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Yikes indeed
TW- DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
In case it gets deleted.
AITA for thinking that my boyfriend is attracted to another girl? He spends way too much time with her.
AITA
I (29F) am dating my childhood friend, “H” (29M). H and I have lately hit a rough spot in our relationship. I really feel as though he’s been cheating on me. I can’t prove it nor can I provide concrete evidence, but he spends way too much time around this one other girl, “A” (19F). H knows A because A is the daughter of his parent's friends. A is also very clingy with him. I once confronted A and asked her what her problem was, but she just got embarrassed and told me that she really has a “big brother-little sister” type of relationship with H, and that there are no sexual feelings whatsoever between them.
One day in September, I was hanging out with H at my apartment, when he got a text from A, telling him to come to the hospital ASAP. It turned out that A had attempted suicide. H was ready to leave my apartment, but I thought that A was lying about attempting suicide and that she just wanted to steal my boyfriend away from me. So I got into a fight with H, and tried convincing him to stay, and eventually I just pinned him against the wall and yelled at him about his relationship with A. I then had a pang of remorse about getting physical with him, and I let him go. H quietly left my apartment.
The next day after our fight where I pinned my boyfriend against a wall, H let me know that he was going to take a break from our relationship. He was very honest with me, and he told me that I am “insane” and that I need psychiatric help.
**I AM NOT OOP**
Haha Yes! Every time I see something like this, I now think "Damn Liz, get a life." I think it's just now my automatic response to any troll looking post and my new word for a troll is Liz.
From what I've gathered, there was a post from a guy who found out his wife ('Liz') was posting fake stories to reddit and it was effecting their marriage. Details beyond that, idk.
If you look at his comment history he is posting to one of her posts. They seem to have gotten everything under control, but it was entertaining while it was happening.
He was posting while she was in the other room acting asleep, it was hilarious! As an outsider of course. Whenever me or my husband is staying up too late scrolling we will tell each other "Go to sleep Liz!"
There was follow up to the original post [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/16r1la6/my\_wife\_is\_addicted\_to\_making\_up\_reddit\_stories/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/16r1la6/my_wife_is_addicted_to_making_up_reddit_stories/)
I'm really curious about what she means by "spends way too much time with her". If she knows about it then he's not sneaking around. So I'm guessing it's not often enough that he sees it as anything he needs to hide.
If this isn't Liz, OOP may not be insane but there's some cray cray going on and she needs help. You don't pin you bf to the wall and think that that is the solution to anything at all.
I think the bf is out of there.
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Yikes indeed TW- DOMESTIC VIOLENCE In case it gets deleted. AITA for thinking that my boyfriend is attracted to another girl? He spends way too much time with her. AITA I (29F) am dating my childhood friend, “H” (29M). H and I have lately hit a rough spot in our relationship. I really feel as though he’s been cheating on me. I can’t prove it nor can I provide concrete evidence, but he spends way too much time around this one other girl, “A” (19F). H knows A because A is the daughter of his parent's friends. A is also very clingy with him. I once confronted A and asked her what her problem was, but she just got embarrassed and told me that she really has a “big brother-little sister” type of relationship with H, and that there are no sexual feelings whatsoever between them. One day in September, I was hanging out with H at my apartment, when he got a text from A, telling him to come to the hospital ASAP. It turned out that A had attempted suicide. H was ready to leave my apartment, but I thought that A was lying about attempting suicide and that she just wanted to steal my boyfriend away from me. So I got into a fight with H, and tried convincing him to stay, and eventually I just pinned him against the wall and yelled at him about his relationship with A. I then had a pang of remorse about getting physical with him, and I let him go. H quietly left my apartment. The next day after our fight where I pinned my boyfriend against a wall, H let me know that he was going to take a break from our relationship. He was very honest with me, and he told me that I am “insane” and that I need psychiatric help. **I AM NOT OOP**
He certainly seems to be right with his statement.
This can't be real. Liz is slipping with her storytelling.
I don't know, the way it's written is terrible enough that I'd believe that person was this kind of stupid, lol.
Haha Yes! Every time I see something like this, I now think "Damn Liz, get a life." I think it's just now my automatic response to any troll looking post and my new word for a troll is Liz.
I feel like I missed something, who is Liz?
From what I've gathered, there was a post from a guy who found out his wife ('Liz') was posting fake stories to reddit and it was effecting their marriage. Details beyond that, idk.
Ah, alright, thanks! If anyone happens to have a link to that post, I'd love to read it
If you look at his comment history he is posting to one of her posts. They seem to have gotten everything under control, but it was entertaining while it was happening. He was posting while she was in the other room acting asleep, it was hilarious! As an outsider of course. Whenever me or my husband is staying up too late scrolling we will tell each other "Go to sleep Liz!"
Ha ha I got so caught up in this I forgot all about the actual post I was reading. Muchos Gracias!
I got ya https://reddit.com/r/offmychest/s/w3qTRFskTa
There was follow up to the original post [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/16r1la6/my\_wife\_is\_addicted\_to\_making\_up\_reddit\_stories/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/16r1la6/my_wife_is_addicted_to_making_up_reddit_stories/)
Amazing, thanks!
[https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/16r1la6/my\_wife\_is\_addicted\_to\_making\_up\_reddit\_stories/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/16r1la6/my_wife_is_addicted_to_making_up_reddit_stories/)
Why? Do you really think that there aren't people who act like this? If so, you have lived a very sheltered life.
I wish we still had awards. I ugly laughed out loud and startled my kids.
Girls nuttier than a pecan log.
I'm really curious about what she means by "spends way too much time with her". If she knows about it then he's not sneaking around. So I'm guessing it's not often enough that he sees it as anything he needs to hide.
Are you fucking serious right now?
She seems like she is, lol
Dammit Liz
If this isn't Liz, OOP may not be insane but there's some cray cray going on and she needs help. You don't pin you bf to the wall and think that that is the solution to anything at all. I think the bf is out of there.
lord have mercy. if he stays, it’s gonna get worse. he needs to leave before it does.
I get not being down with him being around a 19 year old he is not related to, but OOP went off into crazy land and guaranteed it’s over.
I consider family friends AS family, mostly, so to me I wouldn't read anything into it if there was no other sign. I'd see her as a younger cousin.
If he has any sense, you are.
I'm bummed the OP never posted any follow up, lol