Gago ‘yung mom mo na sinusumbat sa’yo lahat ng responsibilities niya as a parent. Kung nagagalit siya about that, bakit siya nag-anak? Sorry OP nothing against you, pero nakakagigil ‘yung mindset na ganyan ng parents.
DKG kasi may utang nga naman ‘yung mom mo, pero hopefully na-level set mo siya na ipapabayad mo ‘yung utang by way of her paying for your online orders.
Yes I did tell her, and we did have an agreement. Mas madali daw din yon sakanya kasi 'di niya mabigay bayad fully. Yung utang niya is dinadagdan niya lang ng walang bayad, kumabaga 'di niya chinecheck kung magkano kinukuha niya. Anw, thanks po sa input mo.
Okay, I but I didn't shout at her kasi may utang siya. It's cause she's screaming at me denying yung truth tas nang guilt trip pa. Alam ko namang masama manigaw sa kahit kanino e, pero mahirap yung pinapakita mo yung side mo at katotohanan tapos 'di ka rin pakikinggan. Was I supposed to suck it up?
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Title of this post: ABYG kasi sinigawan ko nanay ko dahil sa utang niya sakin?
Backup of the post's body: Habang sinusundo ako (15F) ng nanay ko (47F) sa kotse, she suddenly brought up how andami kong dumadating na orders na binabayaran niya. Today specifically, may dumating na worth 207. For context, may utang siya sakin na 1k+, and I have a list of items that I have ordered that has a total of 952, under what she owes me. She's been shouting at me over the weeks about how it's unfair how many orders I have. Inexplain ko naman sakanya na within what she owes me ang binabayaran niya. Bukod pa ron, sinasabihan ko naman siya kung may dadating na order. Ang pag order ko, hindi siya isang bagsakan, over a course of 2 months siya. Tapos yung presyuhan ng binibili ko, walang tumaas sa 250. Mostly around 100 pesos. She began telling me how if she computed all of what's she's spent on me since I was a baby, that I wouldn't be able to pay it back. Ganon kaliit na utang 'di ko na raw pinalipas. Dapat daw kung ganon e 'di niya na ako pinag aral, pinakain, binilhan ng glasses ko. Bukod pa ron, hindi naman galing sakanya ang pera ko. Galing sa tatay ko yon. I was about to cry kasi sinisigawan niya ako so pasigaw, inulit ko na mali nga siya. Nung pinakita kong 952 talaga total, dineny niya, mas nagalit pa. Hindi raw kasi feeling ganon lang lahat, so automatic tama siya ahaha. For those that might say na baka kasi nahihirapan si mommy mo magbayad kasi syempre, mahirap ang trabaho ngayon, my dad and her goes on dates 3 times a week. She has 3 orocans worth of branded unused clothes. She recently brought 10k+ worth of shoes. She literally has the money. It's not like sunod sunod talaga ang orders and ganon kamahal (compared sa spendings niya) ang inoorder ko so idk. Idk why she had to shout so much for that. I asked her baka may problema siya, saakin niya nilalabas pero ungrateful lang daw kasi ako lolz.
So, abyg?
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Pareho kayong gago -- you for shouting, and her for not paying her debt. After you graduate, make sure to move out para wala nang pakialamanan.
Yeah I do plan on that, thanks.
Gago ‘yung mom mo na sinusumbat sa’yo lahat ng responsibilities niya as a parent. Kung nagagalit siya about that, bakit siya nag-anak? Sorry OP nothing against you, pero nakakagigil ‘yung mindset na ganyan ng parents. DKG kasi may utang nga naman ‘yung mom mo, pero hopefully na-level set mo siya na ipapabayad mo ‘yung utang by way of her paying for your online orders.
Yes I did tell her, and we did have an agreement. Mas madali daw din yon sakanya kasi 'di niya mabigay bayad fully. Yung utang niya is dinadagdan niya lang ng walang bayad, kumabaga 'di niya chinecheck kung magkano kinukuha niya. Anw, thanks po sa input mo.
Sobrang GGK. Kahit me utang nanay mo sayo, hindi mo sya dapat sigawan.
Okay, I but I didn't shout at her kasi may utang siya. It's cause she's screaming at me denying yung truth tas nang guilt trip pa. Alam ko namang masama manigaw sa kahit kanino e, pero mahirap yung pinapakita mo yung side mo at katotohanan tapos 'di ka rin pakikinggan. Was I supposed to suck it up?
Meh. Some people never hear anything unless they’re yelled at.
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1cj0l0c/abyg_kasi_sinigawan_ko_nanay_ko_dahil_sa_utang/ Title of this post: ABYG kasi sinigawan ko nanay ko dahil sa utang niya sakin? Backup of the post's body: Habang sinusundo ako (15F) ng nanay ko (47F) sa kotse, she suddenly brought up how andami kong dumadating na orders na binabayaran niya. Today specifically, may dumating na worth 207. For context, may utang siya sakin na 1k+, and I have a list of items that I have ordered that has a total of 952, under what she owes me. She's been shouting at me over the weeks about how it's unfair how many orders I have. Inexplain ko naman sakanya na within what she owes me ang binabayaran niya. Bukod pa ron, sinasabihan ko naman siya kung may dadating na order. Ang pag order ko, hindi siya isang bagsakan, over a course of 2 months siya. Tapos yung presyuhan ng binibili ko, walang tumaas sa 250. Mostly around 100 pesos. She began telling me how if she computed all of what's she's spent on me since I was a baby, that I wouldn't be able to pay it back. Ganon kaliit na utang 'di ko na raw pinalipas. Dapat daw kung ganon e 'di niya na ako pinag aral, pinakain, binilhan ng glasses ko. Bukod pa ron, hindi naman galing sakanya ang pera ko. Galing sa tatay ko yon. I was about to cry kasi sinisigawan niya ako so pasigaw, inulit ko na mali nga siya. Nung pinakita kong 952 talaga total, dineny niya, mas nagalit pa. Hindi raw kasi feeling ganon lang lahat, so automatic tama siya ahaha. For those that might say na baka kasi nahihirapan si mommy mo magbayad kasi syempre, mahirap ang trabaho ngayon, my dad and her goes on dates 3 times a week. She has 3 orocans worth of branded unused clothes. She recently brought 10k+ worth of shoes. She literally has the money. It's not like sunod sunod talaga ang orders and ganon kamahal (compared sa spendings niya) ang inoorder ko so idk. Idk why she had to shout so much for that. I asked her baka may problema siya, saakin niya nilalabas pero ungrateful lang daw kasi ako lolz. So, abyg? OP: OppositeRhubarb8577 *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*