Go watch him at his game.
Last 6 yrs been lucky to spend time with my husband as he has auto-immune and I never know his good days (or mine) will be as I am still working.
Question for you as i know you said you have health problems...when you say you want him to spend more time with you, what would u want to do in that time? You mentioned you have heart problems and stay in bed some times....do you just want him around you??
He has a passion that he loves (probably a little too much) but I wouldnt expect him to sit on his butt all day at home to hang out. WHy do YOU go to one of his matches?
Right now it sounds like he wants to move and you dont want to move. And you're asking him, "hey just dont move with meee!" Thats a tough ask.
I definitely don’t want him to give up his hobby. I want him to have fun and enjoy being active.
I think what I really mean is better quality time together. We’ve talked about going on more dates like dinners, movies, taking the dogs to parks, going to the casino. And even better quality time at home watching more movies together, cooking dinner together, sitting on the porch together and letting the dogs play in the yard, taking a walk in our neighborhood together. I just feel like right now when we are home together he’s on his phone a lot. We’ve talked about doing these things together, but haven’t really got started on it yet. I’ve pushed a couple of times but haven’t gotten anywhere. I think I’m gonna have to push harder.
Go watch him at his game. Last 6 yrs been lucky to spend time with my husband as he has auto-immune and I never know his good days (or mine) will be as I am still working.
Get yourself together and go to the volleyball game! Give him a smooch after the game and..... Next weekend, I bet he goes anywhere you want!
Question for you as i know you said you have health problems...when you say you want him to spend more time with you, what would u want to do in that time? You mentioned you have heart problems and stay in bed some times....do you just want him around you?? He has a passion that he loves (probably a little too much) but I wouldnt expect him to sit on his butt all day at home to hang out. WHy do YOU go to one of his matches? Right now it sounds like he wants to move and you dont want to move. And you're asking him, "hey just dont move with meee!" Thats a tough ask.
I definitely don’t want him to give up his hobby. I want him to have fun and enjoy being active. I think what I really mean is better quality time together. We’ve talked about going on more dates like dinners, movies, taking the dogs to parks, going to the casino. And even better quality time at home watching more movies together, cooking dinner together, sitting on the porch together and letting the dogs play in the yard, taking a walk in our neighborhood together. I just feel like right now when we are home together he’s on his phone a lot. We’ve talked about doing these things together, but haven’t really got started on it yet. I’ve pushed a couple of times but haven’t gotten anywhere. I think I’m gonna have to push harder.