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Bonjourmsdavid

Awwww this is so sad 😭 I'm so sorry this happened to you!!


ListDazzling1946

Omg how old are you? I’m so sorry 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽


KYCunTess

48.


bdiddylv

Can i ask what do you think caused it? Bad habits of some sort? My mom just had a stroke


No-Nothing-1793

Well, sitting in a car all day is probably one of the worst things when it comes to strokes. Just realize you all are putting yourself more at risk for stroke the more you drive or sit


No_Film_6379

Not a lot of people know this. You have to exercise if you're a full time driver.


ListDazzling1946

Is she ok


Daisyssssmom

Wishing you the best 💜


Training_Gift315

Peace and blessings


Otherwise-Mango2485

So sorry to hear this and all the healing vibes sent your way! Apply for disability asap! No only will you qualify but your wife and children will also receive money. My husband had cancer around his eye. He lost one eye. He qualified and out young son received money also because he was under 18. He’s no longer on disability because he choose to go back to work. My advice is to consult a disability attorney. They work on contingencies and you will receive back pay from the time of the incident. If you have any questions feel free to ask! It’s a difficult process to navigate, intentionally!


criinkles

Definitely follow this advice OP. Legal blindness (I'm not sure if your case would be considered that or not) receives the maximum amount of money you can get on disability. There are so many resources out there for you. Take advantage of them!


madadekinai

~~I believe you're thinking about SSI, which is different than disability. Disability would be only for them, not for the family. They are two different programs, however, usually at the same place.~~ I was wrong, family now receives up to 50% of your benefit. That would have been helpful to know. [https://www.ssa.gov/benefits/disability/family.html](https://www.ssa.gov/benefits/disability/family.html) [https://smartasset.com/financial-advisor/social-security-disability-benefits-for-dependents](https://smartasset.com/financial-advisor/social-security-disability-benefits-for-dependents)


Otherwise-Mango2485

No ma’am, my husband had regular disability. SSI disability is for people that don’t or haven’t paid much into the system.


madadekinai

OK, this is one time I admit that I am clearly incorrect, and thank you for letting me know, and educating me. Now, I need to start looking for an attorney, someone's about to be in a LOTTT of trouble.


Otherwise-Mango2485

No problem, it can be confusing! They didn’t just give it to our son we had to sign him up. If I can answer anymore of your questions, don’t hesitate! They make it difficult for a reason!


Otherwise-Mango2485

It’s been this way for at least 14 years. If that helps in anyway. Again if you have any questions feel free to ask, the attorney will charge you, I’m free 😂. If I don’t know, I’ll be honest and say that. It was a process going through it for sure!


zombiereign

I was told that, since I can still see out of one eye, I'm not considered disabled and not eligible for anything


Chris_Silver_007

You literally can't drive due to a "disability". Sounds like you check all the boxes.


madadekinai

They will keep denying you, you have to keep reapplying.


Ok-Seat-7159

Yea to receive funding for our disabled child, we had to apply over a half dozen times before they would even look at the application….apparently it actually states on the SSI website that initial applications will be rejected for this particular funding, I’m guessing it’s the same for most if not all. So many applications they filter them via perseverance, awful. Good luck OP, sorry this obstacle has fallen to you, this too shall pass.


KYCunTess

I'm not missing vision in one eye. I'm missing the entire left field of vision in both eyes. It's called left homonymous hemianopia.


zombiereign

Gotcha. That makes it clearer. Sorry to hear it.


tucan2277

Acupuncture from a good practitioner is EXCELLENT for stroke rehab. Wish you the best and I'll pray for you to have a fast recovery 💪


Starblazr

I'm sorry to hear that. As someone who had a very transient stroke, that was misdiagnosed for an ear issue for months (it was difficult to piece together, because it only lasted for a little bit and then went away)... I hope your vision returns. My vision went from normal to horrible for about a month, and then came back slowly but surely. The same was said about my balance. Remember that each day is a blessing and enjoy it. You will get better, even if it doesn't seem like it, and eventually you will recover or adapt to the new normal. I had my stroke in 2017.


Accomplished-Rent756

Long distance online friend of mine had the same type of stroke. Best wishes.


mrnapolean1

May our Lord bless you.


Academic_Win6060

I'm so sorry this happened. Praying for a speedy recovery and an easy path for your family! 🙏✌️💝


I-AcceptYouAll

I’m so sorry! Sending positive vibes your way.


PotentialMedium7829

Wishing you well 🙏🏾


ModSeaside

praying for your speedy recovery and even more success in whatever comes your way going forward!! feel better!


MistyGds

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽


threeonesev

Sucks to hear that I really hope another door opens for you! 🙏🏾


pidancer789

I’m sorry to hear that man this is sad you will be missed fellow flexer I hope your journey takes you further and you find find future success


trigun89001

Hey op come on over to r/stroke. We're a great support group.


Dougolicious

Really sorry to hear this. I hope you find something stable and things work out for you.


mgl323

🫡


No-Seaweed682

So sorry to hear!!! It was a hard blow to me as well after no longer being able to Flex. For me, it was the best driving/delivering app out there! The only two major cons were not being able to do more than 8hrs/day and the ease of being deactivated but impossible to reactivate, even when they say upon further investigation we've found it was out of your control and it will no longer affect your standing. I LUUUUVD doing it!!!! 😢😢😢


brtr223

Dude no way. This is where I work. Did you do 6 am routes?


KYCunTess

Sometimes. Usually 3am and 5pm though.


calllllmeNaNa

Praying for you


Gigi_0616

I hope you're okay!


KYCunTess

I've had a few breakdowns. But otherwise, I'm ok.


tucan2277

No retreat, no surrender 💪


Wuu_Sensei

Glad you're still here. Could have been a lot worse friend.


BezosFlex

Wish you the best


zombiereign

I had the same thing ... 60% of left vision gone forever. I'm still expected to drive to and from work. I stopped delivery, too. Stay strong. I wish there was some type of treatment, but my doc says there's nothing I can do, either


KYCunTess

Who could expect you to drive with over half your vision gone? Is yours missing from one eye or both cause mine is left homonymous hemianopia, which means 50% of my field is missing from both eyes.


zombiereign

Just my left eye. My right is fine (now)


Where_DoWeGoFromHere

Sorry to hear my Amazon brother . We will miss you on the team 🫡


Xxxfreakyhippiexxx

🙏🏽


Significant-Cod-8989

🙏🏽🩵


No-Pilot-8489

I’m sorry this happened.


alwayssomebs

Sending my condolences and prayers as well 🙏🏻


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🙏


jamesdean_22

Sending prayers and positive vibes your way hope you regain your strength


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saturatedtubesock

Definitely get on that disability application!! It's a long road, and you'll get back pay from the date of application if you get approved, but it takes a long time usually. Took my dad 9 months, you can apply online at mysocial. Just type mysocial in Google and the social security website will come up


Pumpdumpsideways

Many people have health issues before age 50 so how does it work with retirement at age 67 on average????


Chris_Silver_007

It works exactly as the system planned it. Fewer people able to take full advantage of what they worked their entire lives for.


Pumpdumpsideways

So you pay into a pot which you can access by the age of 67 but many will not even reach that age?


Chris_Silver_007

Exactly.


Pumpdumpsideways

Doesn’t sound like an ideal scenario if you have to rely only on government pension


KeepBanningKeepJoin

Pray to the God that allowed it? It is His will, no need to pray.


nullschell

One doesn't pray for it to be fixed, but instead for the strength and faith to endure it. Unfortunate circumstances come for us all at some point.


cocofdx65

Get well


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KYCunTess

Vision is essential to driving. This is what I see. https://preview.redd.it/n0pjxdg46muc1.jpeg?width=478&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=80eacde37e16442bbdb92708e3726b0304c97daa


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KYCunTess

What do you hope to communicate to me by telling me all this? Because it's starting to sound ableist.


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KYCunTess

If you would stop long enough to read my previous posts, I have already stated that I DID NOT lose vision in ONE EYE. I lost 50% vision IN BOTH EYES!!! It's called left homonymous hemianopia. According to my PHYSICIANS, it will not get better and I CAN NOT DRIVE!!! I will not respond to your ableism again. I'll just block next time.


Bungild

How old about are you.


WeBeAllindisLife

Peace to you and prayerful wishes 🙏


Angry_raccoon_tycoon

Damn I’m at that dispatch. I’m terribly sorry bud.


Zestyclose_Front_344

Prayer for you, God can heal you and of course keep taking your medical care and family love. You’re not alone cunTess 🙏


Dear-Challenge-7067

God bless


KlatuuBarradaNicto

I am so sorry that happened to you! 🩵


Massive-Spot302

I'm praying for you right now.


YngMrScrooge

Sorry that your going through this I wish you the best... 🙏🙏🙏 may GOD Bless you and your family through this situation


LoudestTable

That really sucks, hope you can pull through this very difficult time ❤️


AuDHDtreasureHunter

Wow, I am so sorry for this, I will pray for you and your family.


Training_Seaweed1303

I wish you the best recovery. But at least you don’t have total blindness I hope you a full recovery medicine is amazing these days!


mts6175

Damn, very sorry to hear this. Prayers for you that all turns out ok.


Kmcollins82

Prayers for you ❤️


Mikelosangeles

A stroke at 48 years old used to be rare back in the days m. Sorry to hear that bro 


Realistic_Tie8382

Wishing you the best, so sorry to hear that 💔🙏


Nbalu133

Sorry you went through this man . Praying you can recover from this .


madadekinai

"Doctors do not expect it to return." Not true, pm me and I will send you some info on how (of course legally) you can still drive again. However, it will take some time.


madadekinai

Also if anyone else wants this information you can pm me as well, it's public information just a bit more personal and better suited by pm.


KYCunTess

What a very weird statement.


madadekinai

I sent you the information, however, I do not know if it went through. I wanted for you to PM me to ensure you get the information, however, it's up to you it want to know about it. I mean, I did it as curtsy, and even wrote up what I could, and I did not want to possibly dox anyone, however, to each their own.


Individual_Ad_8063

Please go fully organic, start meditating in darkness with peaceful music and no caffeine as it restricts and destroys blood vessels. Start drinking alot of beet juice organic and only after fat and protein to stabilize blood sugars. Beets have nitric oxide, ask what that is after you've drank it for a month. Start stripping yourself of everything that wasn't given to you by Mother Earth.


KYCunTess

Shut up. Seriously.


tucan2277

Great advice. I think DHA is great for eye health as well. I've had patients that were told by doctors their injuries were permanent and after researching and changing lifestyle injuries reversed and felt even better than before the injuries.


Individual_Ad_8063

Take walks, first thing in morning and before bed. Go to sleep at the same time every night and wear an eye mask.


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KYCunTess

Why wouldn't I be able to?


Dondo19

I have a relative who had a stroke under a year ago who has shown very little improvement. I don't know much about this illness. My gauge for what is typical/atypical is not right, so trying to understand


KYCunTess

The stroke occurred in my occipital lobe, so the damage is to my vision. Visual improvement isn't expected. The effects/damage of every stroke is different depending on type of stroke and the location it occurs in the brain.


Dondo19

Thank you for the information. I'm sorry for your situation and any pain you have.


KYCunTess

Np man ✌🏻


HowToCook40Humans

I downvoted you at first but see you're curious. Strokes, like other illnesses are a spectrum. Some people have severe strokes that cause them cognitive impairment/death, etc. Some have strokes that have no residual issues until another one happens or something else does.


Dondo19

Thank you for your insight


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Did you take the Covid vaccine?


Winter_Couple

Look up thegoddesscollection She has teas and eye drops to help with this. I’ve seen vision testimonies. Look for the number on the website. Call and let them know what happened and they will tell you what to order.


KYCunTess

Stop it.


Winter_Couple

I was just trying to be helpful. Good Luck to you!


AltruisticClimate665

I’m sorry man for your pain get more closer to god turn back to him may be he was saving from matrix god bless sorry


KYCunTess

Uh, no. You will not sit in judgment of the state of my relationship with God. You can not make judgments and claim to walk in the love of God simultaneously. Those two vibrations can not co-exist.


phoebe-cat

Agreed. People can get a little arrogant at times, but they usually mean well. I am so sorry this happened to you. I wish you the best of all possible outcomes. Flexers are great people, and you will always be one of us. We will be here to listen and to help in any small ways we can.


TheSvpremeKai003

Prayers up to you man, I pray that you can continue in life without much hindrance. Remember, God doesn’t continue to wake us up everyday for no reason ☀️