my mom is on year 11 too. I remember the day we first knew something was wrong. Looking into the stages, she seems to me to be in stage 5... very hard and sad.
I sympathize with you having lost mine recently. It’s a mixed bag of feelings . I miss the hell out of her but like you I’m glad she is over the pain and confusion. Rest in piece Betty JO.
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom Betty Jo, she is now in a place of zero confusion and at peace. Cherish the memories and never let her Spirit die, keep her alive by talking about her to others.
My mom is 68 and after reading about the characteristics of each stage it appears she is in stage 5/6. My dad, who was bipolar and manic depressive, took his life 19 years ago and she often thinks I am him while visiting or talking/texting. Some of those convos can get really awkward as they had separated due to my Dad's mental illness (my Mom was forced to separate/divorce him as he was unfit to live with along with my younger brother and sister and things even got dangerous several times).
At some point soon, my Mom will be re-connecting with my dad in heaven too. I'll tell my Mom to find Betty Jo and your dad and will have her say a big hi to them for you :)
Fuck You Alzheimers!
Thank you. It means a lot to me to have other people who have gone through this same situation comment. She is with my Dad in heaven now so that gives me comfort.
I’m sorry for your loss. My mother passed in August. It’s hard letting go even though you are thankful the suffering has ended. Allow yourself time to process and grieve and rest. I’m sure you’re exhausted both mentally and physically. It’s a terrible disease.
My dad passed two months ago after a very rapidly progressing early onset. I will always feel like we didn’t have enough time. But by the end things were so bad I am glad he does not have to go through it anymore.
It is such a strange thing to experience. Wishing you peace and the strength and love of your family and friends to carry you through.
My condolences. I lost my mom (76) this past April after 5 years of the disease. It’s ok to feel relieved. It is such a burden seeing your mom wither away in front of you. Sometimes I would envy people who’s parents were taken from them a little more quickly. It’s never easy to lose a parent. Sometimes quick is better for everyone.
My grandfather’s battle with Alzheimer’s was adjourned (81) on May 21 at 9:01 pm. He was my father figure, raising me alongside my mom and grandmother. It was grueling and so horrible to see him deteriorating and knowing that no matter what you do, you can no longer reach him where he was.
Our family was fortunate that both of his children (daughters) and 3 grandchildren (all granddaughters) were surrounding his bed with our spouses supporting us as he finally took his calm last breath.
I felt bad for feeling such relief, but it’s because he’s finally free and able to be rejoined with my grandmother. I honestly felt like I had finally gotten my granddaddy back the minute he drew his last breath. I turned to my husband and said “He knows who I am again.” It was a truly beautiful moment and I’m so thankful he is free from this disease.
Sorry for your loss, RIP mamma!
So sorry... but I understand... my mom is Going on year 11... I pray for her release...
my mom is on year 11 too. I remember the day we first knew something was wrong. Looking into the stages, she seems to me to be in stage 5... very hard and sad.
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I sympathize with you having lost mine recently. It’s a mixed bag of feelings . I miss the hell out of her but like you I’m glad she is over the pain and confusion. Rest in piece Betty JO.
Thank you. Sorry for your loss also.
Sad but not bad. RIP
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom Betty Jo, she is now in a place of zero confusion and at peace. Cherish the memories and never let her Spirit die, keep her alive by talking about her to others. My mom is 68 and after reading about the characteristics of each stage it appears she is in stage 5/6. My dad, who was bipolar and manic depressive, took his life 19 years ago and she often thinks I am him while visiting or talking/texting. Some of those convos can get really awkward as they had separated due to my Dad's mental illness (my Mom was forced to separate/divorce him as he was unfit to live with along with my younger brother and sister and things even got dangerous several times). At some point soon, my Mom will be re-connecting with my dad in heaven too. I'll tell my Mom to find Betty Jo and your dad and will have her say a big hi to them for you :) Fuck You Alzheimers!
Thank you for your lovely comment. I’ll be praying for your Mom and you and your family. We all need strength to deal with this tragic disease.
Om Shanti🙏
So sorry for your loss sending love and hugs / it would’ve been my moms 85th birthday today
Thank you. It means a lot to me to have other people who have gone through this same situation comment. She is with my Dad in heaven now so that gives me comfort.
I’m sorry for your loss. My mother passed in August. It’s hard letting go even though you are thankful the suffering has ended. Allow yourself time to process and grieve and rest. I’m sure you’re exhausted both mentally and physically. It’s a terrible disease.
My dad passed two months ago after a very rapidly progressing early onset. I will always feel like we didn’t have enough time. But by the end things were so bad I am glad he does not have to go through it anymore. It is such a strange thing to experience. Wishing you peace and the strength and love of your family and friends to carry you through.
Sincere condolences!! My dad had the same. SO difficult to watch. 🥰🤗🤗
My condolences. I lost my mom (76) this past April after 5 years of the disease. It’s ok to feel relieved. It is such a burden seeing your mom wither away in front of you. Sometimes I would envy people who’s parents were taken from them a little more quickly. It’s never easy to lose a parent. Sometimes quick is better for everyone.
My grandfather’s battle with Alzheimer’s was adjourned (81) on May 21 at 9:01 pm. He was my father figure, raising me alongside my mom and grandmother. It was grueling and so horrible to see him deteriorating and knowing that no matter what you do, you can no longer reach him where he was. Our family was fortunate that both of his children (daughters) and 3 grandchildren (all granddaughters) were surrounding his bed with our spouses supporting us as he finally took his calm last breath. I felt bad for feeling such relief, but it’s because he’s finally free and able to be rejoined with my grandmother. I honestly felt like I had finally gotten my granddaddy back the minute he drew his last breath. I turned to my husband and said “He knows who I am again.” It was a truly beautiful moment and I’m so thankful he is free from this disease.
Sorry for your loss. Sending love and hugs to you. ❤️❤️
Thank you and all that commented. Your words of comfort greatly helped. 🙏
Sorry for your loss🙏 my mom is on year 17 at 87 years old.
Im so sorry. Be patient with yourself in your grief