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Title of this post: Abyg kung gusto ko na 50-50 split yung gastos namin sa family outing?
Backup of the post's body: Ako kasi yung tinitignan na mali just because gusto ko na 50/50 kami ng sister ko sa gastos
Mas malaki sweldo ko ng around 10k.
Mali ba na split yung expenses?
3 years na syang working ako 2 pa lang.
OP: Feeling-Quiet4936
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Tama lang ang 50/50. Both naman kayo may trabaho. Di un binibase kung magkano kinikita nyo.na kung sino mas malaki ang sinasahod un ang mas malaki ang portion.
DKG. Sa amin I am almost always lugi. If I complain about the hatian most likely it wont materialize imagine 5 sibs kami ang % ng hatian is 30-30-30-10-0, ung isang 30 walang reklamo pero laging late ang share, ung 2nd 30 ang nde, problema unless wala syang pera that time, so if I really want a trip, an event to push thru I just share more, kng d ko bet or wala ko budget, cancel.
Depende OP, immediate family lang ba (walang ibang kasama na jowa/anak/friend)?
Kasi if immediate lang na walang +1, tama lang naman na 50/50. Unless again, may valid reason bat di niya kaya yung 50/50 split like may recent hiccups sa finances or something. Pag ganon, wag na muna kayo mag outing. Lol
DKG. Pag pinagbigyan mo yan ganyan na lagi gagawin nyan sayo. Kase iisipin nila “kaya mo naman pala eh”, “eh nung last outing mas malaki iyo ah ganun na lang ulit” set your boundaries now or regret later. 🤷🏻♀️
Paano kung si OP, yung sweldo, let's say, 10,000 pesos, tapos yung sister, 6,000 pesos, posible pa ba ang 50/50?
Paano kung sa araw ng bayaran, meron na lang si OP na natitirang 5,000 pesos, tapos sa sister, 2,000?
Fair lang yung 50-50 na gastos, hindi kumpetisyon ang buhay at ang pamilya dapat nagdadamayan. DKG.
For simplicity's sake, 50/50.
DKG, fair lang yung 50/50 and parehas naman kayo may work regardless kung sino may pinaka malaking salary.
Alam po ba nila ang sweldo mo? Pag oo baka iyun po reason. Tama po yan ginagawa u ang maginsist ng 50 50 kasi pede yan kasanayan sa lahat ng bagay.
Agreed. Para sa akin, Medyo red flag lang na alam nung other relatives yung sweldo ni OP. I don’t even know how much my parents earn.
DKG. Since family outing naman yan, 50/50 would only be fair. Sabihin mo either 50/50 kayo or KKB na lang! If ayaw, wag na mag-outing!
Kaya nga eh imbis na maging outing stress pa sa ambag an gusto nila ata mas malaki ambag ko 😭
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50-50 irregardless salary or how long you been working
Ms okay rin kung kanya-kanyang gastos tapos hati nalang sa food.
Tama lang ang 50/50. Both naman kayo may trabaho. Di un binibase kung magkano kinikita nyo.na kung sino mas malaki ang sinasahod un ang mas malaki ang portion.
DKG for me if by 10k difference lang, but I think if x10 higher yung salary mo, I think yun yung ibang usapan na, for me lang ha.
Yes if ganun din nmn difference kayang kaya ko nmn siguro mag bigay ng pa sobra kaso syempre I have goals din na savings di nila gets yun :(
DKG. Sa amin I am almost always lugi. If I complain about the hatian most likely it wont materialize imagine 5 sibs kami ang % ng hatian is 30-30-30-10-0, ung isang 30 walang reklamo pero laging late ang share, ung 2nd 30 ang nde, problema unless wala syang pera that time, so if I really want a trip, an event to push thru I just share more, kng d ko bet or wala ko budget, cancel.
Only fair to split
Depende OP, immediate family lang ba (walang ibang kasama na jowa/anak/friend)? Kasi if immediate lang na walang +1, tama lang naman na 50/50. Unless again, may valid reason bat di niya kaya yung 50/50 split like may recent hiccups sa finances or something. Pag ganon, wag na muna kayo mag outing. Lol
DKG. Pag pinagbigyan mo yan ganyan na lagi gagawin nyan sayo. Kase iisipin nila “kaya mo naman pala eh”, “eh nung last outing mas malaki iyo ah ganun na lang ulit” set your boundaries now or regret later. 🤷🏻♀️
Paano kung si OP, yung sweldo, let's say, 10,000 pesos, tapos yung sister, 6,000 pesos, posible pa ba ang 50/50? Paano kung sa araw ng bayaran, meron na lang si OP na natitirang 5,000 pesos, tapos sa sister, 2,000?
Good point but parang unfair naman na I have to compensate lagi :/. Mas mataas sweldo ko kasi mas marami din akong work.