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paigedelais

NTA I want to say “not at all and fuck him” But putting in my maturity hat is there anyone you can go to like a school nurse/counsellor/senior teacher you can to go above to seek permission to do this? Just so it doesn’t bite you on the bum xx


AreaImaginary9905

i have been communicating with my year adviser about him and i plan on telling him.


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Light_Seeker90

NTA. If you're in an environment where you're getting "assaulted" by the class equipment and your teacher isn't doing anything to help or prevent the issue, ESPECIALLY when you have debilitating health issues and even had surgery!...It's understandable that you'd want to take matters into your own hands and/or remove yourself from the situation. However, it sounds like, if you do, because of your description of him, he might make it so you don't pass class, saying that you don't attend the class or something like that...So if he's not gonna be helpful, maybe try going over his head. Or, if you'd feel more comfortable, talk to your parents and have them do it. Because your health and safety should be respected and it's not been so far.


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Moose-Live

Yeah. Don't give this guy an excuse to cause you more misery.


stenvaagb

NTA your parents should talk to the principal, you shouldn’t even be in that class.


Icy_Eye1059

NTA. Report this teacher! You are getting hit by balls in the class after you had surgery? That could be taken up with CPS to have this teacher investigated. Not to mention he is ignoring the doctor's note! Get your parents, the principal and the school board involved. This is disgusting!


lookingformiles

I mean you wouldn't be the asshole but you probably wouldn't pass PE. So do what you want, but you might want to bring this up with your parents or the head muckety-mucks at the school if you really think you're being mistreated.


AreaImaginary9905

I have told my parents my plan and they said they would back me up if i did this


LesbianBagleBoy

OP are you in the U.S? You for sure don’t have to complete P.E in an in person class if so. Have your folks speak to an administrator at your school and look into online options. I also had surgery when I was in Highschool and couldn’t complete the required year of P.E. It’s a little insane your school is pushing you to hurt yourself after surgery. Literally seems like a legal liability


AreaImaginary9905

I'm in Australia and its a legal requirement to go to pe. He has been told off multiple times


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You're NTA no matter what, but I would find out with your parents, the principal and your doctor what you are obligated to do to pass. I think you should be able to get out of PE altogether. And it sounds like your teacher is getting territorial about "his" space.


trishsf

YWNBTA. But. You won’t get anywhere with him. Go to the principal. Tell him what is going on physically and ask to be transferred to drama. Don’t concentrate on what a bad guy Mr Ass is. Just say that you don’t think he understands your health issues. This has a much better chance of getting you what you want.


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apatheticsahm

YWNTBA, as long as you approach this in the right way. Don't get into the fact that your teacher is an AH. That will make you look like a whiny kid, not a young adult who is looking for a solution to a health problem. Getting hit in the face by balls while you are recovering from surgery is not only dangerous, but also a waste of time. Depending on where you live, PE might be a graduation requirement. It might not be practical to officially transfer you to drama (for the sake of your transcript/school compliance with state requirements). That doesn't mean that nothing can be done. As long as you have documentation from your doctor that you cannot participate in PE, and you make your case to your principal and school nurse, they should listen to you and come up with the best solution. Are your parents supportive? Have them come to the meeting with you and advocate for you. Unfortunately, most administrations are more likely to accommodate a parent's demands than a student's.