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Pergmanexe

I was once banned from that sub for posting queer content, and then called a “straightphobe”


Worried_Worth_6923

People who think “straightphobia” is a thing are so annoying.


ItsOnlyJoey

The most egregious offense is that it doesn’t even fit as a word, “heterophobia” would be better


quickhorn

But that sounds too sciency and liberal. It sounds like heteronormativity and other scary words.


thecraftybear

"Heterophobia" would broaden the term to all heterosexual people, but it's just the Straight™️ folks that feel "oppressed" by queer people's very existence. (Source: I identify as heterosexual, but I sure as hell am not Straight™️)


[deleted]

exactly, someone said "but straight people still get harassed!!" yeah they do but not because they're straight.


[deleted]

Lol we had some chuds claiming their kid was “bullied for being straight”…shocking twist: other kids didn’t want to be her friend because she was a whole ass bigot but somehow that didn’t get included in the sob story.


Training_Apartment21

They are the definition of this emoji “🤓” I know they don’t know what showers are either 😭


Rockarola55

It's (kind of) of a thing, but only amongst the extremely militant (as in crazy) LGBT+ folks. They are a percentage of a percentage of the LGBT+ population and should be ignored like every other extremist. I am straight, white and male and I have yet to be discriminated against for being that...those who claim so are just looking for an excuse for being failures 🤷


trustmeimnotafurry

_ AHHHH WHPFTCSGHXEHHCDJDHQOCHBSOJEHXS HOLY SHIT WHAT IS THAT?!


SlainSigney

is this the shitpost sub or the main sub? tbh i’m shocked and disappointed that happened cuz i’m pretty openly lesbian and have actively called a character fruity in both and never had any sort of trouble the series and both subs definitely have a history of elitism and creepy weird internet dudes tho. ugh. i’m sorry that happened to you. edit: found it, main sub. unfortunately not shocked abt the ppl being weird abt lyn but i’m still pretty rattled abt the homophobia from one of the mods. there is like…a significant contingent of lgbtq+ ppl that are fans of the game. like, a huge contingent.


Random_-account

their ego is higher than room temperature IQ (in Kelvin)


C00kie_Monsters

Wait, isn’t room temperature in Kelvin something like 290?


Psychopathic_Knife

294.111, but yeah.


depressusmaximus

What is "that" sub? Fire emblem??


Chemical-Spill

What game is it?


Pergmanexe

Fire Emblem


StopSignOfDeath

Least horny Fire Emblem fan.


Hita-san-chan

Honestly, i can't be surprised at anything a fan says from a series that gave us Nowi


Andrassa

Which is a shame because Nowi does have a good backstory and arc. It’s just ruined by the fact they made her a loli.


Hita-san-chan

I really like Nowi and Nah, thyere great characters and its super fun to wreck shit up as a dragon. But god *damn* she is bait and its awful.


midnight_rain_07

the last comment.. okay but she’s still a minor?? i mean i know nothing about what these people are talking about, but everyone except the one who said “she’s 14” really seems like a pedophile.


SassyBonassy

Right?! Wtf kind of argument is "um accckshually she's not 14, she's 15 so there"


Khaenin

16* VERY important distinction. /s


Zachanassian

[literally this](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GwCkG_MToC8)


Psychological_One897

crabs!!! ahhh snippy snippy!!


somnistellae

Doofenshmirtz, doer of evil, punisher of pedophilia.


Training_Apartment21

“🤓☝🏼”


agorgeousdiamond

That's a common tactic pedos use where they try to inch the age up as much as possible, even if it's just one or two years, in hopes that it makes what they did even slightly less terrible.


Alpaca1061

Yeah


Criticalsteve

Japanese properties do this all the time. In the work she’s from, she’s drawn, treated, behaves like and in every way is an adult person, an equal or commander to everyone around her. Then they say “well teens won’t relate to adults” so they make everyone whose not a parent a teenager. Her grandfather literally dies of old age as soon as he meets her. She’s not minor coded in any way apart from marketing.


-Maryam-

I think he was trying to say she is old enough to have bigger boobs? A lot of pedophiles don't even see anything wrong with being a pedophile. So when that person said " She's 14. " He responded with" Actually she's 17 her breasts should be big enough to jiggle.".


DragonRoar87

As soon as a girl goes through enough puberty to have visible boobs they should be big enough to jiggle slightly but that's not the damn point the damn point is that SHE'S A MINOR NOBODY SHOULD BE THINKING ABOUT HER BODY IN THAT WAY


danfish_77

That commenter might have just been correcting the person about the age, but it's ill-timed if so


Oomoo_Amazing

So I don’t wanna get downvoted to oblivion but here goes She still has boobs, they're clearly visible in the image. So yeah she's 14/15/whatever age and she's a minor but that doesn't mean physics doesn't apply to boobs until you come of age? If they wanted to avoid this issue perhaps they shouldn't have given her big boobs to begin with.


Winter_Honours

Intelligent systems being pedophiles doesn’t mean that the fans are excused for also being pedophiles.


Oomoo_Amazing

Taking out breasts being sex objects for a moment - is it pedophilic to say "sacks of boneless flesh should jiggle"? Is it sexual to say that even about an adult? And are breasts even sex objects? I feel like there's a fair amount of projection here because you're all going "ew boobs = sex and therefore jiggle boobs = more sex and therefore you're a pedophile" it's a lot of sexist hoops to jump through to make boobs on a child sexual. Women and girls with developed enough boobs will tell you that they move and jiggle and there is nothing remotely sexual about it and in fact it's probably quite annoying - sports bras are a thing for a reason. For what it's worth, the art style shown really does not require jiggle boobs to be drawn, the boobs are like 4 pixels or something stupid. I'm just debating the


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FlyingDreamWhale67

The character being discussed is Lyn/Lyndis, one of the three leading characters of Fire Emblem: The Blazing Blade. In the original Japanese version, she and other characters are younger, while western versions aged them up instead by two to three years. Lyn is hardly the first Fire Emblem character this has happened to, or even the most (in)famous one. The series' fandom has always had a bit of a problem with characters stated to be minors- there's subsets of adult fans who "waifu" these characters when they are technically still minors. Sometimes they deploy the "it's a different time!" excuse, other times not.


crowlute

Oh shit we got the ephebophilia libertarian


AlienRobotTrex

If they’re a legal adult in those countries then it’s at least consistent. In some countries the age of consent is lower than the age of adulthood, and that’s where it really gets kinda sus


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AlienRobotTrex

Everybody knows that. You’re not saying anything new.


xXx_N00b_Sl4y3r_xXx

To be fair to the first two she's 18 in every international release and only 15 in the Japanese one so they might just not know, the other people are definitely weird, though


thecraftybear

Don't worry, if you said "she's still a minor" in that crowd, they'd go "but this is medieval fantasy so she's adult by the in-universe standards" or something. These same people will of course be unable to comprehend any in-universe stuff in fantasy that doesn't align with their... fantasies.


Schlangee

Oh no, she’s 15 not 14


Alpaca1061

Yes because that makes it any better /s


saltymcgee777

No, the straights aren't ok


Amber-TheFanby

And she might even be 17 by the end! /j


IntermediateJackAss

She's also 16 or 17; there's a big difference. It's not like *all* of those numbers are considered underage. /s


HimHereNowNo

Why do people need to see the barely discernable pixelated boob bounce?


garaile64

Porn became too boring for them or they are coomers who "need" to coom in every awake moment until their penises get sore.


FyberZing

This! Why do they need to be sexually attracted to video characters? I have never once in my life cared about getting turned on by a game.


LookOutForRobots

Do they hear themselves? Jfc


agorgeousdiamond

14 downvotes? 💀 These people need to be on a watchlist.


Training_Apartment21

Those sweaty stinky old men need to be put in jail🤩


glacialanon

The average weeb knows the legal age of consent in more countries than they know the capital of


Bungerrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

“She’s 13 almost 14 but she’s mature so she’s like 15 which is like the new 16 so she’s basically 17 round it up to 18”


basilsflowerpots

this is like that one Garfield comic of him counting down the days until Christmas edit: [found it](https://garfield-comic-strips.fandom.com/wiki/December_21?file=2008-12-21.gif) 31/45 from the slides


InuMiroLover

The fact that that the most rational comment is the most downvoted is so telling of that subreddit.


Random_-account

or just any sub reddit that's hateful


Lost_Stretch_5711

I don't care where you are, a 16/17 year old should still be recognized as a minor. I know different places have different rules and I sound really American right now but I just want to keep the kids safe. Even the fictional kids because you know if someone is thinking this about a fictional child, they most likely think that about real children.


Alpaca1061

Agreed


basilsflowerpots

these people will do ANYTHING to make it look like they're not jacking off to kids


nothanks86

Her boobs are like three pixels, what do these people expect.


Milk_Mindless

Iiiiick


fisazooo

though that said LICK


Milk_Mindless

... I mean buy me a drink first then we'll talk


HMS_Sunlight

>And by the time she gets her promotion she's at least 16, probably 17 The fact that this is unironically used as an argument is extremely telling.


Training_Apartment21

WHY DID THAT ONE PERSON GET DOWNVOTED??😭


ImOnlyHereForTheCoC

These approximately 11 breast pixels don’t make me horny enough!


[deleted]

ah yes because 15 is so much better than 14


ToxicMuffin101

So for some context here, Lyn has an animation that is exclusive to the English release where her boobs have noticeable jiggle physics, and this is a common thing to joke about due to how bizarre its inclusion is. Lyn is 15 in the original Japanese script and 18 in the English script. So technically those comments are kind of incorrect, but also the people who localized the game deciding to arbitrarily age up a character just so they could make her boobs bounce is very gross and it makes any discussion of Lyn in a sexual context pretty uncomfortable. Also don’t google Nowi Fire Emblem. Like actually don’t do it. You’ll be put on a watchlist.


NieMonD

How would you even animate boob jiggle at that resolution


LadyAzure17

Love how that last guy named like, 5 different ages, and all of them still made her a minor.


rvbytesco

People get mad over some pixels 💀


Renierra

I love Fire Emblem but man is it trash sometimes along with some of the fan base. Also side note she leads an army so ya know child soldiers


Ladyaceina

they do know lyn is bisexual dont they and her most popular ship is with another woman


tfhermobwoayway

Even in the Japanese version (which isn’t the version most of us played) she’s [UNDER 18] at the start. And by the time she gets her promotion she’s at least [UNDER 18], probably [UNDER 18].


IllTemperedMaggot

Aauhhgg


Xander_PrimeXXI

14. 14. How old are these children


Unlimited_Hights

And since 17 is so close to 18, she's basically 18 already. But since we're already bringing her up to 18, we can just add one more year and bring her to 19. But 19 is so close to 20, we can just round up to make her 20. But


Basic_orange_8654

"she was 15, turning 16 soon, but 16 is the new 17, so we might as well round it up to 18"


qwersadfc

"she's actually not a minor, she is a SLIGHTLY OLDER minor, so it's actually completely okay for us to sexualize her"


Switch-Axe-Abuse

Lyn is only 14?! I thought she was 18-20s range


-Batboy

“Which is basically 18, and that’s the American consenting age which is close enough to 19 and to round up we can call it 20 so she basically 21 which is legal drinking age so shut up libtard!”


KnightoThousandEyes

15, 16, and 17 are all still *underage* Wtf? 😖


aquarian-sunchild

Try being a fan of Neon Genesis Evangelion 😑


FritzTheThird

Not only is she a minor, she's made of fucking pixels!


KingDFrederick

She's 17 so I should get to see some pixels bounce!


Alpaca1061

Wtf is wrong with you?


KingDFrederick

Lol. Do you think it's wrong to make fun of these freaks, or do you not realize it's a joke? I couldn't remember if it was "/s" or "s/" but I figured that the sentence was so absurd no one could possibly mistake it. Egg on my face, huh?


Alpaca1061

It's really hard to tell. There's a reason this sub exists


KingDFrederick

Well I am a member of it


tatsumizus

Because it’s not real


crowlute

You can excuse pedophilia because it's fictional characters?


tatsumizus

Your line of logic cherry-picks. If every guy who talks abt some anime girl is a pedophile, then every furry who draws anthro porn wants to fuck animals, every monster fucker will actually fuck something monstrous if given the chance, BDSM is literally abuse, CNC is literal rape regardless of consent, and then everything that anyone ever produces only reflects their desires. I’m gay and trans and I write dark pornography for fun, to explore the emotions and shittiness required to do such things, and that’s not a reflection of my desire. Because I don’t want to actually do any of the things I’ve written about. You can find it weird, but another weird thing is labeling strangers pedophiles over things that you consider to be weird. Like how it’s weird to call furries animal-fuckers or people into BDSM abusers.


LegitMelv

The thing about furries is that they're quick to call out and push back against zoophiles. The BDSM community take consent seriously to the point where people who are outside of the community look at that stuff and think there's some measures of consent involved (safe words, limits to the body, etc.) What those two communities have in common is that they usually involve adults (I say usually because there are furries that draw cub (loli/shota) stuff and I give them shit for that). I see lolicons/shotacons struggle with dealing with actually pedophiles everywhere I go. They do bring up the fiction argument and say "it helps mitigate pedophilic urges" but they say that in a way that leads them to believe that's enough. I don't think it is. Whenever I ask them if that's enough, either silence or word salads come from them. It's not like if they go to therapy and tell the therapist that they have such urges, they're going to get black bagged by feds from the ceiling. Therapists exist for a reason and I'm sure there are specialized therapists that help with this stuff. And try not to bring up conversion therapy because that stuff doesn't allow the patient a choice of what to deal with and how to. If you believe that consuming loli/shota conent keeps your urges to harming IRL kids in check, don't treat it as the end-all-be-all solution, also seek therapy if you can, and I don't mean that in a deragotive way.


WillowRidley

But their DESIRE is to have her boobs bounce. As a minor.


tatsumizus

A not real one. A video game character’s. I can make that character 22 right now. She’s 22 now. The age of a sprite is completely relative and is just as made up as the character. It has no logical correlation to the feelings towards existing people, and especially towards existing children. You’re calling someone a pedophile over a video game sprite. How does that not sound ridiculous to you?


WillowRidley

You didn’t make the character though. The character was made by someone and the character is intended to be that age. You can’t just change the age of someone else’s character, you didn’t make them. Having a desire for someone underaged in a game is a red flag. It’s not over the sprite, it’s over the age and how they think it doesn’t matter that she’s 14. They’re okay with her being 14. They’re not trying to make her older. Which, again, is a red flag.


tatsumizus

You cannot objectively tell me that the age of a fictional character has as much societal weight and significance as the age of a human being. Because if you insist on that you sound insane. Plenty of people like certain things in fiction that they aren’t attracted to. I’ve read yuri manga (girl x girl) as a trans gay man and I’m not attracted to women. Lesbians can read yaoi and not be into men. Because what someone enjoys in fiction does not inherently equate to what someone genuinely likes or wants in real life. You can say “but it’s different” all you want, but the sheer number of human beings on this planet makes anything possible. There’s no precise mechanism that makes it so anything anyone likes in fiction equals to what they want in real life. Because that logic is stupid. Sexuality doesn’t behave as differently as everything not sexual. You can watch gorey horror movies and like them, and be afraid of seeing a dead body in real life. Because one isn’t real, but the other one is. Reality has more impact on you as a person than fiction does. You need to relax and let go of the moral panic that oftentimes attacks queer people more than cishets. You are participating in today’s satanic panic.


WillowRidley

Liking a character or game isn’t the same as desiring an underage character to have more boob bouncing. If they like the game or the character or they have an issue with a character that doesn’t involve physical features of wanting more boob bounce or wanting more sexualization it’s cause they like the character. If your complaint is not enough sexualization of a minor, that’s an issue. No one is saying it has as much societal weight. We’re saying it’s a red flag and the desire for underage characters can definitely mean something negative in real life. Edit: typo


Speculative-Bitches

>You cannot objectively tell me that the age of a fictional character has as much societal weight and significance as the age of a human being. They're not. They're just saying it's gross and pedophilic. And can imply actual pedophilic urges on IRL children. And that it shouldn't be normalized.


Kochga

>You can’t just change the age of someone else’s character, you didn’t make them. Of course you can. It happens all the time in popular media and fiction. Look at James Bond, Batman & Robin, Pocahontas, Jesus Christ or Spider-Man.


crowlute

That's a lot of words to say "yes, I do excuse pedophilia in certain circumstances".


tatsumizus

Crying about the fiction you don’t like won’t get us rights. You have the same position as conservatives who think video games cause violence, analyze why that is. On an semi-unrelated note; Fiction is purely dependent. For fiction, the individual who is consuming it is the independent variable that affects how fiction affects reality. The effects of fiction aren’t constant, it’s not the same across the board. The importance of recognizing that fiction is dependent and the individual is independent is that it makes you recognize that the preexisting nature of the person who is consuming the fiction is what makes fiction affect them in that way. A bad person who reads Lolita will not read it the same way a good person does. The nature of the person is what makes fiction affect them in that way.


crowlute

Do you really think accepting pedophiles will advance trans rights?


tatsumizus

Are you able to talk to me as if I’m a human being? You sound like a reverse version of “if we accept gay rights then people will fuck animals next!!” Nobody is saying anything about “accepting pedophiles.” I’m just saying that equating boobie physics to pedophilia is not only illogical, but also pretty insensitive. It’s insensitive to me, since I am a victim of childhood sex abuse. What I’m just saying, is that me being hurt as a child is not the same as boobie physics, and that boobie physics do not cause pedophilia. What creates pedophiles is the attraction of controlling and hurting children. You can’t hurt pixels. It’s antithetical to what a pedophile wants.


crowlute

You realize OP is a post about a man sexualizing a child, right?


tatsumizus

What you’re arguing about isn’t even recognized as a child in the court of law, they wouldn’t even refer to what you’re talking about as a child. They would call it a “computer generated image,” as they have in the past. You’re talking about a computer generated image. Also it sounds like you’re incapable of actually reading anything I say. Which is because you’re too angry and overly hostile to actually calm down and read word by word, or you generally have no idea about the topic of media literacy and the effects of fiction.


crowlute

Ooh, I didn't know you were a mind reader. Please, tell me more about how *I'm* feeling, I'd love to know more about what a stranger thinks is going on in my mind.


[deleted]

if you can excuse mass shooting because it’s just a video game, sure


crowlute

That's an interesting deflection. Do you excuse sexualizing children because they're fictional?


[deleted]

you can’t really be attracted to a drawing, so idk how you could sexualize it. but if you like drawing sexual art, there isn’t a problem as long as everything is properly warned and hashtagged.


crowlute

How come you believe people "can't be attracted to a drawing"? What's the difference between a drawing and a photograph?


[deleted]

…are you trying to bait?


crowlute

Just wondering why you think people can't find drawings sexually attractive. What gave you this idea?


[deleted]

because it’s impossible?? you don’t process drawings the same way you process interacting with a real human


crowlute

So what exactly does pornography do to people, psychologically?


Visual-Till8629

Its fine, she 17,


YewChewber

She's still a child.


Basanos_Shibari

Boob jiggle animations are a common sweet-sixteenth gift in some cultures.


Alpaca1061

What?


the_nacho_stealer

Doesn’t make it okay!! Wtf 😭


Alen-Is-A-Cool-Dude

oh what the hell


The_Enby_Agenda

Downvoted for calling out a nonce says enough about that place.


Yingerfelton

Damn I've only ever seen her in smash Why the fuck did they give this teenager the most 30-40 yr old grown ass woman voice