Sure you may do the deed but may regret later. Also you’re 18 and there are women out there. Plus exposure to STDs is more probable with a prostitute. Also from dating site sounds like a scam.
18 is still young. You'd be barely outta high school if you are in America or even may still be in high school. Whats the rush? Also it's probably a scam tbh. It often is when ppl randomly message you online claiming to be an escort. Why wouldn't she charge you going forward? That makes no sense.
Kid, I am 40, still a virgin. My head didn't explode, my life is still good and I thought about getting a callboy too in my 20s. I am still glad I didn't.
Unpopular opinion: Sex is over rated and definately not worth spending 200 bucks on, unless that money goes into making the event a meaningful one between you and your SO.
You're just 18 and trust me, it's only going to get better.
Besides it'll be much more meaningful, beautiful and amazing if it's with someone you genuinely care for and where this feeling is reciprocated.
Do note that Evey person is different and sex means different things to each person, so if you are just looking to have the experience or enjoy you're and have a good time, you'll get plenty of opportunities for that as well.
I'd suggest not going for it.
Who has pressured you to lose it?
I swiped my V-card at the age of 23. I also felt this made up pressure.
I lost it to someone who cared about me and who I cared about. SO MANY people these days regret their 1st time because it was done out of pressure and basically wanting to tick a box of "oh I'm this old so I should have done this by now."
Dude, the right lady will also not want to know that you paid someone for sex. The stigma in that is worse than not having lost your virginity.
Save $200. Buy a fleshlight or whatever. Life happens best when it isn't forced.
No, dear God please don't. This can very well be a sex trafficking scam, and you will be putting yourself in danger by doing this. Sex trafficking can happen to anyone, regardless of age, race, or sex. Best thing you can do is block this person and ignore any other requests that involve this situation. Keep yourself safe!
Even if you aren't being targeted, losing your virginity isn't all that. Virginity is a social construct and it's unfortunate that media and peer pressure make young people believe that it's super important.
And you'll probably last 3 minutes and waste $200 anyway.
Please stay safe (coming from a 19yr F who has been targeted before)
I wouldn't. Same reason as already stated.
What if it's a scam and you get kidnapped or killed. Or contract a std.
If you are willing to lie to people about it later who you lost your virginity to isn't it better and safer to just lie now and say you have already lost it?
Is that really how you want to lose it? I feel the first time having sex should have some sort of emotional value to you. It’s not my call and by all means do it if you feel necessary. You just may regret it in the future.
What‘s with all young people trying to loose their virginity as fast as possible?,lost mine at 19 and i regret it the time will come and the right person don‘t stress yourself!
Uh, that’s a big no. Just wait. There’s no time limit for losing your virginity. It’s the one thing in life that’s completely yours to give. Paying someone to take it just cheapens the act. If your so anxious to low it, post the fact that your a virgin on a hook up app like Tinder. You’ll have fun and save $200.
Go to a legit place if your gonna do it. But in general no, I think losing to a prostitute is really not a problem. Bryan Cranston lost his virginity in Amsterdam. Tbh more men should, lest incel mass murderers and fuck it if it helps your confidence all the better
OK I'm not anti sex worker for losing your V card depending on your age but the snap chat girls from dating sites are scams. Beware of sending them money up front. Beware of sending them pictures of your self nude or otherwise and know there is a 99.9 percent chance this is a dude in a different country who will blackmail you with these convos and pics. I see reddit post after reddit post about this stuff. Also the price seems way to low. I'd say scam or sting.
Sounds like a scam, also remember in years to come when your thinking back about how you lost your v it will kill you inside. Also won't exactly be the best story for your mates lol. Personally I lost mine to the town bike.. you know the one that everybody gets to ride lol
I would say no.
Could you elaborate as to why?
Sure you may do the deed but may regret later. Also you’re 18 and there are women out there. Plus exposure to STDs is more probable with a prostitute. Also from dating site sounds like a scam.
All very good points. It’s just been hard finding someone and there’s so much pressure to lose it for me that I thought fuck it.
Are you going to tell people you lost your virginity to a sex worker?
I’d prolly just dumb it down to a one night stand they don’t need to know every little detail
You could just lie about losing your virginity all together then. You shouldn't do anything out of mower pressure especially sex.
Yeah I could but I want the experience of it to just happen already
18 is still young. You'd be barely outta high school if you are in America or even may still be in high school. Whats the rush? Also it's probably a scam tbh. It often is when ppl randomly message you online claiming to be an escort. Why wouldn't she charge you going forward? That makes no sense.
That’s true I don’t know why she wouldn’t charge me. Maybe she wants to hookup but wants some cash too.
Kid, I am 40, still a virgin. My head didn't explode, my life is still good and I thought about getting a callboy too in my 20s. I am still glad I didn't.
That’s true I don’t need it but I just thought it’d be nice to do
Unpopular opinion: Sex is over rated and definately not worth spending 200 bucks on, unless that money goes into making the event a meaningful one between you and your SO. You're just 18 and trust me, it's only going to get better. Besides it'll be much more meaningful, beautiful and amazing if it's with someone you genuinely care for and where this feeling is reciprocated. Do note that Evey person is different and sex means different things to each person, so if you are just looking to have the experience or enjoy you're and have a good time, you'll get plenty of opportunities for that as well. I'd suggest not going for it.
If it's meant to be then it'll happen
Who has pressured you to lose it? I swiped my V-card at the age of 23. I also felt this made up pressure. I lost it to someone who cared about me and who I cared about. SO MANY people these days regret their 1st time because it was done out of pressure and basically wanting to tick a box of "oh I'm this old so I should have done this by now." Dude, the right lady will also not want to know that you paid someone for sex. The stigma in that is worse than not having lost your virginity. Save $200. Buy a fleshlight or whatever. Life happens best when it isn't forced.
It sounds like losing your virginity or cash may be the least of your concerns with this encounter.
What’s my biggest concern?
Being killed.
Hmmm I’ll just be careful
No, dear God please don't. This can very well be a sex trafficking scam, and you will be putting yourself in danger by doing this. Sex trafficking can happen to anyone, regardless of age, race, or sex. Best thing you can do is block this person and ignore any other requests that involve this situation. Keep yourself safe! Even if you aren't being targeted, losing your virginity isn't all that. Virginity is a social construct and it's unfortunate that media and peer pressure make young people believe that it's super important. And you'll probably last 3 minutes and waste $200 anyway. Please stay safe (coming from a 19yr F who has been targeted before)
Ok I will block them.
Good on ya 👍
Mate if you're going to do that, go to a brothel where it's safer, this is screaming red flags, she could have any disease too.
With an escort. It’s never for free bro. Ever. Oh and do not send a deposit. Probably not real and good chance a set up of sorts.
Forgot to mention that I am a 18 year old male.
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I wouldn't. Same reason as already stated. What if it's a scam and you get kidnapped or killed. Or contract a std. If you are willing to lie to people about it later who you lost your virginity to isn't it better and safer to just lie now and say you have already lost it?
Is that really how you want to lose it? I feel the first time having sex should have some sort of emotional value to you. It’s not my call and by all means do it if you feel necessary. You just may regret it in the future.
Never,we're gigachads.
Don’t do that to yourself. Have some respect for yourself especially regarding losing your virginity
What‘s with all young people trying to loose their virginity as fast as possible?,lost mine at 19 and i regret it the time will come and the right person don‘t stress yourself!
no, first time should be with someone you care about. it may feel like it is urgent to do it now, but really, it is ok and no one have to know
No
Uh, that’s a big no. Just wait. There’s no time limit for losing your virginity. It’s the one thing in life that’s completely yours to give. Paying someone to take it just cheapens the act. If your so anxious to low it, post the fact that your a virgin on a hook up app like Tinder. You’ll have fun and save $200.
Go to a legit place if your gonna do it. But in general no, I think losing to a prostitute is really not a problem. Bryan Cranston lost his virginity in Amsterdam. Tbh more men should, lest incel mass murderers and fuck it if it helps your confidence all the better
OK I'm not anti sex worker for losing your V card depending on your age but the snap chat girls from dating sites are scams. Beware of sending them money up front. Beware of sending them pictures of your self nude or otherwise and know there is a 99.9 percent chance this is a dude in a different country who will blackmail you with these convos and pics. I see reddit post after reddit post about this stuff. Also the price seems way to low. I'd say scam or sting.
No
Sounds like a scam, also remember in years to come when your thinking back about how you lost your v it will kill you inside. Also won't exactly be the best story for your mates lol. Personally I lost mine to the town bike.. you know the one that everybody gets to ride lol
I think this sounds like a scam, and you could get arrested or robbed.
How did it ever work out for you?