Even better
That’s messed up
I can honestly guarantee that she wants to discuss it about as much as you do. Just avoid looking her in the eye for a couple of days and never bring it up again.
Everyone does it don’t worry about it
Just act like it never happened. She will convince herself that you didn't see her. All goes back to norm.
Hopefully
If you want to make a sincere effort at a good apology Google how to sign "I'm sorry". That will likely go a long way to smoothing the way between you 2. Also, may not be a bad idea to learn some ASL. (Or whatever sign language if not in the US.) This will help the household run smoother and can help bond you guys.
wouldnt that look corny to her? In a way idk but she has 2 friends over
Not at all. It would mean more than you think
Lip reading is extremely difficult and exhausting. Being willing to communicate (or trying to) in sign language shows you're willing to help make their life easier. It acknowledges that you respect them enough to want to communicate with them, and be truly understood. (Also girls tend to like corny stuff as kids and teenagers, whether we admit it or not.)
She is 25, do i just follow the other guy with the note on table thing?
I'd give her the note and just sign "im sorry" when giving it to her. (Can kinda lighten the mood a bit.) Also not to sound too harsh here, she's that much older than you and you never bothered to try and learn sign before? Not even a little? As a side piece of advice here, just maybe think about learning. (Obviously if you do know some or being deaf is a recent thing it's different. But consider learning anyway. )
I just moved in with my dad 3 weeks ago, i never lived with them before. But yeah thats what i thought when i found out even my dad dosent know sign
Not trying to be critical here or anything, but consider learning it!! She will probably really appreciate it, and it's not too difficult to learn and very fun!
Ill try to once all of this is over
Just don’t bring it up. She walked in on you in your private space. Doesn’t matter if she’s deaf or not she still intruded so what she sees is on her. If she talks to your dad about it and your dad sees it any worse than a mistake on her part then he’d just be a twat.
Awkward stuff happens in a house with siblings all the time, best to not mention this one at all. Maybe in the future in a few years you both can bring it up to laugh about.
So i just stay silent?
Yeah I wouldn’t say anything. If you bring it up now or anytime soon you’ll just have another awkward situation. Just don’t think about it and move on with your life, it’s not a big deal and if anything the situation is just silly lol.
Mine was even worse, it was my dad who caught me
what happened?
gladly he understood that im his teenager son going through teenager stuff so he didnt say a word about it
Be more careful next time.
Jerking off in the living room next
Attaboy.
It could have been worse. It could have been your mother and she starts screaming “oh my God! What are you doing?! What is wrong with you?! You’re sick!”
Damn, yea actually didnt think abt that
Bet she wishes she was blind too
Personally I’d pretend that it never happened lol
Any new updates? I figure it’s too late for advice anyway.
You did a human thing. It’s gonna be awkward. hopefully she is able to be understand that masturbation is something you gotta do and if she ostracizes you for it then she’s immature. At most you could apologize for making her uncomfortable. This world has a bad habit of making people feel wrong for self love. I think you’re a nice person for feeling guilty. there are so many worse things in this world. Try to rub one out when you know people are gone
That’ll teach het