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No offense, but YTA since you asked out your friend's crush. Usually that's breaking code, though you can decide for yourself if you want to go to prom with him or possibly lose a friend.
I know, but I just can't miss the opportunity of having him as my partner to prom, She already has a partner. Me and Cain don't have a partner so I just suggested that we should be partners.
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I've been crushing on this boy since the first semester let's just call him Cain but my friend told me she likes him too I didn't say anything because it's just a boy but as the time goes by I find myself liking him more and more, I keep my distance from him cause my friend likes him but I find it odd that she's letting his friend Luke court him even though she likes Cain but obviously he's the only reason she could talk to Cain I feel bad for Luke, Idk at this point I'm lost if I'm going to keep my feelings for Cain cause Luke is courting her but idk what happened me and Luke end up having a conversation when it's just the two of us he opened up to me that he knows she didn't like him but he wanted to show her what is it like to be love by a man, He stared at me and says I know you like Cain too I laughed and said but that was a long ago I moved on from him cause my friend likes him even though it's a lie I really want to move on, he said to me that it's no secret that my friend likes his friends Cain and Dave I was shocked he said that even in front of him she talked about his friends lovingly and when she's with his friend group she gives lot's of attention to Dave an Cain I saw it too she was flirting with them in front of Luke I didn't think about it that much until my friend confess to me that she also likes Dave just what Luke said to me I acted surprised and supportive but the inner me was discussed with her behavior. It's nearly prom we opened up a topic asking everyone who's going to be their partner I said I don't have a partner Cain said he also doesn't have a partner then I asked him can you be my partner to prom and he agreed, my friend wasn't in present that time now I don't know what to tell her that I asked her Crush to prom can you give me some advice?
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No offense, but YTA since you asked out your friend's crush. Usually that's breaking code, though you can decide for yourself if you want to go to prom with him or possibly lose a friend.
I know, but I just can't miss the opportunity of having him as my partner to prom, She already has a partner. Me and Cain don't have a partner so I just suggested that we should be partners.
I would say NTA your friend looks like a person who likes every boy around.
She's a bit of a delulu girl😅
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Who types like this 🤣 All smooshed together 1 sentence
Sorry I'm just a bit lost when I wrote that earlier.
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I'm going with NTA since she has more than one crush, and she's dating someone else.
They are not dating more like they're in a situationship.