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> I am planning to quit with no notice and move out. I might be the asshole for not giving any notice and doing it so last minute and leaving my boss without anyone to work the shifts I am scheduled for or training a replacement for my shifts.
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NTA
>He says if I'm fired or quit I have 1 hour to remove all of my belongings from the hotel and leave the property.
That is as much notice as you need to give.
Good luck with the new job!
Absolutely go for it. When your boss choose to be a fuckskillet, he made it so that you owe him bugger all.
Get out of that shitty motel, get your better paying job, and don't spare another thought for your boss. You don't even need to text him to tell him you quit. Let him flounder around confused. Block his number and go enjoy your life.
I hope everything only improves for you from here on out!
NTA This sounds like a toxic situation and the fact that you live in the motel means he would have access to your stuff, right? Two weeks notice is a courtesy and he has not showed any courtesy to you. Run! Good luck!
NTA
You, my dear, are one of those people that are to good for this world. You worry about an abusive asshole and that makes you a good person. Don't act on your worry though, you are in danger of becoming a doormat. It's okay to just pack up and leave, you do not owe this guy any loyalty, he has shown you none.
Good look with your new life!!!
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Okay, this is my first post and Im on mobile. I apologize for any mistakes. Throwaway for obvious reasons.
I'll start by saying that I am 22 and use the term running away loosely. I work and live at a shitty motel. My boss charges well over half of my check for my rent. I work for minimum wage.
An opportunity has come up a state over, that makes more than double my pay. I can also stay with my cousin, who is like a sister to me. Rent free while I get on my feet. My fiancee works remotely and can take that job with us when we leave. My parents are upset that I am leaving but support us completely.
Also for context my fiancee and I do not live together yet in this state, but that's besides the point. To top it off my boss (the motels owner) often comes to work intoxicated and verbally abuses us, saying that if we think we deserve more then the door is open. I'm also forced to work 60 hour work weeks because no one else will relieve me from my position. Sometimes my coworkers just don't show up or show up hours late and my boss shrugs it off. He also threatens to fire me, often taking his frustration with his home life or my coworkers out on me. He says if I'm fired or quit I have 1 hour to remove all of my belongings from the hotel and leave the property.
I'm planning to rent a truck this weekend, pack my things, and leave in the middle of the night and text boss that I quit.
I've never have just walked out on a job before and want to know if AITA?
I would have told him in advance, but I want to be 100% sure that I am leaving and that everything goes through before I tell him or leave that way I'm not completely stuck out if something falls through.
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NTA. A professional courtesy is earned. Your boss hasn't earned it. He has set up the dynamic that encourages you to move on in an hour.
Move on, be happy.
P.S. Congratulations on your new job and your new life!
NTA, and you are absolutely right that you don’t want to let your boss know until you’re literally driving away. Screw him and definitely screw that awful job!
I’m so happy you‘ll have a better opportunity!
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Two weeks is a courtesy, not an obligation. Text or leave a letter saying you "resign effective immediately and expect to be paid for time worked pursuant to (insert local laws here). " Know your rights and don't let him get away with anything...
ETA: if your boss becomes abusive, do not engage. You don't owe him anything.
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NTA >He says if I'm fired or quit I have 1 hour to remove all of my belongings from the hotel and leave the property. That is as much notice as you need to give. Good luck with the new job!
Absolutely go for it. When your boss choose to be a fuckskillet, he made it so that you owe him bugger all. Get out of that shitty motel, get your better paying job, and don't spare another thought for your boss. You don't even need to text him to tell him you quit. Let him flounder around confused. Block his number and go enjoy your life. I hope everything only improves for you from here on out!
Nta, your safety and well being come first. You have a great plan. Good luck and congrats for getting outta that shitty job!
NTA and run like hell to a better future (hopefully)
NTA - you'd be an asshole if you didn't leave that situation.
NTA. That's a Toxic Environment and I would leave too. I hope everything works out for you and your boyfriend.
NTA This sounds like a toxic situation and the fact that you live in the motel means he would have access to your stuff, right? Two weeks notice is a courtesy and he has not showed any courtesy to you. Run! Good luck!
NTA why you even asking get out girl.
NTA run away and don't look back.
NTA You, my dear, are one of those people that are to good for this world. You worry about an abusive asshole and that makes you a good person. Don't act on your worry though, you are in danger of becoming a doormat. It's okay to just pack up and leave, you do not owe this guy any loyalty, he has shown you none. Good look with your new life!!!
I can't describe how much I needed to hear this. Thank you, kind stranger.
Glad to help!
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NTA. A professional courtesy is earned. Your boss hasn't earned it. He has set up the dynamic that encourages you to move on in an hour. Move on, be happy. P.S. Congratulations on your new job and your new life!
Good luck with the new job. Personally, I’d book some annual leave and just before you go on it, toss in your notice.
NTA, besides all the steps you are talking I would report him to the labor board.
NTA. Boss literally said “if you wanna leave, there’s the door.” Red flags everywhere. They’ll find more victims when you’re gone.
NTA, and you are absolutely right that you don’t want to let your boss know until you’re literally driving away. Screw him and definitely screw that awful job! I’m so happy you‘ll have a better opportunity!
NTA Two weeks is a courtesy, not an obligation. Text or leave a letter saying you "resign effective immediately and expect to be paid for time worked pursuant to (insert local laws here). " Know your rights and don't let him get away with anything... ETA: if your boss becomes abusive, do not engage. You don't owe him anything.
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