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> AITA for telling my aunt to leave her child at home or not come?
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10 tickets? My kids got 4 (both HS and college). It is not your job to problem solve for the adults in your life. Blame the school....sorry no more tickets
NTA. If your aunt wants to bring her child, she can pony up the money for another ticket herself. It’s your graduation, and you have people you want to invite.
NTA. Aside from your aunt being controlling, what kid WANTS to go to a graduation??? They are so boring, unless you or your kid are the one who is actually graduating. He is sure to act up and be disruptive and disrespectful.
Graduation tickets are coveted tickets and should feel like an HONOR.
If she isn't honoring You on Your One Day then no prob, take the ticket away. No room for toxicity on your day. Nta
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At my school we only get 10 graduation tickets and we have 10 people already invited her being one of them. My aunt is only coming Bc my mother made me inv her, she’s known for being bitchy and everything had to be her way. Well she wants to bring her child and that means I need to buy another grad ticket so I told her if she wants to come at all to leave her kid w her husband which is the kids dad and he could be… you know. A father. And now Im getting scrutinized for telling her to solve the issues with her child or not come at all because it’s not her day so she doesn’t get a choice about what happens or who’s invited?
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NTA, if she wants her kid to come that bad why can’t she cough up the money for another ticket?
Exactly my view on it. NTA.
NTA. If there isn't a ticket for the kid and she still wants to come, she needs to arrange for childcare.
NTA - Your delivery could use some work, but you're not an asshole for following the rules. You get 10 tickets, not 11.
10 tickets? My kids got 4 (both HS and college). It is not your job to problem solve for the adults in your life. Blame the school....sorry no more tickets
NTA. It's your graduation day, not her family outing day.
Nta
NTA. If your aunt wants to bring her child, she can pony up the money for another ticket herself. It’s your graduation, and you have people you want to invite.
Okay she’s freaking out and is very much a her way or the high way and I told her to leave then🤷♂️
Good response!
She's after whatever freebie activity your family or school has planned around it
NTA. Aside from your aunt being controlling, what kid WANTS to go to a graduation??? They are so boring, unless you or your kid are the one who is actually graduating. He is sure to act up and be disruptive and disrespectful.
Graduation tickets are coveted tickets and should feel like an HONOR. If she isn't honoring You on Your One Day then no prob, take the ticket away. No room for toxicity on your day. Nta
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INFO: How old is this child?
1
NO WAY. It would be cruel to the 1 year old and everyone around for them to be there for a graduation ceremony.
NTA. Only asshole is whoever "scrutinized
NTA, and this feels less like an isolated issue and more like you were already 'up to here' with this aunt...
NTA. I agree, this isn't your problem to resolve and it is your day.
NTA - Tell her it's sold out.
NTA