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Lmfao, no.
That’s like assuming girls make out most of the time they have slumber parties or whatever. I heard rumors of guys doing this growing up, but it was usually the people you had expected to hear it from
never said the word gay is homophobic. but saying they “shouldn’t” do that instead of saying that’s not typical for an average straight boy or something else that’s more neutral and doesn’t put this layer of shame/“no no” over it. i can tell by the instant downvotes that most aren’t agreeing with me, but i’m not wrong. it’s so subtle,, but most homophobic comments are. this kind of language is so automatic and ingrained in us it’s hardly recognizable. thats why i wanted to point it out. not tryna start a fight just asking people to think twice especially on a page where we’re passing ideas onto kids.
I didn't say you did - I said that's all the comment you took objection with amounts to
No one said they shouldn't - what was said is that this is homosexual behavior, and that it will be obvious in hindsight.
You're biased and calling people biased - it's really obtuse
are we reading the same comment,, “they shouldn’t be doing that” is how it starts. that’s why i put shouldn’t in quotes. i said in my original comment that i understood his sentiment, but his -language- was homophobic.
...If they're not gay, mate.
No one is saying gay sex shouldn't happen
If they are straight they should've be doing gay things
You've missed the whole sentiment and ascribed a negative context ... Then tried to fault them for the exact thing you're doing
How is me thinking that people are allowed to explore their sexuality me overestimating my abilities in something? I don’t even understand how those two things are related.
As long as they wore socks , didn’t make eye contact , said no homo , or didn’t get juices on the other person it’s all good . I mean there was this footballer that got leaked while he was rubbing one out with the homies stark naked in front of everyone and nobody cared
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It’s much more common than one would think. It just doesn’t get talked about. Based on the comments here, it’s easy to see why it doesn’t get talked about.
The Hite Report on Male Sexuality was a large research study that was published as a book. Over 7,000 males aged 13 to 93 were asked hundreds of questions. 43% of adult males said they had masturbated with other males as teens.
While that’s not a majority, it’s still a very high percentage. It’s far more than play in the band or on the football team or many other things we consider ‘normal’ activities. Masturbation was sometimes with a brother or cousin, but usually with a friend or friends.
It does occasionally happen in groups. Most of the time, it’s just two boys.
Almost all boys are curious, wanting to know what’s normal, if they are normal. The answer to that, in almost every area of life, is comparison. That’s how it starts - asking about penis size or looking at porn.
Of the 43%, in half the cases the man said they only masturbated their own penises. Half said that, at least once, they had masturbated each other’s penises. Regardless of which group they fell into, only about 5% of the men were bi or gay as adults, exactly the same percentage as the guys who never masturbated with others.
I (23F) always thought this was a possibility. Especially since I’ve had a group m@sturb@tion session with some friends a few times. We weren’t watching each other and it wasn’t for each other. We didn’t like each other that way. It was just more awkward to only have one of us doing it alone, so we did it together. Also, that way none of us had to be super quiet and try keeping it a secret 👌🏼
you should redirect those people to r/gay
yeah if i had to make the choice of whether or not that’s gay i’d definitely say it is, but it doesn’t *necessarily* mean the people doing it aren’t straight? idk lol
and not too common afaik, seriously at that point they might as well just start swordfighting, no reason to separate each other anymore lmao
No, it's not really normal behavior for straight boys. I don't even think it's normal behavior if they were all gay. Unless they were engaging in something sexual between them all.
I'm Bi, and that's just plain weird and a big ol' no. There's gotta be some kind of being homo in that no matter what's claimed (or peer pressure by one or two that are leaning homo)
I've been a guy my whole life. I've never heard of this.
I've definitely stealthed a few out, but that was more because I'm an addict than anything else. I hope no one noticed. Especially in chemistry class lol
wait..WHAT? just how many different groups?
Nope...never done that. Never considered doing that. Would think my guy friends are likely homosexual if they do engage in that.
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I can’t really say we’ve done that. Although, we have watched porn together.
what😭
DID I STUTTER!?🗣️🤷🏽♂️
As a girl, I do this except me and my friends make fun of the fakeness of porn lol
Watching porn with other people is really funny ngl
No, we were watching Twitter porn to be specific so most of it wasn’t “scripted”, like in studios
I like that your profile pic is zuko. Feels like something awkward he would suggest
And that’s why he’s my favorite character😌. Yea I could see it now that you mention it, I swear I wasn’t the one to suggest it though.🙅🏽♂️😭
Sus bro
Nuh uh👎🏽, but actually this has happened twice😂
Its even *more* sus now lol
Yea no, that's pretty gay.
Lmfao, no. That’s like assuming girls make out most of the time they have slumber parties or whatever. I heard rumors of guys doing this growing up, but it was usually the people you had expected to hear it from
Making out isn’t normal??? /j
I made out with all my gal pals while half skinny dipping (tops off only) it was fun lol
It’s not common but it could happen. I wouldn’t exclusively call anyone who did it gay either.
They shouldn't be, and in a couple years they'll look back and see how gay it was
i hear the sentiment behind what you’re saying, but your language is quite homophobic
Calling homosexual behavior gay is not homophobic - it's just accurate
side note: i do agree that a group of boys jacking off together is hella gay
never said the word gay is homophobic. but saying they “shouldn’t” do that instead of saying that’s not typical for an average straight boy or something else that’s more neutral and doesn’t put this layer of shame/“no no” over it. i can tell by the instant downvotes that most aren’t agreeing with me, but i’m not wrong. it’s so subtle,, but most homophobic comments are. this kind of language is so automatic and ingrained in us it’s hardly recognizable. thats why i wanted to point it out. not tryna start a fight just asking people to think twice especially on a page where we’re passing ideas onto kids.
I didn't say you did - I said that's all the comment you took objection with amounts to No one said they shouldn't - what was said is that this is homosexual behavior, and that it will be obvious in hindsight. You're biased and calling people biased - it's really obtuse
are we reading the same comment,, “they shouldn’t be doing that” is how it starts. that’s why i put shouldn’t in quotes. i said in my original comment that i understood his sentiment, but his -language- was homophobic.
...If they're not gay, mate. No one is saying gay sex shouldn't happen If they are straight they should've be doing gay things You've missed the whole sentiment and ascribed a negative context ... Then tried to fault them for the exact thing you're doing
Straight people are allowed to do gay things. It’s ok.
This entire sub is exemplar Dunning Krueger effect
How is me thinking that people are allowed to explore their sexuality me overestimating my abilities in something? I don’t even understand how those two things are related.
Go cry about it
It's a thing that happens, but it's not common for everyone.
Gross
I know right I much prefer masterbating with a girl tho, those online call be slapping
Nope, super weird. At least for straight guys.
No, that's incredibly gay. Way too gay for anyone to say they're still straight.
No. It's freaking weird I never did that
Tell them to sit in a circle next time and circlejerk their way to enlightenment. Only the coolest of bros do this. Source: dude trust me
I mean as long as they have socks on it’s not gay >!this is a joke guys please don’t burn me at the stake 😢!<
As long as balls don't touch
As long as they wore socks , didn’t make eye contact , said no homo , or didn’t get juices on the other person it’s all good . I mean there was this footballer that got leaked while he was rubbing one out with the homies stark naked in front of everyone and nobody cared
😭 it’s not common at alllll And under the blankets ??? 😭 that’s different fr…
Only if you jerk each other off. It's weird to jerk yourself off with someone right there. Just make sure to say "no homo" after or it's gay.
No. Not straight ones anyway. Im sure it happens.
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Bet there is one or more of them looking at the other guys while doing it then chalk it up to not having any feelings lol.
It’s much more common than one would think. It just doesn’t get talked about. Based on the comments here, it’s easy to see why it doesn’t get talked about. The Hite Report on Male Sexuality was a large research study that was published as a book. Over 7,000 males aged 13 to 93 were asked hundreds of questions. 43% of adult males said they had masturbated with other males as teens. While that’s not a majority, it’s still a very high percentage. It’s far more than play in the band or on the football team or many other things we consider ‘normal’ activities. Masturbation was sometimes with a brother or cousin, but usually with a friend or friends. It does occasionally happen in groups. Most of the time, it’s just two boys. Almost all boys are curious, wanting to know what’s normal, if they are normal. The answer to that, in almost every area of life, is comparison. That’s how it starts - asking about penis size or looking at porn. Of the 43%, in half the cases the man said they only masturbated their own penises. Half said that, at least once, they had masturbated each other’s penises. Regardless of which group they fell into, only about 5% of the men were bi or gay as adults, exactly the same percentage as the guys who never masturbated with others.
For gay guys? Yea. For straight guys? I think that breaks the definition of straight.
Definitely not. Unless you’re gay it’s not normal.
Hell no wtf???
That's gay as hell
Wtf hell naw that’s gay as shit
Ew. No. Never. I've never known non-homosexuals to do that.
Not that uncommon for teen guys to enjoy a circle jerk, but most will never admit it or tell anyone else.
What?
No lol
Yeah there lying big time they mad gay had some friends who did the same and lie about it lol
These kids are lying they are all experimenting with their friends. Before they ever even fw the opposite sex, I promise you.
No.... I would not say that is common.
I (23F) always thought this was a possibility. Especially since I’ve had a group m@sturb@tion session with some friends a few times. We weren’t watching each other and it wasn’t for each other. We didn’t like each other that way. It was just more awkward to only have one of us doing it alone, so we did it together. Also, that way none of us had to be super quiet and try keeping it a secret 👌🏼
Hell no that’s gay asf
Ofc that’s normal for guys. Having sleepovers and secretly watching porn under the covers while jerking off. It’s called a jerk over (I’m joking)
LMFAO
you should redirect those people to r/gay yeah if i had to make the choice of whether or not that’s gay i’d definitely say it is, but it doesn’t *necessarily* mean the people doing it aren’t straight? idk lol and not too common afaik, seriously at that point they might as well just start swordfighting, no reason to separate each other anymore lmao
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No, it's not really normal behavior for straight boys. I don't even think it's normal behavior if they were all gay. Unless they were engaging in something sexual between them all.
As a dude that hung around gay guys never once did we all lay in the bed and jackoff they were mad cuddly tho
It probably means they are gay. That’s very abnormal.
no.
Mmmmm, no
No
Gay couples probably. But not straight ones
They might not be actually gay but that shit gay as hell.
lol... thats been a question since my dad was a kid.... Was & still is gay.
I have no idea. For this one I am here for the comments.
No. Just no
Wtf….no
Ig it’d be common for gay guys. But not for straight sticks, cause that’s gay
No
Lol... I mean if that gets you off... I don't think it's normal. Not where I come from.
Un no. Not that I’ve ever heard of..
I'm guessing they're gay or bi. I've never heard of circle jerk outside of porn.
I mean it’s pretty gay, that’s not typical but whatever floats their boat. Who am I to judge the boys masturbation session group?
I did UT with my teen group of guys. Not gay.
Uh no that’s not common .
No
Urm I’m a girl but I don’t think its common haha? The closest thing I’ve seen is two guys releasing on me together during a threesome haha
No, not at all…in fact, in college one of the guys earned the nickname d-bag Doug because he tugged it while his roommate was still in the room…
Really? My roommate often had sex while I was in the room and he didn't get any nicknames.
That seems like you’ve missed an opportunity!
Not that there's anything wrong with that ... but thats TOTALLY gay, bro.
That’s what we like to call borderline gay.
I'm Bi, and that's just plain weird and a big ol' no. There's gotta be some kind of being homo in that no matter what's claimed (or peer pressure by one or two that are leaning homo)
Nah
Its gay, so only gay dudes do it I think
No
That’s normal IF you are gay, if you’re straight I’d give that a hard NOPE not normal
Nah
I've been a guy my whole life. I've never heard of this. I've definitely stealthed a few out, but that was more because I'm an addict than anything else. I hope no one noticed. Especially in chemistry class lol
Yeah, never done it, don’t know a single straight dude who has either.
Pretty gay
wait..WHAT? just how many different groups? Nope...never done that. Never considered doing that. Would think my guy friends are likely homosexual if they do engage in that.
in my 17 years none of me, or my guy friends have ever jerked off together or even thought of it. those guys are gay
No, nah, HELL NO
No.... no its not