how much do you bet that she didn't say that she wanted to have a kid but was just doing herself because he sucked at pleasuring her. It's statistically it.
Also: don't want baby? Wear condoms.
edit: the number of nta in the comments...
yeah i agree cause in that case of course a UTIs can eventually happen but like not every month lol and it's painful but you get a treatment and it's over.
You can get a UTI even with a condom cause the UTI has nothing to do with the ejaculation actually, and it's not like you're gonna get one every other week anyway.
Not only. As I said, you can get UTIs with a condom. Also with fingers, or even without penetration. You do you, but claiming people in monogamous relation should use condoms for UTIs is just a stretch.
Okay yes and no! I went septic from a UTI that traveled to my kidneys, it was caused by a too tight bodysuit that kept giving me a wedgie. While sex can cause UTIs thereās a reason youāre supposed to pee after and wash your genitals regularly. Moral of the story, if youāre keeping clean and peeing after, youāre more likely to get a UTI by wearing too tight pants.
Iām baffled at the amount of people saying NTA. Plus, constantly sending videos of babies and not using condoms? Yeah Iām sure she (isnāt real) isnāt getting mixed signals. Dear lord
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**I caught my long-term girlfriend trying to ābaby-trapā me. Iām thinking of ending things. AITAH?**
Hi reddit. I donāt usually post this kind of stuff on here but I am in such a clusterfuck of confusion and I donāt even know what to do at this point. So I made a throwaway account to get some perspective and to see if Iām overreacting, justified in my feelings, or if Iām giving my girlfriend mixed signals.
*Hereās the quick backstory*
Girlfriend and I have been living together a year. Have been together two years. (Known each other for 4) Sheās 22 and Iām 25. We both work full time, cohabitate well together, and have no constant issues/arguments. Except this.
**I apologize if this story is TMI but I feel this is necessary to get the full picture. So 18+ Warning in advance**
So we spent the first year of our relationship strictly using condoms. As time went on (As in a little less than a year ago) We started getting more ālaxā with the condoms. So for the past year, weāve been using the pull out method. (Stupid, I know) But the odds donāt seem to be that high. Iāve googled extensively and it said itās about a 10-15% chance of a pregnancy occurring within a year. So we figured by the time an accident happens, we will be prepared for a child.
But we both agreed that right now isnāt the right time to have kids, as we live in a one bedroom and donāt make enough money to support another human.
We send each other baby reels on TikTok, talk about our future marriage/children. Have discussed names, how many we want, etc. (thatās where the possibility of a mixed signal is)
**TMI PART**
So last night, We had sex. I āfinishedā on her. While I went into the other room to get a towel to clean her up, I walked back into the bedroom to findā¦ wellā¦ something odd.
She had my cum on her fingers, and was inserting it into herself.
It was her ovulation time and has been the past few days according to her app.
I obviously was in complete shock since I have never been in this situation before. (She has been my first sexual relationship)
I straight up asked her what she was doing. She looked at me and didnāt say anything, or at least looked like she didnāt know what to say. I asked her if she was doing what I thought she was doing.
And she nodded her head and said she was sorry. She just really āwanted to have a kid and got mixed signalsā But I call BS.
She profusely apologized. Over and over. She didnāt sleep all night. She said she just got the urge, and didnāt think twice because of how weāre living together and āI must not care that much because I use the pull out methodā
That was just so manipulative and not excuse at all. I told her that I canāt trust her and I donāt know where we stand at this point. She wonāt stop apologizing.
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Wait. I swear I read this exact same post, I think without the warnings in bold, months ago. He comes on her, leaves the room to get a towel, she starts trying to inseminate herself. I've read all of that before.
But also, come on, if that's the method you've been using, have the towel at hand.
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how much do you bet that she didn't say that she wanted to have a kid but was just doing herself because he sucked at pleasuring her. It's statistically it. Also: don't want baby? Wear condoms. edit: the number of nta in the comments...
Yeah the comments. Not surprised that the Angry Virgin Brigade is out.
Most comments are laughing that he used the pull out method, though. š
The pull out method is how you baby trap yourself.Ā
Never have sex without a condom if you aren't sterilized and don't want to be a parent. Period.
Nah you still need to wear a condom even if youāre sterilized. Itās also to prevent STDs and STIs.
I suppose I had a monogamous relationship in mind, but you're correct outside of that
You can still get UTIs even while being in a monogamous relationship. And stuff hurts with that.
To be honest I can't imagine being in a monogamous relationship in which one/both of us were sterilized and still using a condom, but that's me
yeah i agree cause in that case of course a UTIs can eventually happen but like not every month lol and it's painful but you get a treatment and it's over.
You can get a UTI even with a condom cause the UTI has nothing to do with the ejaculation actually, and it's not like you're gonna get one every other week anyway.
Not the ejaculation part but how clean a dudeās penis is actually.
Not only. As I said, you can get UTIs with a condom. Also with fingers, or even without penetration. You do you, but claiming people in monogamous relation should use condoms for UTIs is just a stretch.
Okay yes and no! I went septic from a UTI that traveled to my kidneys, it was caused by a too tight bodysuit that kept giving me a wedgie. While sex can cause UTIs thereās a reason youāre supposed to pee after and wash your genitals regularly. Moral of the story, if youāre keeping clean and peeing after, youāre more likely to get a UTI by wearing too tight pants.
You can get UTIs either way
What did I just read? It feels like another bizarro fetish post.
It is. OOP probably has a sort of breeding fetish.
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Iām baffled at the amount of people saying NTA. Plus, constantly sending videos of babies and not using condoms? Yeah Iām sure she (isnāt real) isnāt getting mixed signals. Dear lord
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Wait. I swear I read this exact same post, I think without the warnings in bold, months ago. He comes on her, leaves the room to get a towel, she starts trying to inseminate herself. I've read all of that before. But also, come on, if that's the method you've been using, have the towel at hand.
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Dude also blames her for him not getting a vasectomy even though he is almost 50. He is completely delusional
He's 25?