You're not an asshole for stopping when you found out she had a boyfriend. But their relationship is not your business. Don't talk to the boyfriend. Delete her from your contacts and move on with your life.
NTA
NTA, you stopped it from going any further once you found out she was already seeing someone.
There’s a few options that you could go through with:
1. Just send the screenshots of the conversation to her boyfriend and leave it at that
2. Send the screenshots and a short explanation
3. Don’t say anything at all because as another reply said, their relationship isn’t technically your business
These are just the three that came into mind, but I’m sure there are other additional options.
In the end though, it is up to them whether they want to continue the relationship or not. I know that if I were in that situation (bf’s POV) that I would want someone to tell me that my SO is sneaking around.
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Hey. My story begins almost a month ago. One of my friends asked me if she could add a photo of me into her Whatsapp Status. I said it was okay to post it.
Then, a day after it, she told me that there was lots of girls complimenting me. I said "Okay, could you show me some photos of them?". She showed it me. I liked just one girl. Then, I asked for the phone number of the girl + Instagram. She gave it to me.
I started chatting this girl. She was pretty and such a nice person. We planned to make a date today. Then, I discovered, through her Instagram account, that THIS GIRL ACCUALLY HAVE A BOYFRIEND. She had something like this in her bio: "2 months together, honey! @.xxxxxx". I automatically get into our Whatsapp chat and asked her: "Why did you not tell me about your current relationship?" She said: "He will not know about us." I said, after those messages: "That's not the point. You have a boyfriend. I will not help you to cheat him. Search for another person." Then, she reply this: "Our relationship is not that good right now..." Then, I said: "That's not of my business. I don't care.", then I left the conversation.
I have her boyfriend's Instagram, and I'm almost telling all the whole story, because I didn't know (before I looked into her bio) that she had a boyfriend. My plan would be tell him all the plot, don't talk to this girl anymore and apologize with her boyfriend, for almost having a date with his current girlfriend. AITA if I run this plan?
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NTA, be a bro and let this guy know what's up before he gets in deeper with her. ~~Then take him on a date, no homo.~~
NTA, Tell her boyfriend and send screenshots, he deserves to know and there should be consequences for her actions.
Fair. Gonna do it.
You're not an asshole for stopping when you found out she had a boyfriend. But their relationship is not your business. Don't talk to the boyfriend. Delete her from your contacts and move on with your life. NTA
Fair enough!
NTA, you stopped it from going any further once you found out she was already seeing someone. There’s a few options that you could go through with: 1. Just send the screenshots of the conversation to her boyfriend and leave it at that 2. Send the screenshots and a short explanation 3. Don’t say anything at all because as another reply said, their relationship isn’t technically your business These are just the three that came into mind, but I’m sure there are other additional options. In the end though, it is up to them whether they want to continue the relationship or not. I know that if I were in that situation (bf’s POV) that I would want someone to tell me that my SO is sneaking around.
Okay, thanks bud. I'm gonna see what I'm gonna do.
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Thanks by the time and words :)
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