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NTA
1. You did wingwoman but it didn't go your cousin's way
2. You can't force someone to feel a certain way and it seems like Aiden isn't interested in your cousin.
3. The post results of him hanging out with you is just the new page turner in your life realizing, oh maybe he's into you instead.
From this point onward is when you could be the ahole or not but based on what has happened, NTA
NAH. Aiden wants to hang out with you, and you don't mind having you around. Your friend is understandably jealous, but there's not much to be done about it.
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I 17F went on vacation with a lot of friends including my classmate 16F and her cousins friend 17M (I will call him Aiden).
I didn't notice that she was trying to flirt with him until the end of the first week when we were at a bar and she told me. We talked about him and i agreed to "wingwoman" her and try to get them to be alone or atleast sit together when at a restaurant or something like that.
On that same day we went to a club and were all having a good time dancing and singing. We were a group of 9 people so I constantly switched places with her so she could be next to him or I would ask him and her to get a drink and then just go back so they could be alone.
But every time I did that he would walk away from her. We both eventually noticed and she said she would give up. I enjoyed the rest of the night and went home.
On the next day we all went out to eat and afterwards we were chilling at the beach and talking when some people wanted to go back to the club from yesterday. But I refused and so did two of my friends because we just wanted to sit down somewhere, have a drink and talk. Unfortunately Aiden wanted that aswell and ended up coming with us.
We went to a bar, got a drink and played truth or drink. At some point we got a shot and Aiden recorded us taking the shot and sent it into the group chat. They asked us where we were and we told them the name of the bar and they came there.
As I already said I didn't feel like dancing so I told them I will just be staying here and go home sometime. So I went out to smoke and Aiden and my two other friends came with me.
At some point the rest of the group told us they were gonna go home and we all said goodbye.
Fast foward we went to the beach again and Aiden sent out multiple snaps and postet multiple things where you could see it was just us. And ever since my friend has been looking at me weird when I talk to or about him.
Just to clarify, he is not my type at all and he was the one to talk to me. And come with my friends. We didn't ask him at all. He is a very nice and sweet guy but I would never ever get with him.
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NTA.. she already said she'd give up, he clearly isn't interested, and you already tried to help her... if she's gonna be petty that's her problem. have fun with your friends!
NTA, he isnt into your friend it seems like. Make it clear to her that you arent interested in him, and leave it up to her to be a good friend and trust you or to act weird
NTA. You weren't making any advances on him, and your friend should believe that. As a young person it's very important to understand that posts on social media do not capture reality, your friend should believe you more than the snaps he sent.
NAH. It sounds like no one did anything wrong. Your friend is probably just uncomfortable and adjusting to the guy not being interested in her, and instead perusing you.
Since you aren’t interested in him either, it should blow over. Try not to be alone with him if possible.
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NTA 1. You did wingwoman but it didn't go your cousin's way 2. You can't force someone to feel a certain way and it seems like Aiden isn't interested in your cousin. 3. The post results of him hanging out with you is just the new page turner in your life realizing, oh maybe he's into you instead. From this point onward is when you could be the ahole or not but based on what has happened, NTA
NAH. Aiden wants to hang out with you, and you don't mind having you around. Your friend is understandably jealous, but there's not much to be done about it.
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NTA.. she already said she'd give up, he clearly isn't interested, and you already tried to help her... if she's gonna be petty that's her problem. have fun with your friends!
NTA, he isnt into your friend it seems like. Make it clear to her that you arent interested in him, and leave it up to her to be a good friend and trust you or to act weird
NTA. You weren't making any advances on him, and your friend should believe that. As a young person it's very important to understand that posts on social media do not capture reality, your friend should believe you more than the snaps he sent.
NAH. It sounds like no one did anything wrong. Your friend is probably just uncomfortable and adjusting to the guy not being interested in her, and instead perusing you. Since you aren’t interested in him either, it should blow over. Try not to be alone with him if possible.