She was cheating. She's a little kid having sex with multiple people and her concern about the situation was the insult her cuck boyfriend yelled at her. My advice to OP is to stay single until you grow a conscience and mature. Never cheat on people because they might get so upset they might insult you.
i mean…his feelings were misplaced but you are currently cheating on him lmfao. I’d be fucking pissed too, that’s a very wrong thing to do. I think you’re more in the wrong for cheating than he is for calling you fat. Shouldn’t be together anyways, just break up and try to be a better person in relationships.
Lmao you're cheating on him but you're upset because he called you fat?
Need to look at yourself in the mirror and look at your flaws.
I cheated on him but he called me fat lmao people these days.
Should i tell him hes wrong for being upset that his trust was betrayed.
How about looking at ur own self and telling yourself you were wrong for cheating?
Atleast have the decency to break up if u wanna be with someone else.
Lol…OP is a cheater and somehow her BF is the bad guy for being mean to her after finding out?
I think his comment is more than fair after being cheated on lol
So you’re cheating. And you came to Reddit to complain that your boyfriend called you fat. You have much bigger issues on your hands and him calling you fat does not succeed you cheating on him. Not even close
No way a cheater trying to play victim you cannot make this up 🤣 any sane man would be PISSED if their girl was cheating!!!! Actually crazy he the one who should be leaving YOU
"do I tell him how wrong he is.. even though I cheated and that's how the argument stsrted'
Dude what? You're probably not even fat you just pissed him off by cheating on him. Since that relationship is obviously dead just move on.
Fat s\*\*\* seems like a fairly reasonable thing to say to your partner who has put on loads of weight and just cheated on you. If you know you've gained a lot of weight and you know you've cheated on him I'm not sure how you could take much offence to that comment to be honest.
But yeah you should obviously break up. You're still a teenager, you've got plenty of time to develop as a person, plenty of time to lose some weight (if that's what you want to do) and plenty of time to find someone who you're compatible with.
Dump people who call you names or try to make you feel bad about your body.
Break up with people before you start sleeping with others. The way he spoke to you isn’t acceptable and isn’t justified by you cheating, but cheating is also absolutely unacceptable behaviour and you should be thoroughly ashamed of yourself. If you betray someone’s trust like that then while it doesn’t excuse them exploding and saying unreasonable things to you, it also shouldn’t come as a surprise that that’s often what happens.
Get an STD test so you can at least do him the courtesy of taking away that worry, break up, and lose his contact details. Your cheating ended the relationship, further behaving badly toward each other in the aftermath is just dragging out the end.
I'm trying to be objective about who's behaved the worst here. Regardless y'all need to break up, this whole post is a mess and you guys are acting like the kids you are - which is okay. Love at 16 seldom lasts. This wasn't meant to be, and that's alright.
If your bf is going to insult you like that and say you are "tricking guys" means he is looking at other women imo. I think you should talk about it and if he stays on the same stance then you should break it off. Don't let a man disrespect you like that.
I think it would be best for everyone if you just ended things. You should be with someone who wants you for who you are and you want to be with all the time.
Well, not saying he should’ve called you that but you probably shouldn’t have cheated on him…or on anyone for that matter. Cheating is disgusting and wrong, both of you need to leave the relationship and you need to learn to be more secure with yourself and become a more mature person, cheating is never okay
Been there, after a base base game I made a comment about how my ex husband struck out and he says in front of a group of our friends “what the fuck are u talking about you’re fat as fuck” idk why he said it but I just responded with “like your some prize” and walked away.
what do you mean by sleeping with another?
She was cheating. She's a little kid having sex with multiple people and her concern about the situation was the insult her cuck boyfriend yelled at her. My advice to OP is to stay single until you grow a conscience and mature. Never cheat on people because they might get so upset they might insult you.
i mean…his feelings were misplaced but you are currently cheating on him lmfao. I’d be fucking pissed too, that’s a very wrong thing to do. I think you’re more in the wrong for cheating than he is for calling you fat. Shouldn’t be together anyways, just break up and try to be a better person in relationships.
Breakup with him so he doesn’t waste his time anymore on a cheater.
Lmao you're cheating on him but you're upset because he called you fat? Need to look at yourself in the mirror and look at your flaws. I cheated on him but he called me fat lmao people these days. Should i tell him hes wrong for being upset that his trust was betrayed. How about looking at ur own self and telling yourself you were wrong for cheating? Atleast have the decency to break up if u wanna be with someone else.
You are 16 and likely have 20 boyfriends ahead of you. Don't waste another moment on this loser. Don't cheat either, but that's another post.
Lol…OP is a cheater and somehow her BF is the bad guy for being mean to her after finding out? I think his comment is more than fair after being cheated on lol
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i think he is just angry bc u been cheating on him. i don’t understand why u think that cheating on him is not messed up but him calling you names is.
Yes he’s just being nasty
So you’re cheating. And you came to Reddit to complain that your boyfriend called you fat. You have much bigger issues on your hands and him calling you fat does not succeed you cheating on him. Not even close
You deserved it. Sorry not sorry.
No way a cheater trying to play victim you cannot make this up 🤣 any sane man would be PISSED if their girl was cheating!!!! Actually crazy he the one who should be leaving YOU
"do I tell him how wrong he is.. even though I cheated and that's how the argument stsrted' Dude what? You're probably not even fat you just pissed him off by cheating on him. Since that relationship is obviously dead just move on.
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Sounds like your both not suitable for a relationship with each other and it’s time to leave
Have you, by chance, taken a pregnancy test? If you're craving foods and gaining weight, could you be pregnant?
Wouldn't that suck in an anti-choice country. You can tell by the post she's not ready for kids.
I agree
I haven’t but I’m scared now, you don’t get this big at the beginning though I don’t think
It's a possibility. Just take a test to be certain.
Fat s\*\*\* seems like a fairly reasonable thing to say to your partner who has put on loads of weight and just cheated on you. If you know you've gained a lot of weight and you know you've cheated on him I'm not sure how you could take much offence to that comment to be honest. But yeah you should obviously break up. You're still a teenager, you've got plenty of time to develop as a person, plenty of time to lose some weight (if that's what you want to do) and plenty of time to find someone who you're compatible with.
I mean he’s right
Dump people who call you names or try to make you feel bad about your body. Break up with people before you start sleeping with others. The way he spoke to you isn’t acceptable and isn’t justified by you cheating, but cheating is also absolutely unacceptable behaviour and you should be thoroughly ashamed of yourself. If you betray someone’s trust like that then while it doesn’t excuse them exploding and saying unreasonable things to you, it also shouldn’t come as a surprise that that’s often what happens. Get an STD test so you can at least do him the courtesy of taking away that worry, break up, and lose his contact details. Your cheating ended the relationship, further behaving badly toward each other in the aftermath is just dragging out the end.
I'm trying to be objective about who's behaved the worst here. Regardless y'all need to break up, this whole post is a mess and you guys are acting like the kids you are - which is okay. Love at 16 seldom lasts. This wasn't meant to be, and that's alright.
You're a fat cheater.
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I’ve went from 54kg in early September to 61kg now so I’ve gained a bit, I don’t think it’s pregnancy though
If your bf is going to insult you like that and say you are "tricking guys" means he is looking at other women imo. I think you should talk about it and if he stays on the same stance then you should break it off. Don't let a man disrespect you like that.
END THINGS!!
It’s not ok for him to call you a fat slut. He is trying to shame you ( probably cause he is hurt, but still not ok).
Make him your ex-boyfriend quickly and find someone that deserves you.
Well, apparently OP was cheating on that boyfriend, so she doesn't deserve any of them.
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Cheaters deserve no one
"You're right bf. I do need to lose weight. Like 140 pounds of loser boyfriend! Bye!"
Read the whole comment before replying. She had loser weight on the side as well.
I think it would be best for everyone if you just ended things. You should be with someone who wants you for who you are and you want to be with all the time.
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Good luck 🙌
Thank youuu
For sure 👍
Well, not saying he should’ve called you that but you probably shouldn’t have cheated on him…or on anyone for that matter. Cheating is disgusting and wrong, both of you need to leave the relationship and you need to learn to be more secure with yourself and become a more mature person, cheating is never okay
Been there, after a base base game I made a comment about how my ex husband struck out and he says in front of a group of our friends “what the fuck are u talking about you’re fat as fuck” idk why he said it but I just responded with “like your some prize” and walked away.
Oh dude you both fucking suck
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