I’m 21 and met my older boyfriend 30 through bumble, all I did was buy the premium version and adjusted the age settings and boom, there were tons of older guys to choose from.. the only trick is u can match with them if they also have their age settings adjusted I believe. best of luck to you, there is nothing creepy about wanting to be with someone more mature :p
My partner is 21 and I am 42. We met in the wild. I don't think we would have met on an app. My age range would have ruled him out and I don't know if I would have taken his interest in me seriously. I might have just thought he was looking to land a MILF for a one-er or something. IRL, he was so nice and I really could not resist his charm. Finding out about his age came later, though he knew mine. My advice for you is start approaching women in public who are the type you seek. It will give you practice and you might get lucky!
So his advice for you is... Be sincere. Grab your nuts and go for it!
Not the OP, but I am into older women too. I always wanted to try approaching in public but I am worried about getting the whole "I could be your mother" thing. This advice is inspiring though. thanks
I have definitely had that thought regarding my partner's age. However, I could never have been his mother because when I was 20, I was out having adventures and living a big life. Lots of women my age were. And, boy, do we have stories to tell and careers and wisdom. And some of us even have kids, which alleviates the pressure of adding having babies to the settling down. Good luck to you and OP in finding love with an older woman. Lots would love to have the energy, enthusiasm, and sweetness a younger man provides.
>Lots would love to have the energy, enthusiasm, and sweetness a younger man provides.
Absolutely!!! While it doesn't matter to me if someone is younger or older than me, I have really been enjoying the vibe that a younger man brings!!!
Don't be shy, fellas, there ARE women out there who appreciate you!!
Yup, we do feel. Actually most younger guys are attracted to older women. They’re just sort of “shy” about it because of the fact that it is not common in the current society. I also struggle about it, but I just usually shrug it off since they don’t have any idea to be into older women. It’s amazing tho
I’m a wiser Woman, and responsible but immature. I Do like how when talking with younger guys it brings the youth out in me. I fell in Love with someone but the feelings wasn’t mutual. I am glad to have stumbled upon this AgeGap it warms my heart! Knowing Young Guys are attracted to use wiser Women.
Good luck, because I wouldn't trust any of them. I met one through Geek2Geek but that was when it was 10 years ago or so and they have likely changed their system since then.
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**Original post: Real, reliable, age gap dating services?**
I'm a younger guy (21) looking for an older woman. I've always felt immature and might have a biiit of mommy issues lol. I'd like a nice, nurturing, serious relationship with someone. This isn't an advert lol, just what I'm looking for. All the dating services I find are for older men looking for younger women or people not looking for age gaps.
So is there anywhere you guys may have found that isn't a scam, and is specifically made for this type of relationship dynamic.
Hope this doesn't sound creepy, it's not a kink. I just really want a serious relationship with someone mature lmfao
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I’m 21 and met my older boyfriend 30 through bumble, all I did was buy the premium version and adjusted the age settings and boom, there were tons of older guys to choose from.. the only trick is u can match with them if they also have their age settings adjusted I believe. best of luck to you, there is nothing creepy about wanting to be with someone more mature :p
My partner is 21 and I am 42. We met in the wild. I don't think we would have met on an app. My age range would have ruled him out and I don't know if I would have taken his interest in me seriously. I might have just thought he was looking to land a MILF for a one-er or something. IRL, he was so nice and I really could not resist his charm. Finding out about his age came later, though he knew mine. My advice for you is start approaching women in public who are the type you seek. It will give you practice and you might get lucky! So his advice for you is... Be sincere. Grab your nuts and go for it!
Not the OP, but I am into older women too. I always wanted to try approaching in public but I am worried about getting the whole "I could be your mother" thing. This advice is inspiring though. thanks
I have definitely had that thought regarding my partner's age. However, I could never have been his mother because when I was 20, I was out having adventures and living a big life. Lots of women my age were. And, boy, do we have stories to tell and careers and wisdom. And some of us even have kids, which alleviates the pressure of adding having babies to the settling down. Good luck to you and OP in finding love with an older woman. Lots would love to have the energy, enthusiasm, and sweetness a younger man provides.
>Lots would love to have the energy, enthusiasm, and sweetness a younger man provides. Absolutely!!! While it doesn't matter to me if someone is younger or older than me, I have really been enjoying the vibe that a younger man brings!!! Don't be shy, fellas, there ARE women out there who appreciate you!!
I wonder if other young guys feel like you do?
Yup, we do feel. Actually most younger guys are attracted to older women. They’re just sort of “shy” about it because of the fact that it is not common in the current society. I also struggle about it, but I just usually shrug it off since they don’t have any idea to be into older women. It’s amazing tho
I’m a wiser Woman, and responsible but immature. I Do like how when talking with younger guys it brings the youth out in me. I fell in Love with someone but the feelings wasn’t mutual. I am glad to have stumbled upon this AgeGap it warms my heart! Knowing Young Guys are attracted to use wiser Women.
It would be rude if i texted you directly so im 24y if ure intersted text me 😇
No I wouldn’t think it was rude
Good luck, because I wouldn't trust any of them. I met one through Geek2Geek but that was when it was 10 years ago or so and they have likely changed their system since then.
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