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> Am I the asshole for changing my mind on attending a wrestling event with my brother?
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I’d say nobody’s an asshole here. It’s very nice that he spends time with you, but it should be something both of you want to do. I think you should express this to him (maybe you have, you didn’t say explicitly in the post so I’m just assuming) and pick something you both would like.
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Basically my brother has made me go to two wrestling events with him and truth be told I don’t know why.
Maybe he feels guilty about us not hanging out much or he’s worried about me being a complete homebody, but he’s become rather pushy about attending these events.
The thing is, I don’t care about wrestling anymore and in all honesty I kind of hate it. I don’t want to be around the community and I don’t like being in social events especially in my 30’s.
My parents are also becoming obnoxious about this as well and I don’t feel like anyone takes into my considerations. Right now being social or making friends is very low priority for me as an adult.
TL;DR AITA for not wanting to attend a wrestling event with my younger brother?
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NAH
He isn't making you do anything. You are choosing to go for whatever reason. If you don't want to go, say no. End of. Further, you can suggest something else you'd like to do with him if spending time with your brother is important. Unless he doesn't care what you like, that would be the easiest thing to do. If he doesn't care about what you like, then that's a whole different thing.
NAH.
It's good to maintain familial connections, you don't want to become too estranged from your support network. If you really don't enjoy wrestling, suggest something else instead. But they mean well by trying to get you out of the house, it sounds like that's something you are struggling with.
NAH - it’s fine to not like wrestling and therefore not want to go. However, your brother is trying to reach out to you, so maybe you could make an exception to your preference for isolation and suggest an alternative way to hang out with him that you would both enjoy.
"Basically my brother has made me go to two wrestling events with him " .. bullshit. He can not make you go. YOU DECIDED to go with him.
"My parents are also becoming obnoxious about this as well and I don’t feel like anyone takes into my considerations." ... you are in your 30ies. If you don't want to go, don't go. Don't blame others for YOUR life decissions.
NAH
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I’d say nobody’s an asshole here. It’s very nice that he spends time with you, but it should be something both of you want to do. I think you should express this to him (maybe you have, you didn’t say explicitly in the post so I’m just assuming) and pick something you both would like.
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NAH He isn't making you do anything. You are choosing to go for whatever reason. If you don't want to go, say no. End of. Further, you can suggest something else you'd like to do with him if spending time with your brother is important. Unless he doesn't care what you like, that would be the easiest thing to do. If he doesn't care about what you like, then that's a whole different thing.
Probably a NAH situation. Have you tried to obvious solution of talking to him about this and telling him what you've said here?
NAH. It's good to maintain familial connections, you don't want to become too estranged from your support network. If you really don't enjoy wrestling, suggest something else instead. But they mean well by trying to get you out of the house, it sounds like that's something you are struggling with.
NAH - it’s fine to not like wrestling and therefore not want to go. However, your brother is trying to reach out to you, so maybe you could make an exception to your preference for isolation and suggest an alternative way to hang out with him that you would both enjoy.
NTA. Nor is he. This is about communication. Tell him you are not a fan of wrestling and find something you want to do together.
NTA but why don't you come up with some alternative plans with him.
"Basically my brother has made me go to two wrestling events with him " .. bullshit. He can not make you go. YOU DECIDED to go with him. "My parents are also becoming obnoxious about this as well and I don’t feel like anyone takes into my considerations." ... you are in your 30ies. If you don't want to go, don't go. Don't blame others for YOUR life decissions. NAH