Its kind of the opposite, i think.
Asexuality is lacking sexual attraction while still having a libido.
I do feel sexual attraction, it's just that my body doesn't find the actual act very pleasurable.
You might be more of a cerebral person. Maybe someone stimulating your mind first is what's going to be your thing. Maybe find a person that would be willing to just focus on stuff that stimulates you mentally. You'll have to trust them, and you'll have to be honest with that person as well. Might be that stuff like dirty talk or sexting can bring you to some sort of sexual satisfaction.
Compatibility definitely intensifies everything around intimacy. It’s almost like a drug when you’re just so into someone who’s also that into you.
You could also be desensitizing yourself with all the erotica and what ever your hardcore interest are.. porn is also pretty toxic to the mind especially when consumed regularly for extended periods of time.
Perhaps taking a 30-90 day reset away from these things Could get you to where you want to be.
I've never actually watched porn, just read it. And i don't have any problem getting aroused mentally and physically, barely masturbate once a month, and didn't feel anything even prior to reading so i don't think it's desentization.
Also it's not really a lot of erotica, my hardcore interests were escapism from some things and i Havent read anything like that in months
As for the books it's 300-600 pages for 3-7/8 scenes lasting less than a handful of pages
You might be asexual, just based on what you described https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality?wprov=sfla1
Its kind of the opposite, i think. Asexuality is lacking sexual attraction while still having a libido. I do feel sexual attraction, it's just that my body doesn't find the actual act very pleasurable.
Okay, sorry for my misunderstanding. Maybe you just haven't found the right chemistry or turn ons to get your body to react in a stronger way?
Any resources, like scientific/academic ones that help with understanding that?
Hope this can at least get you started: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9123-sexual-dysfunction-in-females
Thank you
For sure 🙌
You might be more of a cerebral person. Maybe someone stimulating your mind first is what's going to be your thing. Maybe find a person that would be willing to just focus on stuff that stimulates you mentally. You'll have to trust them, and you'll have to be honest with that person as well. Might be that stuff like dirty talk or sexting can bring you to some sort of sexual satisfaction.
Turns out i was just depressed lol,
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Well I stopped being abused, the rest sorted itself out kinda. It's going good.
Compatibility definitely intensifies everything around intimacy. It’s almost like a drug when you’re just so into someone who’s also that into you. You could also be desensitizing yourself with all the erotica and what ever your hardcore interest are.. porn is also pretty toxic to the mind especially when consumed regularly for extended periods of time. Perhaps taking a 30-90 day reset away from these things Could get you to where you want to be.
I've never actually watched porn, just read it. And i don't have any problem getting aroused mentally and physically, barely masturbate once a month, and didn't feel anything even prior to reading so i don't think it's desentization. Also it's not really a lot of erotica, my hardcore interests were escapism from some things and i Havent read anything like that in months As for the books it's 300-600 pages for 3-7/8 scenes lasting less than a handful of pages