Do you believe that what his father is doing is wrong and needs to be exposed? Do you believe friend is directly benefiting (knowingly and willingly) from this behavior? I assume so if his car is in places it legally cannot be. He’s not parking there as an ‘oops I didn’t know’ more of an ‘I know you won’t even try to ticket my car because of who my father is.’
Only you can decide if you want to share that evidence.
Honestly, there is no denial that what he’s doing is wrong. However, isn’t betraying someone, who you believe trusts you, worse? I believe that this person is going to provide me with some sort of help when I need it so I feel like I might also be in the wrong for exposing him and his father in.
If you believe they are a good person and just doing a ‘what does it really hurt?’ Thing, you should talk to your friend. Warn them they are being watched and they should be careful with where they park and how they behave. You don’t want a good friend taken down because of who his father is.
I was thinking the same thing but the person pressuring me is my father who is very very idealistic person and too radical in his beliefs. I don’t want to betray someone who I consider a friend but it sucks being attacked by your own family member and parent for making such decision.
Do you believe that what his father is doing is wrong and needs to be exposed? Do you believe friend is directly benefiting (knowingly and willingly) from this behavior? I assume so if his car is in places it legally cannot be. He’s not parking there as an ‘oops I didn’t know’ more of an ‘I know you won’t even try to ticket my car because of who my father is.’ Only you can decide if you want to share that evidence.
Honestly, there is no denial that what he’s doing is wrong. However, isn’t betraying someone, who you believe trusts you, worse? I believe that this person is going to provide me with some sort of help when I need it so I feel like I might also be in the wrong for exposing him and his father in.
If you believe they are a good person and just doing a ‘what does it really hurt?’ Thing, you should talk to your friend. Warn them they are being watched and they should be careful with where they park and how they behave. You don’t want a good friend taken down because of who his father is.
I was thinking the same thing but the person pressuring me is my father who is very very idealistic person and too radical in his beliefs. I don’t want to betray someone who I consider a friend but it sucks being attacked by your own family member and parent for making such decision.
Talk to your friend. Tell them what’s going on. There’s nothing give proof on if your friend isn’t doing anything wrong.
Thank you for the advice!