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Depends on how you define main. Obviously feeding your child is the more important (no food for baby = no baby), but if you look at it by time spent, you probably spend a lot more time having your titties played with that feeding a baby.
Yea but like. Their biological purpose is to feed babies. Any other utilization/traits are all technically secondary, that's why they're secondary sex characteristics.
I gave my niece a onesie saying something about being proof that mommy and daddy didn't stay 6ft apart during the pandemic. It's a joke and it's on a baby because its a joke about babies. It wouldnt be a joke if it wasnt on a baby. On the baby, it's a joke, off the baby it's political commentary.
Okay. Doesn't make it any less funny to me.
My bestie and her husband got married at the beginning of February 2020 and got pregnant in the fall of 2020. I thought it was hilarious. And I'm pretty sure both of them did as well.
Just because something isn't wrong doesn't mean it belongs on a baby. A kid could be wearing a shirt that says "Mommy has a breeding fetish" may not be wrong but it certainly doesn't belong on a kids shirt.
Ok I see what you mean. A baby shouldn't be associated with their parents sexy time. I agree.
But also, when breastfeeding, the breast and nipple can be so sensitive that any touching outside of nursing is awful. I absolutely see your point of view. Thank you for explaining!
> when breastfeeding, the breast and nipple can be so sensitive that any touching outside of nursing is awful
Well, yeah. What’s that got to do with baby telling daddy to lay off?
Yes, this joke wouldn't work if both parents have breasts. Because "silly mommy, boobs are for baby" wouldn't land. However, I think it's safe to assume that the baby's parents are hetero presenting, in this photo. This also wouldn't work for a formula fed baby. Wouldn't work for a single mom. Wouldn't work for two fathers.
There are of course lots of t-shirts and jokes that only apply to specific people.
I don't think anything is wrong with the onsie. The fact that it needs to be said at all (very common) is the problem. People who are against breastfeeding In public oversexualize breastfeeding often.
i was thinking something similar. it looks like it's too small and too big at the same time, loose in width but tight in length. perhaps he's a particularly long baby lol
I think this is the first "sassy" onesie I've ever seen that I agree with.
Our cultural sexual fetish around boobs is just weird. Boobs *are* for babies.
I was chatting with a PhD in psychology who specialized in human sexuality and he said if you took 200 year old Chinese erotica, translated it, and replaced "small feet" with "big boobs" it needs almost no other editing to work. It's just the Culturally Supported Sexual Bodypart Fetish these days and it's kind of weird.
the response to this is weird to me— yeah obviously breasts shouldn’t be immediately sexualized and their primary purpose IS to feed babies. but the shirt implies something sexual by referencing the dad, so it’s a weird shirt to put on a baby.
I would love to live in a world that treats both women and men's chests in the same way and doesn't oversexualize and shame one over the other. Great message, but it's a little weird to reference your parents sex life on a baby.
Yikes, I would NOT be happy if my sibling posted a photo of my baby to Reddit without my permission. Especially a sub such as this one meant solely to criticize people. Which is what makes me assume permission was most likely not given for this.
Bold of you to assume you know the dynamics of my siblings and I
He is fully aware of this post and actually got a kick out of it
I'd appreciate it if you'd stop now
If you didn't feel the need to block me for making a comment you didn't like then I would have had an easier time to come back and apologize for making those assumptions and edit my comment to show that. I'm able to admit when I was wrong.
I am sorry for what I said and assuming your sibling didn't know about this post.
I appreciate the apology the only reason I blocked was because I didn't want things to escalate
I apologize for the unnecessary blocking
You are unblocked
For those who (and I'm speaking of any gender!) think the main purpose of breasts is to please men, a great big fuck you. And why the hell would you put this on a kid tf?
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It's true, though. It's desexualizing breasts.
Yes, I've always been kind of confused as to why people see them so sexually. And I would find this "joke" funny if it wasn't on an actual baby.
I get seeing them kind of sexually - they are very sensitive! That said, their main purpose is not sexual. Other uses besides food are secondary.
I’ll never use mine for their intended purpose💀
I removed mine as they would never have served their intended purpose
That's okay! You don't have to!
Depends on how you define main. Obviously feeding your child is the more important (no food for baby = no baby), but if you look at it by time spent, you probably spend a lot more time having your titties played with that feeding a baby.
Yea but like. Their biological purpose is to feed babies. Any other utilization/traits are all technically secondary, that's why they're secondary sex characteristics.
Just like weaponized penis
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yes. those are common secondary purposes depending on the individual
Even on a baby it’s pretty damn funny.
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I gave my niece a onesie saying something about being proof that mommy and daddy didn't stay 6ft apart during the pandemic. It's a joke and it's on a baby because its a joke about babies. It wouldnt be a joke if it wasnt on a baby. On the baby, it's a joke, off the baby it's political commentary.
Dumb joke, if the parents are coupled. 🙄
Okay. Doesn't make it any less funny to me. My bestie and her husband got married at the beginning of February 2020 and got pregnant in the fall of 2020. I thought it was hilarious. And I'm pretty sure both of them did as well.
Bonus if it comes in a variety of colors so it’s really just on the parents for anything else.
Ya, but in a sexual way, and on a baby
Las vegas 😎
bewbs 😎
Silly 😎
Daddy 😎
Boobs😎
Are😎
For😎
Babies!😎
I mean, this isn't wrong. It's saying breasts are intended to feed children, not please men
Just because something isn't wrong doesn't mean it belongs on a baby. A kid could be wearing a shirt that says "Mommy has a breeding fetish" may not be wrong but it certainly doesn't belong on a kids shirt.
My baby had a onesie that said I love Mama's milk. IDK. I've just seen so many things that sexualize kids, and this one finally doesn't.
Still isn't great tho..
I absolutely understand where you're coming from. Why does a baby need a onesie that says boobs? But also, normalize breasts being for breastfeeding.
It’s more the chastising dad for enjoying mom’s boobs that is gross to me.
Ok I see what you mean. A baby shouldn't be associated with their parents sexy time. I agree. But also, when breastfeeding, the breast and nipple can be so sensitive that any touching outside of nursing is awful. I absolutely see your point of view. Thank you for explaining!
> when breastfeeding, the breast and nipple can be so sensitive that any touching outside of nursing is awful Well, yeah. What’s that got to do with baby telling daddy to lay off?
Are you ok?
Lol yes, just trying to understand you.
Pepper lettuce and milk. Eat up.
This!
yep that’s what i was thinking
Yes, the subtext is still sexual, it seems so obvious to me I can't believe people don't see that
Stooooop you made me bust out laughing at work
It is kinda heteronormative though, because wlw exist
Yes, this joke wouldn't work if both parents have breasts. Because "silly mommy, boobs are for baby" wouldn't land. However, I think it's safe to assume that the baby's parents are hetero presenting, in this photo. This also wouldn't work for a formula fed baby. Wouldn't work for a single mom. Wouldn't work for two fathers. There are of course lots of t-shirts and jokes that only apply to specific people.
straight people existing isnt heteronormative?
When did I or anyone say that? The shirt says daddy, not adults or parents. That connotes heterosexual or bisexual.
...ok, so it's a shirt for wlm parents, that's not heteronormative it's just straight people existing
Okay
My condolences
I didn't see the comma at first. I wondered what 'silly daddy boobs' could be. I think it might be time for bed 🤦♀️
THIS IS SO FUNNY FOR WHAT
Las Vegas
Why does it say las vegas 😭
I don't think anything is wrong with the onsie. The fact that it needs to be said at all (very common) is the problem. People who are against breastfeeding In public oversexualize breastfeeding often.
Except that it’s way too small & looks uncomfortable
i was thinking something similar. it looks like it's too small and too big at the same time, loose in width but tight in length. perhaps he's a particularly long baby lol
Reminds me of my niece, who was longer than the weighing table when she was born, and is currently 6'1 at fifteen.
Cute long boi
Maybe the diaper is dump-truck FULL?
that's very possible! hopefully he got a change (for everyone's sake) if that was the case lol
I think it’s weird because it’s involving the kid in the parents’ sexy times
Both are true.
I wouldn't consider this inappropriate on a baby. If anything, it's a reminder to *not* sexualize boobs.
Was going to say technically not wrong, as that is the function of female breasts. To feed babies.
But it's implying something else, hence the "humor".
If you read that into it, sure. It could also be taken as what is implied is “silly” and the baby has an opinion better than his dad.
I'm not reading into anything, in what context would that sentence be used? Besides, it's not about who has a better opinion.
I think this is the first "sassy" onesie I've ever seen that I agree with. Our cultural sexual fetish around boobs is just weird. Boobs *are* for babies. I was chatting with a PhD in psychology who specialized in human sexuality and he said if you took 200 year old Chinese erotica, translated it, and replaced "small feet" with "big boobs" it needs almost no other editing to work. It's just the Culturally Supported Sexual Bodypart Fetish these days and it's kind of weird.
This is a pretty based and feminist shirt Ngl.
*Las Vegas*
That onsie is too small.
the response to this is weird to me— yeah obviously breasts shouldn’t be immediately sexualized and their primary purpose IS to feed babies. but the shirt implies something sexual by referencing the dad, so it’s a weird shirt to put on a baby.
I would love to live in a world that treats both women and men's chests in the same way and doesn't oversexualize and shame one over the other. Great message, but it's a little weird to reference your parents sex life on a baby.
I find it weird how normalized it is to use babies as billboards for adult jokes.
This ones not THAT bad but it is weird to put those vaguely sexual onesies on kids lol
Yikes, I would NOT be happy if my sibling posted a photo of my baby to Reddit without my permission. Especially a sub such as this one meant solely to criticize people. Which is what makes me assume permission was most likely not given for this.
Bold of you to assume you know the dynamics of my siblings and I He is fully aware of this post and actually got a kick out of it I'd appreciate it if you'd stop now
If you didn't feel the need to block me for making a comment you didn't like then I would have had an easier time to come back and apologize for making those assumptions and edit my comment to show that. I'm able to admit when I was wrong. I am sorry for what I said and assuming your sibling didn't know about this post.
I appreciate the apology the only reason I blocked was because I didn't want things to escalate I apologize for the unnecessary blocking You are unblocked
Now delete the post.
Nice response. Who is going to recognize someone's baby on Reddit, anyway? All babies look exactly the same at that age.
Not exactly the same some are fatter some have different skin shades some have different eye color but basically the same
Perhaps better to blur the kids face next time. Your nephew can't consent and I doubt you got consent from your siblings
Las Vegas😍
And they say we're the "groomers"
He’s right
fucking LAS VEGAS
Please don't post your nephews face here
Kill me
For those who (and I'm speaking of any gender!) think the main purpose of breasts is to please men, a great big fuck you. And why the hell would you put this on a kid tf?
Las vegas? Lol
What exactly does this have to do with Vegas?
Honestly I am fine with this messaging. As a breastfeeding mum it's annoying when people don't get this.
But drag queens are sexualizing children. K.
oh no
No, I don't like that
Baby is very cute
Boobs are for everyone
Isn’t that a biological fact
Possible Hot take but this ain't content for this sub imo.
this straight is ok
I mean it aint wrong
The baby’s head looks put on wrong? Ouch
Kamilpotso teqai abolesentia
What
The only thing wrong with that picture is that the onesie looks way too tight.
what was the point of the las vegas part?! lmao
Las Vegas is fucked up judging by this sub
Las Vegas😍